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lefulefu:
its because unfortunately,polygamy is legal in Nigeria this is why its not much frowned at if a man cheats and also take note that many of these men who engage in extra marital affairs might not find their wife attractive.if i love my wife,find her sexually attractive, and our sex life is da bomb why would i want to stress myself cheating on her?

ur talking from a personal perspective, there are women that are very beautiful, n all that and their men still cheats, most guys cheat cause they can,, no reason behind it but at the end try to blame the lady 4 it with these reasons

Shugavee:
ur talking from a personal perspective, there are women that are very beautiful, n all that and their men still cheats, most guys cheat cause they can,, no reason behind it but at the end try to blame the lady 4 it with these reasons

yes she might be very beautiful but cold in the bedroom.the problem is many ppl who are not sexually compactable get married to each other. This also contribute to the cheating issue.a one minute indomie noodle man gets married to a woman with a high sex drive and is not ready to address his problem ..so wat do u think will happen?.or a lady who believes MouthAction is a sin and an abomination and gets married to a man who is sexually adventurous and she's not ready to bend to her believes..how do u think dat also will end? Ppl just lump themselves into marriage with ppl they don't like and they believe everything will turn out right. In this same country there are some married men when its time to close in their workplace u see them looking so cheerful and wen u ask them wats up they tell u they can't wait to get home and just hold their wives in their arms.sister do u think such a man will cheat on his wife?

lefulefu:
its because unfortunately,polygamy is legal in Nigeria this is why its not much frowned at if a man cheats and also take note that many of these men who engage in extra marital affairs might not find their wife attractive.if i love my wife,find her sexually attractive, and our sex life is da bomb why would i want to stress myself cheating on her?

Good point,i can't find a lady puting on wrapper actractive to me,I find english wear's more attractive on ladies than those traditional wear's...

Whenever am taking my mum out for fun I do tell her to wear English ,and sometimes people calls her my girlfriend coz she look 16 and likewise I look 16 too so u can imagine

lefulefu:
yes she might be very beautiful but cold in the bedroom.the problem is many ppl who are not sexually compactable get married to each other. This also contribute to the cheating issue.a one minute indomie noodle man gets married to a woman with a high sex drive and is not ready to address his problem ..so wat do u think will happen?.or a lady who believes MouthAction is a sin and an abomination and gets married to a man who is sexually adventurous and she's not ready to bend to her believes..how do u think dat also will end? Ppl just lump themselves into marriage with ppl they don't like and they believe everything will turn out right. In this same country there are some married men when its time to close in their workplace u see them looking so cheerful and wen u ask them wats up they tell u they can't wait to get home and just hold their wives in their arms.sister do u think such a man will cheat on his wife?

I disagree in a way. It's only a genuinely God fearing spouse that won't cheat on their partners. There will always be more intelligent, sensuous, beautiful/handsome people than your partner. Sometimes, there's no hard & fast rule to keeping a partner. A partner that wants to cheat will cheat no matter what. Even if everything is perfect. It's just God!

Besides, how do we even know a marriage that's perfect. A lot of people pretend just to save their faces. What you might see as rosy on the outside might actually be a façade...experience has taught me that.

Martin0:
Good point,i can't find a lady puting on wrapper actractive to me,I find english wear's more attractive on ladies than those traditional wear's...

Whenever am taking my mum out for fun I do tell her to wear English ,and sometimes people calls her my girlfriend coz she look 16 and likewise I look 16 too so u can imagine

i fit find wrapper attractive if she tie am in a sexy way.like those mapouka songs wey those togolese/benin babes dey twerk.some of dem dey wear wrapper and thing go just make sense.u go see as their ukwu dey shake muke muke inside the wrapper.

lefulefu:
i fit find wrapper attractive if she tie am in a sexy way.like those mapouka songs wey those togolese/benin babes dey twerk.some of dem dey wear wrapper and thing go just make sense.u go see as their ukwu dey shake muke muke inside the wrapper.

Lol @ see their ukwu inside wrapper. Guy you no dey tire for this ukwu matter sha

lefulefu:
Op u no talk about wives wey dey fond of slapping their husbands in public.omo some women their hand no dey stay one place.any little argument dem don whooze their husband three dirty slaps.some men dey try ooo wey dey marry troublesome women.god forbid i ever come across such a lady.

O boy u remind me of something !
Hmm very terrible,I most confess my Ex has slapped me befor in the market square!!

Martin0:
O boy u remind me of something !
Hmm very terrible,I most confess my Ex has slapped me befor in the market square!!

haha ur ex was a feminist

Martin0:
O boy u remind me of something !
Hmm very terrible,I most confess my Ex has slapped me befor in the market square!!

yu dont mean it

MissJoy29:
I disagree in a way. It's only a genuinely God fearing spouse that won't cheat on their partners. There will always be more intelligent, sensuous, beautiful/handsome people than your partner. Sometimes, there's no hard & fast rule to keeping a partner. A partner that wants to cheat will cheat no matter what. Even if everything is perfect. It's just God!

