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Re: Is My Sexual Preference Unholy? by Laxy009(m): 6:39am On Jan 21, 2018
Kitanayo:
I will start from the beginning so that i will be better understood, soo sorry if it is too long


I and my husband met in one of our ICAN classes so we hit it off immediately, became friends, dated then got married. It was blissful, we had our kids, to me life was perfect till one day he changed.

He started picking fights on irrelevant things, wouldnt talk to me for days, i thought it was just a phase until one day he didnt come back home, after so much calls to family members, friends collegues at work, we found out he left the country with another woman, this was 4 years ago, we later found out he paid for the house rent for two years and he vowed never to have anything to do with me and my kids anymore.

Even after pleadings from family members he still refused so i moved on, believing that one day he would come back to me because i believe his actions was not normal, he asked for divorce, i refused cos my bible is against it (luke 16:18). Since then God has been soo good to me, i've moved into my own home(a working mom) and God has been taking care of my kids for me.


Now 2 years ago, i met this lady who was serving(nysc), i see her as my younger sister so we talk alot, so she knows all about me, she helps me at home, with my kids and all.

One day we were talking about sex generally, so she said she can satisfy my urge, i was shocked, i dont want to go into details but that was how it started.

Mind you i do not insert anything into my "VJ", what she does is the normal licking and sucking till i "CUM" she's in a serious relationship with a man so i do not do same act to her and she doesnt ask for anything in return(from a wealthy home).I dont see myself as a lesbian since i dont indulge in it moreso i still love my husband.

I agreed to it because it's safer than having sex and contacting std in the process, i am human, i have needs and i dont want to commit adultery cos i'm still married and i believe my husband would come back to me, i feel no guilt whatsoever for this act.

Reason why i brought this here is to know your views about this act, i want to have diff. opinions from matured minds so no insults please, thank you.



Mods please help take this to FP


File for a divorce and move on with your life because there's no point still waiting after two years since hubby left the country. Concerning your sexual preference I won't judge or condemn you we all indulge in one bad habit or the other. Take a re think about your sexual preference and let your conscience guide you to know the truth and the truth shall set you free.

Shalom

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Re: Is My Sexual Preference Unholy? by Tetragramaton(m): 6:39am On Jan 21, 2018
Have you thought of the spiritual part of it. Don't listen to all this carnal minded people. Her satisfaction comes from sucking your p!!! Wivout you giving her any other kind of satisfaction in return. My dear, there is something she is doing to you. Take it to the bank.
Re: Is My Sexual Preference Unholy? by Nobody: 6:42am On Jan 21, 2018
gnykelly:


homosexuality and adultery are the same. sin is sin

Sin might be sin, but homosexuality is against the plan of God. It is an abomination.

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Re: Is My Sexual Preference Unholy? by sexdoll: 6:48am On Jan 21, 2018
You may be bisexual.

That's all.

They say women sexuality is very fluid.

I don't know what that actually means or implies.

But you might be going through that phase of transition from straightness to gayness...

Same goes for your friend and "helper" too.
Re: Is My Sexual Preference Unholy? by EOOJ(m): 6:53am On Jan 21, 2018
desreek9:
Some men are just unbelievable, see what her husband made her do, and she holds strong to her belief, smh

Some men are just unbelievable...i agree but wat she did, she did by choice grin

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Re: Is My Sexual Preference Unholy? by peddyholly: 6:55am On Jan 21, 2018
Jamariwolf4:
Religion aside, homosexuality is disgusting.


I can't guarantee you of going to Hell, but I do know that you will spend 14 years in prison when caught (if angry mobs don't burn your queer ass to ashes before that)
Go find a young dude to Bleep ur brains off when d need arises.... Thank me later, its better than them ur lesbian lifestyle
Re: Is My Sexual Preference Unholy? by Originalsly: 6:56am On Jan 21, 2018
1. I don't see myself as a lesbian because I don't indulge in it.

2. It's safer than having sex and contracting STD in the process

3. I don't want to commit adultery cos I'm still married

1. One person cannot indulge herself in a lesbian act... it takes two. Why are you saying you don't indulge in it when you are the other half of the act?...your friend the giver and you the receiver? Ask yourself...are you sexual involved with another woman? If yes...that makes you a lesbian.

2. Yes...you are a bit safer when it comes to contracting STDs... but you are still exposed to diseases.

3. Ask yourself...what really is adultery? You are married...but having sex with someone other than your husband...you are committing adultery. Your lover is also married...she is also committing adultery....ehmmm....adultery upon adultery.

