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Jupxter:
Cooking aint a biggie, it's about interest if you really wanna learn it, you can be a PRO in just about 18months, if you sacrifice this period, you can be a champ before you get settled in marriage

Hey wait! It's not that bad, problem is, I prefer cooking intercontinental dishes to local. So what I do is check YouTube or goggle for some nice delicacies, and my mum has this cooking book.

So whenever the spirit leads, I experiment. I just love trying out new stuffs and if it turns out well, I'll cook it often. But preparing banku, Kenkey, eba and the rest. Future husband should not expect it at all.

makydebbie:
Me too. But time exposed some and taught me never to judge a book by its cover.

Bae, I no even sabi cook without using goggle. Before I get married, I and my husband must provide a dish washer and washing machine. It's very important, if no money dey we will sell the rings and buy rings later when we get money. It's that bad, and I can't help it.

Lol..

So what do you judge books with?

Do you know that book covers determines 80% of major sales on Amazon Kindle?

Alright... What if you have to pay to check out the book, how would you judge it?

"Still using your initial idiomatic expression" lol

If one's head would receive a knock, even if they put on a taj, there's still leave a space for the knock.

It's not about getting into placement alone that matters, it's about remaining in position, that alignment that makes everything works perfectly, but then, in the mind of a nuisance are tangible, big mechanisms that will cause such a system to shatter in pieces...So, i won't be surprised, woman = character, not skin, character = woman !

BiafranBushBoy:
List? Just hold on with it...

Brb..

This is how I'll enter 2018 without husband, my village people have come again.

makydebbie:
Hey wait! It's not that bad, problem is, I prefer cooking intercontinental dishes to local. So what I do is check YouTube or goggle for some nice delicacies, and my mum has this cooking book.

So whenever the spirit leads, I experiment. I just love trying out new stuffs and if it turns out well, I'll cook it often. But preparing banku, Kenkey, eba and the rest. Future husband should not expect it at all.

Here we go. You're pulling out the yard stick against future husband in advance.

See, it's not the knowledge that matters, it's the skillset and the will to out the knowledge into action. I'msure if you ask any lady friend of yours that cooks well, they'll say it's more or less a daily routine for them. My two cents is cook regularly, learn, experiment, when you do it consistently the skill becomes a part of you, and its not a big deal. Trust me, i used to compete with my sisters in cooking until the hustle took away the skillset. Now i can only boil water

makydebbie:
This is how I'll enter 2018 without husband, my village people have come again.

Lol@ village people. Sweet excuse...Anyways, you look young nau. You can go five years and still look cute,young and hippee going by that pic i see on ya profile.

makydebbie:
This is how I'll enter 2018 without husband, my village people have come again.

Lol... I don't want you to suffer, so I wan buy car first before I say I do.

So just hang on.

BiafranBushBoy:
Lol..

So what do you judge books with?

Do you know that book covers determines 80% of major sales on Amazon Kindle?

Alright... What if you have to pay to check out the book, how would you judge it?

"Still using your initial idiomatic expression" lol

I have a book on para-psychology i've not stopped reading since 2007.Breaking Free from the bondage of sin, it has one of the worst covers i've ever seen in my life, but guess what, it's the best book i've seen my whole life. I read it over and over yearly, I have three other kinds that falls into this category

makydebbie:
Hey wait! It's not that bad, problem is, I prefer cooking intercontinental dishes to local. So what I do is check YouTube or goggle for some nice delicacies, and my mum has this cooking book.

So whenever the spirit leads, I experiment. I just love trying out new stuffs and if it turns out well, I'll cook it often. But preparing banku, Kenkey, eba and the rest. Future husband should not expect it at all.

So you don't want local hubby be that. The ones that will fold hand breaking kenke, tearing raps to open banku.. Chai...Can you cook the native soups for those meals if i decide to marry you and buy my banku and kenke from outside?

BiafranBushBoy:
Lol..

So what do you judge books with?

Do you know that book covers determines 80% of major sales on Amazon Kindle?

Alright... What if you have to pay to check out the book, how would you judge it?

"Still using your initial idiomatic expression" lol

Lol, gerarahiaa. We're talking about humans here.

Jupxter:
Here we go. You're pulling out the yard stick against future husband in advance.

See, it's not the knowledge that matters, it's the skillset and the will to out the knowledge into action. I'msure if you ask any lady friend of yours that cooks well, they'll say it's more or less a daily routine for them. My two cents is cook regularly, learn, experiment, when you do it consistently the skill becomes a part of you, and its not a big deal. Trust me, i used to compete with my sisters in cooking until the hustle took away the skillset. Now i can only boil water

But the problem is I'm lazy na. The spirit is willing but the flesh is weak.

