360command:
is about toasting you now or is about the money?

lol. Such a tempting question

LionDeLeo:
Hmmm.

She no want hear story, go straight to the point.

But what she doesn't seem to understand is that all join, is part of the toasting.

Or he shouldn't comfirm your marital status again? Do you want him to start toasting a married lady? You don't want him to praise you?

This is why I advise guys to stylishly ask questions before wasting their time just to hear her say..."sorry I'm married"

Felixalex:
No be lie, I used to be scared of walking up to ladies for the fear of embarrassment....

Until one night, I was high so wih the confidence of being high, I saw one babe with big ngwongwo for her back, I just met her without any complements and said "give me ur number" she got scared, she was still trying to understand if I was normal, I opened my dialer for her and gave her, she typed the number herself and said "please can I go now?" I said "don't u have a name? Save d number with ur name" and she did.... Later that night I texted her apologizing for being rude, explained it was because of d influence of alcohol, after some days we were already smashing

Since then if I see any babe wey I like, I go just activate Pseudo-Highness Mode walk up to her...

Chaiiiiii

sandrahnaub:
I be like "baba you are talking to much hit the damn nail on the head"

When I hit the nail ...I do with sledgehammer

lovethchioma:
You weren't talking to me but I'll like to come in here.
your gf has nothing to do with your stagnation.. please don't put the blame on nobody.
However I'll advice that you keep working hard and praying to the God you believe in.. things will someday click for you.
But if you still feel your case is spiritual then you need to pray earnestly to your God and get delivered.

Thank you Chioma. Like my post rightly pointed out, I don't spiritualize things. I'm a pragmatist. Very close to being an agnostic. I believe so much that things haven't moved maybe because I've not made the right effort or it's simply not time yet.

But as an African, that thing we grew with would always come cropping up when things don't work out. Where you would begin to wonder if B is happening because A happened yesterday.

It was my friend that tried drawing my attention to the fact that since I met my girlfriend things has been on a downward spiral. But I had to exonerate the poor girl.

However, sometimes some things can't but ruminate through your head.

OrestesDante:




∆Eggs and swimmers...


I don't understand ∆

Sperms and Ovaries

A lot of people on this thread didn't get that part.

OfficialAwol:
I learnt long ago to stop asking a girl if she has a boyfriend.

And 2017 was all about the girls falling in....

Please 2018 come with the money, I'm done with girls I've had enough.

lol....wetin gals do u na

Rozaytee:
lol....wetin gals do u na

Lol. You sef know it true. You girls like that guy wouldn't go asking if you have a boyfriend because that question has a way of reminding you of your obligation of faithfulness to the guy.

Tell me I'm not wrong.

you tell her what makes you approach her and tell her i wanna date you, if yes fine , if no then move o he next person

biggy26:

Abeg, tell us, what will you like to hear from a guy on first approach that will hit it for u? Help Ur brothers.

OfficialAwol:


Lol. You sef know it true. You girls like that guy wouldn't go asking if you have a boyfriend because that question has a way of reminding you of your obligation of faithfulness to the guy.

Tell me I'm not wrong.

lol....

OrestesDante:




∆Eggs and swimmers...


I don't understand ∆

receive understanding

wait there and be checking everybody typo error, well i always type fast cos i dont want my comment be in page 2, so that people like you will be able to read and like thanks tho

charliboy654:

Suppose or support?

Felixalex:
No be lie, I used to be scared of walking up to ladies for the fear of embarrassment....

Until one night, I was high so wih the confidence of being high, I saw one babe with big ngwongwo for her back, I just met her without any complements and said "give me ur number" she got scared, she was still trying to understand if I was normal, I opened my dialer for her and gave her, she typed the number herself and said "please can I go now?" I said "don't u have a name? Save d number with ur name" and she did.... Later that night I texted her apologizing for being rude, explained it was because of d influence of alcohol, after some days we were already smashing

Since then if I see any babe wey I like, I go just activate Pseudo-Highness Mode walk up to her...

This one na boss mode O.
You broke all her wings.
You made her feel inferior something nobody has done to her.
I'm sure gonna try this on those girls feeling too Big. Hehehehe

Saintsammurai:
That is the normal mentality of the average Nigerian Lady that will somehow give herself up for money.

this mentality is however caused by poverty..

Ladies coming from poor homes, often agrees to date guys or have sex because of money..

They are unrepentant cheaters..

White ladies and ladies from rich homes, however want guys or agree to date guys that makes them feel like the Queen they are..

They want you to be romantic, say those sweet words, they want to see you tell them, you will die for them, they want guys that can sacrifice for them..

But the average Nigeria lady wants you to just show them the money.

Not all white ladies.

This is a good message for cowards

One girl shuu toast me am waiting

Rozaytee:
lol....

Am I?

OfficialAwol:


It was my friend that tried drawing my attention to the fact that since I met my girlfriend things has been on a downward spiral. But I had to exonerate the poor girl.