Yes...a woman has urges...hard to control... but somehow in your mind it seems that putting anything...even your own fingers in your VJ is like taboo/the ultimate sin. There's no sin in you satisfying your urges all by yourself....and there is reference to that in the Bible.
Hope I make some sense.

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Re: Is My Sexual Preference Unholy? by peddyholly: 6:56am On Jan 21, 2018
Kitanayo:
I will start from the beginning so that i will be better understood, soo sorry if it is too long


I and my husband met in one of our ICAN classes so we hit it off immediately, became friends, dated then got married. It was blissful, we had our kids, to me life was perfect till one day he changed.

He started picking fights on irrelevant things, wouldnt talk to me for days, i thought it was just a phase until one day he didnt come back home, after so much calls to family members, friends collegues at work, we found out he left the country with another woman, this was 4 years ago, we later found out he paid for the house rent for two years and he vowed never to have anything to do with me and my kids anymore.

Even after pleadings from family members he still refused so i moved on, believing that one day he would come back to me because i believe his actions was not normal, he asked for divorce, i refused cos my bible is against it (luke 16:18). Since then God has been soo good to me, i've moved into my own home(a working mom) and God has been taking care of my kids for me.


Now 2 years ago, i met this lady who was serving(nysc), i see her as my younger sister so we talk alot, so she knows all about me, she helps me at home, with my kids and all.

One day we were talking about sex generally, so she said she can satisfy my urge, i was shocked, i dont want to go into details but that was how it started.

Mind you i do not insert anything into my "VJ", what she does is the normal licking and sucking till i "CUM" she's in a serious relationship with a man so i do not do same act to her and she doesnt ask for anything in return(from a wealthy home).I dont see myself as a lesbian since i dont indulge in it moreso i still love my husband.

I agreed to it because it's safer than having sex and contacting std in the process, i am human, i have needs and i dont want to commit adultery cos i'm still married and i believe my husband would come back to me, i feel no guilt whatsoever for this act.

Reason why i brought this here is to know your views about this act, i want to have diff. opinions from matured minds so no insults please, thank you.



Mods please help take this to FP
Go get a young man to Bleep your brains off when the need arise, it's way better than your lesbian lifestyle... Thank me later.... Contact me for counseling tips 08063805523
Re: Is My Sexual Preference Unholy? by Ten06(m): 6:57am On Jan 21, 2018
That girl may be collecting your semen for ritual. She can also take some secret pictures of you to blackmail you. Be careful
Re: Is My Sexual Preference Unholy? by olasaad(f): 7:02am On Jan 21, 2018
emilyone:
Its your sexual preference, your body, your business as long as you are not hurting anyone.

She will latter hurt someone. Come to think of it if she has daughter's this Corper can start doing it with her even the boys ain't safe with her.
Re: Is My Sexual Preference Unholy? by job1(m): 7:04am On Jan 21, 2018
Kitanayo:
I will start from the beginning so that i will be better understood, soo sorry if it is too long


I and my husband met in one of our ICAN classes so we hit it off immediately, became friends, dated then got married. It was blissful, we had our kids, to me life was perfect till one day he changed.


Mods please help take this to FP
My understanding of the beginning of the problem is that the relationship happened too fast and now the man either understands he made a wrong decision, or you are not telling the whole truth, because a man can't just stand up and leave u and his kids like that. If na jazz, he's family will also try to help u. But check yourself well. You might be the solution to your problem. May God help you
Re: Is My Sexual Preference Unholy? by KOMZYLEE(m): 7:17am On Jan 21, 2018
That's gross
Re: Is My Sexual Preference Unholy? by Nobody: 7:20am On Jan 21, 2018
tongue
emilyone:
Its your sexual preference, your body, your business as long as you are not hurting anyone.
emilyone:
Its your sexual preference, your body, your business as long as you are not hurting anyone.
emilyone:
Its your sexual preference, your body, your business as long as you are not hurting anyone.
Re: Is My Sexual Preference Unholy? by oooook: 7:27am On Jan 21, 2018
Using cucumber would av been better
Re: Is My Sexual Preference Unholy? by obonujoker(m): 7:27am On Jan 21, 2018
dreamworld:

There different type of sin with different levels

Which stupid levels.... when both will still end up in hell??
Re: Is My Sexual Preference Unholy? by Nobody: 7:30am On Jan 21, 2018
owoeye2:
Your sexual preference? You are obviously enjoying it. Continue.
Gay spotted
Re: Is My Sexual Preference Unholy? by AceDomino(m): 7:40am On Jan 21, 2018
Kitanayo:
I will start from the beginning so that i will be better understood, soo sorry if it is too long


I and my husband met in one of our ICAN classes so we hit it off immediately, became friends, dated then got married. It was blissful, we had our kids, to me life was perfect till one day he changed.

