Practically, I am a very sensitive person; one you may say gives much attention to details. Of course, by this, you trust I am adventurous.

I have been in a relationship for about five (5) years now. And, God forgive me, I have broken his law on sexual intercourse. But I didn't have it until after 2 years of being a "naive" virgin.

But my girl wasn't. Kudos to her, she taught me all the tactics; the twist and turns that set everything in place, the "French commando" kissing style that gets virtually every lady in the mood, the touches that send the girl to the skies of sexual escapades and the positions that hit women's center of gravity and make them finally arrive the heavens of satisfaction; you may say "real cuming."

Everything was good between us. I mean, everything in the sense that, as a typical Nigerian relationship, as things progressed, with my eyes more opened, I demanded for more sex and that meant, I spent more money and did more caring. She was happy I had graduated from being a "naive virgin" to a professional "hitman" she wanted me to be when her "sexual urges" are provoked.

So, this day (Saturday to be precise), we were just warming up for our fourth round after the third; my first time of reaching this "threshold" though. The atmosphere was charged already. My body was up again. And I had begun working on her body to connect to the mood. It had just begun responding. And just there, my phone rang. Don't even guess what happened. The phone was ringing to my ears which at the time, were already deafened by her "moans" and "pleading to go easy." I had already been transfixed and to return, she would have to pull me out. It was again, the first frustration ever experienced.

After about, maybe, 5-6 times the phone rang, she reached for the phone, and, I guess, unwillingly and sluggishly said "who is on the line?" she didn't even add "please;" her usual last word when starting a telephone conversation. And then, she passed the phone over to me with that loved-up look and said "Ben, your friend." My anger grew worse. I held the phone and said nothing while the "moment spoiler" kept blabbing on the phone. I grudgingly put it on loudspeaker to smartly get my girl help me with the conversation. This will make him end the call quickly.

Next thing we heard: "Man, wadup with you!? You don't wanna talk?" And my girl said, "he's just a bit tired." I echoed my girl's voice just to conceal the mood and said, "Ben am just tired, but am listening." And then, my guy, so surprisingly excited and not even bothered to ask why I was tired, unlike him though, blew it. "Yo, man, my girl's virginity test came out this evening. Dude she's a virgin!!" Oh my goodness, I am going straight to the alter with her. Be prepared for the occasion man." I also grudgingly gave out some words. "Congrats man. Am happy for you. I will call you later." I dropped the call.

To turn to my girl, she was already enmeshed in and clothed with unimaginable anger. Her face warn that killer look. Her veins shot out. I was innocent atlest. So, I pushed to ask "baby, why is your face this way? What happened?" she returned no response. She had already started wearing (back) her clothes. After much efforts, she let it out. "Ben's girlfriend is a virgin and you tell him congratulations to that, right?" You should be preparing to get your own virgin you will go to the alter with."

That's the end. Its over two weeks now, she's still mad and doesn't wanna see my face. Nevertheless, that doesn't trouble me more than the eagerness to know why she is mad because of "a cheap virgin talk." This is a sort of common pattern one of my close friends and confidant had revealed to me non-virgin girls have been associated with.

Now, it bemoans me to ask, please, why do non-virgin ladies take offence, go off, and become somewhat unreasonably harsh when talks or claims on virginity arise? This is with the understanding that non-virgin guys never take this sort of offence.

Please, mature minds, let's talk.

Cc: Lalasticlala, farano, Rocktation

Jealousy

sorry to say...That your girl is a slut.3 Sex in just one day?
Maybe she got disflowere d in a terrible way ie incest,rape. It may so bring bad memories.
i used to be like that .

Learnstuffs:
Jealousy

you got a point from the storythe girl is loose

Funny how you spent more time on your sexual prowess than the topic itself..anyway I won't be the one to say the story sounds fake maybe the next person might.

Signed.

Vice Chairman,

Bachelors Club, Lagos Branch.

Such is life. When she was dashing out a nunu and fura anyhow, she never knew that it has economical value.. I thank God that my fiance is also a virgin.

ahh that doesn't call for jealousy maybe because of the way you sounded, ,it's only an insecure girl will flare up about that.


anyway she lost hers,,she should work on herself esteem,,

Actuarydeji:
Such is life. When she was dashing out a nunu and fura anyhow, she never knew that it has economical value.. I thank God that my fiance is also a virgin.

are you a virgin

V or no v in my life I prefer good carrater V is just another respect WORD.

QueenSekxy:

are you a virgin

Yes I am a virgin! And I have not for once try doing it, by God grace next year I will knot the tie with her.

