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jamie1994:
The condition that I won't Marry her?

But take total responsibility of that child if not I pity you.
See your mouth like she force me,when you were doing it raw it was an awesome feeling right?Now result is here you want to run

You guys should have a meeting and discuss your options. Try and come to an agreement that will be comfortable for you, her and the unborn child

u no well ooo, u had sex with her without condom n u say u are not ready. u are stupid oo

But you were ready when it was time for love making? You never see anything.

Gaddafithe2nd:
I have never released in a girl before, no matter how sweet the sex is, I must release outside. Anything you are doing in this life, always carry your brain along.

Those of you that are saying this, I see it as rubbish.

Who tells you 'pull out' is 100% safe? Go and ask doctors, it is 50:50.

Immediately a man get erected, drops of semen will starting ejected from his penis. This semen contains proportion of sperm which can fertilize the egg.

And what do you want us to say, when we were making up with her, you didn't tell anybody, you have all be alive to your responsibilities, be ready and marry her.

my brother you are lucky you are about to be a father quite early.. when I got married and started experiencing the joy of father I wished I had done it early... common brace up
even if u won't marry her let her get you a baby ....smile be happy
you will thank me later

You were ready to have sex ...but ain't ready to marry....abi?
When you were having the sex with her you didn't know you were much younger than her?
You can't marry her ...but happily had a raw sex with her?....hmmmm.
Oga...go and carry your cross...you have started doing what married men do (sex) ...so go and legalise it.

kaziblake:
You are a heartless human being but I bet you this things you are advising this guy to do will surely turn around to be your sister and daughter.. Karma is a b!tch

like seriously. Ur mother is a biitch actually. like wise ur whole pussyhoe female generation of urs. including u biitch ass bitchh

omoelerin1:
Those of you that are saying this, I see it as rubbish.

Who tells you 'pull out' is 100% safe? Go and ask doctors, it is 50:50.

Immediately a man get erected, drops of semen will starting ejected from his penis. This semen contains proportion of sperm which can fertilize the egg.

Get it straight, am not a novice in this game. Do you know my body more than the owner of the body. I will keep on saying it, I will bleep any girl and I won't eject sperm in her. Please, keep your theory to yourself.

toyetade:
But if somebody do this to your daughter will you like it. Why is the girl good enough for sex but not for marriage. Stick with her and marry her

It's quite pathetic. Smh

jamie1994:
Please help a brother going through a trauma.
There is this lady that has really being on me for long. Eventually, we made out in December. Now she's about 5 weeks pregnant. I am not ready to father a child at this time. I m so confused and depressed. Please what can I do?? She insists on having the child but I m not ready for marriage or anything pertaining to that. Please help!

why didnt u use protection

Emekus92:
Go to a chemist buy abortion pill miss it with hollandia and give it to her

Ha! Na person wicked like this so?

You aren't ready? More reasons you should have avoided premarital sex like plaque. The deed has been done, too late for you to run away from responsibilities.

jamie1994:
No sir. But she insisted on unprotected sex saying she wouldn't get pregnant

bro she's not pregnant!two things, she's either desperate tto be with you or you're too scared to man up! She apparently wanted it all along and it's this panic that she wanted you to fall into. You just chill and wait this out. Let her keep it na! Be a man, double the hustle. Bear it in mind, it ain't just your baby. It's for the two of you. She bleeped up anlet the baby happen. she's got hers to bear too. That child is yours. If you're in school, Oops for you but if you're not, I swear itts no biggy, ps: baby mama isn't always wife o.

Get something doing immediately , take care of the child...

You should have remembered you had no job at the point of cumming not now...so too late.

No excuse bro, man up. Marriage must not happen between you two but be ready for the fatherly role.

If you kill that child, God will punish you.

MunorAnne:
Ha! Na person wicked like this so?

no comment

Gaddafithe2nd:
Get it straight, am not a novice in this game. Do you know my body more than the owner of the body. I will keep on saying it, I will bleep any girl and I won't eject sperm in her. Please, keep your theory to yourself.

