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Re: Why Are Women Becoming Evil Monsters These Days (graphic Photos) by pocohantas(f): 2:13pm On Dec 13, 2017 |
abduljabbar4: If you are any reasonable, you'll get my point. Did I dispute the OP has a point? Some of you guys here, quote me with your pricks...not your brain. |
Re: Why Are Women Becoming Evil Monsters These Days (graphic Photos) by Nobody: 2:21pm On Dec 13, 2017 |
pocohantas: @ bold this solution is the motorway in my humble opinion. Girl! Do you which you are great at! Never change, and I got your back |
Re: Why Are Women Becoming Evil Monsters These Days (graphic Photos) by pocohantas(f): 2:26pm On Dec 13, 2017 |
Dimples129: Not in this life, definitely not for weak pricks with poor comprehension and over inflated egos I've always been of the opinion that people will always annoy you, the best thing to do is remove yourself from such environment before it gets bloody. But as I dey look you, you go dey dangerous... 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Women Becoming Evil Monsters These Days (graphic Photos) by BabaRamotu1988: 2:33pm On Dec 13, 2017 |
[s] abduljabbar4:[/s] no tuwo shikafa for a lazy mallam like you go and sell gworo or go and polish shoes |
Re: Why Are Women Becoming Evil Monsters These Days (graphic Photos) by FitnessDoctor: 2:52pm On Dec 13, 2017 |
pocohantas: Its not that our society doesn't encourage women not leaving their husband per se, it is that marriage is bound by vows which say for better and for worse. It seems you are not married, so you wouldn't understand what those simple truly means and how far they go in a union such as marriage. I have spoken with some married ladies and understood it to a point, although not clear enough, the experience is the best teacher you know. Women tend to cling on to marriages because they don't want to be alone, because it would be harder to find another man, but men have it easy, they can find a woman so fast if you watch Girls Trip you will understand more about this. The problem with most marriages today is not just about marrying the wrong woman, because you pocohantas can turn to the devil one day and so can I, and you can be the sweetest thing on earth and so can I.. It is more about making the masses understand what marriage is all about before they rush into it based on fantasies and what they see in movies. Also, it is more about encouraging both partners to know more about themselves, I created a post talking about rules of relationships and 90% of the people that read it said that relationships shouldn't have rules, that everything would fall into place. In the olden days, there were rules in Nigerian marriages and people barely divorced, (although those rules weren't the best)... Most people believe that love is a beautiful blind thing and once you re in love and show care, everything will be perfect, most girls just want a guy that could make them laugh and smile without knowing a whole lot about him, they even shy away from important questions because they don't want to dig up the past, which is why as the relationship gets older and the love wanes, the past and hidden habits and flaws become more evident. By understanding emotions, boundaries, position in the relationship and knowing a lot about your partner, it would be harder to marry the wrong person because you will see the signs. Also, saying that men should be careful how they abuse their wives will lead us nowhere, I remember a man saying that he had to slap his wife when she made him angry and he did that out of anger but know it was wrong. Such a woman might never forgive that man because according to women a man who hits his wife is not a man at all, infact he does not deserve an erection. That is something that has to change, because people make mistakes. I never said men were allowed to hit women. |
Re: Why Are Women Becoming Evil Monsters These Days (graphic Photos) by pocohantas(f): 3:16pm On Dec 13, 2017 |
FitnessDoctor: Our society stigmatises divorced women, our society doesn't encourage divorce. Our society encourages aggrieved spouses to pray and endure. It's not even about the vow. Where is the vow when lots of married men and women cheat? The women are not just scared of being alone, they are scared of standing alone...most times financially. As more women become financially independent, divorce rate would increase. The greatest fear of the Nigerian housewife is "Where do I go from here, the kids, their fees?" Not "which man will marry me next?" The problem with most marriages today is not just about marrying the wrong woman, because you pocohantas can turn to the devil one day and so can I, and you can be the sweetest thing on earth and so can I.. It is more about making the masses understand what marriage is all about before they rush into it based on fantasies and what they see in movies. Check most divorce and abuse stories and you'll always see they saw the signs. They married the wrong people and handled marital issues wrongly. Their dreamland expectations worsened things. Also, it is more about encouraging both partners to know more about themselves, I created a post talking about rules of relationships and 90% of the people that read it said that relationships shouldn't have rules, that everything would fall into place. In the olden days, there were rules in Nigerian marriages and people barely divorced, (although those rules weren't the best)...People didn't divorce in the olden days, not because of 'rules of relationships' but factors surrounding the kind of marriage operated back then. Low divorce rate doesn't always equate marital bliss. Most people believe that love is a beautiful blind thing and once you re in love and show care, everything will be perfect, most girls just want a guy that could make them laugh and smile without knowing a whole lot about him, they even shy away from important questions because they don't want to dig up the past, which is why as the relationship gets older and the love wanes, the past and hidden habits and flaws become more evident. Same point I made, people should focus less on superficial qualities. Also, saying that men should be careful how they abuse their wives will lead us nowhere, I remember a man saying that he had to slap his wife when she made him angry and he did that out of anger but know it was wrong. Such a woman might never forgive that man because according to women a man who hits his wife is not a man at all, infact he does not deserve an erection. That is something that has to change, because people make mistakes. I never said men were allowed to hit women. It's the same way women are advised to watch the way they run their mouths to avoid beating. Different roads leads to the market I think. I put it last for a reason, it is at the bottom of my solution table. I never said you said, men are allowed to hit women. I didn't even specify any form of abuse 3 Likes |
