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Toaskarity:
https://www.nairaland.com/4245542/stop-dont-view-blue-film

That topic made it to front page but the content made no sense.


That is a lie you just made up. If i ask why you come up with this? most likely you answer will be how you know a man that was watching porn and the wife left him bla bla bla. but then if i tell you i know a man that watch porn and still have a happy marriage, i bet you say I'm lying lol. let me don't waste time on this cos there are so many bullsh^^it you wrote that need some answer.


what! what does this even mean? let me go by your brain logic. if Guinness staut is not harmful why doesn't the company encourage children to drink it. wait what did i just say, I'm confusing myself


This is a great question and it caught my attention to reply to this thread? I will try to explain, hopefully you comprehend but if you did not. Hopefully it help other readers.
The reason for secretely watching porn is because of shame and guilt. we feel guilt about something we did and we feel shame for something we are. Both feelings are connected to messages and expectations of others !
I made that bold, hopefully you comprehend by now but i will keep going incase you dont. If you are reading this now, I bet you have seen a naked 4 years or younger, have you ever wondered why they are not ashamed to be naked. We learn to be ashamed because our parent told us to and their parent told them etc. No one is born feeling shame... Now this is where it get complicated and I'm crossing my fingers that you do comprehend. one of the lies we are told is that sexuality is natural and there is biological drive that lead us to feel, think and act in particular sexual way. If you believe this which most people do, it follows that when you view porn, then the belief "natures way" in that it is wrong which feels one with shame. This a very common thinking other than the fact that religion and tradition encourage us to believe this, there is no truth to it. Nature has nothing to do with it. Our shame about porn or even sex begins not within inside but from outside of us. We are told that some kind of sexual activity are ok but others are wrong that not wanting any sex is unhealthy, that too much pleasure is wrong, that being too open about sex is a sign of a problem. I can go on and on but if at this point you dont comprehend, I cant help anymore. I hope you see why people view porn secretly.


acting them out? do you have issues with people having sex if so then I think you just a jealous male that need to get laid. now the rest of the sentence doesn't make sense. In fact everything else you wrote is trash and i suggest you leave it for lawma.

To other readers, I am not encouraging watching porn either especially most of you who have a biblical or any other religious view. If this guy has just said dont watch porn because Jesus or bible or his pastor said so I wont even made this reply infact I wont even read it all lol.

My sincere opinion if you do watch porn is to never feel less of a person or ashamed, also you are not alone either. Porn websites are the most visited in very part of the world from USA to the most religious region in middle east. If you desire porn go for it brothers! but just like anything on earth dont let it take over you.

People qatch porn secretly is because, it is a sexual act. Sexual acts are never done in the open. Watching porn inane public place is almost like having sex in the open. Watching porn at times can elicit the same response as the one engaging in it. Not everyone can control themselves when viewing porn

prettyzee11:
To me watching porn is just like watching any other series, just b sure not to b addicted to watching it just as d writter adviced. If you don't like it stay away don't force others to do same.

Do you watch it? How often do you watch it? What is the effect on you after watching?

Bollinger:
Guy, where is the research to back up that theory? It is not porn that make people cheat. It is the lack of character and resolve that does that. Even before the advent of porn people who have wanted to cheat on their partners have done so. What would have been the excuse then?

Can porn influence your character? What is the difference between porn and voyeurism? What is the difference between porn and Swingers sex?

Lol.thank God Nija don't act such ,but praise God most high school Ghana never get the clue acting it if not both adults and babies go day watch ,,,this Ghana movie industry will not kill us

More porn, more masturbation.......more porn, more desire to have sex (if not controlled, could lead to rape)

wow this made it to front page. This is great lol. I will really like to answer some of yall question. I see some post that deserve reply and i will answer because I'm jobless like some said

na wa o

legendte:

VIPERVENOM:
hmm

That's not Mia Khalifa.
It's just a child in glasses .

lamest excuse of a rejoinder

ritababe:
some guys are not smiling

ritababe, when we u give me that ... No am shy to say it.

Is there anything good or moral about adults having sex, recording it and having it sold for people's consumption? Posts like this make you actually believe the world has lost its moral sense.

Junny04:
More porn, more masturbation.......more porn, more desire to have sex (if not controlled, could lead to rape)

Let me start with you lol.. I actually agree with you that more porn, more desire for sex BUT you get it sooo wrong with rape.

