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Narcissistic Personality Disorderliness by Nobody: 3:15pm On Dec 21, 2017
My scratch pad.I'll read this later.

Please don't read it, not for pub consumption




Narcissist -

A person with no soul. The only thing bigger than their inflated ego is the void that they demand others to fill.
The narcissist was left without an act once their puppet cut it's strings

narcissist
Someone so full of themselves that they think they can do no wrong. Believes they are always right, the best at everything and looks down on everyone else.


Narcissist
Someone who has little to no empathy, manipulates others, gaslights (makes others doubt their reality), lies incessantly, believes their own lies. They make you doubt your emotions and then call you crazy. They rage for absolutely no reason and you end up apologizing. It can be a parent, friend, brother, sister, boss, spouse. In the beginning they love bomb you into believing they are prince/princess charming. Then they slowly start to abuse you to have you believe you are insane. It's all to control you



Narcissist
1. Someone who always seems to turn the situation onto themselves. Instead of thinking about the other person they tend to focus on themselves and how they can benefit from the person or situation.

2. A person who is very good at manipulating others into doing what they want or making the other person feel that they're wrong in a situation when its clearly them. They love to make the other person feel like they're the crazy one.

3. A narcissist is someone who is arrogant, an exhibitionist, vain, manipulative, and greedy for admiration. Often caused by childhood trauma and PTSD. Narcissists do not do well with sharing, especially when it comes to relationships and friendships do to their need of attention and admiration. They crave attention and often get jealous when others receive it more than them. Narcissist cannot be helped because they usually do not know that they are narcissistic.






Narcissist
Someone who is full of themselves and think that they're bigger and better then everyone who is around them. Someone who is very self centerd and self assuard.



Narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) is a personality disorder in which there is a long-term pattern of abnormal behavior characterized by exaggerated feelings of self-importance, an excessive need for admiration, and a lack of understanding of others' feelings.[2][3] People affected by it often spend a lot of time thinking about achieving power or success, or about their appearance.[3] They often take advantage of the people around them.[3] The behavior typically begins by early adulthood, and occurs across a variety of situations.[3]






Signs and symptoms

Persons with narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) are characterized by their persistent grandiosity, excessive need for admiration, and a personal disdain for, and lack of empathy for other people.[7][8] As such, the person with NPD usually displays the behaviors of arrogance, a sense of superiority, and actively seeks to establish abusive power and control over other people.[9] Narcissistic personality disorder is a condition different from self-confidence (a strong sense of self); people with NPD typically value themselves over other persons to the extent that they openly disregard the feelings and wishes of others, and expect to be treated as superior, regardless of their actual status or achievements.[7][10] Moreover, the person with narcissistic personality disorder usually exhibits a fragile ego (Self-concept), an inability to tolerate criticism, and a tendency to belittle others in order to validate their own superiority.[10]

The DSM-5 indicates that persons with NPD usually display some or all of the following symptoms, typically without the commensurate qualities or accomplishments:[7][10]

Grandiosity with expectations of superior treatment from other people
Fixated on fantasies of power, success, intelligence, attractiveness, etc.
Self-perception of being unique, superior, and associated with high-status people and institutions
Needing continual admiration from others
Sense of entitlement to special treatment and to obedience from others
Exploitative of others to achieve personal gain
Unwilling to empathize with the feelings, wishes, and needs of other people
Intensely envious of others, and the belief that others are equally envious of them
Pompous and arrogant demeanor






Associated features

People with NPD tend to exaggerate their skills and accomplishments as well as their level of intimacy with people they consider to be high-status. Their sense of superiority may cause them to monopolize conversations[10] and to become impatient or disdainful when others talk about themselves.[7] In the course of a conversation, they may purposefully or unknowingly disparage or devalue the other person by overemphasizing their own success. When they are aware that their statements have hurt someone else, they tend to react with contempt and to view it as a sign of weakness.[7] When their own ego is wounded by a real or perceived criticism, their anger can be disproportionate to the situation,[10] but typically, their actions and responses are deliberate and calculated.





