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I prefer private proposal......public proposal is a no for me......I don't want public pressure

She could have just accepted the proposal and later return the ring to him privately to save the guy this kind of public embarrasment. Some girls sha

sweetetlove:
She could have just accepted the proposal and later return the ring to him privately to save the guy this kind of public embarrasment. Some girls sha

Abi o. God bless you oh !

The man wey go still marry am no go different from this one, all is just a chase for what we can not have...Yeye dey worry her

biacan:
Your friend is a gold digger simple

My friend is a gold digger
Na wa ooo,so what are will I be called

Hahahah gold digger? What tha hell does gold digger mean?

Jupxter:
I'm sorry but i'm dissapointed by this comment and the mindset behind it, in less than 10 hours, you commented on a thread that why should people waste one another's time. If she can reject a marriage proposal, couldn't she have rejected being wooed?

Please comment maturely, you've been in the low side of the love journey, people are learning and paying attentionn to comments. Your comments this days, God don bless you, but stand for what's right !


If he didn't meet up to her standard, she should have let him know before a poublic disgrace, don't try to sugar-coat what is bad abeg.


Can't she accept the ring publicly and call him aside and say no?

Please you're coming off as too proud, this is not how life should be..

No wait, don't get mi wrong


Am only saying from the psyche of most guys here , if she had focused squarely on her main bf, and reject this guy wooing, before it got to this stage. Guys will still say she's mean for not responding.

And What she had done is wrong no doubt.

Am not in support of double dating and stringing a guy along aimlessly but unfortunately that's what she's done.

So for the records peeps, don't date someone u can't marry

For me, I cant date a man I wouldn't want to marry.

Jupxter:
Abi o. God bless you oh !

The man wey go still marry am no go different from this one, all is just a chase for what we can not have...Yeye dey worry her

I feel for the guy I can imagine what he will go thru after this kind of public rejection

Jupxter:
Happy Sunday, but why didn't you marry such a nice and caring lady !

Aaaaaaaa my real guy Same to u oo,
Hmmmm see question u re the second pesin asking me diz question today
Abeg na na wa for una questions today oo

Jupxter:
Happy Sunday, but why didn't you marry such a nice and caring lady !

Jupxter:
Happy Sunday, but why didn't you marry such a nice and caring lady !

Aaaaaaaa my real guy
Same to u oo,

Hmmmm see question u re the second pesin asking me diz question today

Abeg na na wa for una questions today oo

Jupxter:
This is new Happy Christmas Eve !

I'm not celebrating this one...


Guy why would a chick date a guy she knows she can't marry? Why do people waste one another's time ?


Help me understand o

haha don't u understand naija type of relationships? .u have one main boo that u really love and u have numerious side boos that u Might fall back too if main boo fuk up.this is why u see some babes with 15 boyfriends. Out of those 15 boyfriends dem get d main guy wey dem really love and can do anything for him.the other boyfriends na jus spare.though most times there is always advantages in being a side boyfriend cos u won't spend a kobo and u will be chopping free kpekus.na wen u as a side boyfriend start to dey fall in love with d babe dats wen yawa go gas for u.as a side bae eat ur free kpekus and move on . Ehn u no dey celebrate Christmas again? U don turn jehovah witness ba?

sweetetlove:
I feel for the guy I can imagine what he will go thru after this kind of public rejection

It's okay, we are men. We can take rejection, but it should be done in a way that doesn't leave a guy destroyed on the process. He'll be dented ofcourse, but he'll recover !

biacan:
I go slap the deadrat out of your body polio I nor be your mate

Ifa tear You Slap you Will Forget Your Nairaland Password...

alexialin:
No wait, don't get mi wrong


Am only saying from the psyche of most guys here , if she had focused squarely on her main bf, and reject this guy wooing, before it got to this stage. Guys will still say she's mean for not responding.

And What she had done is wrong no doubt.

Am not in support of double dating and stringing a guy along aimlessly but unfortunately that's what she's done.

So for the records peeps, don't date someone u can't marry

For me, I cant date a man I wouldn't want to marry.

That is the point. We should not date who we can't marry, we shouldn't be wasting people's time.

For example, if i'm serious with a chick, i don't talk to other chicks no matter how pretty, once there's a third party, it disturbs the communication and fault-finding is next. She's a loser. In the end, na man still go marry her. All this images of percet man in people's heads. It casues them to find faults without substance in guys.


Make a spit, as i walk out. Shame on her motherm what an arrogant fool...

Jupxter:
I'm sorry but i'm dissapointed by this comment and the mindset behind it, in less than 10 hours, you commented on a thread that why should people waste one another's time. If she can reject a marriage proposal, couldn't she have rejected being wooed?