Do you know twice more rapes happen in india villages than their cities, and I can bet my money that same can be said of Nigeria as well but you know we too ashamed to talk of this things. I am sure you know that cities have more access to internet( porn) than villages. why isn't more rape in cities? hold on to that thought.
Again lets apply your logic to life. More work, more money..........more money, more desire for more money ( if not controlled, could lead to murder)
I will wait for your reply on this so that i can end you lol

cantok:
Blue film can create unreal fantasies that will be demanded form future sexual partners, this is harmful when the expectations are not met

has nothing to do with porn,people have different level of sex drive,.if yours is high and you settle for a partner with low then you two has to talk about it and find a common ground nothing to be ashamed of.

its only Nigeria that don't talk sex both dating and married so each acts to fill der personal desire individually leading to cheating

bottom line,know your partner and be their other half

#this is for all sha

legendte:

Can something be good and bad?

My concern is the addiction. Some could be very educative but have the potential to ruin you.

You just said something only the wise and the discerning will understand .The Bible knows this ...
Ecclesiastes 12:12 And further, by these, my son, be admonished: of making many books there is no end; and much study is a weariness of the flesh.

...and yes, something can be good and later become bad when addiction and abuse step in . In fact, everything good in excess is bad

realfitbodyng:
I don't know why this was pushed to frontpage, but because someone said something that does not fit your perspective doesn't mean it's a lie, if the guy said porn has destroyed so many families by making men cheat because they always want more, then you have no right to say he is a liar because your friend who masturbates to porn daily is still with his wife. You cannot compare 100 bad cases to one good case.

In Other News
This Is The Kind Of Porn Women Are Secretly Watching
www.realfitbody.com/2017/10/this-is-kind-of-porn-women-are-secretly.html

The other op was wrong in his post because most things in life are good for some and bad for some. It may not be 50/50 all the time, it is wrong to generalize that because something is bad to some people, we dont go all out against it.

I have seen porn since i was a teenager, i am not particularly captivated by watching it and doesnot cause any harm or make me feel like trying it.

I know for sure that it is recommended for some couples especially when their sex life is bad. If my wife doesnt know how to have sex or participate in the act, i will find good porn for her to watch and learn.

Masturbation is more of the dangerous one. Even this one helps some people but has more side effect.

prettyzee11:
To me watching porn is just like watching any other series, just b sure not to b addicted to watching it just as d writter adviced. If you don't like it stay away don't force others to do same.

Porn is not like any other series.
Porn promotes sexual immorality
Porn portrays women's as nothing more than sex objects
Porn promotes sexual acts that are not real making viewers to be mostly sexual unfulfilled in the quest to mimic porn stars
Porn reduces work productivity in people as viewer tend think over instead of productive ideas
It is obscene that is why people hide and do it
God's word condemns it

My perspective

ritababe:
some guys are not smiling

babe, na so you don forget me reach? How body nah

I even preferred the former thread.
Lemme keep visiting My forum abeg!

Toaskarity:
https://www.nairaland.com/4245542/stop-dont-view-blue-film

That topic made it to front page but the content made no sense.


That is a lie you just made up. If i ask why you come up with this? most likely you answer will be how you know a man that was watching porn and the wife left him bla bla bla. but then if i tell you i know a man that watch porn and still have a happy marriage, i bet you say I'm lying lol. let me don't waste time on this cos there are so many bullsh^^it you wrote that need some answer.


what! what does this even mean? let me go by your brain logic. if Guinness staut is not harmful why doesn't the company encourage children to drink it. wait what did i just say, I'm confusing myself


