Adamrealman78:
,her test results show, b[color=#006600][/color]locked fallopian tubes, uterine fibroids and no ovulation.. What magic do you expect I do?

Oga you started all this. You have alot to do to help her condition. The cause of the block fallopian tubes is the fibroid. I passed through this. I hard fibroid and refuse going for the surgery for about 4years of my marriage. My husband kept encouraging me to do so and i later did. In one and half year after the surgery i took in. We stayed for 6years before our children started coming. You mentioned your kid brother with a child. My husband kid brother already had two kids before my husband, and we got married before them. Looking for a child is the worst thing that can happen to any woman. She is afraid of so many things. THAT IS WHY I WILL FOREVER LOVE MY HUSBAND AND HIS FAMILY. You and your family has already made the woman insecure. Any woman in her condition will do them if she is wise.

AheadMarket:

My intuition is telling me that you were the person who 'liked' the message. Intuitions can be wrong, though

You have friends, right. Hook me up. It might ultimately 'end up'

Daalu!

Lol.

I don't have friends. They have a special way of confusing someone. My last trial at friendship ended sourly so, every mallam with his kettle

The few I have are scattered all over the world but we keep in touch once in a while.

Garnsh18:



Oga you started all this. You have alot to do to help her condition. The cause of the block fallopian tubes is the fibroid. I passed through this. I hard fibroid and refuse going for the surgery for about 4years of my marriage. My husband kept encouraging me to do so and i later did. In one and half year after the surgery i took in. We stayed for 6years before our children started coming. You mentioned your kid brother with a child. My husband kid brother already had two kids before my husband, and we got married before them. Looking for a child is the worst thing that can happen to any woman. She is afraid of so many things. THAT IS WHY I WILL FOREVER LOVE MY HUSBAND AND HIS FAMILY. You and your family has already made the woman insecure. Any woman in her condition will do them if she is wise.

Gbam!

Men don't know they have a lot to do concerning infertility. Even without blocked tubes and fibroid, anxiety is another infertility cause. Instead of troubling the woman, support her, and give her a reason to be calm while waiting

GrammarCheck:


Lol.

I don't have friends. They have a special way of confusing someone. My last trial at friendship ended sourly so, every mallam with his kettle

The few I have are scattered all over the world but we keep in touch once in a while.

Nne, biko, Mbok, can I get to know you? We can exchange contact. Maybe, FB. You have a partner for me. You've not taken time to think about it.

I'm not harmful, shaaa! I'm genuinely interested.

I'm inquisitive shaaa. Biko, nne?

courtshipis important

msylva2147:
the op is not talking about child here but keeping things away from him and not being supportive.

I can assure you that her actions stem from her insecurities. 6years of childlessness, with unsupportive in-laws and from a man whose words show that he solely blames her for the childlessness would make even a right thinking woman behave irrationally.
She did not build the house in the first year of marriage and the op even bragged about sleeping with his new wife the next day, I'm sure he didn't marry her in one day so the signs were there.

What an elder sees while sitting, even if you climb cocoa tree, una no go see am... They warned you, you said their mouth is smelling.... Broda, carry your cross..

Divorce isn't an option


Your problem started when your parents never blessed your union.. But toto won't make u think well

Making absolutely no sense.
What’s to like about patriarchy?

Futureberry:
you are a typical radical feminists, who attack men for practicing patriarchal values,yet still ignore his good woman dominating sides that you hate, and lambast him for not seeing his wife as equal...wives that never saw her husband as equal

Garnsh18:



Oga you started all this. You have alot to do to help her condition. The cause of the block fallopian tubes is the fibroid. I passed through this. I hard fibroid and refuse going for the surgery for about 4years of my marriage. My husband kept encouraging me to do so and i later did. In one and half year after the surgery i took in. We stayed for 6years before our children started coming. You mentioned your kid brother with a child. My husband kid brother already had two kids before my husband, and we got married before them. Looking for a child is the worst thing that can happen to any woman. She is afraid of so many things. THAT IS WHY I WILL FOREVER LOVE MY HUSBAND AND HIS FAMILY. You and your family has already made the woman insecure. Any woman in her condition will do them if she is wise.

you are stupid...where do retards like you creep out from.....

you married your husband against your family decisions...loved and provide for him for more than 5 years,only to discovered that he has built a house with the money you lend him,that after offsetting more than 200k that he borrowed,you ask for 20k from him,he lied to you thay he does not have...and you know he does...he only opened up to you after his pastor told him so......

imagine all these happened to you and i come out and say,you and your family made your husband insecure.....your husband was barren,cannot use 800k to start his treatment,but instead decide to safe guard his future with your own money,that after you already opened a shop for him....

some months ago,something like these happened to tiwa savage and tbills,you women were praising her,now it the man turn you women are attacking him

Seahawk:
Making absolutely no sense.
What’s to like about patriarchy?

gone through your various post and decided to not reply a man hating piece of shi.t i hope your decisions gives you happiness

Futureberry:
gone through your various post and decided to not reply a man hating piece of shi.t i hope your decisions gives you happiness

Fool.

You woman hating disgusting piece of turd

Seahawk:

Fool.

You woman hating disgusting piece of turd

lol...did i get on your nerve...it hurtes to hear the truth abi,dolls will soon replace you

majekdom2:
kikikikikikikikikikikikikikikikikikikikiki @ bolded. Heart 2 heart ko. Heart to nose ni. Conscience, conscience. Heart 2 heart does not solve a conscience talk. How many heart to heart talk don stop militants or kidnappers. They learn from lessons.

na e make u dey laugh like that? What has militants got to do with this?

