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The well fair state can take care of mixed rase kids.
The kids in Europa born to a white woman are lost anywhy.
He just married her for passport and her kids do not count.

Are the nicer things, some people say.

And would a Nigerian woman have been ask, if all her children belong to the same father?

WhiteOne:
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The kids in Europa born to a white woman are lost anywhy.
He just married her for passport and her kids do not count.

Are the nicer things, some people say.

And would be Nigerian woman would have been as if all her children belong to the same father?

Disaster!! and your ok with this!!!

and NO mixed race kids will NOT be lost if EFFORT is made!! But i can see wih all indication that is not likely,

And I dont know what kind of man she married but some Nigerian men (i talk on behalf of igbos) fight for their kids, will go as far as taking them,

So if she likes she can start afresh, 

Germany do not make progress if it comes to mixed rase children?

And they the USA, UK and Nigeria are much better?

Realy?

I might have over looked something last time i went to a business meeting in the USA and I might have over looked something at work today.

Where where all the black managers and high flyers?

I am not OK with this kind of talk at all !!!

Only some people do not know i understand a bit of yoruba and broken.
And some woman start there gossip some how . . .

Yes, children must not be lost if brought up in the right way.

However there is still a lot work to do.

WhiteOne:
Germany do not make progress if it comes to mixed rase children?

And they the USA, UK and Nigeria are much better?

Realy?

I might have over looked something last time i went to a business meeting in the USA and I might have over looked something at work today.

Where where all the black managers and high flyers?

LMAO!!! Are you for real!?

Ive always known germans to be MR To Knows,
They think they know everything, are you that blind?
I dont blame you, you live in germany so you will never see it, 
The mixed race children in the UK are dealt with by Black families, PERIOD!
They class mixed race kids as black children and want them in a black families homes.
I didnt say their is NO Racism in the USA or UK, that would be a warped statement

But, thy are more accomadating, trust, i talk from family experience!!
Germany is NOT accomodating to black people, FACT!!!
They will NOT help a black person in trouble,,,, FACT!
They think most black people are illegal immigrants hence why they stop most black people on the street and ask for ID,  FACT!

The time i know him i was 18 years old.

I just fall in love with him and thought that live is easy, but it isn`t.

They will know their fathers land when our financial situation is better (may be in 10 years   )

In my and my boyfriends oppinion, germany is the best country for our children to grow up.
My boyfriend is always laughing when people tell him about the racismn in germany.
May be our city is very special and the people are more intelligent then somewhere else.  

Lady dee:

It would be nice when nigerian man would fight for their german kids, but most of them dont care when they got their papers and this is so sad, because this are their children

They dont pay, they dont help, they dont even visit the kid, this happen so often.

One man is divorced from his german girlfriend. i know her a little bit and she told me that he is still making terror with her. he is very agressive and she and her son are really afraid of this man.

may be ist true that the not real black children dont count for them.
i would call that racism.

at least let them kno where they com from
b'cos 10 years, lol, i doubt a (real Nigerian) father will allow that,

furthermore, did you not hear USA have a black President??
Is that High flyer enough for you,

In the UK they have Black MP's in government left right and centre, alot nigerians might i add

The higest level in the Legal Profession is a Black woman QC Judge,

I neednt start a list,

Selena586:
Lady dee:

It would be nice when nigerian man would fight for their german kids, but most of them dont care when they got their papers and this is so sad, because this are their children

They dont pay, they dont help, they dont even visit the kid, this happen so often.

One man is divorced from his german girlfriend. i know her a little bit and she told me that he is still making terror with her. he is very agressive and she and her son are really afraid of this man.

may be ist true that the not real black children dont count for them.
i would call that racism.

If they dont want half-cast kids, why did they produce them? seriously!

Selena586:
The time i know him i was 18 years old.

I just fall in love with him and thought that live is easy, but it isn`t.

