Jupxter:




Excessive rationality, it applies to both sexes. Please spare me your tantrums

Toks2008:


If the tons I see in your comment refers to me toks then I will gladly beg you to quote the thread or comment here talking about your claim.

Meti99:
In as much as I try to reason with the op, I still want you to know that marriage is an AGREEMENT, a life CONTRACT between a man and a woman. Marriage is beyond copulation, it is companionship, a yoke bearing contract, though sex plays important role but sex does not automatically mean friendship. I want you to know you can have sex with anybody and not necessarily have a soul tie with such.. What I think you should do more is to preach against indecent, incessant sex.

safarigirl:
I stopped taking Tons seriously the day he said that having pre-marital sex with one person is not as sinful as having it with multiple persons. Oga was grading fornication

He's right on this one sha, but most of his beliefs are skewered and selective so that he somehow exonerates himself from sin

delishpot:



Why should I spare you? It applies to both only when the fact is pointed out if not you zealously make it a woman only sin.

Gungnir:


You are wrong! For every sexual intercourse, you are in covenant with the said people until such yoke is broken through prayers...

Bollinger:


Wait, you saying you agree that sex is marriage? I'm sorry but i cannot subscribe to that view. Dating goes hand in hand with sex. It is important for a person to understand who they are sexually and also experiment to find the right partner. I'm not saying one should go crazy banging every and anything in sight but i has to be done and done responsibly. You do not want to spend the rest of your life with someone you are not compatible with sexually. That is a recipe for disaster.

Jupxter:



I'm human, i make mistakes. It applies to both sexes. I adopt this principle in my life personally.

Bollinger:


Wait, you saying you agree that sex is marriage? I'm sorry but i cannot subscribe to that view. Dating goes hand in hand with sex. It is important for a person to understand who they are sexually and also experiment to find the right partner. I'm not saying one should go crazy banging every and anything in sight but i has to be done and done responsibly. You do not want to spend the rest of your life with someone you are not compatible with sexually. That is a recipe for disaster.

Tyrabarbara:
toks have CUM again? you are a virgin abi? the said lady that you cohabited with, you never had sex with her? fvcking relationship coach that doesn't do as he says.

midehi2:
Marriage without good sex is no marriage

safarigirl:
so, I should go and look for a thread that is over a year old because I'm jobless abi?

You go and look for it yourself, you have said so much crap over the years, it is impossible to sieve through it all

I had a long and heated discussion over it, and it was the last time I engaged you and that is why I remember it. Your memory may fail you since you have had many more of such discussions with others.

delishpot:



Okay sir. Make una also try make mistake for women own too from time to time and focus on men own commandment eg husbands love your wives (note no conditions given) Parents do not provoke your kids, A man who doesnt provide for his family is worse than an infidel etc

YesNoMaybe:


So, if one wants a divorce, he could also break up a union with prayers? So EVERY sexual intercourse puts you under a yoke?

Meti99:
In as much as I try to reason with the op, I still want you to know that marriage is an AGREEMENT, a life CONTRACT between a man and a woman. Marriage is beyond copulation, it is companionship, a yoke bearing contract, though sex plays important role but sex does not automatically mean friendship. I want you to know you can have sex with anybody and not necessarily have a soul tie with such.. What I think you should do more is to preach against indecent, incessant sex.

Gungnir:


This is complete nonsense! What you are preaching reeks of pungent stench of ignorance.

Toks2008:


Must you troll all the time? I asked for a simple task...and you are already crying out loud...

Just go to your profile page,click on your posts and glance through your comments on my threads and you won't spend a minute before you get what I'm asking for.

Until then please just quietly read comments here OK. ..Have a good day.

safarigirl:
this is like saying an automobile company will allow you drive their car because you have interest in it. They won't

Dating does not go hand in hand with sex, there can be intimacy without sex.....but world people have changed the dynamics of things so that you people think you cannot connect with someone without having sex with them.

You have become a slave to your body

Bollinger:


Meanwhile, mr morality here has had sex, is having sex and will continue to have sex .

Amberon11:
Perfect , I'm surprised that Toks could write something this sensible.

safarigirl:
since he usually writes bollocks, right?

Gungnir:


No i haven't....

Bollinger:


They do. Em, *cough. . cough*, That is exactly what happens with normal people in normal countries. Before you buy a car, you drive it. I just bought one for my wife. Guess what? I drove it before i bought it. Everyone does it. No sane person would buy a care without driving it first.

Bollinger:


Oh my!! I am conversing with a 12 year old. Sorry.

Toks2008:
1 Corinthians 6:16 ” Do you not know that he who joins himself to a prostitute becomes one flesh with her? For, as it is written, “The two shall become one.”

