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Re: Finding It Hard To Stop Masturbation by Nobody: 7:15pm On Dec 18, 2017
Prudent200:
hello guys i need your help am still finding it hard to stop masturbation I need your advice, I started at age 18 I don't really know how now am 20 and buy 2018 I will be 21 I really need help am always guilty after i erupt I also did it this Sunday afternoon ...my kind of masturbation is am not using the hand... I do bang the Bed Lol ���,please help a dying brother i need a good advice
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for those of you who has come out of it how did you do it, I have this feeling am the only one
There is nothing wrong with masturbating, I do it, we do it, most men do it. You stop it when you find something else to satisfy your sex urges. When you get married or have a girlfriend that is sexual active, you will be too tired to masturbate and that is how you will stop it.
Re: Finding It Hard To Stop Masturbation by tayooluwole: 7:17pm On Dec 18, 2017
amani63:
my brother all you have to know is that you can't stop masturbation like that.I also masturba.have I stop it? NO
But I have reduce the frequency
Try and implant fear inside yourself you will reduce the frequency brother
Fear like
What if I can married and I don't have child or I can't impregnate my wife
Am having pain at my back I think Is symptoms of kidney failure what if is it I think masturbation cause it
And many more bro
bros you just spoke about me... ah swear, this is the same fear I have been having today cos I still masturbate yesternight... the fear they prevent me from performing it in a close sequence.... my own na like every 3 to 4 days... but I wish to stop patapata... if I decide to stop today, konji go carry me along the way and I will be forced by my feelings to enter instagramm to watch all those twerking fine babe...you no the next thing bro
Re: Finding It Hard To Stop Masturbation by Nobody: 7:22pm On Dec 18, 2017
purem:
best advice ever; goan be fvckin olosho
if he dies of AIDS now, iz only R.I.P you'll say.

Re: Finding It Hard To Stop Masturbation by Nobody: 8:06pm On Dec 18, 2017
tayooluwole:
bros you just spoke about me... ah swear, this is the same fear I have been having today cos I still masturbate yesternight... the fear they prevent me from performing it in a close sequence.... my own na like every 3 to 4 days... but I wish to stop patapata... if I decide to stop today, konji go carry me along the way and I will be forced by my feelings to enter instagramm to watch all those twerking fine babe...you no the next thing bro
3 -4 is too much bro
You Wan kill yourself
Stop doing that 3-4 times a day
At least once a week
Re: Finding It Hard To Stop Masturbation by Kingsley10000: 8:12pm On Dec 18, 2017
LexMacquin:
if he dies of AIDS now, iz only R.I.P you'll say.
condom no dey? most guys in it have they all contracted hiv?.....having a gf is the best alternative
Re: Finding It Hard To Stop Masturbation by Nobody: 8:30pm On Dec 18, 2017
Kingsley10000:
condom no dey? most guys in it have they all contracted hiv?.....having a gf is the best alternative
Haha! Obviously my attempt at sarcasm. But seriously, bleeping hoes whether using Condoms or what-not has its side-effects in the long-term if not treated as the day goes by; accumulated bacteria/infections leading to impotence, low sperm count, etc.
Having casual bleepings with a gf is for matured minds and it comes with its responsibilities.
Summarily u can either abstain, keep wanking, get a decent babe, get married.
Re: Finding It Hard To Stop Masturbation by Nobody: 8:31pm On Dec 18, 2017
bojbest:
Guy how i reduced mine, i started fucking olosho, i went to d brothel any time i have dat bad urge.
I also wanna stop but i noticed that even big men dey masturbate, the best is by visiting a brothel, u wld get tired of sex soon
Mad man grin grin cheesy
Re: Finding It Hard To Stop Masturbation by Nobody: 8:36pm On Dec 18, 2017
Prudent200:
i do lie up side down just like missionary sex style, and i will be banging the bed slow and steady
Dude don't you feel stupid while doing it? grin grin grin grin grin grin
Re: Finding It Hard To Stop Masturbation by Kingsley1000(m): 9:36pm On Dec 18, 2017
LexMacquin:
Haha! Obviously my attempt at sarcasm. But seriously, bleeping hoes whether using Condoms or what-not has its side-effects in the long-term if not treated as the day goes by; accumulated bacteria/infections leading to impotence, low sperm count, etc.
Having casual bleepings with a gf is for matured minds and it comes with its responsibilities.
Summarily u can either abstain, keep wanking, get a decent babe, get married.
Most prostitutes do take care of themselves more than most girls living promiscious life.here in owerri,there are many clean pretty young hoes...wanking isnt best option,what if he gets caught.imagine such stigma!best option is to spread ur tentacles,start befriending many girls,outta 10,one must fall
Re: Finding It Hard To Stop Masturbation by Nobody: 10:40pm On Dec 18, 2017
Kingsley1000:
Most prostitutes do take care of themselves more than most girls living promiscious life.here in owerri,there are many clean pretty young hoes...wanking isnt best option,what if he gets caught.imagine such stigma!best option is to spread ur tentacles,start befriending many girls,outta 10,one must fall
Lol! Still on this matter! Be like say u go hook me up whenever I show for owerri. Anyways u hav a point there, I gave head to this supposed clean gf of mine who I just met last year, had a tough time convincing this babe till she eventually gave me the honey pot, she later begged me not to use condom as well saying it irritates her skin and I obliged (spent almost 10k + treating myself for infections the following week), turned out she was bleeping other guys w/o protection too, Lol!