To the extent that people are pathologically narcissistic, they can be controlling, blaming, self-absorbed, intolerant of others' views, unaware of others' needs and the effects of their behavior on others, and insist that others see them as they wish to be seen.[7] Narcissistic individuals use various strategies to protect the self at the expense of others. They tend to devalue, derogate, insult and blame others, and they often respond to threatening feedback with anger and hostility.[11] Since the fragile ego of individuals with NPD is hypersensitive to perceived criticism or defeat, they are prone to feelings of shame, humiliation and worthlessness over minor or even imagined incidents.[10] They usually mask these feelings from others with feigned humility or by isolating themselves socially, or they may react with outbursts of rage, defiance, or by seeking revenge.[7][8] The merging of the "inflated self-concept" and the "actual self" is seen in the inherent grandiosity of narcissistic personality disorder. Also inherent in this process are the defense mechanisms of denial, idealization and devaluation.[12]





According to Leonard Groopman and Arnold Cooper, the following factors have been identified by various researchers as possible factors that promote the development of NPD:[21]

An oversensitive temperament (personality traits) at birth.
Excessive admiration that is never balanced with realistic feedback.
Excessive praise for good behaviors or excessive criticism for bad behaviors in childhood.
Overindulgence and overvaluation by parents, other family members, or peers.
Being praised for perceived exceptional looks or abilities by adults.
Severe emotional abuse in childhood.
Unpredictable or unreliable caregiving from parents.
Learning manipulative behaviors from parents or peers.
Valued by parents as a means to regulate their own self-esteem.




Narcissistic personality disorder is rarely the primary reason for people seeking mental health treatment. When people with NPD enter treatment, it is typically prompted by life difficulties or to seek relief from another disorder, such as major depressive disorder, substance use disorders, bipolar disorder, or eating disorders,[8] or at the insistence of relatives and friends.[citation needed] This is partly because individuals with NPD generally have poor insight and fail to recognize their perception and behavior as inappropriate and problematic due to their very positive self-image.[2]

Treatment for NPD is centered around psychotherapy.








1. a person who is overly self-involved, and often vain and selfish.


2. Psychoanalysis. a person who suffers from narcissism, deriving erotic gratification from admiration of his or her own physical or mental attributes.



The noun narcissist today means someone only concerned with his or her own interests or predicament and its origin is from Greek mythology. Narcissus was a hunter who was exceptionally beautiful and also just as proud of his looks, ignoring other people around him. He was punished by the gods by falling in love with his own reflection in a pool of water. Not realizing it was himself he loved, he eventually died from unrequited love.

The noun narcissist refers to someone intensely concerned with only his or her own self or interests and who seems to forget that others exist.





Narcissistic personality disorder — one of several types of personality disorders — is a mental condition in which people have an inflated sense of their own importance, a deep need for excessive attention and admiration, troubled relationships, and a lack of empathy for others.




t the same time, people with narcissistic personality disorder have trouble handling anything they perceive as criticism, and they can:

Become impatient or angry when they don't receive special treatment
Have significant interpersonal problems and easily feel slighted
React with rage or contempt and try to belittle the other person to make themselves appear superior
Have difficulty regulating emotions and behavior
Experience major problems dealing with stress and adapting to change
Feel depressed and moody because they fall short of perfection
Have secret feelings of insecurity, shame, vulnerability and humiliation





Complications

Complications of narcissistic personality disorder, and other conditions that can occur along with it, can include:

Relationship difficulties
Problems at work or school
Depression and anxiety
Physical health problems
Drug or alcohol misuse
Suicidal thoughts or behavior






Narcissism, in lay terms, basically means that a person is totally absorbed in self. The extreme narcissist is the center of his own universe. To an extreme narcissist, people are things to be used. It usually starts with a significant emotional wound or a series of them culminating in a major trauma of separation/attachment. No matter how socially skilled an extreme narcissist is, he has a major attachment dysfunction. The extreme narcissist is frozen in childhood. He became emotionally stuck at the time of his major trauma of separation/attachment.







In my work with extreme narcissist patients I have found that their emotional age and maturity corresponds to the age they experienced their major trauma. This trauma was devastating to the point it almost killed that person emotionally. The pain never was totally gone and the bleeding was continuous. In order to survive, this child had to construct a protective barrier that insulates him/her from the external world of people. He generalized that all people are harmful and cannot be trusted.

The protective insulation barrier he constructed is called a false persona. He created a false identity. This identity is not the true person inside. The many types of false personas or identities that an extreme narcissist creates can vary.







Some narcissists may have the ability to change into a variety of identities according to the situation. The wounded child inside may choose to present a front as a “bad ass” and tough individual. He may look, by appearance, intimidating and scary to the average person. He could also play the “nice guy/person” whom everyone likes. A corporate type version can be one that is diplomatic, proper, and appearing to care but in reality does not. Another very likeable extreme narcissist can be the one that chooses the comedian role. He is the life of the party and has everyone in stitches, making them laugh constantly. Everyone wants to include this person because they are a lot of fun.

