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Re: First Time Ever A Nigerian Lady Will Buy Me Things- Unbelievable by Nobody: 5:23pm On Nov 29, 2017
Benita27:
The guys on NL are like coins. Two faced...they have a standard for themselves and another for the ladies. I won't be surprised if you're one hiding under the cloak of "Gender wars are too much" to diss women. I do see some of your provoking comments towards women for "Cheap likes" then I wonder if some of you didn't grow up in a normal environment. I don't diss men, I speak my observation as regards to happenings. #peace.
Benny relax. I don't diss anyone, neither do i seek validation, neither do you see my comments anywhere. It's been two weeks i checked here. Your prejudiced against all Nigerian males. Take it easy, life isn't hard, break the mould in your eyes and your heart. We want a healthy society, and social media plays vital role, young ones are looking up to us to get it right,we can't afford to sow seeds of discord in their hearts. You should speak and project what's missing into existence, i.e. speak peace into conflicts, light into darkness, and not hate. That was who herbie was, this one is one that has seen worse things and speaks from such negative posture. So 90k isn't a big deal to gift, if a lady would gain faithfulness in return
Re: First Time Ever A Nigerian Lady Will Buy Me Things- Unbelievable by Nobody: 5:30pm On Nov 29, 2017
Benita27:
For your information, I'm in a relationship and I have a limit to what I can do for a boyfriend. Don't tell me to empty my account for a man 'cause of love.
Then Be Cheerful... You Talk Often Like A sadist... Stop Speaking As The Evil Ambassador For Men... You Keep Sayin Bad About Us, please Stop It... What If Your Man Sees All These?
Re: First Time Ever A Nigerian Lady Will Buy Me Things- Unbelievable by Nobody: 5:33pm On Nov 29, 2017
DeadRat:
Then Be Cheerful... You Talk Often Like A sadist... Stop Speaking As The Evil Ambassador For Men... You Keep Sayin Bad About Us, please Stop It... What If Your Man Sees All These?
Exactly what i'm trying to say too. The negativity that oozes off her comments is on a high scale.
Re: First Time Ever A Nigerian Lady Will Buy Me Things- Unbelievable by Barzinime(m): 6:58pm On Nov 29, 2017
It goes both ways just pray you meet someone deserving
Benita27:
There's no point in sugar-coating the truth. I'm not one who shy away from speaking the truth 'cause anyone is going to feel hurt when it's the truth. Perhaps you failed to realise I'm the same person. grin Point of correction, @2015 I haven't joined NL.

I don't gift what I can't loose. I won't be surprised if after spending 90k on him shopping, the things she bought might end up being used by his main chick or side chick. Tell me I'm lying or you haven't heard stories of guys collecting money from their babe to patronise another woman?.
Re: First Time Ever A Nigerian Lady Will Buy Me Things- Unbelievable by Adaumunocha(f): 7:08pm On Nov 29, 2017
@Nedfed so a lady took you shopping and you picked stuffs worth 90k at a go? How greedy can one be. If your story is true, you are a greedy fellow.
Re: First Time Ever A Nigerian Lady Will Buy Me Things- Unbelievable by NeeKlaus: 7:24pm On Nov 29, 2017
Benita27:
There's no point in sugar-coating the truth. I'm not one who shy away from speaking the truth 'cause anyone is going to feel hurt when it's the truth. Perhaps you failed to realise I'm the same person. grin Point of correction, @2015 I haven't joined NL.

I don't gift what I can't loose. I won't be surprised if after spending 90k on him shopping, the things she bought might end up being used by his main chick or side chick. Tell me I'm lying or you haven't heard stories of guys collecting money from their babe to patronise another woman?.
Ma'am, calm down. Take a glass of water and down a chill pill. Life isn't that deep.

This issue of infidelity swings both sides; it isn't exclusive to the male folk. Infact, the bolded is more rampant amongst the females. A girl dating a rich dude and giving the money she gets from him to another side nigga that is less well to do.

So if you want to tackle this issue, then it's best you question the actions of the members of your gender too. Else, you will pass off as bias. huh
Re: First Time Ever A Nigerian Lady Will Buy Me Things- Unbelievable by Nedfed(op): 8:08pm On Nov 29, 2017
DrinkLimca:
Don't mistake a beautiful and rare kindness for greed..
she did what she did out of love and care..
She deserve the whole world from the guy, unlike you that still begs your guy for recharge cards and frowns your face when he says he don't have.
Neva mind her
From her words you no the type of lady she is
Re: First Time Ever A Nigerian Lady Will Buy Me Things- Unbelievable by Nedfed(op): 8:10pm On Nov 29, 2017
izaray:
When i saw this, i thought its was an engagement diamond ring, you have arranged for her tongue Something tells me she is ur future wife cheesy
Lolz
Tnx prophetess