They will know their fathers land when our financial situation is better (may be in 10 years   )

In my and my boyfriends oppinion, germany is the best country for our children to grow up.
My boyfriend is always laughing when people tell him about the racismn in germany.
May be our city is very special and the people are more intelligent then somewhere else.  

Is 10 years time not long,
How will they learn their heritage and culture in 10 years time, ?

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm,

makajibbz:
If they dont want half-cast kids, why did they produce them? seriously!

Bros i wonder ooooooo

I hope that it will be earlier.
you can send us some money and we will go tomorrow  

But i want to say something:
I am not going crazy because of any black man.
I am not this kind of girl.
I am not crazy about black skin. Black skin isn`t attractiv for me and I dont choose my partner by the colour of the skin.
I love my boyfriend for the person who he is. He is a very special boy and i can laugh and talk with him about everything.
He is not Brad Pitt but he has something what is more important.

Selena586:
I hope that it will be earlier.
you can send us some money and we will go tomorrow  

But i want to say something:
I am not going crazy because of any black man.
I am not this kind of girl.
I am not crazy about black skin. Black skin isn`t attractiv for me and I dont choose my partner by the colour of the skin.
I love my boyfriend for the person who he is. He is a very special boy and i can laugh and talk with him about everything.
He is not Brad Pitt but he has something what is more important.

Nize!!!!!!!

makajibbz:

They prodice them because of the paper.
In germany african people can only stay permanent when they marry or born german children.
this is the sad thing here.

Lady dee:

Their heritage and culture is also here in germany.
For me it would be more important, that they just know their grandparents.

Selena586:
makajibbz:

They prodice them because of the paper.
In germany african people can only stay permanent when they marry or born german children.
this is the sad thing here.

Lady dee:

Their[b] heritage and culture is also here in germany.
For me it would be more important[/b], that they just know their grandparents.

My dear, here lies YOUR problem, the bolded in your statement,

Which problem?
I am their mother.
I am a german.
Their are living here in germany and this for the next 18 years and may be longer.
So their main culture is here, because they have to live in this country.

when i would be in nigeria it would be the other way round.

culture is nothing, you can adapt to any culture when you are interested in it. What is important is to know his family.
And for an old woman who has lost so many children is important to see her son and his children.

Selena586:
Which problem?
I am their mother.
I am a german.
Their are living here in germany and this for the next 18 years and may be longer.
So their main culture is here, because they have to live in this country.

when i would be in nigeria it would be the other way round.

culture is nothing, you can adapt to any culture when you are interested in it. What is important is to know his family.
And for an old woman who has lost so many children is important to see her son and his children.

Ok,
I wont bother trying to explain anything to you, you simply will NEVER understand,
Go and tell your boyfriend/husband, his culture is nothing,
You will open a whole new can of worms

Sales meeting in the USA, see with my own eyes.

Out of 500 sales reps, software engineers and support stuff only a hand full where black.
And i have see how fair france and british people can be to black people in the private sector.

Sometimes i feel like crying !!!

And please read the english press, what was this within the London Police Service.

its seems to be difficult for you to understand me

i didnt say his culture is nothing. his culture is like my culture, but they are more important things.
culture is not our problem.

By the way I am not living in Germany.
I am living in London, SW not to far from Brixton.
And my mom is bearing a yoruba family name.
Still beleave i do not know, what i am writing about.

The problem is not the culture or the cultures.
It is the lack of understanding and the unwillingsness to learn.
Black and White, both sites have a long way to go.
It might be the gernation of my children, which is truly fee and can not see coloure any more.

In the USA a german, a nigerian and a british only can stay there if the marry an citizen of the USA or have a child there. And a US American can only stay the UK, if he/she marry an europian (EU) citizen or a british one or have a child.

My own white american boss hand to married to his white partner to stay here.

Therefore it is not only Germany.

And I am sure, if i wont to live in Nigeria for a longer periode i must be married to an Nigerian citizen, too.

WhiteOne:
Sales meeting in the USA, see with my own eyes.