Try to get close or ask personal questions as to how he is internally doing and feeling and you will find is that he will quickly distract you. They will sidestep the question with another joke, making you suddenly forget what you were asking. Narcissists can be very skilled at dodging and ducking personal questions. If you press them, they will then slot you as “unsafe” and will begin to avoid you and exclude you from their life.




There is also the success oriented narcissist. She will be your friend and keep you close to her as long as you are useful. Once you do not have anything more to offer and she has taken all they wanted from you, you are history. You are no longer desired, wanted, or sought.

I remember a significant half dozen of these in my life. One narcissist in particular avoids me like the plague because he knows that I do not ultimately plan my life around whether people like me or not. Hence my behavior cannot be controlled by him. He is threatened by my self-assuredness. I’m not safe to him. It does not matter that I have helped him in critical moments of his life. When he realized that he could not control me to make him look good when I was with him, he dropped me like a heavy weight. I received no more phone calls and was taken off his radar screen.




Another extreme narcissist stopped calling me when I got my Ph.D. I believe that, in his insecurity, he could no longer look “better” than me and be the focal person. As a result, he felt threatened that I had a more powerful image than he did. I think it is silly because I do not care about whether people have degrees to validate their intrinsic value as a human being.

In my ministerial past, I have had several colleagues that I considered to be like blood brothers. We had sworn honesty and loyalty to each other. Once I opened up my weaknesses to them and then asked them to reciprocate, they looked for excuses to label me and reject me. The more I pressed them about their lack of being forthcoming and failing at their own promise of commitment to the friendship, the more vehement they became at avoiding disclosure of their warts to me. Of course, I already knew many of their flaws and already had no problem accepting them. Now it was their turn and they shut down and put up the thick wall.

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Re: Narcissistic Personality Disorderliness by Nobody: 3:15pm On Dec 21, 2017
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How to Spot a Narcissist
By Samuel López De Victoria, Ph.D.
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How to Spot a Narcissist

At the core of extreme narcissism is egotistical preoccupation with self, personal preferences, aspirations, needs, success, and how he/she is perceived by others. Some amount of basic narcissism is healthy, of course, but this type of narcissism is better termed as responsibly taking care of oneself. It is what I would call “normal” or “healthy” narcissism.

Extreme narcissists tend to be persons who move towards eventually cutting others off and becoming emotionally isolated. There are all types of levels on that road to isolation. Narcissists come in all shapes, sizes, and degrees. I would like to address how a person becomes an extreme narcissist.

Narcissism, in lay terms, basically means that a person is totally absorbed in self. The extreme narcissist is the center of his own universe. To an extreme narcissist, people are things to be used. It usually starts with a significant emotional wound or a series of them culminating in a major trauma of separation/attachment. No matter how socially skilled an extreme narcissist is, he has a major attachment dysfunction. The extreme narcissist is frozen in childhood. He became emotionally stuck at the time of his major trauma of separation/attachment.
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In my work with extreme narcissist patients I have found that their emotional age and maturity corresponds to the age they experienced their major trauma. This trauma was devastating to the point it almost killed that person emotionally. The pain never was totally gone and the bleeding was continuous. In order to survive, this child had to construct a protective barrier that insulates him/her from the external world of people. He generalized that all people are harmful and cannot be trusted.

The protective insulation barrier he constructed is called a false persona. He created a false identity. This identity is not the true person inside. The many types of false personas or identities that an extreme narcissist creates can vary.

Some narcissists may have the ability to change into a variety of identities according to the situation. The wounded child inside may choose to present a front as a “bad ass” and tough individual. He may look, by appearance, intimidating and scary to the average person. He could also play the “nice guy/person” whom everyone likes. A corporate type version can be one that is diplomatic, proper, and appearing to care but in reality does not. Another very likeable extreme narcissist can be the one that chooses the comedian role. He is the life of the party and has everyone in stitches, making them laugh constantly. Everyone wants to include this person because they are a lot of fun.

Try to get close or ask personal questions as to how he is internally doing and feeling and you will find is that he will quickly distract you. They will sidestep the question with another joke, making you suddenly forget what you were asking. Narcissists can be very skilled at dodging and ducking personal questions. If you press them, they will then slot you as “unsafe” and will begin to avoid you and exclude you from their life.

