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Please Advice Me, Is This Normal Or I Am Just Being Paranoid? by LivelyStones: 4:13pm On Dec 16, 2017 |
Dear Jzhane, My Fiancee is very friendly to her ex’s family . I mean,I didnt even know that she keeps in touch with them until on her birthday,they sent her a cake. I didnt even know until someone made a comment that hmm,Fola’s family knows how to send amazing cakes o. I picked it up,I knew she said her ex name is Fola. At that point,I asked why they send her cake and she was like they know its her birthday and they did that for almost six years,even after the break up which is almost like two years ago. I told her I was not comfortable with it and she replied that I should chill that Fola her ex has a new girlfriend . I must confess that didnt make me comfortable. I told her to cease communication with them and she flipped out ,saying I was acting immature. I left her birthday angry and as I was leaving,I went through her facebook posts...see more www.livelystones.com.ng 2 Likes |
Re: Please Advice Me, Is This Normal Or I Am Just Being Paranoid? by KardinalZik(m): 4:32pm On Dec 16, 2017 |
Totally IMMATURE ACTION. That they're no longer in a romantic relationship can't automatically erase the fact that they've known themselves. Ha! Just because of cake? Guy, abeg apologise to the babe ASAP. You're just being unnecessarily jealous and INSECURE. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Please Advice Me, Is This Normal Or I Am Just Being Paranoid? by jaszplus12(m): 4:50pm On Dec 16, 2017 |
KardinalZik:I beg no fes, but I know OP acted immature . if reverese is the case what do you think will be the reaction? 2 Likes |
Re: Please Advice Me, Is This Normal Or I Am Just Being Paranoid? by Nobody: 4:52pm On Dec 16, 2017 |
Re: Please Advice Me, Is This Normal Or I Am Just Being Paranoid? by ubunja(m): 4:55pm On Dec 16, 2017 |
nigga dont accept such sh!t u have the right to feel how u feel.never apologize for your feelings. i can never abide such disloyality from a chick.its either u are mine 100 or the door is open. 5 Likes |
Re: Please Advice Me, Is This Normal Or I Am Just Being Paranoid? by GoldenJAT(m): 4:59pm On Dec 16, 2017 |
there is no smoke without fire oooo!!! play along |
Re: Please Advice Me, Is This Normal Or I Am Just Being Paranoid? by lilmax(m): 5:00pm On Dec 16, 2017 |
LivelyStones:LOL.... dude start searching for another fiancée abeg 1 Like |
Re: Please Advice Me, Is This Normal Or I Am Just Being Paranoid? by pedrilo: 5:16pm On Dec 16, 2017 |
ubunja:u better work on urself, if not u will end up as a lonely and dejected old man. The world does not revolve around u. @op, u can do better in handlin dis issue, let her knw how u feel abt her closeness wit fola's family and ask ur gf if she will be comfortable wit u and ur ex family maintainin such closeness. |
Re: Please Advice Me, Is This Normal Or I Am Just Being Paranoid? by IAMSASHY(f): 5:23pm On Dec 16, 2017 |
totally unacceptable,bringing dat cake is jst 2much 4 a relationship dat crashed 2years ago. If truly she has moved on wt u, she cud hv as well avoided d family and anything dat has 2 do wt d ex. If sometin has not started going on now, it will definitely start soon, dnt b surprised dat d family mayb trying so hard 2 convince dia son to go bak 2 her. It's either she's wt u or she leaves 2 avoid anoda man fathering ur kids 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please Advice Me, Is This Normal Or I Am Just Being Paranoid? by ubunja(m): 5:29pm On Dec 16, 2017 |
pedrilo:i love myself way too much to accept this bullsh!t you call love. love me how i want you to love me or keep your love. i dont need it. 2 Likes |
Re: Please Advice Me, Is This Normal Or I Am Just Being Paranoid? by Romanic: 5:37pm On Dec 16, 2017 |
You are being paranoid bro. There is nothing wrong in the family of her ex wishing him ,happy birthday . Anybody one cash wish anyone happy birthday. She knew them before you. For one to be Ex,doesn't mean you are enemies. LivelyStones: |
Re: Please Advice Me, Is This Normal Or I Am Just Being Paranoid? by pedrilo: 5:46pm On Dec 16, 2017 |
ubunja:I see a lonely old man |
Re: Please Advice Me, Is This Normal Or I Am Just Being Paranoid? by ubunja(m): 5:51pm On Dec 16, 2017 |
pedrilo:better i buy pr0stitutes till i die than approve of the cr@p you advising OP to accept and OP better prepare to raise that Ex's babies.since he is a simp anyways. and the irony is the GF gonna be telling OP to delete all his Exes from his fone.LMFAOOOOO!!!!!! 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please Advice Me, Is This Normal Or I Am Just Being Paranoid? by Nobody: 5:51pm On Dec 16, 2017 |