Gaddafithe1st also proved himself being a stubborn, we all know is end.
keep it up.

jamie1994:

Bro she is not pregnant, take her to any hospital you know of and you trust. Let them do the test and get the result that very moment.

jamie1994:
Please help a brother going through a trauma.
There is this lady that has really being on me for long. Eventually, we made out in December. Now she's about 5 weeks pregnant. I am not ready to father a child at this time. I m so confused and depressed. Please what can I do?? She insists on having the child but I m not ready for marriage or anything pertaining to that. Please help!

Ok.

Any lady that feels she can use pregnancy to trap this boy is on a very long thing

jamie1994:
I really don't want marriage.. OH GOD

Hi Jamie,

Relax, we are not sure you are the baby's father yet, are we?

For all we know, she might have noticed she is pregnant, and because she sees that the one who is responsible won't give her face, she finds a way to corner you and then puts it all on you.

I don't understand why she would tell you to do the do without protection and then goes ahead to proclaim she won't get pregnant, could that be because she was already pregnant?

Nna, fear women o.
If you know what is good for you, I advise you to fear women, including me, yes...until proven otherwise.

Now, what you should do is this...

Stamp your feet on the ground, with a straight face, tell her that you are not sure about the whole thing....that you need time to think.

Tell her that you do not wish to marry her and you do not wish for her to throw the child away.

You should inform her that whether she agrees or not, that you are going to her parents to tell them what happened and her claim of being pregnant for you.

Ehen, then you self, get ready to be a father.
When you were doing it, you should have known that it could happen that she gets pregnant despite her claim to the contrary.

What has happened has happened.

Inform your family people too.

But don't marry her just because she says she is pregnant with your child.
Biko.

jamie1994:
I can't eat, sleep.. This is the worst experience ever. Please help

did you do the pregnancy test by your self or you just believed what she said? not every woman gets pregnant after sex once, it's a game of chance. go and buy PT swipes, let her urinate in your presence and then you do the test twice to be sure.


stop being scared shitless like a pussyyy

I fear is already covering your sense of reason

the lady is smart and wants to use you. you guys fvckd December, and January she is 5 months pregnant


threaten her with a court case if they forcethe child on you, then go for DNA test when the child is born

Guitarlife:
Are you sure you are the owner of the pregnancy ? I am just hoping she was not already pregnant before forcing you to sleep with her so she can transfer the responsibility to you seeing you are a bit naive.

Be sure to calculate the total time the pregnancy lasted before giving birth then you'd know for sure if you are being played.

It is cruel to give a man a bastars child but these ladies can do worse.

Be wise.

You've said it all

Jamie1994 Follow this abeg

jamie1994:
Please help a brother going through a trauma.
There is this lady that has really being on me for long. Eventually, we made out in December. Now she's about 5 weeks pregnant. I am not ready to father a child at this time. I m so confused and depressed. Please what can I do?? She insists on having the child but I m not ready for marriage or anything pertaining to that. Please help!

u re nt ready to father a child then why dating her i do tell guys if u knw u dont want to marry a girl, admire her frm afar

You have made a mistake already..
.... Impregnating her when you are not ready
........ So don't add to it by having an abortion or marrying her out of pity because of the circumstance. Start preparing ooo because you are not too young to become a father... Both of you can come to a common ground by getting your families involved.ASAP! Its better you guys tell them, than them finding out themselves ..

That's why whatever you cant complete, don't even start it...[ quote author=Veraatabeh post=64373927]u re nt ready to father a child then why dating her i do tell guys if u knw u dont want to marry a girl, admire her frm afar[/quote]

Do men get scared of pregnancy? If not for HIV and std. I don't see need for condoms.


Especially HIV, the thing they make me wear condom sleep anytime I get match to play


Dude, own up to your responsibility or better still, get rid of it. Please always have your condom handy.

when u dick starts to talk learn to tell it u dnt wanna be a daddy yet.... Tufiaa.. No self control

jamie1994:
No sir. But she insisted on unprotected sex saying she wouldn't get pregnant

if this is what she said then, man up, tell her to keep the baby as she promised she won't get pregnant, her decision to get pregnant is a solo one.Do not allow any remorse because that babe is a reducing agent, a chemical inhibitor orchestrated to frustrate your future, watch how she is manipulating you and capitalizing on your niceness. If you are not ready to marry her, dont do it, accept your child and give the baby to the government, so many people are willing to adopt kids, so offer the kid for adoption, but do not tie yourself in marriage to a manipulative woman.