oxon:
you are right they won't necessarily sleep with his wife but karma comes in different shaded he might give birth to an slowpoke , or have a son who becomes a notorious criminal . I refer you to read an African night entertainment it point out how karma works in different ways... advice him to stay away..the ten minute pleasure is not worth it

..............you are so learned..........There are a million single girls out there,yet the op fancies only the married one who lives in HIS COMPOUND............gush!

guy where is ur location I want to tell u something personally

GiantParrot:
@OP, It's obvious you have put some thought into this. I'll advise you consider the following too:

1. She has taken marriage vows. We are not much different from instinctive crude beasts with no sense of discipline or honour if we can't even stick to our own vows and commitments. You shouldn't be an accomplice in the violation of her vows.

2. Once you have her, you will no longer be the same person. You would have seared your conscience, and would henceforth begin to justify wrong or ill-advised actions as okay. You won't run out of excuses to do so. You will come out a worse person, and will know deep down that you are undeniably deficient in character.

3. Although she might be very attractive, the sexual experience could be nothing to write home about, and therefore not worth the hassle. Even if it turns out to be very pleasing, it would only be a matter of time before you get used to it. What's next after then? Is a few weeks or months of pleasure worth the loss of the person you have become?

4. You could get an STI. Not all that glitters is gold.

5. You could be setting the stage for unnecessary complications in your life.
-You may get tired of the whole thing at some point, but she may be unwilling to let go, and may begin to feel used. Yes, women have emotions and insecurities, and hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.
-The 10 year old kid could grow up, find out, and hate you and the mother.
-The husband could show up at any time and who knows what his reaction would be when he finds out. She may promise you her silence. But a weak and guilt-stricken moment can cause her to reveal her sins to her husband. People have been killed for less.
-She could get pregnant. And so on.

6. No one can tell how far the tales about your escapade with a married woman can go. People have lost life changing opportunities for less.

7. There are over a million attractive single women out there.

...and that your no 7, is it easy to get them? Maybe because you are a pastor and you get them easily...

Yian1:
you can even call the woman and explain to her why it's bad to cheat on her husband if only you have the gut

advice her to visit her hubby in the USA. if you start that with her she would abandon you and go weird which may later ruin her marriage. So Op don't let your lust ruin someone's else home otherwise expect something worse too

alexialin:
Easier said than done.

Only God knows what she's going through emotionally. I had to break up with my bf when I didn't see him for one and half years. I couldn't bear it anymore. And the guilt of shagging another behind his back while claiming faithful was too. Much for me to bear.
Some women in such scenario try. They over try.. Me I can't do long distance shiit.

Anyways Op, use your Brain. That's all I can tell u.

so your Bf is your husband
olosho

alexialin:







As of today, am living my life to the fullest and gives me great pride when my man makes love to me and realise am still tight. That's a great pride to me. Especially when he's like wow! U are tight!

For me fucvking till death is not my kind of thing . Extending my pussyy to congaaa Abi shower sef!
Its a great shame to me. I was brought up with strict rules and I love myself that way.

Whosoever that can't cope? Abeg Waka.

If I were not disciplined, I would have been a baby mama of twins and a extra join

Who loves that kind of life.

Abeg preach elsewhere. I ain't changing for nobody.

My late mum even whipped me in the dream never to be a baby mama, when have agreed with my ex to get pregnant. That same day, that night, the koboko I receive for dream, no small thing. I woke up screaming, mama abeg o.

The next day I called off the relationship when he was insisting on baby first.

And repercussion of fucvking anyhow :

One: your spiritual life and spiritual protection becomes low if not wiped off completely . Devil and village people will have greater access to your destiny.

Two: un wanted pregnancies occurs and we all. Know guys of these days. That's why baby mama's starting from 19 to 40years full everywhere.

Three: one can contract diseases. Go to dating section and see how many HIV people are looking for HIV companion. It's sickening. But in Jesus name they are healed amen.

Is that living life to fullest, life one cannot even enjoy because of either sexually transmitted diseases or unwanted babies here . Just see how Many innocent children are killed because the boyfriend disappeared after whispering the good news to him by their gfs. And he was the one who suggested it to her o.. While she foolishly accepted his gibberish words. All because he wants constant toto at his disposal. Is that life?

Abeg, carry your preaching elsewhere it's not for me.
I was trained decently to protect my body from unwanted elements in form of human beings. Do u think every man or women walking on the streets are human being.

If God should. Open your eyes, to the girls uv bleeped, so u see who they are as u gladly and excitedly hump your energy away and bragging to yourself and Friends ,u are slayer
U go feel like commiting suicide. Likewise ladies too. Some die in the process through rituals or thru an extremely jealous bf. Or through venom passed by the alien u think inhuman being forming I love And desire you.