This is a great question and it caught my attention to reply to this thread? I will try to explain, hopefully you comprehend but if you did not. Hopefully it help other readers.
The reason for secretely watching porn is because of shame and guilt. we feel guilt about something we did and we feel shame for something we are. Both feelings are connected to messages and expectations of others !
I made that bold, hopefully you comprehend by now but i will keep going incase you dont. If you are reading this now, I bet you have seen a naked 4 years or younger, have you ever wondered why they are not ashamed to be naked. We learn to be ashamed because our parent told us to and their parent told them etc. No one is born feeling shame... Now this is where it get complicated and I'm crossing my fingers that you do comprehend. one of the lies we are told is that sexuality is natural and there is biological drive that lead us to feel, think and act in particular sexual way. If you believe this which most people do, it follows that when you view porn, then the belief "natures way" in that it is wrong which feels one with shame. This a very common thinking other than the fact that religion and tradition encourage us to believe this, there is no truth to it. Nature has nothing to do with it. Our shame about porn or even sex begins not within inside but from outside of us. We are told that some kind of sexual activity are ok but others are wrong that not wanting any sex is unhealthy, that too much pleasure is wrong, that being too open about sex is a sign of a problem. I can go on and on but if at this point you dont comprehend, I cant help anymore. I hope you see why people view porn secretly.


acting them out? do you have issues with people having sex if so then I think you just a jealous male that need to get laid. now the rest of the sentence doesn't make sense. In fact everything else you wrote is trash and i suggest you leave it for lawma.

To other readers, I am not encouraging watching porn either especially most of you who have a biblical or any other religious view. If this guy has just said dont watch porn because Jesus or bible or his pastor said so I wont even made this reply infact I wont even read it all lol.

My sincere opinion if you do watch porn is to never feel less of a person or ashamed, also you are not alone either. Porn websites are the most visited in very part of the world from USA to the most religious region in middle east. If you desire porn go for it brothers! but just like anything on earth dont let it take over you.

You obviously are pained or feel guilty, better still indicted about this porn issue. Cos I dnt understand why in trying to give ur own contrary opinion u will call the OP a liar or call his/her own opinion trash or nonsense.
By the way, mind ur tenses and grammatical construction next time.

Sammypedro18:
Well...I'm not a fan of pornography but I don't see any harm in it except when it becomes an addiction.......... You could learn one or two bed skills from porns

It will always lead to addiction @ the end

When a conservative partner is finding it difficult to learn the skills the other partner will be tempted to try it outside.

Finally, watching pornography means supporting those engaged in the act most for money. However, none of us will want a family member engaged in such an act.

Toaskarity:
https://www.nairaland.com/4245542/stop-dont-view-blue-film

That topic made it to front page but the content made no sense.


That is a lie you just made up. If i ask why you come up with this? most likely you answer will be how you know a man that was watching porn and the wife left him bla bla bla. but then if i tell you i know a man that watch porn and still have a happy marriage, i bet you say I'm lying lol. let me don't waste time on this cos there are so many bullsh^^it you wrote that need some answer.


what! what does this even mean? let me go by your brain logic. if Guinness staut is not harmful why doesn't the company encourage children to drink it. wait what did i just say, I'm confusing myself


This is a great question and it caught my attention to reply to this thread? I will try to explain, hopefully you comprehend but if you did not. Hopefully it help other readers.
The reason for secretely watching porn is because of shame and guilt. we feel guilt about something we did and we feel shame for something we are. Both feelings are connected to messages and expectations of others !
I made that bold, hopefully you comprehend by now but i will keep going incase you dont. If you are reading this now, I bet you have seen a naked 4 years or younger, have you ever wondered why they are not ashamed to be naked. We learn to be ashamed because our parent told us to and their parent told them etc. No one is born feeling shame... Now this is where it get complicated and I'm crossing my fingers that you do comprehend. one of the lies we are told is that sexuality is natural and there is biological drive that lead us to feel, think and act in particular sexual way. If you believe this which most people do, it follows that when you view porn, then the belief "natures way" in that it is wrong which feels one with shame. This a very common thinking other than the fact that religion and tradition encourage us to believe this, there is no truth to it. Nature has nothing to do with it. Our shame about porn or even sex begins not within inside but from outside of us. We are told that some kind of sexual activity are ok but others are wrong that not wanting any sex is unhealthy, that too much pleasure is wrong, that being too open about sex is a sign of a problem. I can go on and on but if at this point you dont comprehend, I cant help anymore. I hope you see why people view porn secretly.


acting them out? do you have issues with people having sex if so then I think you just a jealous male that need to get laid. now the rest of the sentence doesn't make sense. In fact everything else you wrote is trash and i suggest you leave it for lawma.

To other readers, I am not encouraging watching porn either especially most of you who have a biblical or any other religious view. If this guy has just said dont watch porn because Jesus or bible or his pastor said so I wont even made this reply infact I wont even read it all lol.