Jupxter:
Out of the abundance of the heart...

,,,,Plus e-persona is a part of real...

...Nonetheless,it's a joke, learn not to take things too serious !

The emboldened is not a fact.

Someone ideals, perceptions doesn't necessarily translate to how they 'behave' online. For me, nothing will change about my ideals or perception, but i will communicate differently and certainly observe intently social cues that i can conveniently ignore online because i want to.


Someone may sound soft spoken online but in reality has a dominant aura and someone may sound dominant/hard online and in person is a softie. The manner at which he/she does things can vary greatly in reality. Someone like me now, many many people i exchange words with online, a knife to my throat i will never exchange words with them.

Aderola

Blackhawk01

Blackhawk03

Jupxter:
So you don't want local hubby be that. The ones that will fold hand breaking kenke, tearing raps to open banku.. Chai...Can you cook the native soups for those meals if i decide to marry you and buy my banku and kenke from outside?

I cannot cook okro soup and the likes ooo.....

But then, I can make pepper so you will have pepper with your banku or Kenkey and buy roasted tilapia outside. And life is simple.

BiafranBushBoy:
Lol... I don't want you to suffer, so I wan buy car first before I say I do.

So just hang on.

Okay baby.

makydebbie:
I cannot cook okro soup and the likes ooo.....

But then, I can make pepper so you will have pepper with your banku or Kenkey and buy roasted tilapia outside. And life is simple.



Okay baby.

Stay close to a good cafeteria then, i hear many tosh new generation wives don't cook, they order hot home-made quality meals from cafeteria. See let me share another shyte some married ladies do. See, they get someone do the cooking by 3-4pm-ish before daddy comes from work, and that settles it..Hubby won't know he's eating outside meal. Just maintain the lie for some years. Simple. Afterall, ladies keep many lies into ten years in marriage, dem no go talk !

Blackfyre:
The emboldened is not a fact.

Someone ideals, perceptions doesn't necessarily translate to how they 'behave' online. For me, nothing will change about my ideals or perception, but i will communicate differently and certainly observe intently social cues that i can conveniently ignore online because i want to.


Someone may sound soft spoken online but in reality has a dominant aura and someone may sound dominant/hard online and in person is a softie. The manner at which he/she does things can vary greatly in reality. Someone like me now, many many people i exchange words with online, a knife to my throat i will never exchange words with them.

It's part of what i imply, " psychological deflections ", the cuter they look, the more the underlying issues. So psychological deflections also gives hints as to whom a person is, hence a quiet e-persona may not be quiet afterall, but is feigning quietness to attract a crowd and appear good...I learnt this recently, infact the more spotless a person is, the nastier they are likely to be beneath, i run way from this species.


Hope this makes sense

Jupxter:
Stay close to a good cafeteria then, i hear many tosh new generation wives don't cook, they order hot home-made quality meals from cafeteria. See let me share another shyte some married ladies do. See, they get someone do the cooking by 3-4pm-ish before daddy comes from work, and that settles it..Hubby won't know he's eating outside meal. Just maintain the lie for some years. Simple. Afterall, ladies keep many lies into ten years in marriage, dem no go talk !

Sounds like a good idea, I'll get mum to cook the food and from work I'll go pick it. Then, I'll tell hubby I'm the one that cooked it. But just one problem, he may be viewing this thread.

Jupxter:
It's part of what i imply, " psychological deflections ", the cuter they look, the more the underlying issues. So psychological deflections also gives hints as to whom a person is, hence a quiet e-persona may not be quiet afterall, but is feigning quietness to attract a crowd and appear good...I learnt this recently, infact the more spotless a person is, the nastier they are likely to be beneath, i run way from this species.


Hope this makes sense

I get what you mean but these are just postulations. It cannot and will not apply for all women. I dare say, if one follows this, he will most likely set himself up rather than just let things reveal itself gradually. If you not careful, you may just start jumping into conclusions.

Plus you can't hide character, it will always reveal itself in the long run. What i can say for a hard fact about anyone on nland is that, your ideals, perceptions are what can be guaranteed from online interactions. I dare say, online reveals more what goes on in peoples mind than in reality. But their behavior and mannerism will give accurate measure about someone behaviour than online.

If someone is easily irritated, you can tell more in person from how quick that person raises his/her voice. Online you cant accurately tell, because such person may just be speaking softly but uses strong words that makes it some across as being irritable. Many many things come into factor, when in face to face convo. Grins, smiles, the seriousness at which they say things, the sigh, even how long it took them to reply, even how fast they talk. Many many little little things that matter and can reveal more about a person than online can reveal.