Besides, how do we even know a marriage that's perfect. A lot of people pretend just to save their faces. What you might see as rosy on the outside might actually be a façade...experience has taught me that.

who is more Godfearing than apostle sulieman and pastor Chris oyakilome? But then they were accuse of extra marital affairs abi? Pastor Chris was here in Nigeria doing his ministry while his wife was over in the UK. Forget he's a pastor..he is also a man and has feelings and the temptation came..maybe if his wife and him weren't separated by long distance i doubt if any issue of cheating would have arised. Look,God fearing or not...if u no gree give ur husband the way he want am in ze oza room then he will easily fall to temptation.

KreativGenius:
yu dont mean it

KreativGenius:
yu dont mean it

Yeah,and it was jus something that not even serious

You know SA ladies are very jelous
She slapt me coz I was having conversation with a new girl I met at the market and we were both laughing out laud,she got upset and landed it on my soft face..

But we did not even separate at that,though we later separate

KreativGenius:
Lol @ see their ukwu inside wrapper. Guy you no dey tire for this ukwu matter sha

one ukwu under god

lefulefu:
haha ur ex was a feminist

Yeah she was
And u know I like feminist

Martin0:
Yeah she was
And u know I like feminist

feminist no dey gree enter kitchen cook for their guy oo..and they always expect their guy to wash their pant and bra.can u do that?

lefulefu:
one ukwu under god

Ukwu makanaki. Make u no go injure your wifey oh.. e be like say the thing dey strong for ya body

Martin0:
Yeah,and it was jus something that not even serious

You know SA ladies are very jelous
She slapt me coz I was having conversation with a new girl I met at the market and we were both laughing out laud,she got upset and landed it on my soft face..

But we did not even separate at that,though we later separate

SA babes are highly jealous oh. My guys there introduced me to some rich SA ladies i ran. Their envy is on another level

KreativGenius:
Ukwu makanaki. Make u no go injure your wifey oh.. e be like say the thing dey strong for ya body

hahahahaha... I will always treat my wife like egg

lefulefu:
hahahahaha... I will always treat my wife like egg

i can tell, it's easy to see a correct guy. Na make woman enter the sequence na him remain...May God bring the perfect match ya way brov

KreativGenius:
SA babes are highly jealous oh. My guys there introduced me to some rich SA ladies i ran. Their envy is on another level

Exactly!
But I wonder why they ve such habbit or maybe it's just few

Martin0:
Exactly!
But I wonder why they ve such habbit or maybe it's just few

The post-apartheid era create a scarcity of men and intensified the chase for men, SA ladies no dey take man play oh. I had to run, these chicks where wealthy and all, in fact i lost my buddy that tried hooking me up with them, he felt i dissapointed him, but then, i rather do my naiaj sisters

lefulefu:
feminist no dey gree enter kitchen cook for their guy oo..and they always expect their guy to wash their pant and bra.can u do that?

That no big deal for me..
I ve been cooking right from my parents house

If she doesn't wanna cook am fine with it..
Washing of pants is nothing to me as I do wash my own pants as well and those day's I do was my sister's pants too and she do wash mine so no big deal..

KreativGenius:
The post-apartheid era create a scarcity of men and intensified the chase for men, SA ladies no dey take man play oh. I had to run, these chicks where wealthy and all, in fact i lost my buddy that tried hooking me up with them, he felt i dissapointed him, but then, i rather do my naiaj sisters

Hahahahahah so u jus run coz u feel say she fit blow off ur head if u fucvkup abi

Martin0:
Hahahahahah so u jus run coz u feel say she fit blow off ur head if u fucvkup abi

No woman can blow my head. They get seriously clingy and extremely jealous, it's annoying

lefulefu:
who is more Godfearing than apostle sulieman and pastor Chris oyakilome? But then they were accuse of extra marital affairs abi? Pastor Chris was here in Nigeria doing his ministry while his wife was over in the UK. Forget he's a pastor..he is also a man and has feelings and the temptation came..maybe if his wife and him weren't separated by long distance i doubt if any issue of cheating would have arised. Look,God fearing or not...if u no gree give ur husband the way he want am in ze oza room then he will easily fall to temptation.

Not every self acclaimed Christian is God fearing. Including Pastors. Nobody is above temptation. But it's easy for God fearing men to overcome than others.

Sex(no matter how crazy, sweet, frequent, spontaneous, fun) can NEVER be enough to hold a partner who wants to stray.

KreativGenius:
No woman can blow my head. They get seriously clingy and extremely jealous, it's annoying

Hmmmm na wa oo
See do u know my Ex acquired a gun immediately she returned to SA with my friend who she got married to,and this put my friend life at risk...