I've also had my fair share of all sorts of hoes in Lagos and a few other states; both skanks and clean ones alike, and I know what i've gone through. Besides who sets out to self-service with the intention of getting caught? Lol! (Bolt all doors and windows and do ur thing)

All i'm saying is; get a decent babe instead of bleeping around, casual bleeping of regular babes or hoes comes with a lot of responsibilities, both health-wise & financial. Some decent babes out there love bleeping as much as guys do, but only with one person at a time.
Re: Finding It Hard To Stop Masturbation by Chigorkizz(m): 10:43pm On Dec 18, 2017
Prudent200:
i tried my brother but still can't get out of it
get A Girl Friend That Will Be Closer To U.Most At Times Masturbation Comes To Mind When U're Starve Of Sex.
Re: Finding It Hard To Stop Masturbation by coolh3ad(m): 1:36am On Dec 19, 2017
LexMacquin:
Lol! Still on this matter! Be like say u go hook me up whenever I show for owerri. Anyways u hav a point there, I gave head to this supposed clean gf of mine who I just met last year, had a tough time convincing this babe till she eventually gave me the honey pot, she later begged me not to use condom as well saying it irritates her skin and I obliged (spent almost 10k + treating myself for infections the following week), turned out she was bleeping other guys w/o protection too, Lol!

I've also had my fair share of all sorts of hoes in Lagos and a few other states; both skanks and clean ones alike, and I know what i've gone through. Besides who sets out to self-service with the intention of getting caught? Lol! (Bolt all doors and windows and do ur thing)

All i'm saying is; get a decent babe instead of bleeping around, casual bleeping of regular babes or hoes comes with a lot of responsibilities, both health-wise & financial. Some decent babes out there love bleeping as much as guys do, but only with one person at a time.
Tell them Bro. Tell them!!!!