lilmax: Your statement might sound funny but you are right. Op don't place all your eggs in her basket. At the back of her mind, she may be hoping they reconcile and settle down. And the ex family too may be having such hopes. Better to be safe than sorry. And like a lady above me said, Don't end up fathering her ex children thinking and with full confidence believing they are yours. Be wise. 2 Likes |
Re: Please Advice Me, Is This Normal Or I Am Just Being Paranoid? by pedrilo: 6:44pm On Dec 16, 2017 |
ubunja:people like u end up wit very bad partners. U tink u r smart. |
Re: Please Advice Me, Is This Normal Or I Am Just Being Paranoid? by lilmax(m): 6:52pm On Dec 16, 2017 |
ubunja:lol....bros leave that guy, how providing early solution to the problem makes someone lonely is what I don't get.... it's pure common sense, from what I see here, the parents are trying to win her over and she's not even trying to let go @op once again, if she doesn't agree, you walk away 1 Like |
Re: Please Advice Me, Is This Normal Or I Am Just Being Paranoid? by ubunja(m): 7:17pm On Dec 16, 2017 |
pedrilo:why are you so determined for OP to accept his GF's continued relations with her Ex's family? are u from the Ex' family or you just see life as one long walk in the park where everyone is good and noone will ever take advantage of another? c'mon now dude.even girls are disacouraging it yet here u are pushing it. you are being irresponsible now.u giving bad advice that will end with OP killing someone 15yrs from now when DNA tests reveal the Gf got more than just cakes from those people. stop your emotional d!ck centred reasoning for once and use your head .the bigger head . please and thank you. 3 Likes |
Re: Please Advice Me, Is This Normal Or I Am Just Being Paranoid? by pedrilo: 7:25pm On Dec 16, 2017 |
ubunja:immature reasoning. You want to cage her from associating with people because she is dating you? Are you married to her? |
Re: Please Advice Me, Is This Normal Or I Am Just Being Paranoid? by ubunja(m): 7:31pm On Dec 16, 2017 |
pedrilo:then she might as well spend time with her Exes and go out on dates with them.and while we on that allow her to kiss her Exes. stay away from relationships my friend. you dont know the first thing about commitment and being exclusive with anyone. 3 Likes |
Re: Please Advice Me, Is This Normal Or I Am Just Being Paranoid? by habsydiamond(m): 7:43pm On Dec 16, 2017 |
Na how some girl dey take their own hand spoil there relationship...as long as u re off with Ur ex why collect cake again.....to make Ur guy uncomfortable abi.....when he come leave now ....Na den she go dey say her village people dey follow her.... 1 Like |
Re: Please Advice Me, Is This Normal Or I Am Just Being Paranoid? by ORAGBON(m): 11:04pm On Dec 16, 2017 |
pedrilo:haba, that is harsh |
Re: Please Advice Me, Is This Normal Or I Am Just Being Paranoid? by pedrilo: 7:00am On Dec 17, 2017 |
ORAGBON:how this matter take concern you!!!!!!
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Re: Please Advice Me, Is This Normal Or I Am Just Being Paranoid? by ednut1(m): 7:14am On Dec 17, 2017 |
Bloggers and fabricated stories sha |
Re: Please Advice Me, Is This Normal Or I Am Just Being Paranoid? by Romanic: 12:53pm On Dec 17, 2017 |
But for them not to be dating doesnt mean they are enemy nah. Anyone can present cake as birthday gift. Moreover, its the ex family not the ex . IAMSASHY: |
Re: Please Advice Me, Is This Normal Or I Am Just Being Paranoid? by ubunja(m): 1:23pm On Dec 17, 2017 |
Romanic:when u put your response above the qoute it loses context |
Re: Please Advice Me, Is This Normal Or I Am Just Being Paranoid? by IAMSASHY(f): 3:31pm On Dec 17, 2017 |
if she had avoided dem, dey won't bring dat cake, atleast once in awhile, "hi" on social media is k bt as u can see, d closeness is still much, she has succeeded in hvin d family on her side, d only person remaining is d ex, cnt u see she is gradually winning d game? Romanic:wen u breakup wt ur ex and u try to move on wt a new person, if u stl keep in touch wt ur ex, it wl b 90% easier 4 d feelings u once shared 2 rise and reconnect dan 4 u 2 develop genuine feelings wt d new person. 1 Like |
Re: Please Advice Me, Is This Normal Or I Am Just Being Paranoid? by ORAGBON(m): 11:04pm On Dec 17, 2017 |
we should always consider peoples feelings when we use words...But no vex, didn't mean to offend you. pedrilo: |
Re: Please Advice Me, Is This Normal Or I Am Just Being Paranoid? by Romanic: 7:54am On Dec 18, 2017 |
Yes. What you said is actually true. But in this case,the story said it's the guys family. He can't just stop them like that nah. Or what do you think he should do to avoid it next time. Pick up a quarrel or what do you think ? IAMSASHY: |
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