So I said about blowing off ur head coz I felt ur friends most ve told u SA ladies do ve guns at home and knows how to shoot aswell

Martin0:
Hmmmm na wa oo
See do u know my Ex acquired a gun immediately she returned to SA with my friend who she got married to,and this put my friend life at risk...

So I said about blowing off ur head coz I felt ur friends most ve told u SA ladies do ve guns at home and knows how to shoot aswell

A man calls the shorts in the home. I know! It's simple. No guns in my house, i tell any foreign chick from day one. Be the man brov, never slide to accept shyte. Many times these ladies get guns, its not for intruders but for their men.

KreativGenius:
Trust me. The woman is the unofficial head of the home with due respect ma.

The above is no OPINION at all but a TRUISM. And in TRUTH she is not only the "UNOFFICIAL HEAD OF THE HOME" but the WOMB of any society, meaning the MATRIX and once the matrix, (women) becomes DYSFUNCTIONAL, the society will automatically collapses. For a woman being the "unofficial head of the home" reflects what type of home she has made when the society is seen through the prism of the old wise saying "CHARITY BEGINS AT HOME". This 'charity' is dependant on the "UNOFFICIAL HEAD OF THE HOME" with what she nurtures not with her breasts alone but with her mind, her attitude in making sure her KINGDOM, the home is at PEACE.

WORDWORLD:
The above is no OPINION at all but a TRUISM. And in TRUTH she is not only the "UNOFFICIAL HEAD OF THE HOME" but the WOMB of any society, meaning the MATRIX and once the matrix, (women) becomes DYSFUNCTIONAL, the society will automatically collapses. For a woman being the "unofficial head of the home" reflects what type of home she has made when the society is seen through the prism of the old wise saying "CHARITY BEGINS AT HOME". This 'charity' is dependant on the "UNOFFICIAL HEAD OF THE HOME" with what she nurtures not with her breasts alone but with her mind, her attitude in making sure her KINGDOM, the home is at PEACE.

God bless you. You're an intelligent mind. Nice to see you turn up on such a thread

My dear it is easier said than done sometimes the vile things that come from those we love hurt but at all times we must forgive and control what we say I’ve found myself double checking messages and editing messages especially when I’m angry because of the same love

If I’ve ever offended anyone sorry

KreativGenius:
God bless you. You're an intelligent mind. Nice to see you turn up on such a thread

Remain blessed too. And thats why any society that looks down on WOMEN and lead them not to thread the path of DIGNITY and INTERGRITY has choosen a path to its own DEATH for you cant give what you dont have. IF THEY ARE LEAD THROUGH THE PATH OF BECOMING SLAY QUEENS TO SLAY WIVES AND SLAY MOTHERS, SLAPPING THEIR HUSBANDS, SLAY CHILDREN BECOMES THE PRODUCT OF SUCH A SOCIETY WHO EVENTUALLY SLAY IT TO DEATH, BLEEDING AT EVERYONES FEET. FOR THE "UNOFFICIAL HEAD OF THE HOME", THE WOMAN TAUGHT THEM TO SLAY. Hence, women deserve the best of treatment and education to being the best of matrix of any society. A wife who holds her home is but holding a society, protecting her womb. MATRIX in this context simply means the womb. She is the matrix, the womb of the society. Yet its not as if MEN are being excused to be IRRESPONSIBLE. The TRUTH is: "Its a man's world but made by women" for the are they "unofficial head of the home". CHARITY BEGINS AT HOME.

WORDWORLD:
Remain blessed too. And thats why any society that looks down on WOMEN and lead them not to thread the path of DIGNITY and INTERGRITY has choosen a path to its own DEATH for you cant give what you dont have. IF THEY ARE LEAD THROUGH THE PATH OF BECOMING SLAY QUEENS TO SLAY WIVES AND SLAY MOTHERS, SLAPPING THEIR HUSBANDS, SLAY CHILDREN BECOMES THE PRODUCT OF SUCH A SOCIETY WHO EVENTUALLY SLAY IT TO DEATH, BLEEDING AT EVERYONES FEET. FOR THE "UNOFFICIAL HEAD OF THE HOME", THE WOMAN TAUGHT THEM TO SLAY. Hence, women deserve the best of treatment and education to being the best of matrix of any society. A wife who holds her home is but holding a society, protecting her womb. MATRIX in this context simply means the womb. She is the matrix, the womb of the society. Yet its not as if MEN are being excused to be IRRESPONSIBLE. The TRUTH is: "Its a man's world but made by women" for the are they "unofficial head of the home".

It's important to maintain balance, it rests on a critical line too, too much woman empathy has led to terrible females in the society too

KreativGenius:
It's important to maintain balance, it rests on a critical line too, too much woman empathy has led to terrible females in the society too

You have said the key word which is "BALANCE" . Without balance it becomes a failure, "TOO MUCH WOMAN EMPATHY" is an off balance for too much of everything says so. Men too have alot of RESPONSIBILITY to shoulder to keeping their homes.