Re: First Time Ever A Nigerian Lady Will Buy Me Things- Unbelievable by Nedfed(op): 8:12pm On Nov 29, 2017
Jupxter:
Benny, why do you think it's a lie? Have you given up on we men? So if i asked you out you can't buy me a gift ?
Benita27?
Neva near her abeg
She be akagon
Re: First Time Ever A Nigerian Lady Will Buy Me Things- Unbelievable by Nedfed(op): 8:14pm On Nov 29, 2017
ELShehzad:
Oga ur "Akamu" is worth mur than N90k and stop making N90k look like sum'n serious... Unless U've not distributed ur "Akamu" to her "Depot" located at her Southern region undecided undecided
Lolz
But seriously we neva do anything
She's just to gud
Re: First Time Ever A Nigerian Lady Will Buy Me Things- Unbelievable by Nedfed(op): 8:17pm On Nov 29, 2017
Benita27:
For your information, I'm in a relationship and I have a limit to what I can do for a boyfriend. Don't tell me to empty my account for a man 'cause of love.
Did I tell you she empty her acct
Ur relationship will tells how ur marriage will be.
Just pity the innocent guy u dating
Re: First Time Ever A Nigerian Lady Will Buy Me Things- Unbelievable by Nobody: 8:24pm On Nov 29, 2017
NeeKlaus:
Ma'am, calm down. Take a glass of water and down a chill pill. Life isn't that deep.

This issue of infidelity swings both sides; it isn't exclusive to the male folk. Infact, the bolded is more rampant amongst the females. A girl dating a rich dude and giving the money she gets from him to another side nigga that is less well to do.

So if you want to tackle this issue, then it's best you question the actions of the members of your gender too. Else, you will pass off as bias. huh
I know full well that cheating goes both ways. I don't remember where I exonerated my gender of cheating but if you've concluded that women cheat the most then the question you should ask yourself is "On what grounds did you arrive at your conclusion?". Don't you think that statement is biased?. That being said, the basis for the argument is that it's foolishness spending lavishly on a boyfriend 'cause the last time I checked, you all said cheating is in your biology. I spend what I can loose in a relationship 'cause loyalty can never be bought over with money. Who has more to loose is who gets badly hurt at the end of it.
Re: First Time Ever A Nigerian Lady Will Buy Me Things- Unbelievable by Nobody: 8:28pm On Nov 29, 2017
DeadRat:
Then Be Cheerful... You Talk Often Like A sadist... Stop Speaking As The Evil Ambassador For Men... You Keep Sayin Bad About Us, please Stop It... What If Your Man Sees All These?
I speak bad of you "Men" 'cause men are bad and the fear of men is the beginning of wisdom. Shebi, you want me to talk, I have.

I care less about what my man sees. Obviously he knows me better if not to an extent. grin
Re: First Time Ever A Nigerian Lady Will Buy Me Things- Unbelievable by Nobody: 8:31pm On Nov 29, 2017
Nedfed:
Did I tell you she empty her acct
Ur relationship will tells how ur marriage will be.
Just pity the innocent guy u dating
You no get talk. A lady took you shopping and you picked things of worth 90k on the go. Isn't that greed, and Couldn't you stop her at some point if your story is true sef?. grin
Re: First Time Ever A Nigerian Lady Will Buy Me Things- Unbelievable by Nobody: 8:34pm On Nov 29, 2017
Benita27:
I speak bad of you "Men" 'cause men are bad and the fear of men is the beginning of wisdom. Shebi, you want me to talk, I have.

I care less about what my man sees. Obviously he knows me better if not to an extent. grin
Na wa oh Benny, you on serious fire !
Re: First Time Ever A Nigerian Lady Will Buy Me Things- Unbelievable by Nobody: 8:35pm On Nov 29, 2017
Benita27:
You no get talk. A lady took you shopping and you picked things of worth 90k on the go. Isn't that greed, and Couldn't you stop her at some point if your story is true sef?. grin
She purchased the stuffs for him, he didn't handpick
Re: First Time Ever A Nigerian Lady Will Buy Me Things- Unbelievable by Nobody: 8:43pm On Nov 29, 2017
Benita27:
I speak bad of you "Men" 'cause men are bad and the fear of men is the beginning of wisdom. Shebi, you want me to talk, I have.

