bedspread:
Sister Don't even try to Give ur Precious body to another......

U are Married
U hv a Husband...

You Just Have to be PAITENT, Sort things out amicably...
Just one time from another man could spell doom for u...
Be PAITENT..... Be Prayerful...
It's ur Cross.... Carry it

Cross ke? She go need help carry am ooo. Even Jesus sef get help from Simon Peter na

Report him to your Father in Heaven......he will turn his heart back to you and get him running quickly back to Nigeria to have you and take you with him.

Don't walk into sin with your eye wide open

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Op if you be my sister, whalai!!!!! I for Don slap sense enter your brain. Which kai nonsense be this? You don't know what he does for a living.. "BUSINESS MAN" Indeed!

Bai Buchi Ko gini bu ahagi u better divorce this man before you commit adultery!!!! I don't know why some mumu girls dey trip whenever they hear say that guy lives abroad even if na for Ghana

Nna eh!!! I no watago at all. So after marriage he abandoned you for 1 year nothing now 2 years and you are 28!!! Babe you still. Young na. Please dump this nigga fast ASAP!!

The guy no love you at all and I hope you don't have kids for him else, na baby making machine you be ooo.

Women!!!!! Please wise up, if he lives abroad , don't get pregnant for him until you get your papers. Infact don't rush and complete the wedding process, just do court wedding so that he will. Use the certificate to process your papers, if Nwa na no show after 1 and half years... If you get money go visit am there or ask for divorce and live your life

thelostchronicl:
"Dear Nairalanders

My name is Buchi, a 28-year-old married. I must say that I am very unlucky in marriage as my husband who lives in Asia has been away for the past two years, leaving me all alone.
I met Dominic through his sister who is my good friend. Mary had told me that her brother who had been out of the country for many years needed a wife as their family had been on his neck to come home and get married.
They did not want him to get married to a foreigner and so, they were on the lookout for a wife for him, particularly an Igbo woman.
I had been friends with Mary since our university days and she felt I would be the right woman for her husband. I was not particularly interested in an arranged marriage, especially to a man I knew nothing about.
But Mary kept assuring me that Dominic was a good man and would make a good husband for me. Aside from that, she also told me he would take me abroad as soon as we got married. »
I told her that I would like to hear from Dominic himself and after she sent him my number, he started calling me and we would speak for hours. We also connected on the social media and would spend the whole night chatting and exchanging pictures.
Dominic changed my mind about dating someone I had never met before as he proved to be very caring. He would wake me up with his calls and text messages and before going to bed, he would call just to say good night.
Gradually, I began to fall in love with him and would wait breathlessly for his calls just to hear his voice.
Two years ago, he came to Nigeria and came to meet my parents. He wanted us to get married before going back and within two months, we got married and he left a month later.
And for two years now, the man I got married to has made no attempt to come back. His calls have been infrequent, neither does he send me money like he used to do.
It could take six months before Dominic would send me money and whenever I call, he would be evasive, telling me he would call and would go for weeks without calling.
As if that is not enough, he has left me sex-starved and needing attention like every woman. When I tell Dominic that I am Hot, he would tell me to endure it just like he is doing but I know he has been sleeping with women wherever he is.
There is this guy in my office who has been asking me out and with the way things are and the way I am sexually starved » , I am tempted to give this guy a chance, at least to have someone to satisfy my sexual urge.
I have tried some intimacy gadgets but nothing can be as satisfying as having the feel of a real man inside of a woman.
I know many people out there will say sex is not food but I am still a young woman and I have sexual urges too. I am married but it seems I am not.
I need help fast.

just cheat my dear,he is dere banging asian gals

Give him another two years that is to show who really cares between the two of you. If he give furthers excuses after then you have tried and I am sure you cant be blamed for that. And if you too mess up before that it will show you self get your own for body.

My advise

DOUBLEWAHALA:
my advice

nigga u r a genius

More or less like u guys had a sham marriage,so take your time and find yourself another man

How does it affects me... Mumu

as if u have not being cheating on him

Dis one go fall prey d second time,"there is a guy in my office bkah blah blah,......

praiseneofingz:
first your husband must open a NL account to see how you disgraced both of you...

2nd....email me your contact ASAP I have a solution and I'm damn serious ok?

Becareful. If you cheat, you might cheat again. Before you know it, you will sleep with many men. Call your husband and give him ultimatum. I guess he's not really telling you what he's going through abroad. If he has settled all his paper thing, nothing stops him from coming home at least twice a year till he relocate you.

Keep your dignity.

obyrich:
Dominic marry am. Then leave am for naija go yankee. Dominic no come day show interest again, no dey give money as usual and now she don dey hungry for prick. She wan collect prick from one guy wey dey torchlight her for office. Abi make she do or not?

Shey o ya werey ni

Please Buchi, are you sure na akpuola gi? If yes, then okpukpu gi di doubtful. This issue you brought here can only get you some public sympathy. The fact that you have even thought of ikwa iko, you have done it already. Go get divorced and free your self from this self-inflicted burn burn chest. Bless you.

There is poor communication in this marriage. If you don’t know what your husband does for a living, then certainly your marriage is in obscurity. You didn’t tell us what country your husband is residing. There are laws for residents to relocate their spouse to the country in which they are based. There is also room for visiting visa if permanent resident is taking time.

