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My Virgin Gf Cheat On Me after I broke her virginity, Should I Forgive or#sad by Nobody: 9:05am On Dec 29, 2017

Unlike those who hide their Monica to post. Please read well
I met this girl last year October ending, she was a virgin. We started dating. She was schooling in enugu too. In a private university. The relationship kicked up fine. But at a time I noticed there was this guy who keeps on calling her. I asked her who the guy was and she said was her best friend. But that they had something B4. Well I said okay, I was not worried cause she was still tight. I was already happy that I've seen the lady to marry. Fast forward to June, ending.this year, that was the first time I was able to have sex with her since October. We do go out but she has never ever allowed me, when ever I want to go in, either its painful or that she wants to keep it till marriage night. And I really loved her. I told her that I was going to marry her.she will tell me that guys are cheat, if I break her that I will promise not to leave her to another girl. Omo I was ready for all that. . Later after 6 months I had my way in. She enjoyed the sex and kept on coming lke every day for the sex, saying it was too sweet. I laughed over it ooo. The way she was now coming for the sex was too much. I do make her orgasm all the time oo. Though I didn't complain cause I knew I was the one who broke her so I can't runaway from what I caused. We kept on fucking. Anytime she wants it. So after 2 weeks she traveled back to Abuja where she base for another new semester. Then she came back October to resume school. I've always been fucking her without condom cause I trusted her so much to never to cheat cause I was the first nah. That kind thing. After she came bk, she came to stay with me B4 Goin bk. We bleeped without condom. And I noticed she told her cousins she broke up with me, after she came oo. Then I told her to call her cousins and tell her she was was with me but she said no. So I left her. After a day calls started coming in that she was lost. Everybody now was calling me including her sister, which she still told me to tell them that she was not with me. Nawaoo.later she went home and then the family decided to vacate her back to Abuja and start school for her there. Because of what happened in enugu. Fast forward to December, her birthday, so I decided to make a post on her fb, after I discovered a guy sent me a request, he asked me who I was to the girl, it was then I discovered it was the same guy who was calling her back then last year. I told him to ask the girl, and he said that it seems the girl loves me more than him. I was confused. Then he told me that the girl is his gf, and that they have been dating for 2years now. I didn't believe, then he sent me a naked pix of the girl on bed with him. Then he asked me if I broke the girl, that when they were dating that she was still a virgin now she came bk open. I was dumbfounded, I couldn't answer that. He told me how he recently slept with the girl last month November. And he told me that he slept with her 3 times. This year. Man it distblized me. This is a girl I have been so faithful. I don't know the reason she cheated. I've introduced her to my parents all my family knows her. She knows my shops. Infact she sanctions my sales workers when I'm not around. They all know her. But with this act, I have already told her I want to break up. But I'm confused if I should accept her back. Cause the guy told me she loves me, that he will leave her for me cause I broke her that it's not easy, that he tried. But finally he still slept with her after breaking it outside. Nairaland please what should I do
I need help
Virgins are not easy to come by again. I don't know what to do. I felt like having a virgin, that I'll be sure of the relationship but I'm not, we have never broke up B4. Bt we fight and quarrel. Now she is in enugu for Christmas. She was planning staying 1 week with me B4 going bk to abj 4 school. Bt now I don't want it. She has been calling me to tell me it a lie since that day. Ooo
Re: My Virgin Gf Cheat On Me after I broke her virginity, Should I Forgive or#sad by dotuna3(m): 9:07am On Dec 29, 2017
. cool
Re: My Virgin Gf Cheat On Me after I broke her virginity, Should I Forgive or#sad by donstan18:
sirthisthickkal:
I know one day we would definitely see a thread that says" I want to commit suicide, should I do it or not ?please advice !" Some people cannot make decisions by themselves again without posting it on nairaland.I don't when nairaland has turn to a decision making forum..rubbish!
So, you believed those lies and cooked up garbage?
Re: My Virgin Gf Cheat On Me after I broke her virginity, Should I Forgive or#sad by sirthisthickkal: 9:19am On Dec 29, 2017
I know one day we would definitely see a thread that says" I want to commit suicide, should I do it or not ?please advice !" Some people cannot make decisions by themselves again without posting it on nairaland.I don't when nairaland has turn to a decision making forum..rubbish!