However, sometimes some things can't but ruminate through your head.

I understand you perfectly. I've been in that situation where I was blaming one person or another for the things that were happening in my life at a point... I had to stop the blame game and took charge of my life.

It could be purely coincidence that all these started happening when you met your gf.. I am a Christian o, but I don't like to spiritualize everything... It still doesn't mean I don't believe that some things are highly spiritual, I just know when to draw the line.

You know the country get as e be now, things are not smiling. so don't blame the poor girl for what she doesn't know. ..
Just keep working hard my dear, things will surely get better. If you were a Christian I'd have also said you pray about it, there's nothing prayers can't do.. But you aren't. Nevertheless just keep the hope alive.

Temmy360:



The money will make you look for more girls !

Lol. I don't mind so long as there's enough money. What I'm putting a hold on is having surplus girls rather than surplus money.

lovethchioma:
I understand you perfectly. I've been in that situation where I was blaming one person or another for the things that were happening in my life at a point... I had to stop the blame game and took charge of my life.

It could be purely coincidence that all these started happening when you met your gf.. I am a Christian o, but I don't like to spiritualize everything... It still doesn't mean I don't believe that some things are highly spiritual, I just know when to draw the line.

You know the country get as e be now, things are not smiling. so don't blame the poor girl for what she doesn't know. ..
Just keep working hard my dear, things will surely get better. If you were a Christian I'd have also said you pray about it, there's nothing prayers can't do.. But you aren't. Nevertheless just keep the hope alive.

Lol. Thank you so much Chummy. But please o, I'm still a Christian o. I'm yet to declare for agnosticism.

I've not found enough evidence to believe in God; just like I'm yet to clear all doubt that there's no God.

LionDeLeo:
Hmmm.

She no want hear story, go straight to the point.

But what she doesn't seem to understand is that all join, is part of the toasting.

Or he shouldn't comfirm your marital status again? Do you want him to start toasting a married lady? You don't want him to praise you?

No mind d Yeye girl..as if she nor know

LagosCiti:
Isn't that part of "toasting"? Or she prefers a man that'd say "I love you, talk your own"?

Women get wahala abeg.

You dey mara I swear

Saintsammurai:
That is the normal mentality of the average Nigerian Lady that will somehow give herself up for money.

this mentality is however caused by poverty..

Ladies coming from poor homes, often agrees to date guys or have sex because of money..

They are unrepentant cheaters..

White ladies and ladies from rich homes, however want guys or agree to date guys that makes them feel like the Queen they are..

They want you to be romantic, say those sweet words, they want to see you tell them, you will die for them, they want guys that can sacrifice for them..

But the average Nigeria lady wants you to just show them the money.

sir not all girls from poor home are hoes n some girls from rich homes prefer meet n Bleep than relationship

Felixalex:
No be lie, I used to be scared of walking up to ladies for the fear of embarrassment....

Until one night, I was high so wih the confidence of being high, I saw one babe with big ngwongwo for her back, I just met her without any complements and said "give me ur number" she got scared, she was still trying to understand if I was normal, I opened my dialer for her and gave her, she typed the number herself and said "please can I go now?" I said "don't u have a name? Save d number with ur name" and she did.... Later that night I texted her apologizing for being rude, explained it was because of d influence of alcohol, after some days we were already smashing

Since then if I see any babe wey I like, I go just activate Pseudo-Highness Mode walk up to her...

Bros! u dey scatter my dada

sandrahnaub:
I be like "baba you are talking to much hit the damn nail on the head"

Ehn, okay can I have your digits I would like to be your friend

sandrahnaub:
I be like "baba you are talking to much hit the damn nail on the head"

ok miss
i like u very much and would like to know u better.
Can we start off by getting ur phone number?

TRYING TO UNDERSTAND A WOMAN

sandrahnaub:
I be like "baba you are talking to much hit the damn nail on the head"

Hi dear ,
Stunning,I will like to know u more.
I mean be a friend.
I have send in a PM.

Felixalex:
No be lie, I used to be scared of walking up to ladies for the fear of embarrassment....

Until one night, I was high so wih the confidence of being high, I saw one babe with big ngwongwo for her back, I just met her without any complements and said "give me ur number" she got scared, she was still trying to understand if I was normal, I opened my dialer for her and gave her, she typed the number herself and said "please can I go now?" I said "don't u have a name? Save d number with ur name" and she did.... Later that night I texted her apologizing for being rude, explained it was because of d influence of alcohol, after some days we were already smashing

Since then if I see any babe wey I like, I go just activate Pseudo-Highness Mode walk up to her...

Tweetysparkles:
you tell her what makes you approach her and tell her i wanna date you, if yes fine , if no then move o he next person

Hmm, pretty straight forward. I know some girls will think d guy is too fast with d dating thing...but I think dis approach is cool if this is how u gals like it.