There is also the success oriented narcissist. She will be your friend and keep you close to her as long as you are useful. Once you do not have anything more to offer and she has taken all they wanted from you, you are history. You are no longer desired, wanted, or sought.

I remember a significant half dozen of these in my life. One narcissist in particular avoids me like the plague because he knows that I do not ultimately plan my life around whether people like me or not. Hence my behavior cannot be controlled by him. He is threatened by my self-assuredness. I’m not safe to him. It does not matter that I have helped him in critical moments of his life. When he realized that he could not control me to make him look good when I was with him, he dropped me like a heavy weight. I received no more phone calls and was taken off his radar screen.
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Another extreme narcissist stopped calling me when I got my Ph.D. I believe that, in his insecurity, he could no longer look “better” than me and be the focal person. As a result, he felt threatened that I had a more powerful image than he did. I think it is silly because I do not care about whether people have degrees to validate their intrinsic value as a human being.

In my ministerial past, I have had several colleagues that I considered to be like blood brothers. We had sworn honesty and loyalty to each other. Once I opened up my weaknesses to them and then asked them to reciprocate, they looked for excuses to label me and reject me. The more I pressed them about their lack of being forthcoming and failing at their own promise of commitment to the friendship, the more vehement they became at avoiding disclosure of their warts to me. Of course, I already knew many of their flaws and already had no problem accepting them. Now it was their turn and they shut down and put up the thick wall.

This is what genuine narcissists do. This is sad but it happens all the time with individuals that are scared to go down the road to becoming whole and healthy. It is like going under the knife of a surgeon. When there is a legitimate organic threat as with a malignant tumor, it can be hard to submit to the truth and then the treatment. This, however, is a door to a better life.

Is there hope for an extreme narcissist living in an emotional and relational fort of isolation. Is a narcissist able to have a healthy life? Definitely! I’ve seen many extreme narcissists become extremely healthy in their emotional and relational life. The first step is to find competent and safe help that knows how to heal emotional traumas. Just because a counselor may have all kinds of credentials it does not mean they are competent in dealing effectively with trauma issues. Because extreme narcissists tend to have an early history of emotional wounds they are full of distrust. If they can get past this hurdle then they can begin to find help to heal.









Second, extreme narcissists have to be willing to enter the realm of their feelings again. They have been the masters of covering and hiding, even to themselves. They now have to start uncovering painful wounds. They have taught themselves to stuff and disconnect their own feelings for years. Because of this, they tend to live inside their heads, in the realm of so called reason. They are likely to live in the world of rational principles, laws, rules, which are all linear. This domain is a realm they feel they can control. It is devoid of feelings. The realm of the heart or feelings is very intimidating and unsafe to them because it is non-linear and there is very little control of the outcomes. If extreme narcissists can overcome these two hurdles then there is much hope for them. They are on their road to healing.




What is Narcissism?

A pattern of traits and behaviors which signify infatuation and obsession with one's self to the exclusion of all others and the egotistic and ruthless pursuit of one's gratification, dominance and ambition.



The onset of narcissism is in infancy, childhood and early adolescence. It is commonly attributed to childhood abuse and trauma inflicted by parents, authority figures, or even peers.

There is a whole range of narcissistic reactions - from the mild, reactive and transient to the permanent personality disorder.

Narcissists are either "Cerebral" (derive their narcissistic supply from their intelligence or academic achievements) - or "Somatic" (derive their narcissistic supply from their physique, exercise, physical or sexual prowess and "conquests"wink.




An all-pervasive pattern of grandiosity (in fantasy or behaviour), need for admiration or adulation and lack of empathy, usuallybeginning by early adulthood and present in various contexts. Five (or more) of the following criteria must be met:

Feels grandiose and self-important (e.g., exaggerates achievements and talents to the point of lying, demands to be recognized as superior without commensurate achievements)

Is obsessed with fantasies of unlimited success, fame, fearsome power or omnipotence, unequalled brilliance (the cerebral narcissist), bodily beauty or sexual performance (the somatic narcissist), or ideal, everlasting, all-conquering love or passion

Firmly convinced that he or she is unique and, being special, can only be understood by, should only be treated by, or associate with, other special or unique, or high-status people (or institutions)

Requires excessive admiration, adulation, attention and affirmation - or, failing that, wishes to be feared and to be notorious (narcissistic supply)

Feels entitled. Expects unreasonable or special and favorable priority treatment. Demands automatic and full compliance with his or her expectations

Is "interpersonally exploitative", i.e., uses others to achieve his or her own ends

Devoid of empathy. Is unable or unwilling to identify with or acknowledge the feelings and needs of others

Constantly envious of others or believes that they feel the same about him or her

Arrogant, haughty behaviours or attitudes coupled with rage when frustrated, contradicted, or confronted
Re: Narcissistic Personality Disorderliness by Blackhawk03(f): 3:36pm On Dec 21, 2017
Not for public consumption and you pasted it here, a forum?