Nice one. TRUE TALK 100 PERCENT
Re: Finding It Hard To Stop Masturbation by Kingsley1000(m): 2:33am On Dec 19, 2017
@LEXMACQUIN,you need to shuffle the crop of girls you co pulate with,i mean always sought for decent ones to avert from yourself from contracting herps or related infections..i once caught my lodge mate during my versity days,i wanted to beg him for salt,this guy was very stingy(on a normal day he rarely gives expensive things freely),i saw him on bed covered with bed sheet,i didnt even knock,he re-adjusted suddenly,i had an hand shake with him(my palm was stained with soap),i saw 2big apples on his table,i asked him for one,he gave me without hesitating,quite unlike him...after the incidence,he always feel degraded,humiliated and humbled whenever he sees me...in a nutshell,i always woo even ugly girls as they seem to succumb more than the pretty ones just to ease off konji whenever it calls
Re: Finding It Hard To Stop Masturbation by Bulldogpuppy5: 2:50am On Dec 19, 2017
Guy nothing wrong with maturbation this the cheapest see ever this one that almost every nigerian girl have commercial with their pussy for every six u either pay directly or indirectly maturbation saves you time and stress of Niger babes and it is disease free there is no shame in it
Re: Finding It Hard To Stop Masturbation by tayooluwole: 8:14am On Dec 19, 2017
Chigorkizz:
get A Girl Friend That Will Be Closer To U.Most At Times Masturbation Comes To Mind When U're Starve Of Sex.
you people are talking as if konji get specific time way he they carry person... what of if konji carry am late in the night say like 10pm and above, he go they call home girl and down to come during such hour, and what is the assurance that him girl go allow am ? just try to advice him how the steps to prevent such urge to come as frequent as the op claimed...
Re: Finding It Hard To Stop Masturbation by Nobody: 9:52am On Dec 19, 2017
Kingsley1000:
@LEXMACQUIN,you need to shuffle the crop of girls you co pulate with,i mean always sought for decent ones to avert from yourself from contracting herps or related infections..i once caught my lodge mate during my versity days,i wanted to beg him for salt,this guy was very stingy(on a normal day he rarely gives expensive things freely),i saw him on bed covered with bed sheet,i didnt even knock,he re-adjusted suddenly,i had an hand shake with him(my palm was stained with soap),i saw 2big apples on his table,i asked him for one,he gave me without hesitating,quite unlike him...after the incidence,he always feel degraded,humiliated and humbled whenever he sees me...in a nutshell,i always woo even ugly girls as they seem to succumb more than the pretty ones just to ease off konji whenever it calls
Lmao! @woo ugly babes! Omo I can't deal! Thanks for the advice all the same.
Re: Finding It Hard To Stop Masturbation by Kingsley1000(m): 10:15am On Dec 19, 2017
LexMacquin:
Lmao! @woo ugly babes! Omo I can't deal! Thanks for the advice all the same.
Baba,you know say they have nothing much to lose so they are always down to earth,approaching,less demanding,kind and keen to be in a relationship.during my versity days,i had them upto 20 i do Bleep whenever the urge comes.i be fine boy sha so i no dey stress myself in getting them
Re: Finding It Hard To Stop Masturbation by Kingsley1000(m): 10:16am On Dec 19, 2017
Bulldogpuppy5:
Guy nothing wrong with maturbation this the cheapest see ever this one that almost every nigerian girl have commercial with their pussy for every six u either pay directly or indirectly maturbation saves you time and stress of Niger babes and it is disease free there is no shame in it
Low self esteem?
Re: Finding It Hard To Stop Masturbation by Nobody: 10:31am On Dec 19, 2017
Kingsley1000:
Baba,you know say they have nothing much to lose so they are always down to earth,approaching,less demanding,kind and keen to be in a relationship.during my versity days,i had them upto 20 i do Bleep whenever the urge comes.i be fine boy sha so i no dey stress myself in getting them
I'm literally In stitches from laughing right now,too funny bro! 20? I nvr reach ur level o, I go follow this ur approach henceforth. Shoot my shot!
Re: Finding It Hard To Stop Masturbation by Prudent200(op): 8:32pm On Dec 19, 2017
tayooluwole:
lol...I tought na only me they this game oooo... me na all those end time lady way they twerk their yans for instagram ah go they watch come they bang ground... before I know it erection don come... I wish there is a practical way to stop this rather than going spiritual ...
Lol funny you
Re: Finding It Hard To Stop Masturbation by Prudent200(op): 8:34pm On Dec 19, 2017
nickvanilla:
Seems you have lots of libido. If you want to trim down your urges, you gotta do these;

Step 1: Avoid jumping into bed when exhausted or sweaty. Take a cold shower twice everyday: morning and evening.

Step 2: Avoid raunchy texts & pics - anything that could arouse you.

Step 3: Change your sleeping position. Learn to sleep facing the ceiling or sideways.

Step 4: Go out more, talk to people. Find a roommate if you live alone.

Step 5: Get busy with life. Don't be idle all the time.
Shalom!!
thanks
Re: Finding It Hard To Stop Masturbation by Evangkatsoulis: 8:44pm On Dec 19, 2017
Prudent200:
hello guys i need your help am still finding it hard to stop masturbation I need your advice, I started at age 18 I don't really know how now am 20 and buy 2018 I will be 21 I really need help am always guilty after i erupt I also did it this Sunday afternoon ...my kind of masturbation is am not using the hand... I do bang the Bed Lol ���,please help a dying brother i need a good advice
.
for those of you who has come out of it how did you do it, I have this feeling am the only one
Take amitriptyline 150mg everyday.
It will kill your sexual desire completely.
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