Re: My Virgin Gf Cheat On Me after I broke her virginity, Should I Forgive or#sad by Nobody: 9:21am On Dec 29, 2017
sirthisthickkal:
I know one day we would definitely see a thread that says" I want to commit suicide, should I do it or not ?please advice !" Some people cannot make decisions by themselves again without posting it on nairaland.I don't when nairaland has turn to a decision making forum..rubbish!
cheesy grin grinwhy e pain u nah. Like I said I made decision to break up already I've told her. But Im having this feeling to continue, I only want to know if my decision is the best
Re: My Virgin Gf Cheat On Me after I broke her virginity, Should I Forgive or#sad by Readonee35L(m): 9:23am On Dec 29, 2017
Sorry man. cry
Re: My Virgin Gf Cheat On Me after I broke her virginity, Should I Forgive or#sad by Nobody: 9:23am On Dec 29, 2017
ha
Re: My Virgin Gf Cheat On Me after I broke her virginity, Should I Forgive or#sad by Nobody: 9:24am On Dec 29, 2017
cry
Readonee35L:
Sorry man. cry
cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry
Re: My Virgin Gf Cheat On Me after I broke her virginity, Should I Forgive or#sad by phoenix17(m): 9:27am On Dec 29, 2017
is like u dont have sense? Havent she broken up with u?
Re: My Virgin Gf Cheat On Me after I broke her virginity, Should I Forgive or#sad by sirthisthickkal: 9:30am On Dec 29, 2017
CHESTER48:
cheesy grin grinwhy e pain u nah. Like I said I made decision to break up already I've told her. But Im having this feeling to continue, I only want to know if my decision is the best
So it is nairalanders that would tell you if your decision is the best or not??

Re: My Virgin Gf Cheat On Me after I broke her virginity, Should I Forgive or#sad by Epositive(m): 9:30am On Dec 29, 2017
sirthisthickkal:
I know one day we would definitely see a thread that says" I want to commit suicide, should I do it or not ?please advice !" Some people cannot make decisions by themselves again without posting it on nairaland.I don't when nairaland has turn to a decision making forum..rubbish!
It's obvious you have no idea of what a forum is. undecided
Re: My Virgin Gf Cheat On Me after I broke her virginity, Should I Forgive or#sad by Nobody: 9:32am On Dec 29, 2017
You think being the one that broke her virginity will stop her from cheating...

Think again. Lolzz.

Just let her go.
Re: My Virgin Gf Cheat On Me after I broke her virginity, Should I Forgive or#sad by xendra: 9:33am On Dec 29, 2017
oh! children...
Re: My Virgin Gf Cheat On Me after I broke her virginity, Should I Forgive or#sad by coolestofall(m): 9:36am On Dec 29, 2017
Guy u don c where person wey commission new bridge sleep 4 d front of d bridge say nobody else go pass. As u don open d way, abeg shift make d rest of us pass.
Re: My Virgin Gf Cheat On Me after I broke her virginity, Should I Forgive or#sad by wickyyolo: 9:43am On Dec 29, 2017
She is human dude, when you first disvirgin a girl she will always crave for more sex just forgive her.

About her dating the other guy also, I dunno that one maybe she was just confused on who she loves more. For that reason I won't keep her.
Re: My Virgin Gf Cheat On Me after I broke her virginity, Should I Forgive or#sad by sirthisthickkal: 9:47am On Dec 29, 2017
Epositive:
It's obvious you have no idea of what a forum is. undecided
I do...most people just misuse the purpose of a forum by posting every seemingly unimportant issues about their private lives thereby allowing the Internet to dictate their lives.
Re: My Virgin Gf Cheat On Me after I broke her virginity, Should I Forgive or#sad by edimolu(m):
It wasn't even like she confessed, she hid it from you and told your folks her being with you already hit the rocks....that alone falsifies any second thought...

The dude called you? Lol...such sleeky-move, that has always been his intent anyways, you still don't get it do you? Niggur would keep assisting you till thy kingdom come..sure you are very familiar with the tag-name!