He started picking fights on irrelevant things, wouldnt talk to me for days, i thought it was just a phase until one day he didnt come back home, after so much calls to family members, friends collegues at work, we found out he left the country with another woman, this was 4 years ago, we later found out he paid for the house rent for two years and he vowed never to have anything to do with me and my kids anymore.

Even after pleadings from family members he still refused so i moved on, believing that one day he would come back to me because i believe his actions was not normal, he asked for divorce, i refused cos my bible is against it (luke 16:18). Since then God has been soo good to me, i've moved into my own home(a working mom) and God has been taking care of my kids for me.


Now 2 years ago, i met this lady who was serving(nysc), i see her as my younger sister so we talk alot, so she knows all about me, she helps me at home, with my kids and all.

One day we were talking about sex generally, so she said she can satisfy my urge, i was shocked, i dont want to go into details but that was how it started.

Mind you i do not insert anything into my "VJ", what she does is the normal licking and sucking till i "CUM" she's in a serious relationship with a man so i do not do same act to her and she doesnt ask for anything in return(from a wealthy home).I dont see myself as a lesbian since i dont indulge in it moreso i still love my husband.

I agreed to it because it's safer than having sex and contacting std in the process, i am human, i have needs and i dont want to commit adultery cos i'm still married and i believe my husband would come back to me, i feel no guilt whatsoever for this act.

Reason why i brought this here is to know your views about this act, i want to have diff. opinions from matured minds so no insults please, thank you.



Mods please help take this to FP


I'll advise you to get yourself a Love Machine and a Vibrator to use on yourself because it's way much more better than a lady suckling and licking you up till you Cum...

And FYI, YOU'RE A LESBIAN. GET A Love Machine and/or A VIBRATOR
Re: Is My Sexual Preference Unholy? by Ericsdm55(m): 7:45am On Jan 21, 2018
If you will read through all the comments above and below by concerned nairalanders, then you have got the opinions of others you sought for.
Re: Is My Sexual Preference Unholy? by Malonie242(f): 7:46am On Jan 21, 2018
Actuarydeji:
Stop blaming her, she acted according to the situation on ground ni. I really feel for her

I'm not blaming her, I'm telling her the hard truth. she started out late but she's bisexual. There's alwasy a trigger and that girl is the trigger.
Re: Is My Sexual Preference Unholy? by Laredojohn(m): 7:46am On Jan 21, 2018
dotclean:
The best comment ever on this thread. May God continue to increase your wisdom.


Amen and yours too....
Re: Is My Sexual Preference Unholy? by Jolonjolo: 7:53am On Jan 21, 2018
I really understand your situation ma and I feel the way you are going about it could have a bad effect on you and you children.

My advice for you
1. You need to move on, your husband eloped with another woman. The scripture you quoted allowed divorce that is based on adultery. You might be surprised, he is not thinking of coming back at all. If he comes back because he is in trouble, he will break your heart again.

2. You need to separate yourself from that lady. That kind of help will only awaken some passion which will kill your natural emotion for the opposite sex. That kind of passion is cursed both culturally and spiritually. Your children might indulge in it if you don't fight it now.

3. Your mind is troubled now, you need to work on your psychology. Take time off work, it could be few days, really think and make up your mind to do what is right no matter the sacrifice.

4. This could be controversial but it's the most important. Fast and Pray intensely as long as you can for God's forgiveness, for that kind of urges(towards that lady) to dry up and for God to bring a man your way that will take care of you. You can tie something to it by SACRIFICING. Life is both physical and spiritual, you've got to approach it in both ways. You will thank me latter

5. Know that you are a good person and your emotions should not turn you into something bad. I feel you are a good person.
Re: Is My Sexual Preference Unholy? by AuroraB(f): 7:57am On Jan 21, 2018
My wahala is you refusing him divorce holding tenaciously on 'he'll be back to me' and that you are still married embarassed. You are maintaining you are not committing adultery too shocked
You need to give yourself up for psychological evaluation.
And, start telling yourself the truth, it doesn't hurt angry
Re: Is My Sexual Preference Unholy? by Akolawole(m): 8:04am On Jan 21, 2018
desreek9:
Some men are just unbelievable, see what her husband made her do, and she holds strong to her belief, smh

Well.. we heared just one sided story.

What makes the man to not just change but flee.

The man appears to be a caring man to have even pay 2 years rent ahead.

@ Madam

Is there anything you do to the man ?

* The act is very very unholy. We can always KOLLY off any desire
Re: Is My Sexual Preference Unholy? by victorioushands: 8:09am On Jan 21, 2018
Don't insult our intelligence.