Re: Why Are Women Becoming Evil Monsters These Days (graphic Photos) by FitnessDoctor: 3:27pm On Dec 13, 2017 |
can you list some factors surrounding the way marriage was operated in the olden days pocohantas |
Re: Why Are Women Becoming Evil Monsters These Days (graphic Photos) by pocohantas(f): 3:44pm On Dec 13, 2017 |
FitnessDoctor: Arranged marriage. Women weren't so enlightened or empowered then. Excessive stigma against divorced women. Our society was still very much patriarchal. Lots of men won't marry men like their fathers, but don't joke with their mothers. Tells a lot about who the burden was on. Modern women are not that patient or meek. Both gender need to go back to the drawing board, if you are not ready to do your part, tolerate and forgive...just tell us marriage is not for you. Some of us will understand. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Women Becoming Evil Monsters These Days (graphic Photos) by FitnessDoctor: 3:57pm On Dec 13, 2017 |
pocohantas:ever since women started becoming empowered to make their own choices, have divorce rates gone up or down? has the number of single mothers gone up or down? 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Women Becoming Evil Monsters These Days (graphic Photos) by pocohantas(f): 3:58pm On Dec 13, 2017 |
FitnessDoctor: UP |
Re: Why Are Women Becoming Evil Monsters These Days (graphic Photos) by FitnessDoctor: 4:06pm On Dec 13, 2017 |
pocohantas:so what you are saying is that women empowerment isnt the solution to creating happier marriages and also encouraging women to divorce and encouraging the society to lift the stigma on divorced women doesnt equate to marital happiness and wouldnt reduce the number of single mothers and divorced women. is that what you are saying? 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Women Becoming Evil Monsters These Days (graphic Photos) by pocohantas(f): 4:16pm On Dec 13, 2017 |
FitnessDoctor: Women empowerment is the key to leaving most unhappy marriags. The key to creating one is dependent on the couples involved. We are the society. I'm encouraging and imploring every abused spouse out there to separate [if there is no remedy]. It's a whole lot better than killing themselves and raising another set of dysfunctional kids that would end up marrying each other again. |
Re: Why Are Women Becoming Evil Monsters These Days (graphic Photos) by FitnessDoctor: 4:20pm On Dec 13, 2017 |
pocohantas:but you havent answered the question women want happier marriages and want to love one man forever so the question is based on that please answer the question 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Women Becoming Evil Monsters These Days (graphic Photos) by pocohantas(f): 4:23pm On Dec 13, 2017 |
FitnessDoctor: Which question? |
Re: Why Are Women Becoming Evil Monsters These Days (graphic Photos) by FitnessDoctor: 4:26pm On Dec 13, 2017 |
pocohantas:just read your mentions dear, after you answered that divorce rates are going up, I asked you another question which you skipped. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Women Becoming Evil Monsters These Days (graphic Photos) by pocohantas(f): 4:28pm On Dec 13, 2017 |
FitnessDoctor: FitnessDoctor: This? That's one hell of a compound question. I must have gotten lost somewhere . Please, break it down. |
Re: Why Are Women Becoming Evil Monsters These Days (graphic Photos) by FitnessDoctor: 4:35pm On Dec 13, 2017 |
pocohantas:so are you saying women empowerment isnt the key to creating happier marriages? |
Re: Why Are Women Becoming Evil Monsters These Days (graphic Photos) by abduljabbar4(m): 5:06pm On Dec 13, 2017 |
pocohantas: You can never find a point where there is none. I only quote beauty queens with my prick. My prick is classy enough to distinguish between ugliness and beauty and i dont think i need to tell you where you belong |
Re: Why Are Women Becoming Evil Monsters These Days (graphic Photos) by pocohantas(f): 5:08pm On Dec 13, 2017 |
FitnessDoctor: I answered that, the key is dependent on the couples involved. abduljabbar4: |
Re: Why Are Women Becoming Evil Monsters These Days (graphic Photos) by BabaRamotu1988: 5:09pm On Dec 13, 2017 |
[s] abduljabbar4:[/s] shatap there and get out carry your uncircumcised prick and go and fork dirty inyarinya |
Re: Why Are Women Becoming Evil Monsters These Days (graphic Photos) by abduljabbar4(m): 5:11pm On Dec 13, 2017 |
pocohantas:you mean those who have valuable time to waste 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Women Becoming Evil Monsters These Days (graphic Photos) by BabaRamotu1988: 5:12pm On Dec 13, 2017 |
[s] abduljabbar4:[/s] trash trash trash 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Women Becoming Evil Monsters These Days (graphic Photos) by Archangel15: 5:13pm On Dec 13, 2017 |
BabaRamotu1988: You and your aboki friend should carry your yarn to the politics section |
Re: Why Are Women Becoming Evil Monsters These Days (graphic Photos) by BabaRamotu1988: 5:14pm On Dec 13, 2017 |
Archangel15:abduljabbar4 is a mai gworo a gworo seller feeling funky 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Women Becoming Evil Monsters These Days (graphic Photos) by Archangel15: 5:15pm On Dec 13, 2017 |
pocohantas: |
Re: Why Are Women Becoming Evil Monsters These Days (graphic Photos) by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 7:44pm On Dec 13, 2017 |
Woe to them all |
Re: Why Are Women Becoming Evil Monsters These Days (graphic Photos) by Nobody: 8:01pm On Dec 13, 2017 |
donblazer10:What's your point? |
Re: Why Are Women Becoming Evil Monsters These Days (graphic Photos) by Jumionay: 12:09am On Dec 14, 2017 |
Well, well... We are magnificent creatures. Some women misbehave and some don't. Se fini 15k to be won this December!! Follow us on IG @jtalentshow *music*comedy*dance*drawing*spoken word |
Re: Why Are Women Becoming Evil Monsters These Days (graphic Photos) by LadyMarionette(f): 12:14am On Dec 14, 2017 |
pocohantas: He keeps trying to change the subject . Love the way you're keeping focus. |
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