Actuarydeji:
Yes I am a virgin! And I have not for once try doing it, by God grace next year I will knot the tie with her.

ok..congrats in addy.

The word "Virgine" make women to feel as if they make mistake in life.

The word "Virgine" made women to feel as if they make mistake in life.

jdluv:
you got a point from the storythe girl is loose

That's true. And she is being trivial too. Virginity is not an important criterion for a good relationship

God knows, i don't want to get married to a virgin. Abeg i no get time and patience to tear a sealed pvssy

1 Corinthians 99:1 thou shalt marry a virgin; no matter how much thou hath fornicated as a man.thine fornication is practice that would benefiteth thine virgin bride.

Gofwane:
God knows, i don't want to get married to a virgin. Abeg i no get time and patience to tear a sealed pvssy

"Nice Guy Finish Last" app installed successfully and operating perfectly in Gofwane's medula oblangata

Ladies and their bi-polar problems sha

Op lemme answer your question this way.
Do you know when we were kids, our parents would share biscuits or meat equally to us, then after like 15 minutes later... after we might have finished eating ours, one of our siblings "dey oversabi" one will still be licking his/her own biscuits or meat right on our faces? how do you always feel then?

That's my answer

ubunja:

"Nice Guy Finish Last" app installed successfully and operating perfectly in Gofwane's medula oblangata

wetin consine me? As she was busy giving the coochie to her ex, me too i was busy receiving the coochie from my ex so na 50/50 things nah!! Moreover, i am a firm believer of justice

Gofwane:


wetin consine me? As she was busy giving the coochie to her ex, me too i was busy receiving the coochie from my ex so na 50/50 things nah!! Moreover, i am a firm believer of justice

u misread bro.
u said virgins tire u.and i said u have been programmed to think that way.

ubunja:

u misread bro.
u said virgins tire u.and i said u have been programmed to think that way.

lol, that's me for you. I can't just come and be struggling with virgins and their wahala.

Just imagine, after your cassava don grow finish, you don harvest am and want to cook it, as you try to put the head inside the cooking pot, na so the girl go com begin dey scream as if devil bite her clit as if that is not enough, blood go com dey comot. Chai!

jdluv:
sorry to say...That your girl is a slut.3 Sex in just one day?
Maybe she got disflowere d in a terrible way ie incest,rape. It may so bring bad memories.
i used to be like that .

What on earth gave you the right to call someone's girlfriend a slut?...she had 3 rounds on that day, you probably have 10 rounds everyday..just cos you're a huge slut(like u said), doesn't mean every girl is like you..at least she still has emotions

Please, this post is targeted at spurring our reasoning in something that has become somewhat of a social stereotype.

Let us contribute in that sense; reassuring our convictions of belief in moral values and ensuring we score and take some point from the discourse....not calling my girl a slot or calling the narration fake.

Thanks all.

Although I am a writer, this is my personal story.

I m seriously looking for my virgin wife.....smiles

AjiAmu:

What on earth gave you the right to call someone's girlfriend a slut?...she had 3 rounds on that day, you probably have 10 rounds everyday..just cos you're a huge slut(like u said), doesn't mean every girl is like you..at least she still has emotions

sorry oh.drink cold water. I feel your pain, If she continue that way she will be on diapers at old age.....Leakin blader.Too muchof everything is bad.

the question is



HAVE YOU EVER THOUGHT OF TAKING HER TO THE ALTAR BEFORE

How will you feel when your teacher tells the whole class that you got zero while your best friend got ten over ten in a two man contest, that feeling you know.. Lolz. I think that's what happened to your gal.

For a man who married a Virgin girl together wit a divorcee - u can b rest assured that d virgin lady will always lay more claim to u and will b reminding u that u disvirgined her and will av more pride- cos she is d real bride, while d other is just a wife

It's guilt. Every non virgin knows that she's just not as valuable as the lady who's still untouched.

A dual carriage expressway bought for N500 in one afternoon, is not the same as a tear rubber car that took 3 years of dedication to crack.

You're better off finding a virgin for a wife. Statistically speaking a marriage is more likely to be stable, and last longer when the wife is a virgin.

In business terms, would you rather invest in a legitimate business and get your payout in the the long run. Or invest in a Ponzi scheme, make it big in the short term and crash later?.

The choice is yours.

Youngadvocate

jdluv:
sorry to say...That your girl is a slut.3 Sex in just one day?
Maybe she got disflowere d in a terrible way ie incest,rape. It may so bring bad memories.
i used to be like that .

In ur case were u raped or ur relative fvcked u?