Genesis 2:24
That is why a man leaves his father and mother and is united to his wife, and they become one flesh.

Matthew 19:5
and said, 'For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh'?

Ephesians 5:31
"For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.

In Islamic law, marriage is called nikah, an Arabic word whose original literal meaning is "sexual intercourse", but which already in the Quran is used exclusively to refer to the contract of marriage.

It is very saddening that man's philosophy and cultural beliefs have made the world deviate from the truth from the very words of the scriptures talking about the Bible and even Quran.

Today we see men and ladies randomly sleeping with one another,safe sex is even promoted with the use of condom,we see baby mamas and daddies springing up and when you ask them about their marital status they say they are single because to them,marriage has a different meaning.

There was no place in the scriptures where GOD commanded us to go to registry, religious houses or to certain families to pay bride price (The Bride price mentioned in the bible was a punishment for raping a virgin).

But what exactly did GOD command about the way a marriage should take place?

God gave us 3 clear stages of marriage. .
1.A man leaving his parents and this happens when you decide to be with a woman and you leave your parents to start your own family.

2.Unites with his wife:You can choose how you unite which is the wedding ceremony and this can be done in accordance with laid down rules of the government or traditions/cultures as well as religious organizations.

3.Becoming one is the third stage which involves having sex with each other.

GOD himself commanded this in Genesis and Jesus repeated it in the book of Mathew.When you have sex with anyone,you are becoming one with such and automatically fulfilling the essence of marriage which is becoming one with whoever you have sex with.

Unfortunately, people just sleep around today in ignorance of the fact that they are fulfilling the third and most important stage of marriage. The world have been deceived by Satan to believe that marriage is when you do the paparazzi and you pay bride price and so on but all these moves are the second stage which is uniting to your spouse.

I know this article may not change the act of illicit sex but next time you open your legs to any guy or when next you sleep with any lady,just know in your heart that you are fulfilling the third stage of marriage as commanded by GOD.

I know this definitely makes sense.

Gungnir:


Smh....i am in my mid twenties tho

safarigirl:
you test the engine, you don't drive it around.

It is only in this century that pre-marital sex is normal, yet this century also has the highest divorce rates. If sex is so important to a relationship, why is it not saving marriages?

Toks2008:
1 Corinthians 6:16 ” Do you not know that he who joins himself to a prostitute becomes one flesh with her? For, as it is written, “The two shall become one.”

Genesis 2:24
That is why a man leaves his father and mother and is united to his wife, and they become one flesh.

Matthew 19:5
and said, 'For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh'?

Ephesians 5:31
"For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.

In Islamic law, marriage is called nikah, an Arabic word whose original literal meaning is "sexual intercourse", but which already in the Quran is used exclusively to refer to the contract of marriage.

It is very saddening that man's philosophy and cultural beliefs have made the world deviate from the truth from the very words of the scriptures talking about the Bible and even Quran.

Today we see men and ladies randomly sleeping with one another,safe sex is even promoted with the use of condom,we see baby mamas and daddies springing up and when you ask them about their marital status they say they are single because to them,marriage has a different meaning.

There was no place in the scriptures where GOD commanded us to go to registry, religious houses or to certain families to pay bride price (The Bride price mentioned in the bible was a punishment for raping a virgin).

But what exactly did GOD command about the way a marriage should take place?

God gave us 3 clear stages of marriage. .
1.A man leaving his parents and this happens when you decide to be with a woman and you leave your parents to start your own family.

2.Unites with his wife:You can choose how you unite which is the wedding ceremony and this can be done in accordance with laid down rules of the government or traditions/cultures as well as religious organizations.

3.Becoming one is the third stage which involves having sex with each other.

GOD himself commanded this in Genesis and Jesus repeated it in the book of Mathew.When you have sex with anyone,you are becoming one with such and automatically fulfilling the essence of marriage which is becoming one with whoever you have sex with.

Unfortunately, people just sleep around today in ignorance of the fact that they are fulfilling the third and most important stage of marriage. The world have been deceived by Satan to believe that marriage is when you do the paparazzi and you pay bride price and so on but all these moves are the second stage which is uniting to your spouse.

I know this article may not change the act of illicit sex but next time you open your legs to any guy or when next you sleep with any lady,just know in your heart that you are fulfilling the third stage of marriage as commanded by GOD.

I know this definitely makes sense.

Bollinger:


Lol. Ok. I hear you. *Wink. . .Wink*

YesNoMaybe:


So, if one wants a divorce, he could also break up a union with prayers? So EVERY sexual intercourse puts you under a yoke?