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Re: Narcissistic Personality Disorderliness by Draei: 3:40pm On Dec 21, 2017
I don't read long episodes, neeexxxxt!
Re: Narcissistic Personality Disorderliness by Nobody: 3:40pm On Dec 21, 2017
Blackhawk03:
Not for public consumption and you pasted it here, a forum?


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Re: Narcissistic Personality Disorderliness by Nobody: 3:44pm On Dec 21, 2017
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Re: Narcissistic Personality Disorderliness by makydebbie(f): 3:44pm On Dec 21, 2017
bluetrails7:



Romola tabi ki lopera e, Silifa, o da bi m po re e... Lo gba head tongue
Supersystemsnig?
Re: Narcissistic Personality Disorderliness by ubunja(m): 3:44pm On Dec 21, 2017
do u know how to be a good writer?

1.read deeply about a topic
2.internalize the knowledge
3.write it as a summary IN YOUR OWN WORDS.so that u can put it in THE BEST WAY YOU KNOW YOUR LOCAL AUDANCE WILL UNDERSTAND IT.

good subject thou.

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Re: Narcissistic Personality Disorderliness by Nobody: 3:44pm On Dec 21, 2017
makydebbie:
Supersystemsnig?


What i do now? tongue
Re: Narcissistic Personality Disorderliness by Nobody: 3:45pm On Dec 21, 2017
ubunja:
do u know how to be a good writer?

1.read deeply about a topic
2.internalize the knowledge
3.write it as a summary IN YOUR OWN WORDS.so that u can put it in THE BEST WAY YOU KNOW YOUR LOCAL AUDANCE WILL UNDERSTAND IT.

good subject thou.

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Re: Narcissistic Personality Disorderliness by Blackhawk03(f): 3:48pm On Dec 21, 2017
makydebbie:
Supersystemsnig?

I'm as shocked as you, Debz. He once vehemently denied understanding Yoruba let alone being able to write it so well...
Re: Narcissistic Personality Disorderliness by Nobody: 3:49pm On Dec 21, 2017
Blackhawk03:


I'm as shocked as you, Debz. He once vehemently denied understanding Yoruba let alone being able to write it so well...


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Re: Narcissistic Personality Disorderliness by makydebbie(f): 3:52pm On Dec 21, 2017
Blackhawk03:


I'm as shocked as you, Debz. He once vehemently denied understanding Yoruba let alone being able to write it so well...
Hmmm...
I know why I quoted him sha. Lol we go talk for office. grin

bluetrails7:



What i do now? tongue
Nothing, carry on.
Re: Narcissistic Personality Disorderliness by Dramadiddy(m): 3:54pm On Dec 21, 2017
in summary.. a narcissistic person is very terrible and can tear your life apart

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Re: Narcissistic Personality Disorderliness by Nobody: 3:54pm On Dec 21, 2017
makydebbie:
Hmmm...
I know why I quoted him sha. Lol we go talk for office. grin


Nothing, carry on.


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Re: Narcissistic Personality Disorderliness by Nobody: 3:55pm On Dec 21, 2017
Dramadiddy:
in summary.. a narcissistic person is very terrible and can tear your life apart



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Re: Narcissistic Personality Disorderliness by eezeribe(m): 3:58pm On Dec 21, 2017
Nice work... I read it to the end...

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Re: Narcissistic Personality Disorderliness by makydebbie(f): 3:58pm On Dec 21, 2017
bluetrails7:



I just seem to be irresistible that you can't do without talking about me or quoting me abi... tongue Who knows, if your papi na paito for Canaanland at any time, e fit be person i fit know self...
Lol maybe. You can count Ghanaian pastors there.
Re: Narcissistic Personality Disorderliness by Nobody: 4:02pm On Dec 21, 2017
makydebbie:
Lol maybe. You can count Ghanaian pastors there.