Out of 500 sales reps, software engineers and support stuff only a hand full where black.
And i have see how fair france and british people can be to black people in the private sector.

Sometimes i feel like crying !!!

And please read the english press, what was this within the London Police Service.

Oya cry for them then! while your at it cry for the ones you will never know are high flyers in the UK and the USA,
abeg jare, im comparing germany to US and UK and your sitting their trying to say its almost the same thing, !

It definetly is NOT, 
By the by, do you want to say the same thing about me,  Im in a senior position in the pharma industry at the age of 25 and at least 30% of our company are of black indigine,  FACT.

Which part of i did not say racism does not exist in the UK didnt you quite get
Or am i speaking deutsch?

Well, let me tell you something about the police force lets compare and contrast,

Would a Policeman stop a black man driving a flash car and beat a Black man black and blue for absolutely no reason and get away with it SCOT FREE by fabricating a story within the station even when evidence points in the other direction?

Happened to my uncle,

Would the immigration at the airport who know a black man in particular to travel frequently with his kids to London, deliberatly humiliate and violate both the black man and his kids by stripping them completely unclothed including the poor babies and let them go wth no explanation?

Happened to my uncle and kids!

Would the police stand by while a fellow black man is beating the crap out of another black man to the point that TODAY the beaten black man was left for dead and in a COMA with some permanent brain damage?

This happened to my uncle,

If you were a 1st time visitor to the UK would you end up in the paper the next day because a new black person was in town?

That happened to me 10 years ago when i first went to germany, my first and last time i enter that place.

UK and Germany are totally DIFFERENT worlds!

Good for you if you have a good job and good for all the other people in your company, too.

And yes, my husband where stop by the british police here in the uk and was ask for his documents and he was born here.

And what about the brixton riots back in the eighties?

What about the current stop and search politic.

You write it yourself you are born and bread in the UK.
You are the second generation!

There are black germans, too. Still living in Germany in the second generation.

Yes, my dear compare Germany with England.

And you know what, please ask any Nigerian, who has lived in Germany about it.

A lot of people will tell you German might be better than England in some things like housing, like education and craftsmenship.

Talk to people of the first generation and you might gain a new view.


It upsets me to see people always talking about the great USA or the great UK.

Who is living mostly in the inner cities?

And what and how does the press and the TV reports about certain groups.

Anywhy you are 25 years old and your are living your UK/Nigerian live.

You can not understand what i am writing about anyway.

My husband were coming back from Lagos to London last year and he was asked a lot of stupied question in Heathrow.

And I was asked in Heathrow last year, how come my best friend daughter is with me in German over Christmas and does her mother gave me permission to take her to Germany.
This was on your way back to London.

It is so uncommon this a German with to mixed rase kids can take an other black teen along.

No worries! Life goes on.

And would your childhood friend mother tell you her daughter can not come and play with you becouse your mama is married to a black, happend to me!

And would your sister in law talk rabbish about white people they are no good and her children never should be to close to white british and totally over look you and later say, oh sorry i forgot you are white, too. Happend to me and i am the one, who took care of ther own three children over to my house for the last five year. happend to me!

And will you be told in a job inteview all nigerian are gangsters and they are no good, happend to me in the UK.

And when i had my national insurance interview i was told i can not be Ms. Adexxx becouse i am not black happend to me.

Or i was called a white polnish bxxtch and i should go back where i came from, becouse i am just taking the job of the black british ect.

WhiteOne:
Good for you if you have a good job and good for all the other people in your company, too.

And yes, my husband where stop by the british police here in the uk and was ask for his documents and he was born here.

And what about the brixton riots back in the eighties?

What about the current stop and search politic.

You write it yourself you are born and bread in the UK.
You are the second generation!

There are black germans, too. Still living in Germany in the second generation.

Yes, my dear compare Germany with England.

And you know what, please ask any Nigerian, who has lived in Germany about it.

A lot of people will tell you German might be better than England in some things like housing, like education and craftsmenship.