A bitch is a bitch no matter how you tend to sugar-define it.....just let the thing go or better still you could also be like the guy who called...dayumm i love the guy already!
Re: My Virgin Gf Cheat On Me after I broke her virginity, Should I Forgive or#sad by SAMBARRY: 10:12am On Dec 29, 2017
Faarjin Toto Don sweet this one grin grin grin

Singing in tenietainers voice

Oni kin bo pata olohun maradona,oni teni ololmoge Cinderella oni outo fishayayi po ,I wanna marry you,sheymole debe,sheymolekibo grin
Re: My Virgin Gf Cheat On Me after I broke her virginity, Should I Forgive or#sad by Oyebee91(m): 10:32am On Dec 29, 2017
One of the advantages of kiss n tell
Re: My Virgin Gf Cheat On Me after I broke her virginity, Should I Forgive or#sad by edimolu(m): 11:16am On Dec 29, 2017
sirthisthickkal:
I do...most people just misuse the purpose of a forum by posting every seemingly unimportant issues about their private lives thereby allowing the Internet to dictate their lives.
Oga go sleep jawe, u be newbie? You are not even se.un, if e dey pain you, create ya own forum and set some strict-rules.....
Re: My Virgin Gf Cheat On Me after I broke her virginity, Should I Forgive or#sad by paulpery: 11:49am On Dec 29, 2017
Na your wife?
Re: My Virgin Gf Cheat On Me after I broke her virginity, Should I Forgive or#sad by sirthisthickkal: 12:17pm On Dec 29, 2017
edimolu:
[s]Oga go sleep jawe, u be newbie? You are not even se.un, if e dey pain you, create ya own forum and set some strict-rules.....[/s]
that's my opinion if you don't like it carry your cylindrical augmented head and stick it into any watery mud and hibernate your brain untill your sense start multiplying.
Re: My Virgin Gf Cheat On Me after I broke her virginity, Should I Forgive or#sad by edimolu(m):
sirthisthickkal:
that's my opinion if you don't like it carry your cylindrical augmented head and stick it into any watery mud and hibernate your brain untill until yourself your sense start starts multiplying.
See as the mumu dey gbagaun for my precious-head grin you had to modify, yet your cataract-infested bulging eyes disturbed you from fixing your errors.

Ability to read and write doesn't construe intelligence, asides being a sozzled-idiot, you are a dimwitted-fool, a grown-man like you with no better sense! It is one thing to be a hypocrite, it is another to be an arrogantly-repulsive one.....

You mentioned opinion? Are you mad? What was the op's act before you foolishly jumped into this thread like a sex-starved reject and numbingly quoted him for his own opinion? You should agree to terms why i regarded you a repulsive-hypocrite...

By the way, were you never taught the use of punctuation marks?, or your brain is presently undergoing the usual-seizures? Ode oshi grin
Re: My Virgin Gf Cheat On Me after I broke her virginity, Should I Forgive or#sad by bingbagbo(m): 12:39pm On Dec 29, 2017
I greet you in the name of God the father and the Lord Jesus Christ
who is and who was and who is to come

This earth is bound for eminent destruction

This is not the first time the earth is going to be destroyed

This earth saw partial destruction before Adam was created

How you have fallen from heaven, morning star, son of the dawn! You have been cast down to the earth, you who once laid low the nations!(Isaiah 14:12)

Then there was the destruction by flood during Noah's time (Genesis 5:28-10:32)

Now this earth is sitting on a time bomb, this earth is so fast passing away by the seconds only those who are sons of God shall prevail

Lucifer and his host of wicked fallen angels have been long condemned and their portion is an eternal lake of fire he is consequently looking for men to join him. He is bating you with SIN.

James 4:8

The Grace of my Lord and God Jesus Christ be with you now and forever more Amen.
Re: My Virgin Gf Cheat On Me after I broke her virginity, Should I Forgive or#sad by stinkmeaner: 12:42pm On Dec 29, 2017
sirthisthickkal:
that's my opinion if you don't like it carry your cylindrical augmented head and stick it into any watery mud and hibernate your brain untill your sense start multiplying.
Niiiggggaaaa!!!! shocked shocked shocked

Re: My Virgin Gf Cheat On Me after I broke her virginity, Should I Forgive or#sad by Distevo(m): 12:43pm On Dec 29, 2017
You are sa3caka oh . So after talking, breaking as u called it and vandalizing her virginity, you want to leave her because she cheated on ur sence abi GUY abeg