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Re: Narcissistic Personality Disorderliness by Blackhawk03(f): 4:02pm On Dec 21, 2017
bluetrails7:



Oya me le nu fun e o. I aced yoruba back in school, with green colours. Look at you... Ikenne mo ti da gba... Shioor

When did i ever denied understanding yoruba ?

I write, read and can speak yoruba perfectly aunti romoke...

And you think I'm surprised you're coming up with this? Lol

makydebbie:
Hmmm...
I know why I quoted him sha. Lol we go talk for office. grin


Nothing, carry on.

Lol. You sef don dey talk office? Hahahaha cheesy grin cheesy
Re: Narcissistic Personality Disorderliness by Nobody: 4:02pm On Dec 21, 2017
eezeribe:
Nice work... I read it to the end...

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Re: Narcissistic Personality Disorderliness by Nobody: 4:03pm On Dec 21, 2017
Blackhawk03:


And you think I'm surprised you're coming up with this? Lol



Lol. You sef don dey talk office? Hahahaha cheesy grin cheesy



...So...?
Re: Narcissistic Personality Disorderliness by makydebbie(f): 4:11pm On Dec 21, 2017
bluetrails7:



At Darkhuma orAccra?

You will be shocked...

Omo Pastor that loves head tongue
I'm talking about Nigeria tho, at sango Ota. My dad and elder brother were pastors there and were quite popular so I won't be surprised if you know any of them.

I shall be the head and not the tail na.
Re: Narcissistic Personality Disorderliness by Dramadiddy(m): 4:12pm On Dec 21, 2017
bluetrails7:




Not sure, i'm studying this subject deeply at the moment,i'm yet to reach deeper/concrete conclusion
i have had a personal experience thats why im saying that
Re: Narcissistic Personality Disorderliness by ubunja(m): 4:13pm On Dec 21, 2017
bluetrails7:
Big dawg Ubunja, what do you have to say to this?
your kind words are welcome.
as for the subject matter its a very curious one coz Narcissism is part of what is known as "The Dark Triad". thats 3 character traits that make up the personality of the BadBoy. the other 2 are Machiavellianism and Psychopathy.they are called "Dark" coz to possess them is to be somehow dangerous.
Narcissism is basically pride , inflated ego, arrogance and lack of empathy and sympathy.the source of that " I dont give a fvck" attitude that badboys have. and that " fvck the world" sentiment rappers exude thats so bad yet is appealing.Kanye West has plenty of that trait.
Machiavellianism is basically the gift of manipulation, exploitation, deception and persuation.that ability to sell snow to the eskimo.that ability to get a married woman to act out her dirtiest fantasies on u secretly.being able to charm the panties off any female.Conmen have this trait in bucketfuls.
Psychopathy is being anti-social and remorseless.think of the Joker from Batman.dead conscience.rebel without a cause.

the BadBoy is unstoppable with this unholy trinity of traits. in life they make u a failure and will cost u professionally and socially.but they are a pvssy magnet.women find men with these traits irresistable
cheers.

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Re: Narcissistic Personality Disorderliness by makydebbie(f): 4:13pm On Dec 21, 2017
Blackhawk03:


And you think I'm surprised you're coming up with this? Lol



Lol. You sef don dey talk office? Hahahaha cheesy grin cheesy
Lol, I don reply.
Re: Narcissistic Personality Disorderliness by Blackhawk03(f): 4:17pm On Dec 21, 2017
bluetrails7:



Coming up with my research subject or writing in yoruba?

La a o ko ye mi, yam not understanding you

If it pertains my research subject then...I hate to inform you that I'm not fixated on trivial issues. That you've been following up on me on social emdia doesn't mean you know me technically. I love new paths, difficult terrains,difficulty turns me on, and i'm researching into a subject that i knew next to nothing about deeply before now, i don't see how it relates with you in anyway. Trust me, i'm not in your lane...

Hrd nuts to crack and difficulty turns me on, so i'm taking my research into this terrain...

...So...?

Stop running your mouth like a loose tap and shut it! What's my business with your joblessness induced research? Me? Follow you up on SM? Have you gone nutts again? You don't want to be noticed? Yet, you create threads non stop. You dinnur haff sense undecided undecided

Anyways, I was referring to your sudden knowledge of the Yoruba language. Oniro oshi. undecided
Re: Narcissistic Personality Disorderliness by Blackhawk03(f): 4:22pm On Dec 21, 2017
makydebbie:
Lol, I don reply.