Talk to people of the first generation and you might gain a new view.


It upsets me to see people always talking about the great USA or the great UK.

Who is living mostly in the inner cities?

And what and how does the press and the TV reports about certain groups.

Anywhy you are 25 years old and your are living your UK/Nigerian live.

You can not understand what i am writing about anyway.

My husband were coming back from Lagos to London last year and he was asked a lot of stupied question in Heathrow.

And I was asked in Heathrow last year, how come my best friend daughter is with me in German over Christmas and does her mother gave me permission to take her to Germany.
This was on your way back to London.

It is so uncommon this a German with to mixed rase kids can take an other black teen along.

No worries! Life goes on.

Dont need to ask about german and uk life, i was talking about racism and the OP's choice of what she might need to look into in order to clarify certain issues,
U diverted into housing
You dont need to educate me in german healthcare, housing etc, I know which is better and im not ignorant of it,
Being aked abt stuff is different from being beaten, or did they beat you? or strip you and violate you?
Please stop with the patronising, I was born here and into the system i know how they operate

It upsetting you when there talking about the great UK or USA because e dey pain you germany no dey dere among dem,
Ignorance is bliss.

@OP I wish u the best in your endeavours and your family,

In Lagos where taken 1.000 Euro of my best friend a mixed German/Nigeria on her wedding day by the Nigerian police and sometimes i am not sure, if i might get a bottle over my head for bening white when on the road alone in SW London at night.

It does not bother me much if German is better than the UK or the USA.

I just have seen to many Nigerians of the first generation coming to London and they where not better treated jobwise as in Germany aka cleaning jobs, security and taking care of the elderly.

Or black people come here to study and than the found it realy hard to land a good office job and end up at car phone warehouse ect.

Yes black men marry for papers. Desperate situation desperate solutions. Blame your German government. After all when Europe colonised Africa did you marry our women and men to stay there. Now after exploiting Africa you are kicking against the few Africans that come there to do mostly hard labour jobs.
What causes the break up of these marriages in Germany. How can you marry a man and have children for him, when you have no regard for his country culture. When you think you are better than him because of your colour. When you have no respect for him and want him to forget his family.
How can you say you can`t understand them on the phone But your English is good enough to communicate in a forum? That just shows the kind of person you are. Why you should call her mama and ask after her. Your husband is mad because you do not respect them or regard them as in laws. You think you went to the bush to pick a monkey you can keep in your home in a cage?
If you want your marriage to last then treat it as a marriage. Decide if you are a wife or the owner of a monkey

Mutter blame the English goverment, the US goverment the indian goverment ect. or even blame the hole world !

To learn somebodies costumes and there way of live is also required if an igbo girl is married to a yoruba guy.

Or if a Tuerkish marries a German. ect!

Thank good i wear never requested to forget i am a German.

Marrying Whites most at times brings problem. As for me, my wife is a ready made black. Hahaha

mutter:
Yes black men marry for papers. Desperate situation desperate solutions. Blame your German government. After all when Europe colonised Africa did you marry our women and men to stay there. Now after exploiting Africa you are kicking against the few Africans that come there to do mostly hard labour jobs.
What causes the break up of these marriages in Germany. How can you marry a man and have children for him, when you have no regard for his country culture. When you think you are better than him because of your colour. When you have no respect for him and want him to forget his family.
How can you say you can`t understand them on the phone But your English is good enough to communicate in a forum? That just shows the kind of person you are. Why you should call her mama and ask after her. Your husband is mad because you do not respect them or regard them as in laws. You think you went to the bush to pick a monkey you can keep in your home in a cage?
If you want your marriage to last then treat it as a marriage. Decide if you are a wife or the owner of a monkey

(Y) thmbs up!

to learn the culture is required of every interracial -cultural marriage. But knowing and practising are two different things.
Most German girls if we want to be specific, do not want to practice this. They marry men even men more educated and from better families and just behave so disrespectful it is disgusting.
We have some real good ones too and they are just great.