No be every meat, person dey swallow.. Have discipline. It's the best way of Living.

So don't even lecture me.

I know WATS up!
And I love my life!


Peace!

mfm,nice one

saasala:
The husband is probably married to a white lady just to get passport and having the best sex of his life. You can be married and separated and in such case sleeping with another person isnt considered cheating. She is separated from her husband, sex deprived, if you wont give her she will find some other dude, and from what I can see, you are some struggling guy who sees this woman as an avenue to step up being that she has money. Olamide said "If its not making money its not making sense" Which means if it is making money it is making sense.


Bro, if she gbadun you and you gbadun her and she be sweet potato woman according to you, by all means sleep with her. The huband is wicked.

C'est la vie

Goodnight

PS: Dont believe in that lie that if you do it someday someone will sleep with your wife. Life doesnt work that way at all. Life is not mathematics, you cant calculate its workings.

Shallow brain smh don't come here one day crying that ya wife is cheating on you one day o Kama gives u what u deserve, wat goes around comes around

samtoles:
I have a beautiful, curvy, tall and fair woman in my compound. Her husband has been in America for 2 years without visiting once. She is clearly sex deprived. I am the only barchelor in the compound. She a 10 year old kid.

This woman has given me too many green lights. It is just too clear that she wants to sleep with me, but I can see she is kind of careful cos of fear of rejection. She discusses everything in the world with me including how she misses sex and doesnt mind cheating on her husband. She didnt tell me or show me directly that she wants to sleep with me but from her expression and our discussion, everuthing points towards that direction.

I have reprimanded guys who have slept with married women and would tell others not to indulge in such, but sincerely I am in a dilemma here. This woman is too beautiful to ignore and coupled with the fact that the husband hasnt been around. I am tempted to show her some real good signs too and just sleep with her. Plus some other benefits will follow: She is the richest in the compound, a big business woman, drives the best car et al.

I know most of you will ask why I have come here since I already want to do it. Well, I just need some people to give me reason why I shouldnt maybe that would keep my mind off it.

how can she hard sex with u when sex no hungry u

The woman is reading your post now

[quote author=samtoles post=64020559]

Yes, this is correct. Another neighbour (Married man) who is a close friend has asked me severally if I am shagging her and claim other neighours think there is something between us.[/quotye]

Have you heard of THUNDERBOLT?!
It is called "magun" in yoruba.

nuggarito:
Dude please face your business, don't let them use your destiny to play ludo.

I love your comment so much Sir.

Just noticed that ladies are running away from this topic.
Shows how guilty they are and would cheat in this situation.

Ok it's obvious you're a fvck boy. Shouldn't be hard when you got values. Just smash if you wanna and save us the tales. Never eat where you sh.it

I will never understand this idea of traveling away from your spouse, for years, sometimes, the spouse is uncertain when the spouse will be back.

We are talking about an adult with sexual needs, especially one who used to be sexually active. The man, I'm certain would certainly be cooling off with some random lady. Not necessarily because he is sexually starved, but most importantly because he is sure no one is watching.

If as a man and I leave my spouse for years, I won't be surprised if she had "helped" herself elsewhere.

I wont advise you to sleep with a married woman, but my own issue is on the man who left a young woman in Nigeria for greener pastures, while still expecting her to be without sex irrespective. Those that do, do with so much frustration and loneliness.

Sex is a BIG deal in marriage!!!!!

Yian1:


so in your mind, anybody that travels to a developed country will be successful immediate he/she gets there. Things might not be easy for the husband over there, he might still be struggling and could not decide to come home empty-handed.

Baseless point. If he truly love his wife he won't leave her here nd travel out.

Is there a communications gap between her and her husband? If she is truly a rich business woman, US Visa is what she can get to at least visit her husband. We should not totally rule out the fact that the man may be facing a lot of diffiulties over there. Difficulty coukd mean anything beyond our control as regards to inmigration processes and procedures. Not all men over there choose to philandeer.

suco01:



Baseless point. If he truly love his wife he won't leave her here nd travel out.

What if they both agreed to it?

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op, shag the daylight out of her for like one month, make sure Jo one finds out, cos the hubby might have ears in your compound. however, you need to vacate that compound, look for a coded place where you both can conveniently be seeing without anyone catching you guys, then continue the shagging there. don't fail to use her wealth to build yourself an empire. sometimes God is providing us an opportunity but the devil uses morality to deceive us. bro, this is your opportunity to make it big, don't use the proceeds to start buying luxury items like cars, buy lands, build on them, set up businesses and grow.

GiantParrot:


I have no idea what fear factor is. I'm amazed by how you so confidently arrived at such utterly incorrect conclusion about me.