You no well ahswear grin cheesy grin
Re: Narcissistic Personality Disorderliness by Nobody: 4:23pm On Dec 21, 2017
Blackhawk03:


Stop running your mouth like a loose tap and shut it! What's my business with your joblessness induced research? Me? Follow you up on SM? Have you gone nutts again? You don't want to be noticed? Yet, you create threads non stop. You dinnur haff sense undecided undecided

Anyways, I was referring to your sudden knowledge of the Yoruba language. Oniro oshi. undecided



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Re: Narcissistic Personality Disorderliness by Nobody: 4:25pm On Dec 21, 2017
ubunja:

your kind words are welcome.
as for the subject matter its a very curious one coz Narcissism is part of what is known as "The Dark Triad". thats 3 character traits that make up the personality of the BadBoy. the other 2 are Machiavellianism and Psychopathy.they are called "Dark" coz to possess them is to be somehow dangerous.
Narcissism is basically pride , inflated ego, arrogance and lack of empathy and sympathy.the source of that " I dont give a fvck" attitude that badboys have. and that " fvck the world" sentiment rappers exude thats so bad yet is appealing.Kanye West has plenty of that trait.
Machiavellianism is basically the gift of manipulation, exploitation, deception and persuation.that ability to sell snow to the eskimo.that ability to get a married woman to act out her dirtiest fantasies on u secretly.being able to charm the panties off any female.Conmen have this trait in bucketfuls.
Psychopathy is being anti-social and remorseless.think of the Joker from Batman.dead conscience.rebel without a cause.

the BadBoy is unstoppable with this unholy trinity of traits. in life they make u a failure and will cost u professionally and socially.but they are a pvssy magnet.women find men with these traits irresistable
cheers.


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Re: Narcissistic Personality Disorderliness by ubunja(m): 4:50pm On Dec 21, 2017
bluetrails7:




Thanks.You're a repository of solid intel.

What do you make up of women that have perfected all these traits just as bad ass guys? The ultimate dead weapon?
NO BOSS. here is the thing: WOMEN ARE LIKE THAT BY NATURE. the Dark Traid is their Factory Setting.
just give them power and u will see blood flow on the streets.for now they have limited power but just look how easy and cold-hearted they are murdering those in their power:they abort millions of babies a year coz "my body, my choice" or "im not ready" or "its not the right time". (the irony being that men are the ones actually fighting abortion to save unborn babies.its so funny) . check how baby boys worldwide are having their foreskins chopped off coz "it looks so much better cut" ( can u say vain?) just look at the Social Media world thats powered by Female Ego.from Instagram to snapchat to Facebook.its a show-off epidemic.
look at how 80% of men are manipulated into being Nice Guys that can only be turned on sexually by huge used breasts and huge shaky a$ses.show these same men the body of a nubile teen virgin with perky breasts and their erections fall.
women are Dark Triad by birth.
but to be fair, its their mother ( mother - nature ) controlling them by their pvssies to fullfil the goals of Evolution and Natural Selection and that whole Survival of the Fittest business.they have to be cold to ensure only the best genes get reproduced.

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Re: Narcissistic Personality Disorderliness by Nobody: 4:56pm On Dec 21, 2017
ubunja:

NO BOSS. here is the thing: WOMEN ARE LIKE THAT BY NATURE. the Dark Traid is their Factory Setting.
just give them power and u will see blood flow on the streets.for now they have limited power but just look how easy and cold-hearted they are murdering those in their power:they abort millions of babies a year coz "my body, my choice" or "im not ready" or "its not the right time". (the irony being that men are the ones actually fighting abortion to save unborn babies.its so funny) . check how baby boys worldwide are having their foreskins chopped off coz "it looks so much better cut" ( can u say vain?) just look at the Social Media world thats powered by Female Ego.from Instagram to snapchat to Facebook.its a show-off epidemic.
look at how 80% of men are manipulated into being Nice Guys that can only be turned on sexually by huge used breasts and huge shaky a$ses.show these same men the body of a nubile teen virgin with perky breasts and their erections fall.
women are Dark Triad by birth.
but to be fair, its their mother ( mother - nature ) controlling them by their pvssies to fullfil the goals of Evolution and Natural Selection and that whole Survival of the Fittest business.they have to be cold to ensure only the best genes get reproduced.


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