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Re: Lady Advises Men Who Like Assumptions When Wooing Women by Nobody: 12:34pm On Dec 23, 2017
360command:
is about toasting you now or is about the money?
lol. Such a tempting question grin
Re: Lady Advises Men Who Like Assumptions When Wooing Women by Toks2008(m): 12:42pm On Dec 23, 2017
LionDeLeo:
Hmmm.

She no want hear story, go straight to the point.

But what she doesn't seem to understand is that all join, is part of the toasting.

Or he shouldn't comfirm your marital status again? Do you want him to start toasting a married lady? You don't want him to praise you?

This is why I advise guys to stylishly ask questions before wasting their time just to hear her say..."sorry I'm married"
Re: Lady Advises Men Who Like Assumptions When Wooing Women by Zane2point4(m): 12:43pm On Dec 23, 2017
Felixalex:
No be lie, I used to be scared of walking up to ladies for the fear of embarrassment....

Until one night, I was high so wih the confidence of being high, I saw one babe with big ngwongwo for her back, I just met her without any complements and said "give me ur number" grin she got scared, she was still trying to understand if I was normal, I opened my dialer for her and gave her, she typed the number herself and said "please can I go now?" cheesy grin grin I said "don't u have a name? Save d number with ur name" and she did.... Later that night I texted her apologizing for being rude, explained it was because of d influence of alcohol, after some days we were already smashing cheesy cheesy cheesy

Since then if I see any babe wey I like, I go just activate Pseudo-Highness Mode walk up to her...
Chaiiiiii

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Re: Lady Advises Men Who Like Assumptions When Wooing Women by Chukazu: 12:45pm On Dec 23, 2017
sandrahnaub:
I be like "baba you are talking to much hit the damn nail on the head" grin


When I hit the nail ...I do with sledgehammer sad
Re: Lady Advises Men Who Like Assumptions When Wooing Women by OfficialAwol(m): 12:47pm On Dec 23, 2017
lovethchioma:
You weren't talking to me but I'll like to come in here.
your gf has nothing to do with your stagnation.. please don't put the blame on nobody.
However I'll advice that you keep working hard and praying to the God you believe in.. things will someday click for you.
But if you still feel your case is spiritual then you need to pray earnestly to your God and get delivered.

Thank you Chioma. Like my post rightly pointed out, I don't spiritualize things. I'm a pragmatist. Very close to being an agnostic. I believe so much that things haven't moved maybe because I've not made the right effort or it's simply not time yet.

But as an African, that thing we grew with would always come cropping up when things don't work out. Where you would begin to wonder if B is happening because A happened yesterday.

It was my friend that tried drawing my attention to the fact that since I met my girlfriend things has been on a downward spiral. But I had to exonerate the poor girl.

However, sometimes some things can't but ruminate through your head.
Re: Lady Advises Men Who Like Assumptions When Wooing Women by Chuvin22(m): 12:47pm On Dec 23, 2017
OrestesDante:
angry



∆Eggs and swimmers...


I don't understand ∆

Sperms and Ovaries grin

A lot of people on this thread didn't get that part. cheesy
Re: Lady Advises Men Who Like Assumptions When Wooing Women by Rozaytee: 12:48pm On Dec 23, 2017
OfficialAwol:
I learnt long ago to stop asking a girl if she has a boyfriend.

And 2017 was all about the girls falling in....

Please 2018 come with the money, I'm done with girls I've had enough.
lol....wetin gals do u na
Re: Lady Advises Men Who Like Assumptions When Wooing Women by OfficialAwol(m): 12:54pm On Dec 23, 2017
Rozaytee:
lol....wetin gals do u na

Lol. You sef know it true. You girls like that guy wouldn't go asking if you have a boyfriend because that question has a way of reminding you of your obligation of faithfulness to the guy.

Tell me I'm not wrong.
Re: Lady Advises Men Who Like Assumptions When Wooing Women by Tweetysparkles(f): 12:55pm On Dec 23, 2017
you tell her what makes you approach her and tell her i wanna date you, if yes fine , if no then move o he next person undecided
biggy26:

Abeg, tell us, what will you like to hear from a guy on first approach that will hit it for u? Help Ur brothers.

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Re: Lady Advises Men Who Like Assumptions When Wooing Women by Rozaytee: 12:57pm On Dec 23, 2017
OfficialAwol:


Lol. You sef know it true. You girls like that guy wouldn't go asking if you have a boyfriend because that question has a way of reminding you of your obligation of faithfulness to the guy.

Tell me I'm not wrong.
lol....
Re: Lady Advises Men Who Like Assumptions When Wooing Women by Nobody: 12:59pm On Dec 23, 2017
OrestesDante:
angry



∆Eggs and swimmers...