Your topic is about your lesbian act while your letter body talks about how your husband changed.

Well, he caught you in the act and ran for his life. He never stopped loving you but he's seen you as being dangerous for him.

Once again, since you do not see what you are doing as lesbianism and and adulterous and unholy, chance is you may also be sucking your male school mates ddkks and claiming it's no adiltery or sin since they do not penetrate, they only touch your thing with their tip. You are a disgrace to your husband. Repent and let it be known. But, first, confess to him and not to the public.
Re: Is My Sexual Preference Unholy? by NwaIgboBoy(m): 8:10am On Jan 21, 2018
Mayb your husband noticed earlier that you fucck ur fellow woman and the innocent man desides to put-head abroad jaree!!!

I HATE SEX DOLL NIGERIA!!!
Re: Is My Sexual Preference Unholy? by Nobody: 8:21am On Jan 21, 2018
Lolzzz you are a lesbian my friend.A flipping lez.
Re: Is My Sexual Preference Unholy? by lordizak(m): 8:24am On Jan 21, 2018
Kitanayo:
I will start from the beginning so that i will be better understood, soo sorry if it is too long


I and my husband met in one of our ICAN classes so we hit it off immediately, became friends, dated then got married. It was blissful, we had our kids, to me life was perfect till one day he changed.

He started picking fights on irrelevant things, wouldnt talk to me for days, i thought it was just a phase until one day he didnt come back home, after so much calls to family members, friends collegues at work, we found out he left the country with another woman, this was 4 years ago, we later found out he paid for the house rent for two years and he vowed never to have anything to do with me and my kids anymore.

Even after pleadings from family members he still refused so i moved on, believing that one day he would come back to me because i believe his actions was not normal, he asked for divorce, i refused cos my bible is against it (luke 16:18). Since then God has been soo good to me, i've moved into my own home(a working mom) and God has been taking care of my kids for me.


Now 2 years ago, i met this lady who was serving(nysc), i see her as my younger sister so we talk alot, so she knows all about me, she helps me at home, with my kids and all.

One day we were talking about sex generally, so she said she can satisfy my urge, i was shocked, i dont want to go into details but that was how it started.

Mind you i do not insert anything into my "VJ", what she does is the normal licking and sucking till i "CUM" she's in a serious relationship with a man so i do not do same act to her and she doesnt ask for anything in return(from a wealthy home).I dont see myself as a lesbian since i dont indulge in it moreso i still love my husband.

I agreed to it because it's safer than having sex and contacting std in the process, i am human, i have needs and i dont want to commit adultery cos i'm still married and i believe my husband would come back to me, i feel no guilt whatsoever for this act.

Reason why i brought this here is to know your views about this act, i want to have diff. opinions from matured minds so no insults please, thank you.



Mods please help take this to FP

What we humans do, is to judge others. take it from me, if that's what makes you happy then do. It you only get one chance in life, use it fairly, be happy and that's what matters . some of us do a lot worse than that eg masturbate, but when asked humans will deny vehemently.
Re: Is My Sexual Preference Unholy? by gnykelly(m): 8:27am On Jan 21, 2018
dreamworld:
There different type of sin with different levels
the suffering of each punishment is there any difference.
Re: Is My Sexual Preference Unholy? by Obierika(m): 8:27am On Jan 21, 2018
Your sexual preference is not normal...you're a lesbian,pure and simple!

You need a 'strong' d1ck to reset you
Re: Is My Sexual Preference Unholy? by vicben27(m): 8:40am On Jan 21, 2018
go and buy urself a Love Machine/vibrator. and help urself . instead of turning urself to a lesbo!
Re: Is My Sexual Preference Unholy? by Chukazu: 8:41am On Jan 21, 2018
desreek9:
Some men are just unbelievable, see what her husband made her do, and she holds strong to her belief, smh

How did she hold on to her believe by having sex with fellow woman?
Re: Is My Sexual Preference Unholy? by Nobody: 8:50am On Jan 21, 2018
brainhgeek:
It is a fact you don't have an awkward sexual orientation from the scratch. This is the result of happenstance. I only advice you Chanel your energy into getting your man back (which I believe you will) or getting married again (which is not a crime).
Stop seeing the lady because she equally needs help. If you don't stop the act, I tell you your hormone will drive you to the point of using a cucumber on yourself or she helps you. That is homosexuality.
I am one person who believes homosexuals are not God's experimental failure on man. They are just the product of their thinking and hormonal manipulation otherwise, I am yet to see a gay chicken or a lesbian dog. The Lord God made them all too.
Get help as soon as possible before you start asking how you have come this far.

My dear almost every animal species has a homosexual population go and do ur research and watch YouTube

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