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mhisbliss:
how old do you think I am? And who told you that marriage is a do or die affair or a milestone to judge how successful a woman is?

Joislim:
Am I single? Let me check

Martin0:
E nor mean if u dey 2year's!

Hmmm did I mention such statement to you? Or you just understand it differently in your own way!

Well In the 1950s, women were primarily
housewives and getting married was
typically the end goal. Back then, being a
wife is what defined a woman, so I can
understand why finding your special
someone was considered an
accomplishment.

This is no longer the case, though. In
today’s society, ladies are balancing much
more than just finding a man.

Women are entrepreneurs, lawyers,
teachers, CEOs, inventors, designers,
researchers, writers, consultants and so
much more. Women are going to college
and then getting their masters and
doctorate degrees. Women are endlessly
working to climb up the corporate ladder.

Women are key figures in our government.
Women are changing the world with their
innovation.

And while many of these women are
married, they are definitely not solely
defined by their last name.


Remember ladies are balancing much more than just finding a man,and it doesn't mean otherwise!

But from the way you sound! Your comment are sounding otherwise!

lefulefu:
lemme come and be going

octopusfreaky:
Bf is 10 yrs older Dan me and I had to break up with him Still waiting for Mr right

Martin0:
U wan try me abi Ring Ring Ring Ring!
Oya gimme ur hand!

mhisbliss:
lol you're brilliant I give you that, but I'm not contradicting your points not tonight

Joislim:
not so fast. Still checking

Martin0:
I spend enough time before I reply to any lady here not because I wanna as smart them or something but because I wanna get to their last point even before they will ask me the next question!

I sabi una well well for Nairaland!

Am not gullible u know!

Anytime anyday I will be waiting for you to reply against my comments!

Who know's I will learn one or two things from you!

Martin0:
Time dey go ooo!

octopusfreaky:
Bf is 10 yrs older Dan me and I had to break up with him Still waiting for Mr right

mhisbliss:
goodnight

Joislim:
no wahala
I'll be sure when I wake up tomorrow. good night

biacan:
Too high taste

mhisbliss:
intrested in making myself a bigger and better person

lefulefu:
Don't want to get high blood pressure yet

Tuham:
this is new year biko

lefulefu:
hahaha happy new year

octopusfreaky:
Bf is 10 yrs older Dan me and I had to break up with him Still waiting for Mr right

Martin0:
U wan try me abi Ring Ring Ring Ring!
Oya gimme ur hand!

kennysam91:
EWO

Martin0:
Ur mouth eh! Nor worry I dey come lag soon! That ur mouth I go twist am for u

But u fit work out tinz together and ur husband will be rich!

I have seen ladies who married their husband as poor men and later became rich after year's of marriage and I can bet my shining black ass that she contributed to the man richness

biacan:
Martin understanding men are hard to come by these days....... no woman wants to waste her time on a man who will treat her like a trash

biacan:
Don't tell me it's happening Martin

Martin0:
Yeah it true! But if any man is serious with a lady I think it will be easy to understand,the only reason women find it difficult to understand men as when the man is not willing to give in I mean when his not serious to sacrifice for the relationship.

By sacrificing for the relationship mean's your partner has to get the better part of you! Me myself am personally hard to understand but there's a reason for that,and it doesn't mean I difficult to understand!

Every women! I mean it is in the hands of ladies to decide if her relationship is a time waste or not!

Martin0:
Biacan biacan biacan!
How many times I call u?

biacan:
Three times Sir

biacan:
Most men are like that they don't want to be understandable,no sacrifice at all and they expect a woman to lift them no dudes it doesn't work that way if you're not ready to give in your all in a relationship better back off because ladies are becoming wise these days and if you play the red card on them,they won't hesitate to kick your a** out of the relationship.......


Biacan biacan,for ur mind now u re a good and perfect lady abi! wife material!
See sometimes is not how we plan relationship it ends oo! I ve been there and I know what it like,and I believe u ve been there too!

Ok you tell me,so should relatipnship be based on trust alone!
Don't you think majority of ladies are not ready and they don't even know wha they want in a relationship!
On this NL I know and by their comment I have seen ladies who actually can not even dictate their relationship!

Many ladies here by their comment u can predict their relationship! So what else can a man offer to a lady in a relationship when ladies are fast becoming confused as they don't even know what they want!


As for your issue all I have to say is in a relationship trust is one of the major key factor...... so if you can't open up to your partner about the things that's making you difficult to understand then why are you in the relationship like I said earlier no lady wants to waste her time in a relationship where everything seems to be difficult for her to comprehend...... if you're not ready to open up make sure you're ready to back off simple