I don't understand ∆
receive understanding
Re: Lady Advises Men Who Like Assumptions When Wooing Women by Tweetysparkles(f): 12:59pm On Dec 23, 2017
wait there and be checking everybody typo error, well i always type fast cos i dont want my comment be in page 2, so that people like you will be able to read and like grin thanks tho
charliboy654:

Suppose or support?
Re: Lady Advises Men Who Like Assumptions When Wooing Women by davillian(m): 1:07pm On Dec 23, 2017
Felixalex:
No be lie, I used to be scared of walking up to ladies for the fear of embarrassment....

Until one night, I was high so wih the confidence of being high, I saw one babe with big ngwongwo for her back, I just met her without any complements and said "give me ur number" grin she got scared, she was still trying to understand if I was normal, I opened my dialer for her and gave her, she typed the number herself and said "please can I go now?" cheesy grin grin I said "don't u have a name? Save d number with ur name" and she did.... Later that night I texted her apologizing for being rude, explained it was because of d influence of alcohol, after some days we were already smashing cheesy cheesy cheesy

Since then if I see any babe wey I like, I go just activate Pseudo-Highness Mode walk up to her...
This one na boss mode O.
You broke all her wings.
You made her feel inferior something nobody has done to her.
I'm sure gonna try this on those girls feeling too Big. Hehehehe

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Re: Lady Advises Men Who Like Assumptions When Wooing Women by ayaside(m): 1:17pm On Dec 23, 2017
Saintsammurai:
That is the normal mentality of the average Nigerian Lady that will somehow give herself up for money.

this mentality is however caused by poverty..

Ladies coming from poor homes, often agrees to date guys or have sex because of money..

They are unrepentant cheaters..

White ladies and ladies from rich homes, however want guys or agree to date guys that makes them feel like the Queen they are..

They want you to be romantic, say those sweet words, they want to see you tell them, you will die for them, they want guys that can sacrifice for them..

But the average Nigeria lady wants you to just show them the money.
Not all white ladies.
Re: Lady Advises Men Who Like Assumptions When Wooing Women by tosyne2much(m): 1:23pm On Dec 23, 2017
This is a good message for cowards
Re: Lady Advises Men Who Like Assumptions When Wooing Women by mordecai11(m): 1:33pm On Dec 23, 2017
One girl shuu toast me am waiting grin
Re: Lady Advises Men Who Like Assumptions When Wooing Women by OfficialAwol(m): 1:43pm On Dec 23, 2017
Rozaytee:
lol....

Am I?
Re: Lady Advises Men Who Like Assumptions When Wooing Women by lovethchioma(f): 2:39pm On Dec 23, 2017
OfficialAwol:


It was my friend that tried drawing my attention to the fact that since I met my girlfriend things has been on a downward spiral. But I had to exonerate the poor girl.

However, sometimes some things can't but ruminate through your head.
I understand you perfectly. I've been in that situation where I was blaming one person or another for the things that were happening in my life at a point... I had to stop the blame game and took charge of my life.

It could be purely coincidence that all these started happening when you met your gf.. I am a Christian o, but I don't like to spiritualize everything... It still doesn't mean I don't believe that some things are highly spiritual, I just know when to draw the line.

You know the country get as e be now, things are not smiling. so don't blame the poor girl for what she doesn't know. ..
Just keep working hard my dear, things will surely get better. If you were a Christian I'd have also said you pray about it, there's nothing prayers can't do.. But you aren't. Nevertheless just keep the hope alive.
Re: Lady Advises Men Who Like Assumptions When Wooing Women by OfficialAwol(m): 2:58pm On Dec 23, 2017
Temmy360:



The money will make you look for more girls !

Lol. I don't mind so long as there's enough money. What I'm putting a hold on is having surplus girls rather than surplus money.
Re: Lady Advises Men Who Like Assumptions When Wooing Women by OfficialAwol(m): 3:05pm On Dec 23, 2017
lovethchioma:
I understand you perfectly. I've been in that situation where I was blaming one person or another for the things that were happening in my life at a point... I had to stop the blame game and took charge of my life.

It could be purely coincidence that all these started happening when you met your gf.. I am a Christian o, but I don't like to spiritualize everything... It still doesn't mean I don't believe that some things are highly spiritual, I just know when to draw the line.

You know the country get as e be now, things are not smiling. so don't blame the poor girl for what she doesn't know. ..
Just keep working hard my dear, things will surely get better. If you were a Christian I'd have also said you pray about it, there's nothing prayers can't do.. But you aren't. Nevertheless just keep the hope alive.

Lol. Thank you so much Chummy. But please o, I'm still a Christian o. I'm yet to declare for agnosticism.