Re: My Virgin Gf Cheat On Me after I broke her virginity, Should I Forgive or#sad by Nobody: 12:54pm On Dec 29, 2017
Distevo:
You are sa3caka oh . So after talking, breaking as u called it and vandalizing her virginity, you want to leave her because she cheated on ur sence abi GUY abeg
oh so you'll suggest I'll stay? If that is the case, case of the virginity p. Because I de flowered her now means I should be subjected to cheating
Re: My Virgin Gf Cheat On Me after I broke her virginity, Should I Forgive or#sad by sirthisthickkal: 1:43pm On Dec 29, 2017
edimolu:
[s]See as the mumu dey gbagaun for my head grin you had to modify, yet your cataract-infested bulging eyes disturbed you from fixing your errors.

Ability to read and write doesn't construe intelligence, asides being a sozzled-idiot, you are a foolish man, a grown-man like you with no better sense! It is one thing to be a hypocrite, it is another to be an arrogantly-repulsive one.....

You mentioned opinion? Are you mad? What was the op's act before you foolishly jumped into this thread like a sex-starved reject and numbingly quoted him for his own opinion? You should agree to terms why i regarded you a repulsive-hypocrite...

By the way, were you never taught the use of punctuation marks, or your brain is presently undergoing the usual-seizures? Ode oshi grin[/s]
[b] now I love this...... i didnt quote the op initially i simply showed my disdain to bringing any private matters especially decisions online thats my stance. Everyone is entitled to showout whatever displeases him or her..because this forum is not mine doesn't mean I can't comment the way I like sometimes when things are not going the way they should we criticize seun and offer suggestions. Just because you are ma.d and unfortunate offline doesn't mean you should blame it on others online.
..one thing I have noticed about retar.ded bast.ards like you is that the only way you can counter is to point out typographical errors so as to score yourself cheap points, mind you ass.hole everyone makes typo errors it's no Biggie .you could type and write correct diction online that doesn't mean you are reasonable and mentally balanced offline. You could be a frustrated orangutan whose live has been skewed by failures and but foolishly wants to showcase his misfortunes to the world. Animals and lowlives like you should have been caged in a game reserves as an exhibition to tourists so as not to infect others with your degenerated, shattered and ill- begotten oblonged skull. Now hit me with yours shot cretin. [/b]
Re: My Virgin Gf Cheat On Me after I broke her virginity, Should I Forgive or#sad by edimolu(m): 1:52pm On Dec 29, 2017
sirthisthickkal:
[s]Now I love this...... i quote the op initially i simply showed my disdain to bringing any private matters especially decisions online thats my stance. Everyone is entitled to showout whatever displeases him or her..because this forum is not mine doesn't mean I can't comment the way I like sometimes when things are not going the way they should we criticize seun and offer suggestions. Just because you are ma.d and unfortunate offline doesn't mean you should blame it on others online.
..one thing I have noticed about retar.ded bast.ards like you is that the only way you can counter is to point out typographical errors so as to score yourself cheap points, mind you ass.hole everyone makes typo errors it's no Biggie .you could type and write correct diction online that doesn't mean you are reasonable and mentally balanced offline. You could be a frustrated orangutan whose live has been skewed by failures and but foolishly wants to showcase his misfortunes to the world. Animals and lowlives like you should have been caged in game reserves as an exhibition to tourists so as not to infect others with your degenerated, shattered and ill- begotten oblonged skull. Now hit me with yours shot cretin[/s]
Awuzu bi llahi, guy! you won't injure my brains with your blunder-ridden baseless-epistle....it is "quoted" not quote, dickfaced-wânker, i read just the first line and assumed the rest as thrash, such wasted effort!.