SnowJay92:


Don't let inferiority or ego cloud your judgement bro, obviously there have been other issues you didn't talk about here, what made her go build a house of her own, she must have been afraid her future isn't secure with you, have you considered that?

so after reading the whole post, this is all you can come up with.

francesawesome:
na e make u dey laugh like parrot? What has militants got to do with this?

you think say militant papa never sit them down to have heart to heart talk. once your conscience is gone it takes the grace of GOd. even God says it,I will give a'' heart' thats conscience.

majekdom2:
you think say militant papa never sit them down to have heart to heart talk. once your conscience is gone it takes the grace of GOd. even God says it,I will give a'' heart' thats conscience.

last I checked, the dude was talking about his wife, not militants. Or the wife is a militant?

safarigirl:
loyalty begets loyalty. This man has been cheating on his wife, would you be loyal to a man you know is cheating on you?

why is that you guys are shying away from the truth when it is obvious that that woman has a hidden agenda? when your hubby asked you to relocate and join him where he is presently working and u refused, what signal are you sending to him? even if the op happen to cheat on her I think she deserves that.

FloraEC:


To be honest, I don't blame your wife. I wonder how many times you've called her barren maybe telling her, her tubes are blocked and she can't release an egg that's why she's not ovulating e.t.c

The magic you supposed to do is for her to undergo an operation to remove the uterine fibroid, tubal flushing or taking drugs for it and also taking drugs that aids ovulation. Did you do that?

And now you're trying to be all emotional, all of a sudden you remembered your parents warned you cos she borrowed herself sense to build a house since you and your family members obviously don't love her or accept her. Now you trying to blame her, calling her sorts of names so you'll garner sympathy.
I wish you the best with the girl you've already slept with and wants to marry, may she karashika your life very well.


Shalom

he doesn't love her yet married her against his family wishes. Are you drunk?

msylva2147:
why is that you guys are shying away from the truth when it is obvious that that woman has a hidden agenda? when your hubby asked you to relocate and join him where he is presently working and u refused, what signal are you sending to him? even if the op happen to cheat on her I think she deserves that.

he was cheating before he asked her to move. Now, I know many women who will not move anywhere with you if you are cheating on them, yes, it is immature, but that is how they deal with betrayal

I don't understand why none of you is seeing the obvious fact that this man hasn't loved his wife for at least a year and the wife has given up on the marriage because of that

MIKOLOWISKA:
he doesn't love her yet married her against his family wishes. Are you drunk?

he doesn't love her now. A man who loves a woman will not come online to mock her. He may have loved her then, but the love has disappeared for a while now, see, most of this 'love' married people have is conditional love, it is not permanent

safarigirl:
he doesn't love her now. A man who loves a woman will bit come online to mock her. He may have love her then, but the love has disappeared for a while now, see, most of this 'love' married people have is conditional love, it is not permanent

love expires. Understanding and tolerance don't. He was warned by his parents so they should both live with the consequences. Any woman that cannot borrow her hardworking man money iafter all he has done for her is not wife material. Is even good they don't have child to guilt him with

can adamrealman just shut up
let's stop advising him, cause he has taken his own decision before posting and asking for advice, by defiling his marriage because of a little misunderstanding with the wife


guy receive since in Jesus name Amen

francesawesome:
last I checked, the dude was talking about his wife, not militants. Or the wife is a militant?

whichever, the wife has got no conscience.

Op is a dirty cheater, some already busted him here from another thread.

Wife sounds stingy n he won't forgive. Dude been waitinggg for his chance lol.

BABYOLICO:
can adamrealman just shut up
let's stop advising him, cause he has taken his own decision before posting and asking for advice, by defiling his marriage because of a little misunderstanding with the wife


guy receive since in Jesus name Amen

Running tap can't shut up

Futureberry:
lol...did i get on your nerve...it hurtes to hear the truth abi,dolls will soon replace you

so are you a woman hating piece of turd or not?

msylva2147:
why is that you guys are shying away from the truth when it is obvious that that woman has a hidden agenda? when your hubby asked you to relocate and join him where he is presently working and u refused, what signal are you sending to him? even if the op happen to cheat on her I think she deserves that.

Would you relocate with a wife who’s cheating on you?

I’m just disappointed that she didn’t finish his money before this happened.

Seahawk:

Would you relocate with a wife who’s cheating on you?

I’m just disappointed that she didn’t finish his money before this happened.

the op did not say the wife is a cheat

Oyindidi:
Running tap can't shut up

I think you guys are the running taps here, the op did not seek for any advice but shares his predicament for people to learn a lesson.

safarigirl:
he was cheating before he asked her to move. Now, I know many women who will not move anywhere with you if you are cheating on them, yes, it is immature, but that is how they deal with betrayal

I don't understand why none of you is seeing the obvious fact that this man hasn't loved his wife for at least a year and the wife has given up on the marriage because of that

how can you just conclude that he was cheating on her? were you the one he was cheating on her with? I have that believe that her stayed behind made him to be lonely there by making him to look for someone who will warm his bed since she has refused to do that.

majekdom2:
wisdom is not in building house but finding solution to your problem. Who will inherit the house?

Ask the an who have been cheating on his wife and if u are also a cheat, ask urself that question.



One does not have a child yet does not mean one should suffer in penury

Am not getting. When did all of you giving holier than thou opinions turned into a marriage counselor and analyst. Smh

May thunder fire all of you !!!