It's obvious from my earlier writing that the possibilities I mentioned may not happen, hence the consistent use of the word could . The concerns are certainly not baseless. Greater than 1 million people worldwide acquire STDs daily http://www.who.int/mediacentre/factsheets/fs110/en/
And the cases of husbands committing murders for wives' infidelity is not uncommon around the world. The murder victims are mostly the wives, and sometimes the lovers. You can google "husband murders cheating wife" if you remain unconvinced.

It is not in my position to allow or prevent a sex starved woman to "suffer". The OP came to a public forum to seek advice, and I expressed my right to free speech by offering him opinions for his consideration. You may want to offer him your opinions too.

I said nothing about the husband and his vows since no such thing was mentioned in the OP. You know nothing about the husband's fidelity and therefore have no rational basis for bringing it up.

Well said.

I am so impressed with the way you put up your argument.

Keep it up.

EbukaHades10:
Ogbeni,sleep. No be to sleep? So sleep

But remember that's how he will sleep in his grave too

From the op's post, two things is involved.

1. Op wants to escape poverty by giving in to her since he said she is the richest in their compound.

2. OP doesn't know that beauty and curves isn't everything about a woman and thats not the only thing that makes a lady attractive To guys.

Sleeping with a married woman is a curse and u might face the repercussion if the woman's husband is from Kenya or Zimbabwe. Have u read stories about cheating wife's getting stuck? even if the man Is a Nigerian, Nigerians can now easily travel out to get that charm for their wife's they don't trust. Don't try it, your d!Ck might hang there

castrol180:



...and that your no 7, is it easy to get them? Maybe because you are a pastor and you get them easily...

I am not a pastor. I am agnostic. I am not interested in getting attractive ladies, just one attractive lady is enough for me. And an easy woman cannot earn my respect.

I believe it is in the OP's, the neighbor, and her husband's best interests for the OP to go after any of the many available attractive single ladies instead of looking at another man's wife. These ladies are not demigods to be placed on a pedestal. They are ordinary mortals with individual weaknesses, desires and preferences. Most of them are seeking for men too. If he's what some of them seek in a man, he should be fine.

Go therefore and five her good sex.....

sylvez:


Rubbish!!!
I'm currently bleeping a married woman,(not for money) started since last year October till even yesterday we had fun and I've not seen any misfortune, pls, enjoy life but just make sure that you are not caught and also make sure that you always pray for forgiveness after every act and also ensure that you don't die in sin, also o that you can make heaven

What works for T may not work for K... op don't follow.

alexialin:
Easier said than done.

Only God knows what she's going through emotionally. I had to break up with my bf when I didn't see him for one and half years. I couldn't bear it anymore. And the guilt of shagging another behind his back while claiming faithful was too. Much for me to bear.
Some women in such scenario try. They over try.. Me I can't do long distance shiit.

Anyways Op, use your Brain. That's all I can tell u.

must all your life be putting dick in your pucci, isn't your fellow human chooses the part of becoming a rev Sis, y can't you do without sex for just 1and half yrs.?? anyway it's ur pucci and it's all going back to dust where it came from.
shit holes

CaptainJeffry:
Enyia, stay your lane before God punish you.

see upper cut

Yian1:
it' simple.. just imagine that you were her husband that's living in abroad and the love of your life you left in Nigeria was cheating on you. How would you feel? the answer you give yourself is enough for you

Stop saying rubbish.
How can a loving husband leave his wife for two good years without considering her emotional needs all because of money or greener pastures?
Do you want to tell me that the man hasn't been sleeping with another woman over there to satisfy his own emotional needs while keeping the helpless and faithful woman in emotional prison here?
Do you think it is only men that have the right or are allowed to get emotional satisfactions outside marriage?
Stop being selfish and paranoid, its the same blood that flows in man that flows in woman too. We all have flesh that covers our bodies too, so the flesh always craves for sexual needs either male or female.
Leave the judgement to God alone. He is the all knowing God and sees what exactly is going on in the two countries.
Whether you cheat on your woman or not, if situations warrant that she cheats on you, she will definitely do.

Yian1:
it' simple.. just imagine that you were her husband that's living in abroad and the love of your life you left in Nigeria was cheating on you. How would you feel? the answer you give yourself is enough for you

Do you think her husband is faithful knowing what everybody knows about men? Two years she don try.

@op you'll regret it..Speaking from experience

dont touch her. stay away bro.

LegitBoy:
What if it is "Karma" playing out here ? I know the woman's husband is shagging someone over there too....i blame the husband. How can you leave your wife for 2good years and expect her not to have sex too

Two yrs is much.I can't.