Please comment maturely, you've been in the low side of the love journey, people are learning and paying attentionn to comments. Your comments this days, God don bless you, but stand for what's right !


If he didn't meet up to her standard, she should have let him know before a poublic disgrace, don't try to sugar-coat what is bad abeg.


Can't she accept the ring publicly and call him aside and say no?

Please you're coming off as too proud, this is not how life should be..

Accepting the ring publicly and returning it privately shouldn't even happen in the first place.

What should have happened is : don't date this guy, if he doesn't fit the bill.
Simple
And the headache of explaining to him privately coold escalate to beating, slaps, insults and all. If the guy is short tempered.
Anything can happen in private while returning the ring. So it's safe to not date him in the first place.

And for the records am not coming off as too proud o.

Not me..

I may come off like I don't care but not proud. Hell no! Am not.
I beg to differ from that view of yours.

DeadRat:
Ifa tear You Slap you Will Forget Your Nairaland Password...

I'm done with you kid

Martin0:
Aaaaaaaa my real guy
Same to u oo,

Hmmmm see question u re the second pesin asking me diz question today

Abeg na na wa for una questions today oo

One regret many men don't asily recover form is not marrying a good ex. So answer oh. Unless you tell me she was an ogbanje, or an olosho, the typical lie we men lie, i want to hear your reason brother.

Happy Christmas wake...

alexialin:
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Accepting the ring publicly and returning it privately shouldn't even happen in the first place.

What should have happened is : don't date this guy, if he doesn't fit the bill.
Simple
And the headache of explaining to him privately coold escalate to beating, slaps, insults and all. If the guy is short tempered.
Anything can happen in private while returning the ring. So it's safe to not date him in the first place.

And for the records am not coming off as too proud o.

Not me..

I may come off like I don't care but not proud. Hell no! Am not.
I beg to differ from that view of yours.

We reach a consensus. But watch it oh...Your comment are beginning to exude pride beneath oh...

...Aha...Happy Sunday, Happy festivities !

Jupxter:
One regret many men don't asily recover form is not marrying a good ex. So answer oh. Unless you tell me she was an ogbanje, or an olosho, the typical lie we men lie, i want to hear your reason brother.

Happy Christmas wake...

Yeah u talked sence and I agree to that

If u are given the opportunity to marry chimanmada will u marry her

lefulefu:
haha don't u understand naija type of relationships? .u have one main boo that u really love and u have numerious side boos that u Might fall back too if main boo fuk up.this is why u see some babes with 15 boyfriends. Out of those 15 boyfriends dem get d main guy wey dem really love and can do anything for him.the other boyfriends na jus spare.though most times there is always advantages in being a side boyfriend cos u won't spend a kobo and u will be chopping free kpekus.na wen u as a side boyfriend start to dey fall in love with d babe dats wen yawa go gas for u.as a side bae eat ur free kpekus and move on . Ehn u no dey celebrate Christmas again? U don turn jehovah witness ba?

I dey find money, so i'm working at the moment..


The same way Eve had Adam but went to follow serpent. How typical of human beings, insatiety and greed. Woman see handsome man, she leave am go follow snake..E make sense, ladies see a guy dieing for them, e no dey do them, them go dey find things wey no suppose dey found to suit their curiosity, in the end, they end up shooting themsevles in the foot. Anyways, as my guy says, ladies make foolish mistakes by default. My guy dey always talk say him never see lady make good decision even him own mama

Jupxter:
That is the point. We should not date who we can't marry, we shouldn't be wasting people's time.

For example, if i'm serious with a chick, i don't talk to other chicks no matter how pretty, once there's a third party, it disturbs the communication and fault-finding is next. She's a loser. In the end, na man still go marry her. All this images of percet man in people's heads. It casues them to find faults without substance in guys.


Make a spit, as i walk out. Shame on her motherm what an arrogant fool...

We shouldn't date people we can't marry and no side chicks or side boos. Just focus squarely on what one has going on. If it works Halleluyah, if it doesn't lick your wounds and move on.


If not this drama and dissapointments to this level, wouldn't have occured in the first place.

alexialin:
We shouldn't date people we can't marry and no side chicks or side boos. Just focus squarely on what one has going on. If it works Halleluyah, if it doesn't lick your wounds and move on.


If not this drama and dissapointments to this level, wouldn't have occured in the first place.

