Unlike some selected men who believes they can get their better-half in the house of God, many other men don't look towards that direction due to one or more of the reasons below:

1. Fear of being monitored:

Many men don't like the fact that they are being monitored by a lady. They know that once you are attached with one lady in a particular area she will want herself to dominate everything that revolves around the man.

Even if the lady doesn't care about who the man moves or play with, he himself will want to thread with caution as he will not want to awaken the hanger of the lady he is in relationship with since things we don't even count to be anything may mean a lot to one's partner if not properly checkmated.

2. Pretense among brethren:

As we know that religious can make so many people look innocent, hence, to some men, it is dangerous to choose a wife from the church as you can not know the true character of anyone in the church.

Many takes the house of God as shield, so many things might have been hidden which will need serious familiarity before it can be unraveled.

Also, you cannot know the true attitude of the women till familiarity sets in which some churches might not even allow. You are seeing someone everyday, yet, you have not known the person in and out let alone someone you meet may be once in a week and even for few minutes.

3. Leaders Interference:

To so many of our men of God, once they sense that two adults are trying to get familiar with each other they try to interfere which is good not just for them but for the growth of the church as whatever happens will rather count for or against the church.

Most men don't want to go too far to the extent of making the leader to know about the relationship at the early stage as they might not have the intention to stay till death do them apart. Therefore, to avoid interference of any pastor, the man prefer to look for his kind of lady outside the church.

4. Fear of over spirituality:

It is almost a general belief that women serves God more than men. Some men don't want to look at any lady let alone approaching her in the church as they are afraid of having a complete SU who will take everything concerning church as priority at the long run.

Being spiritually filled is good but in this century there is need for caution so as not to open the eyes of your spouse to the world.

It is when some women are too spiritual they start monitoring the cloth they wear and every other thing that they apply for them to look attractive forgetting that they need to be in their best form to be relevant to their husband and that they can still apply everything and still look decent.

Source: http://www.bamisepeter.com/2017/12/4-why-most-men-look-outside-church-for.html

hmmmm

MOST CHURCH GOERS ARE HYPOCRITES.

Really?
For real??

∆ Fear of pretense... is the utmost....∆

i love threads like this...really.
OP nice one. men go outside coz thats where the freaky sluts are. and to fvck a church gal the freaky way porn has trained us will bring God's curse on u coz u just poluted His child.
good post bro.when u find time can u do a post on why sluts come to church to retire? an indepth post.
thanx

ubunja:
i love threads like this
good post bro.when u find time can u do a post on why sluts come to church to retire? an indepth post.
thanx

in draft already.

Marry a church girl at your own risk.

2 Corinthians 11:14... For Satan himself is transformed into an angel of light.

A lot of men who attend churches in Nigeria are hypocritical in nature and they're afraid of marrying hypocrites like themselves. So, they move around trying to get someone 'original' and not drawn into the hypocritical piety found in churches today.

However, the genuinely good Christian ladies who are free-spirited and don't force their piety are very rare and usually get married quickly.

For the hypocritical ladies who form holiness in Churches, men have learnt to see through the hypocrisy and forced piety.

Since birds have learnt to fly without perching, hunters have learnt to shoot without missing.

The federal government has failed to achieve Its main goal. Buhari's anti-corruption war has simply crashed and I see the opposition using it against him and the APC in 2019. God help Nigeria.

GloriaNinja:
MOST CHURCH GOERS ARE HYPOCRITES.

sincerely speaking... work in an hotel ull see their secrets most especially the winners goers

So true

In short. Guy man still wanna play around........... And all the above point will make u no go area to other ladies in church coz the lady and r friends will be the perfect monitoring spirit



But come to think of it all this realborn again ladies are the best to date, they r supportive, prayerful, reliable, and most of all, when you cheat on them they cry out their heart, blame it on the devil, pray together and still cook for u....... More so, u can trust ur kids growing up with them.



I mean the real born again ones

who says u must find wife in church in d first place?

D hyprocrisy of Nigerians is just too much.

Next time say Why most Christian men look outside the church

Oh mehn. the surprise and shock that comes from MOST BABES you met in church is just overwhelming. When she hits you with that drama and trauma then you go back and look at her church pictures and the way she is so LOVED in the church and how her pastor keeps giving her accolades and awards for every event. you would fine it hard to figure put where the drama she keeps serving you is coming from.

But when you meet a babe from outside church matters, you can chill and look at her better from a general and unbiased point of view and her behaviour is kinda easy to understand and reconcile and it would not really surprise you. rather than the one who has used the veil of religion to cover her face but she carry all the wahala of the world for her head.

same can be said for most guys too.

GloriaNinja:
MOST CHURCH GOERS ARE HYPOCRITES.

Have you ever seen a perfect church goer, without any sin? Hmmm?

It is sad that the church is full of lies/falsehood in this our present day than it has been before!

However, it is pertinent to note that, so many persons you find there are full of pretence, a major reason why you have to be extra-ordinarily careful both in terms of choosing a man or a woman to marry when it comes to anything that has to do with the church!

Shalom!

Mehn, this thread... I think I like it..

Nice one Op..

nice one OP

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The main reason:


Church girls are too spiritual. They are not flexible to the things of this world and in the oda room.

I rather go after Muinat my university bad girl.
She does it better dan a sexdoll.

True talk! Too much of everything is bad! I can't marry a girl that is too churchy.

NB: I don't want a pastor to take over my position as the husband by directing the affairs of my own family.

churches are filled with the same regular bitches & slots you see everywhere.

service time

it's just hypocrisy, you ask yourself if the girl you meet outside is not also a member of a religious institution.

abiolamitodun:

sincerely speaking... work in an hotel ull see their secrets most especially the winners goers

Bro, all denominations/religion is involved. Not one is left out.