Am not one to feast my precious-eyes on what best defines your failure, make your rebuttal space-worthy like mine, and maybe i might dignify your "thick-head fit to smash a rock" with a response
Re: My Virgin Gf Cheat On Me after I broke her virginity, Should I Forgive or#sad by Stevengerd(m): 2:05pm On Dec 29, 2017
SAMBARRY:
Faarjin Toto Don sweet this one grin grin grin

Singing in tenietainers voice

Oni kin bo pata olohun maradona,oni teni ololmoge Cinderella oni outo fishayayi po ,I wanna marry you,sheymole debe,sheymolekibo grin
Lol, dat song ehn!
Re: My Virgin Gf Cheat On Me after I broke her virginity, Should I Forgive or#sad by Nobody: 2:14pm On Dec 29, 2017
CHESTER48:

Unlike those who hide their Monica to post. Please read well
I met this girl last year October ending, she was a virgin. We started dating. She was schooling in enugu too. In a private university. The relationship kicked up fine. But at a time I noticed there was this guy who keeps on calling her. I asked her who the guy was and she said was her best friend. But that they had something B4. Well I said okay, I was not worried cause she was still tight. I was already happy that I've seen the lady to marry. Fast forward to June, ending.this year, that was the first time I was able to have sex with her since October. We do go out but she has never ever allowed me, when ever I want to go in, either its painful or that she wants to keep it till marriage night. And I really loved her. I told her that I was going to marry her.she will tell me that guys are cheat, if I break her that I will promise not to leave her to another girl. Omo I was ready for all that. . Later after 6 months I had my way in. She enjoyed the sex and kept on coming lke every day for the sex, saying it was too sweet. I laughed over it ooo. The way she was now coming for the sex was too much. I do make her orgasm all the time oo. Though I didn't complain cause I knew I was the one who broke her so I can't runaway from what I caused. We kept on fucking. Anytime she wants it. So after 2 weeks she traveled back to Abuja where she base for another new semester. Then she came back October to resume school. I've always been fucking her without condom cause I trusted her so much to never to cheat cause I was the first nah. That kind thing. After she came bk, she came to stay with me B4 Goin bk. We bleeped without condom. And I noticed she told her cousins she broke up with me, after she came oo. Then I told her to call her cousins and tell her she was was with me but she said no. So I left her. After a day calls started coming in that she was lost. Everybody now was calling me including her sister, which she still told me to tell them that she was not with me. Nawaoo.later she went home and then the family decided to vacate her back to Abuja and start school for her there. Because of what happened in enugu. Fast forward to December, her birthday, so I decided to make a post on her fb, after I discovered a guy sent me a request, he asked me who I was to the girl, it was then I discovered it was the same guy who was calling her back then last year. I told him to ask the girl, and he said that it seems the girl loves me more than him. I was confused. Then he told me that the girl is his gf, and that they have been dating for 2years now. I didn't believe, then he sent me a naked pix of the girl on bed with him. Then he asked me if I broke the girl, that when they were dating that she was still a virgin now she came bk open. I was dumbfounded, I couldn't answer that. He told me how he recently slept with the girl last month November. And he told me that he slept with her 3 times. This year. Man it distblized me. This is a girl I have been so faithful. I don't know the reason she cheated. I've introduced her to my parents all my family knows her. She knows my shops. Infact she sanctions my sales workers when I'm not around. They all know her. But with this act, I have already told her I want to break up. But I'm confused if I should accept her back. Cause the guy told me she loves me, that he will leave her for me cause I broke her that it's not easy, that he tried. But finally he still slept with her after breaking it outside. Nairaland please what should I do
I need help
Virgins are not easy to come by again. I don't know what to do. I felt like having a virgin, that I'll be sure of the relationship but I'm not, we have never broke up B4. Bt we fight and quarrel. Now she is in enugu for Christmas. She was planning staying 1 week with me B4 going bk to abj 4 school. Bt now I don't want it. She has been calling me to tell me it a lie since that day. Ooo
Sparkles003 come and defend another of your cheating lot.
Re: My Virgin Gf Cheat On Me after I broke her virginity, Should I Forgive or#sad by Nobody: 2:21pm On Dec 29, 2017
Chester;

You better snap out of it brah, you don't love that girl. That fresh virgin pussy has got you all talking crazy.
With what she did to her bf, it's obvious you cannot trust her, let alone making her your wife.

I know you feel real good reaping where you didn't sow - kind of - but never forget that she cheated on and lied to you both.
Virgin or no virgin, she's trash.

And what is it so special about being the first to burst a hymen that makes you people act stupid by promising heaven and earth, even marriage?
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