Jupxter:
I have a book on para-psychology i've not stopped reading since 2007.Breaking Free from the bondage of sin, it has one of the worst covers i've ever seen in my life, but guess what, it's the best book i've seen my whole life. I read it over and over yearly, I have three other kinds that falls into this category

Because you took the leap of faith.

90% of people judge others by impressions.

So that is the real situation of things.

makydebbie:
Sounds like a good idea, I'll get mum to cook the food and from work I'll go pick it. Then, I'll tell hubby I'm the one that cooked it. But just one problem, he may be viewing this thread.

if am your hubby no matter how smart you're i will still know that you're the one that cook it so it's better you just tell me that you cant cook it and i will get a chef that will teach you..BTW i dont have a problem with women that cannot cook at all sef..let her just be good in the other room..

makydebbie:
Bae, I need prayers, my mum is a caterer. How can I be a disgrace?


The fact that I've a job, wake up early, get stressed at work and come back home without much complaints, surprised my parents. So their lazy daughter can have a job and work?

Lool, lucky you.

black Ghanaian demon

sirBLUNT:
if am your hubby no matter how smart you're i will still know that you're the one that cook it so it's better you just tell me that you cant cook it and i will get a chef that will teach you..BTW i dont have a problem with women that cannot cook at all sef..let her just be good in the other room..

I said my mum is a caterer, the problem is the laziness.

Purebeerry:
Someone is actually thinking he can get a wife by reading through their comment, people need to grow up.

How is that even practical on a forum filled with kids

fuckboys:
black Ghanaian demon

Err, okay demon? I'll definitely add that to my cv next time.

How are you?

Blackhawk03:
Aderola

Blackhawk01

Blackhawk03

So we are not good wife material?

makydebbie:
Err, okay demon? I'll definitely add that to my cv next time.

How are you?

why can't you just die so I'll have my peace?

Blackfyre:
I get what you mean but these are just postulations. It cannot and will not apply for all women. I dare say, if one follows this, he will most likely set himself up rather than just let things reveal itself gradually. If you not careful, you may just start jumping into conclusions.

Plus you can't hide character, it will always reveal itself in the long run. What i can say for a hard fact about anyone on nland is that, your ideals, perceptions are what can be guaranteed from online interactions. I dare say, online reveals more what goes on in peoples mind than in reality. But their behavior and mannerism will give accurate measure about someone behaviour than online.

If someone is easily irritated, you can tell more in person from how quick that person raises his/her voice. Online you cant accurately tell, because such person may just be speaking softly but uses strong words that makes it some across as being irritable. Many many things come into factor, when in face to face convo. Grins, smiles, the seriousness at which they say things, the sigh, even how long it took them to reply, even how fast they talk. Many many little little things that matter and can reveal more about a person than online can reveal.

Lol @ postulations. I'm a industrial chemist, it's the framwork of my cognitive prowess, to carefully and analytically examine things.


Agreed @ What i can say for a hard fact about anyone on nland is that, your ideals, perceptions are what can be guaranteed from online interactions. I dare say, online reveals more what goes on in peoples mind than in reality. But their behavior and mannerism will give accurate measure about someone behaviour than online.


You've spoken well. I use mental calibrations to capture people's mindset and make a descriptive of whom they are. It's not accurate, but it works fine with uncomplicated people.

BiafranBushBoy:
Because you took the leap of faith.

90% of people judge others by impressions.

So that is the real situation of things.

Tushe.

I live by faith. I have a principle of examine the content first before turning back. Apply all principles of dialogue before the battle, all instruments and avenues must be explored before i reach a conclusion. Spontaneous and quick decisions i've noticed always leads to trouble. I never allow anyone to project their impressions on me. Never !

fuckboys:
why can't you just die so I'll have my peace?

No dear, you'll have to die, then you can rest in peace.

makydebbie:
I said my mum is a caterer, the problem is the laziness.

you dont look like a lazy person but if really u are then pls work on that and learn from mummy...and make her proud in that area

All Nairaland girls in romance section.

Jupxter:
Lol @ postulations. I'm a industrial chemist, it's the framwork of my cognitive prowess, to carefully and analytically examine things.


Agreed @ What i can say for a hard fact about anyone on nland is that, your ideals, perceptions are what can be guaranteed from online interactions. I dare say, online reveals more what goes on in peoples mind than in reality. But their behavior and mannerism will give accurate measure about someone behaviour than online.


You've spoken well. I use mental calibrations to capture people's mindset and make a descriptive of whom they are. It's not accurate, but it works fine with uncomplicated people.

Haha....like there is anybody who isn't complicated or more so than chemicals....

makydebbie:
So we are not good wife material?

Yours is even better. You're a wife, not just a good material.

Me? Iyamm no wifey.