I've not found enough evidence to believe in God; just like I'm yet to clear all doubt that there's no God.
Re: Lady Advises Men Who Like Assumptions When Wooing Women by MrEdimulo82(m): 3:12pm On Dec 23, 2017
LionDeLeo:
Hmmm.

She no want hear story, go straight to the point.

But what she doesn't seem to understand is that all join, is part of the toasting.

Or he shouldn't comfirm your marital status again? Do you want him to start toasting a married lady? You don't want him to praise you?

No mind d Yeye girl..as if she nor know
Re: Lady Advises Men Who Like Assumptions When Wooing Women by Nobody: 3:29pm On Dec 23, 2017
LagosCiti:
Isn't that part of "toasting"? Or she prefers a man that'd say "I love you, talk your own"? grin

Women get wahala abeg.

You dey mara I swear
Re: Lady Advises Men Who Like Assumptions When Wooing Women by vroy(m): 4:02pm On Dec 23, 2017
Saintsammurai:
That is the normal mentality of the average Nigerian Lady that will somehow give herself up for money.

this mentality is however caused by poverty..

Ladies coming from poor homes, often agrees to date guys or have sex because of money..

They are unrepentant cheaters..

White ladies and ladies from rich homes, however want guys or agree to date guys that makes them feel like the Queen they are..

They want you to be romantic, say those sweet words, they want to see you tell them, you will die for them, they want guys that can sacrifice for them..

But the average Nigeria lady wants you to just show them the money.
sir not all girls from poor home are hoes n some girls from rich homes prefer meet n Bleep than relationship
Re: Lady Advises Men Who Like Assumptions When Wooing Women by AkupeMBANO(m): 4:32pm On Dec 23, 2017
Felixalex:
No be lie, I used to be scared of walking up to ladies for the fear of embarrassment....

Until one night, I was high so wih the confidence of being high, I saw one babe with big ngwongwo for her back, I just met her without any complements and said "give me ur number" grin she got scared, she was still trying to understand if I was normal, I opened my dialer for her and gave her, she typed the number herself and said "please can I go now?" cheesy grin grin I said "don't u have a name? Save d number with ur name" and she did.... Later that night I texted her apologizing for being rude, explained it was because of d influence of alcohol, after some days we were already smashing cheesy cheesy cheesy

Since then if I see any babe wey I like, I go just activate Pseudo-Highness Mode walk up to her...
Bros! u dey scatter my dada

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Re: Lady Advises Men Who Like Assumptions When Wooing Women by bayocanny: 4:47pm On Dec 23, 2017
sandrahnaub:
I be like "baba you are talking to much hit the damn nail on the head" grin
Ehn, okay can I have your digits I would like to be your friend grin
Re: Lady Advises Men Who Like Assumptions When Wooing Women by Nobody: 4:48pm On Dec 23, 2017
sandrahnaub:
I be like "baba you are talking to much hit the damn nail on the head" grin
ok miss
i like u very much and would like to know u better.
Can we start off by getting ur phone number?
Re: Lady Advises Men Who Like Assumptions When Wooing Women by UTEWUOJO: 4:51pm On Dec 23, 2017
TRYING TO UNDERSTAND A WOMAN
Re: Lady Advises Men Who Like Assumptions When Wooing Women by frankputer: 6:28pm On Dec 23, 2017
sandrahnaub:
I be like "baba you are talking to much hit the damn nail on the head" grin

Hi dear ,
Stunning,I will like to know u more.
I mean be a friend.
I have send in a PM.
Re: Lady Advises Men Who Like Assumptions When Wooing Women by kenevision(m): 8:43pm On Dec 23, 2017
Felixalex:
No be lie, I used to be scared of walking up to ladies for the fear of embarrassment....

Until one night, I was high so wih the confidence of being high, I saw one babe with big ngwongwo for her back, I just met her without any complements and said "give me ur number" grin she got scared, she was still trying to understand if I was normal, I opened my dialer for her and gave her, she typed the number herself and said "please can I go now?" cheesy grin grin I said "don't u have a name? Save d number with ur name" and she did.... Later that night I texted her apologizing for being rude, explained it was because of d influence of alcohol, after some days we were already smashing cheesy cheesy cheesy

Since then if I see any babe wey I like, I go just activate Pseudo-Highness Mode walk up to her...

grin grin grin grin

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Re: Lady Advises Men Who Like Assumptions When Wooing Women by biggy26: 9:48pm On Dec 23, 2017
Tweetysparkles:
you tell her what makes you approach her and tell her i wanna date you, if yes fine , if no then move o he next person undecided
Hmm, pretty straight forward. I know some girls will think d guy is too fast with d dating thing...but I think dis approach is cool if this is how u gals like it.

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