Hahaha


It's okay


Chicken breat and rice...Damn, i need a woman, time for me to be serious

Martin0:
Yeah u talked sence and I agree to that

If u are given the opportunity to marry chimanmada will u marry her

Bro i can marry even Hilary Clinton's daughter, if she like she earn ten million, while i earn 100k, my rule to women is simple. Just two rules


1. Give me peace

2. Do not disrespect me


If this two conditions can be met, Cowabunga !

alexialin:
Heheheheheheh
You sef!

Your mind about women na one way traffic!

Bia! How u sef take know say Na German based guy, she's waiting for !

The main guy could be in Nigeria here, possibly a guy from a rich well known family , while this one could be a struggling guy.

Not all abroad guys we dey trip for.

one of my bigger bros tell me how im friend wife dump d guy and the two kids she born for am then run off with one dubai based guy.and this lady husband is financially comfortable oo.forget matter .Abroad based guys are so bae.Once u mention to a babe that u are based overseas na so her two eyeballs go jus bulge out dey chukkie chukkie for dollars,euros and pound sterling plus Indian rupee sef. Ehm greiboy bia bia...wats d current exchange rate of the naira to the pound sterling .

Amarabae:
She is a stupid big capital okpokoro fool.
Why embarrassing him publicly,?
Even if she is not interested in marrying him, she would have pretended to say yes in public to avoid embarrassment and then call it off secretly with him.

@bold It does not make any difference
The shame won't last more than a week, but it will make the guy a better person
Some men find it hard controlling their emotions when it comes to love, only such an act can make the b!tch a5s nigga stop begging her continuously...

Jupxter:
We reach a consensus. But watch it oh...Your comment are beginning to exude pride beneath oh...

...Aha...Happy Sunday, Happy festivities !

Mbanu!

There is no pride in my comments. It's your figment of imagination.

I know what it takes to behave proud and talk proud.. Not this Biko.



Yes o.

Compliments of the season

Thank God we are healthy and sound.

Me am a private person I will propose in private so when you say no it's the end of relationship and no one has to be embarrassed unless the no means not ready at that time.

lefulefu:
the babe has a main boo based in Munich,Germany. Why would she forfeit that one for one kpako home based side boo.Who ever does that? .Though if the German based bobo breaks her heart she can always fall back to the home based side guy.na so d way the tin dey be.i sabi babes parole wella.

This man

Jupxter:
Bro i can marry even Hilary Clinton's daughter, if she like she earn ten million, while i earn 100k, my rule to women is simple. Just two rules


1. Give me peace

2. Do not disrespect me


If this two conditions can be met, Cowabunga !

Waow this man is my kinda man I like ur rules,those are exactly my rules too

But unfortunately my Ex couldn't abide to one rules there,though somehow I think her violating one of those rules was my fault

lefulefu:
one of my bigger bros tell me how im friend wife dump d guy and the two kids she born for am then run off with one dubai based guy.and this lady husband is financially comfortable oo.forget matter .Abroad based guys are so bae.Once u mention to a babe that u are based overseas na so her two eyeballs go jus bulge out dey chukkie chukkie for dollars,euros and pound sterling . Ehm greiboy bia bia...wats d current exchange rate of the naira to the pound sterling .

Wow!

That's serious.

Abroad guys dont freak me. All they want is trips, chop, clean mouth, waka. Nothing serious there . I just hope nija babes will learn. And they can brag alot.

Nothing concrete jare. I know them well!

Martin0:
Waow this man is my kinda man I like ur rules,those are exactly my rules too

But unfortunately my Ex couldn't abide to one rules there,though somehow I think her violating one of those rules was my fault

I am like a kegite oh. Flenjor dey go...My rules are simple,don't bash my ego...No curse words. Don't disrespect me, and i'll worship the feet beneath that woman's foot


All this i need woman with this and that and that is juvenile...We should grow up !

lefulefu:
one of my bigger bros tell me how im friend wife dump d guy and the two kids she born for am then run off with one dubai based guy.and this lady husband is financially comfortable oo.forget matter .Abroad based guys are so bae.Once u mention to a babe that u are based overseas na so her two eyeballs go jus bulge out dey chukkie chukkie for dollars,euros and pound sterling plus Indian rupee sef. Ehm greiboy bia bia...wats d current exchange rate of the naira to the pound sterling .

485 naira to one pounds on aboki forex

One day me self go enter uk ooo

Merry Christmas bro

greiboy:
485 naira to one pounds on aboki forex

One day me self go enter uk ooo

Merry Christmas bro

Pounds don reach 485 ?

alexialin:
Mbanu!

There is no pride in my comments. It's your figment of imagination.

I know what it takes to behave proud and talk proud.. Not this Biko.



Yes o.

Compliments of the season

Thank God we are healthy and sound.

Okay