You should be asking your husband whether he is a legal resident in the country he is based. If he is not, what is he doing to rectify the situation.

Apparently, it appears that you are not in constant touch with your spouse, which is abnormal for any relationship. You cannot presume that your husband is cheating on you because you don’t have reliable information. However, based on your story, it appears you have been neglected and if you are unhappy with the situation, call your husband and inform him.

We are humans and I understand you. However, before you engage physically with what you have been desiring to do, you need to separate ties with your absentee husband. This is to avoid the repercussions that may happen if you, as a married woman, engage in extra marital affairs.

Lady, you are a wonderful woman, I am impressed by you and I understand to pressure that must make you come to write this.
My candid advise is for you to find someone who will be satisfying you and not your work mate.
My reason is because the workmate would likely know more about you and this may become an embarrassment to you in the long run.

However someone who knows little about you and you specific the relationship will be satisfying and if you change to an other man or things get better with your husband you won't have nothing to worry about.

You’re the reason 50 cent sang 21 questions. Your guy dey hustle for Asia, you dey here dey reason dïck! You think he doesn’t want to fück too? Women of these days, ashes of a demon!

If there is no child between you and him. please leave him.

When people raise this kind of question, l just laugh at the people who follow them to act out the hypocrisy. Does she mean to tell us that she does not know what is good from evil? Does she mean to tell us that she does not know that nothing justifies sex outside marriage?
I am not trying to be a saint, infact l am far from that. So dear OP, you know what what you have made up your mind to do. You are just here so that we can free you of that guilt you already feel inside from the thought of having sex outside marriage.
So go bleep the man and leave us out of your misery.

As if Naija problem neva do us. This one wan add us join the battle wey she dey fight with her conscience. Damn Hypocrite!!!

Please be patient whatever you want to take discussed it with your husband

It used to be that men were usually the ones accused of cheating but not any more. These days, the world has been invaded by a new breed of nymphomaniacs who would run mad if they don't get bleeped in any given week. What a pathetic world we live in??


Our society really needs to bring back female circumcision before it's too late



O pari

I totally understand what you are going through.. Send me a message I will satisfy your every desire ..send me a message

thelostchronicl:
"Dear Nairalanders

My name is Buchi, a 28-year-old married. I must say that I am very unlucky in marriage as my husband who lives in Asia has been away for the past two years, leaving me all alone.
I met Dominic through his sister who is my good friend. Mary had told me that her brother who had been out of the country for many years needed a wife as their family had been on his neck to come home and get married.
They did not want him to get married to a foreigner and so, they were on the lookout for a wife for him, particularly an Igbo woman.
I had been friends with Mary since our university days and she felt I would be the right woman for her husband. I was not particularly interested in an arranged marriage, especially to a man I knew nothing about.
But Mary kept assuring me that Dominic was a good man and would make a good husband for me. Aside from that, she also told me he would take me abroad as soon as we got married. »
I told her that I would like to hear from Dominic himself and after she sent him my number, he started calling me and we would speak for hours. We also connected on the social media and would spend the whole night chatting and exchanging pictures.
Dominic changed my mind about dating someone I had never met before as he proved to be very caring. He would wake me up with his calls and text messages and before going to bed, he would call just to say good night.
Gradually, I began to fall in love with him and would wait breathlessly for his calls just to hear his voice.
Two years ago, he came to Nigeria and came to meet my parents. He wanted us to get married before going back and within two months, we got married and he left a month later.
And for two years now, the man I got married to has made no attempt to come back. His calls have been infrequent, neither does he send me money like he used to do.
It could take six months before Dominic would send me money and whenever I call, he would be evasive, telling me he would call and would go for weeks without calling.
As if that is not enough, he has left me sex-starved and needing attention like every woman. When I tell Dominic that I am Hot, he would tell me to endure it just like he is doing but I know he has been sleeping with women wherever he is.
There is this guy in my office who has been asking me out and with the way things are and the way I am sexually starved » , I am tempted to give this guy a chance, at least to have someone to satisfy my sexual urge.
I have tried some intimacy gadgets but nothing can be as satisfying as having the feel of a real man inside of a woman.
I know many people out there will say sex is not food but I am still a young woman and I have sexual urges too. I am married but it seems I am not.
I need help fast.

Have you asked your husband if you are still married? If yes, why is he not organising you to relocate?

It is not ideal for couples to be separated for longer than necessary periods.........

CrescentMoon:
Sorry to say this, you're not yet married. Find another man and divorce your husband.

Better find if ur man is in prison in Asia, or else u might be having a wrong thought

Blissbeatz:
How does it affects me... Mumu

LOOOL are you well?

Icon79:
It used to be that men were usually the ones accused of cheating but not any more. These days, the world has been invaded by a new breed of nymphomaniacs who would run mad if they don't get bleeped in any given week. What a pathetic world we live in??


Our society really needs to bring back female circumcision before it's too late



O pari

Such panoply of crudity...Bravo!

You have females in your family I suppose, go drag them by the cl!toris and chop it all off.

I was dey ur shoe, just that mine is Nike while yours is kito!!! Oyinbo pẹpẹ, yupee yupee pẹpẹ!!!


N. B. What you can touch with your hands is your own!

Solutions. 21 days fasting without bathing or, go and do jazz, nobody go tell am before he go land for airport!

Follow your mind