My sincere opinion if you do watch porn is to never feel less of a person or ashamed, also you are not alone either. Porn websites are the most visited in very part of the world from USA to the most religious region in middle east. If you desire porn go for it brothers! but just like anything on earth dont let it take over you.

I don't argue with those who watch porn. IF you finally decide to stop (sooner or later) you will understand why it's so condemned afterall.
Experience teaches best and everybody's experience must be peculiar to him/her.
Meanwhile, enjoy while it 'doesn't last'.

Gloriao:
Not all porn carry the same context. Some are rough. Shows no sign of pre-intimacy. This has greatly destroyed some marriages whereby the female spouse require a high level of pre-intimacy before being turned on.

If only some men would understand what exactly their spouses need, they should overlook rough sex and make their women happy

There are two sides of a coin, whilst some do not like rough sex, some ladies won't settle for anything less. Though I prefer both partners communicating without boundary as to what he/she prefers or likes during, before and even after d act of mating to ensure optimum pleasure is achieved or close to that

ejibaba:
It will always lead to addiction @ the end

When a conservative partner is finding it difficult to learn the skills the other partner will be tempted to try it outside.

Finally, watching pornography means supporting those engaged in the act most for money. However, none of us will want a family member engaged in such an act

Yeah, it'll almost definitely lead to addiction...do you know some marriage counselors advice pornography for some couples? I'm just saying it can be advantageous too

Ginaz:
This is so immature. coming from a male just makes it worst! What's the meaning now?

Thats because......



















Wait for it......
















Wait for it.....


















.

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U stil waiting....?





















Weldone mature gal...izit ur immaturity?....carry ur aunty aunty self else wia pls


Man's not hot....

streamsofjoy:
You obviously are pained or feel guilty, better still indicted about this porn issue. Cos I dnt understand why in trying to give ur own contrary opinion u will call the OP a liar or call his/her own opinion trash or nonsense.
By the way, mind ur tenses and grammatical construction next time.

Lmao I am so hurt by your post. I nearly broke down in tears awww .... But i am more worried on how pained, feel guilty, indicted end up in a sentence yet you suppose to be the grammatical warlord

I love anal cream pie scenes.

BlackManta:
Time ?
My bae and i only do it at night and at most...3 times a week.
We are working class people, we got jobs.
Our life does not revolve around porn.
It only improved our sex life and our relationship.

Self control ?
We got self control.
Like i said, we ain't jobless. We have many things to take our minds away from it.
Due to our hectic working schedule, we only do it 3 times a week.
Even on the holidays.
We ain't porn addicts.
Not every porn watcher is a porn addict.


Money ?
I dont spend much on porn.
I have data to burn.
All thanks to MTN and Airtel night browsing, i download at less cost.

My bae and i are happy.

Whats the code for Airtel night browsing?

I really hate some parts of pornography, especially anal sex, multiple penetration and sperm licking.

Its not enough for me to criticize those who do.

I just wish people will attack more of what i said like I did to that post than just posting. Its like no one making sense here brothers. This is internet damn! contribute something to discuss or shut up jesus Christ!

QuietHammer:
You just wasted a perfect opportunity to type "I didn't see this reply cumming'

That said, may God seriously bless Jada Fire, Nyomi Banxx, Beauty Dior, Phoenix Marie, The Roc and Shay couple, and all staff of xvideos. Amen

what Of "Desire5k" & "Dominican lipz"

WHAT DO YOU THINK JESUS WOULD SAY ABOUT PORNOGRAPHY?
DO YOU THINK HE WOULD ENCOURAGE IT AND GIVE AN APPLAUDE TO ANYONE THAT WATCHES THEM. HE WHO THINKS LUSTFULLY OF A WOMAN, HAD COMMITED FORNICATION WITH HER.

OUR WORLD HAS CHANGED INDEED.
BE CAREFUL WHAT YOU TYPE AND POST IN SOCIAL MEDIA FOR YOU CORRUPT THE MINDS OF OTHERS AND LEAD THEM TO SIN. ONE DAY THE WORDS YOU TYPED WILL COME STANDING BEFORE YOU. YES.

PORNOGRAPHY SHOULD BE UNTHINKABLE. UP JESUS, DOWN SATAN THE DECIEVER.