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thesuave10:
This WACK thread with WACK men

Dothraki:
how do i reply

thesuave10:
This WACK thread with WACK men

ubunja:
LOL
let the kids have their fun.
they will grow up one day and graduate to the Big Boys Club.

thesuave10:
Hehehe lol.. They'll just be fooling themselves

derock123:
hello house, i really need help, i had issues with my woman recently, been dating for more than 5years now and set to marry next year. she's been leaving with me for few months now, recently we've been having series of issues. we even had a serious heated argument which led to my slapping her that was about three weeks ago but i apologized immediately. it took me serious time to make her feel better (even bought her things). the thing is, for the past 3 weeks, she's been dodging my advances i asked her openly and she said she is now afraid of penetration. i really need help on how to bring back our romantic life back cause we're the type that bleep like 4 times a day before. or is she loosing interest in me? she is always naked in the house with me but won't let me do more than touching her. the thing just week me. i feel it was a wrong move letting her leave with me.

derock123:
hello house, i really need help, i had issues with my woman recently, been dating for more than 5years now and set to marry next year. she's been leaving with me for few months now, recently we've been having series of issues. we even had a serious heated argument which led to my slapping her that was about three weeks ago but i apologized immediately. it took me serious time to make her feel better (even bought her things). the thing is, for the past 3 weeks, she's been dodging my advances i asked her openly and she said she is now afraid of penetration. i really need help on how to bring back our romantic life back cause we're the type that bleep like 4 times a day before. or is she loosing interest in me? she is always naked in the house with me but won't let me do more than touching her. the thing just week me. i feel it was a wrong move letting her leave with me.

Rubbiish:
She just discovered your weak point & she is still getting back at u for hitting her...Give her some space for now....Just let her know u can live without her pu5$y...But which i doubt if u can with the way u are sounding now.
If i may ask...what caused the heated argument?

Uziehot:
give the MAMA some little space. Take control of your jrod. She has discovered that ur brain is in ur jrod. Control it first.

derock123:
i can of course live without her Womanliness and that's what i am going to do, just that her staying with me kind of makes things a bit difficult for me but i'll pass. on the issue of what happened, it's a lengthy stuff i truly don't want to bore you with, i made a post on that. so how do i give her space when we're leaving in the same house?

Balistic4:
I get you and my brain ain't in my jrod. Just that her leaving with me makes it more difficult. I'm a very busy engr. But after the day's work I come back home to meet her in sometimes only bra or only panties. Even as I speak with you we bath together and that's how it's been for a very long time even when she was visiting. If I tell her we can't do those things together and that she should dress up, won't I sound sound somehow? How long should I wait, or I should wait till anytime she initiate it? How do I give someone I'm staying with a space and she moved in with me cause of her work and I can't tell her to leave.

osic:
Guys, few weeks ago, I noticed that my gf has changed in her attitude towards me, We both made plans to meet at her place during the weekend, I told her I would call her before leaving my house, called her up and she said she was at church, that she'll call me when she's back home, this was in the afternoon, she didn't call me back, called severally she didn't pick up the phone, till I sent a text message around past 7pm saying "thanks for wasting my time" she then called me claiming she was at the church all day on Saturday, (she's not active in any church group).
If I don't call her she won't, when i do, she'll give monosyllabic response, she acts like I'm disturbing her, sometimes when I call her, she'll be on another call for minutes, if I ask her who's call is she taking, she'll give me an excuse. I haven't called her since Saturday and she hasn't called me, I know she's gone, I just want to forget her totally.

2dice01:
you: Tonia diss is Uriel your brother text me your number last night ...he told me kept asking of me... Hope am safe tho

She: and who is Tonia?

You : you want to start again .. Do u remember why I spanked ur lil ass the last time we hangout

She: Hehehehe my butt ... Am not Tonia...


Then stop chatting.... You can call her at night

SOLARPOWER1:
I tried calling my girlfriend yesterday at about 10pm and noticed she was on call for about 30 min with someone else. I further called her with another number she didn't have, still busy. To my surprise after she was through with her call, the first number she called back was the one she didn't have (which I didn't pick) before she finally called my phone. I waited for it to ring through then called her back. She started talking quietly saying she knows I am angry that she didn't pick my call and asking if the other number belongs to me. I calmly asked her why she thinks I am angry then I asked her about something else with a sendless tone, before I finally popped up the question of who was calling her.

She said it was one of her old time secondary school mate she has not heard from for a long time "CRUSHING" on her who she told me about before, that she told the guy her fiance is calling but he was just bringing up one topic after another ( though I can't remember her telling me about the guy before) . I then asked her so that's why you didn't pick my call for about 30 to 45mins, are you OK? Then I disconnected the line. She gave me two missed call, no response, sent a text begging me, then called again, I haven't answered her since yesterday. I NEED ADVICE ON HOW TO HANDLE THIS MATTERE FORWARD.

I believe the source of the problem is that I have dropped my guards on this girl, calling her too much, giving her the impression that I want to marry her with excess attention as she is in a different state (city) from me.


Cc: HARDDON and all my boss here help your boy.

SOLARPOWER1:
Somebody should show me some love here o. I need advice here o.

Uziehot:
give the MAMA some little space. Take control of your jrod. She has discovered that ur brain is in ur jrod. Control it first.