I care less about what my man sees. Obviously he knows me better if not to an extent. grin
you Say Men Are Bad Yet You Are In A relationship With One
Re: First Time Ever A Nigerian Lady Will Buy Me Things- Unbelievable by Nobody: 8:43pm On Nov 29, 2017
DeadRat:
you Say Men Are Bad Yet You Are In A relationship With One
It beats me !
Re: First Time Ever A Nigerian Lady Will Buy Me Things- Unbelievable by Nobody: 8:46pm On Nov 29, 2017
Jupxter:
It beats me !
this Lady Has Got Issues That Left Her With Scars
Re: First Time Ever A Nigerian Lady Will Buy Me Things- Unbelievable by Nobody: 8:47pm On Nov 29, 2017
DeadRat:
this Lady Has Got Issues That Left Her With Scars
She doesn't see it.
Re: First Time Ever A Nigerian Lady Will Buy Me Things- Unbelievable by Nobody: 9:15pm On Nov 29, 2017
DeadRat:
you Say Men Are Bad Yet You Are In A relationship With One
With my heart and brain.
Re: First Time Ever A Nigerian Lady Will Buy Me Things- Unbelievable by oloyede252(m): 10:31pm On Nov 29, 2017
Benita27:
With my heart and brain.
Lol...after all the men are bad statement you still choose to be in a relationship with a bad man.... sister are you alright? what more annoying is the "my heart and brain" comment.

the fact that you're complaining on behalf of the girl spending 90k on a guy. this shows you don't have close to 90k in your account or little above the amount. the girl isn't complaining and for sure comfortable with the amount spent.. so I don't understand why you're angry sister.
Re: First Time Ever A Nigerian Lady Will Buy Me Things- Unbelievable by Nobody: 10:52pm On Nov 29, 2017
All of una trying to change dat girl's fvcked-up mentality, continue vexing me
Re: First Time Ever A Nigerian Lady Will Buy Me Things- Unbelievable by Nobody: 11:05pm On Nov 29, 2017
oloyede252:
Lol...after all the men are bad statement you still choose to be in a relationship with a bad man.... sister are you alright? what more annoying is the "my heart and brain" comment.

the fact that you're complaining on behalf of the girl spending 90k on a guy. this shows you don't have close to 90k in your account or little above the amount. the girl isn't complaining and for sure comfortable with the amount spent.. so I don't understand why you're angry sister.
You're mad that I can never spend my money on some unreliable, untrustworthy humans called "Men". I've made my choice and it's working perfectly well for me. Make yours. SMH.

Be looking for a mugu to fall for your pranks called "Love".
Re: First Time Ever A Nigerian Lady Will Buy Me Things- Unbelievable by Khayhigh01(m): 11:14pm On Nov 29, 2017
cheesy op grade in lieing c4
Re: First Time Ever A Nigerian Lady Will Buy Me Things- Unbelievable by Marcelo290(m): 11:17pm On Nov 29, 2017
locust:
All of una trying to change dat girl's fvcked-up mentality, continue vexing me
I just the laugh them. well, she must have actually been through alot, her anger and frustration is experience induced so you won't blame the poor soul.

I've actually met girls like her...She is too sensitive yet I could bet she doesn't know shii about men like she claims, I just pray her relationship works out this time.

Re: First Time Ever A Nigerian Lady Will Buy Me Things- Unbelievable by Nobody: 11:22pm On Nov 29, 2017
Marcelo290:
I just the laugh them. well, she must have actually been through alot, her anger and frustration is experience induced so you won't blame the poor soul.

I've actually met girls like her...She is too sensitive yet I could bet she doesn't know shii about men like she claims, I just pray her relationship works out this time.
You too weak abi. You check the mindset how too? Exes need God's mercy
Re: First Time Ever A Nigerian Lady Will Buy Me Things- Unbelievable by Rutirexa(f): 11:38pm On Nov 29, 2017
just feel that this story is kinda fake.
Re: First Time Ever A Nigerian Lady Will Buy Me Things- Unbelievable by Nedfed(op): 11:44pm On Nov 29, 2017
Rutirexa:
just feel that this story is kinda fake.
Why won't you
Cos a man neva buy u gift more than a plate of rice and chicken. Cos that ur worth and limit.
So buying some1 a car is ur problem right?
See her ugly face angry
Re: First Time Ever A Nigerian Lady Will Buy Me Things- Unbelievable by luminouz(m): 1:30am On Nov 30, 2017
Benita27:
The guys on NL are like coins. Two faced...they have a standard for themselves and another for the ladies. I won't be surprised if you're one hiding under the cloak of "Gender wars are too much" to diss women. I do see some of your provoking comments towards women for "Cheap likes" then I wonder if some of you didn't grow up in a normal environment. I don't diss men, I speak my observation as regards to happenings. #peace.
Take a cup of chilled kunu!
Ur blood too hot!

Re: First Time Ever A Nigerian Lady Will Buy Me Things- Unbelievable by GOFRONT(m):
She Lavished 90k on u. Her kind is rare. Guyz hardly see girls do it these dayz even when their babes are working class cos some guyz don teach som girls lesson and their Eye don clear.

Some ladies hav bought som stuff for their guyz but at the Wrong timing. A time when her guy has Retinues of som other ladies outside.
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