WackyJ1:
You're lucky i was in the neighboorhood bro.

I remembered seeing your posts the first time you popped into this thread and i was just checking to see if you had improved in your game.

As for this your Case,
Your girlfriend was on the phone with another boy and she saw your missed calls and she could not dismiss the guy to answer yours? That shows the level of priority you have in her life currently no matter whatever else she says with her mouth. It is obvious that she is enjoying the attention she gets from the other guy but at what cost? She is willing to put you on the back burner so that she can continue to enjoy, the jokes and compliments that she is getting from the other guy.
She knows you're the Fiance yet she gives the other guy the control and discretion on how to end the call. That girl of yours is weak-willed and a big liar.

It is very very dangerous to take serious a girl who is weak-willed and a liar like your girl has shown and even more dangerous to take such a girl serious when you're in a long distance relationship with her.

What you have done for her in the past is irrelevant now, the most important thing is the mindset you have going forward from this moment.
Number 1 Rule is never be afraid to lose a girl. Do not Carry their matter for head. Girls are fickle and can sway with the wind at any time.

Right now, you should be shifting your attention to other girls you have at hand. If you don't have, better start chatting up or meeting other girls, this will help you not to keep your mind on just one girl., you care less about what this girl or any of the girls do because you have many others. it what HARDDON calls "Abundance Mentality".

Right now in your mind, break up with this girl. You do not have to do it physically but at this moment you can be rest assured that when the opportunity presents itself, this girl will cheat on you, and as you can see, opportunity is already knocking on this girl's door. A girl that can be on a thirty minutes call with another guy by 10pm to the extent of ignoring your calls when she saw them is no longer your girlfriend.
No longer show her the care that you used to show her. Dissociate yourself from this relationship in your mind, this will give you strength and peace of mind if anything happens because you are already expecting it.

Stop the calls, find another babe and let this girl go and meet her secondary school crush.

SOLARPOWER1:
I tried calling my girlfriend yesterday at about 10pm and noticed she was on call for about 30 min with someone else. I further called her with another number she didn't have, still busy. To my surprise after she was through with her call, the first number she called back was the one she didn't have (which I didn't pick) before she finally called my phone. I waited for it to ring through then called her back. She started talking quietly saying she knows I am angry that she didn't pick my call and asking if the other number belongs to me. I calmly asked her why she thinks I am angry then I asked her about something else with a sendless tone, before I finally popped up the question of who was calling her.

She said it was one of her old time secondary school mate she has not heard from for a long time "CRUSHING" on her who she told me about before, that she told the guy her fiance is calling but he was just bringing up one topic after another ( though I can't remember her telling me about the guy before) . I then asked her so that's why you didn't pick my call for about 30 to 45mins, are you OK? Then I disconnected the line. She gave me two missed call, no response, sent a text begging me, then called again, I haven't answered her since yesterday. I NEED ADVICE ON HOW TO HANDLE THIS MATTERE FORWARD.

I believe the source of the problem is that I have dropped my guards on this girl, calling her too much, giving her the impression that I want to marry her with excess attention as she is in a different state (city) from me.


Cc: HARDDON and all my boss here help your boy.

fayded:
Okay, guys I followed your advice here to go where I'm celebrated and not tolerated. And I left the girl that I was having issues with.
However, I met this new girl, we've known for some time now, she is my junior colleague, also a med student. She js very reserved and always indoors. We met at the library. And we ve been chatting. She told me that she admires my reading skills and that I should help her to be a geek, like me.
The ish is that I like her, she is my type. But I don't want to get friend zoned or elder brother zoned. So how do I go about it?. I have a feeling that I can take advantage from this admiring ish. Pls advice would be greatly appreciated.
Harddon
Xavierblue
Magikalz
Davidthegeek

fayded:
Okay, guys I followed your advice here to go where I'm celebrated and not tolerated. And I left the girl that I was having issues with.
However, I met this new girl, we've known for some time now, she is my junior colleague, also a med student. She js very reserved and always indoors. We met at the library. And we ve been chatting. She told me that she admires my reading skills and that I should help her to be a geek, like me.
The ish is that I like her, she is my type. But I don't want to get friend zoned or elder brother zoned. So how do I go about it?. I have a feeling that I can take advantage from this admiring ish. Pls advice would be greatly appreciated.
Harddon
Xavierblue
Magikalz
Davidthegeek

HARDDON:
If you hv read d thread, this question shldnt creep up.

The only way to avoid FZ is to ooze dateZone or whatever zone u so suit.

If i want to make her my gurl, i wud codedly laced my fun n talks with relationship.

"This one u always indoors, i not sure this relationship wud work. "

Always bring out her naughtiness by twisting her seemlingly innocent talks into sexual ones:

She: I am coming
Me: you are what?

Relate with her like u guys are dating but never really say it.

She : where r u?
Me: in your heart. Ive been running through it huh?


By the way, don't be a duck and take that her statement on face value. She just asked you out codedly and even went ahead to make it easy for you by letting you know she wud luv to spend more time with you! Open your mind and see!

Rubbiish:
Tell her u wanna take her out
Take her to any cool place, discuss anything with her
It is natural for u to fumble, but u will learn from it & improve
But remember to allude to your reason for your outing
Don't be scared of losing her
See her as a someone u are using to horn your skills
Flirt with her...