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Re: 4 Reasons Why Most Men Look Outside The Church For Wife by Fawklicant: 2:35pm On Jan 21, 2018 |
JERRY1925: Exactly |
Re: 4 Reasons Why Most Men Look Outside The Church For Wife by stanliwise(m): 3:02pm On Jan 21, 2018 |
JERRY1925:Don't take words too seriously, if you must move to the next level of your relationship, you must get passed the level of not wanting to make her sad or feeling you owe her your promise instead get to the level where you feel this is the person that has respect, regard and cherish your heart so much that she is ready to go through tough path with you and help you by telling you the truth about how she sees you etc. All I am saying is that your relationship should get to that extent that you don't have double thought when something goes wrong. e.g If someone told you he saw your girl cheating. what is your thought before you witness it yourself? And as for you, if you must thread this path be ready for future challenges like if -someone brings up the issues of your girlfriend past. -if the past would oneday come back to affect the future e.g child bearing, psychologically(someone brings a related topic) -A change of attitude from time to time. If you don't feel you want all this and still stay then you are Not a MAN for not saying NO but if you do so, you save her time to move on with her live and get over any emotional pain she will go through. But If you are ready then thread on it like a Warrior. As far as she loves you and you love her.You trust her and she trust you.Nothing else matter much. As for me I would advise that YOU SHOULD NOT LET ANYONE MAKE THIS DECISION FOR YOU. IT IS YOUR MANLY RESPONSIBILITY but don't be hasty with this DECISION and don't feel you have to be perfect with it. In all your doing please seek GOD'S WISDOM. |
Re: 4 Reasons Why Most Men Look Outside The Church For Wife by JERRY1925(m): 3:12pm On Jan 21, 2018 |
stanliwise: the fact about me is, i really don't care.. i guess i don't even know what I want.. but on like 4year ago wen i was last in a relationship i care a lot about thing's back then.. but these days.. all i do is Observe.. people...I'll try to fight all i feel.. and see if i can. |
Re: 4 Reasons Why Most Men Look Outside The Church For Wife by stanliwise(m): 3:23pm On Jan 21, 2018 |
JERRY1925:BTW hope you don't go round telling people about your girlfriend past even brothers and very close friends. Don't do this except on Exceptionally rare cases(e.g Doctor,trusted guidance or when life is involved). It would come back to haunt someday. farewell |
Re: 4 Reasons Why Most Men Look Outside The Church For Wife by JERRY1925(m): 3:46pm On Jan 21, 2018 |
stanliwise: yea, reason it kills me Somtimes, because i cant talk to anyone about it.. it's just something i have to protect. |
Re: 4 Reasons Why Most Men Look Outside The Church For Wife by stanliwise(m): 3:57pm On Jan 21, 2018 |
JERRY1925:Talk to a trusted guidance. |
Re: 4 Reasons Why Most Men Look Outside The Church For Wife by EYOUYO: 4:14pm On Jan 21, 2018 |
some people like living a private life by not making friends in their own church so that no one will know their ways, person like me a lot of them want to venture into my life but I still keep it private by avoiding them. but no body holy pass o. however you can get it from other churches anyway is allowed. |
Re: 4 Reasons Why Most Men Look Outside The Church For Wife by mywells: 4:23pm On Jan 21, 2018 |
GloriaNinja:SURE |
Re: 4 Reasons Why Most Men Look Outside The Church For Wife by Nobody: 4:27pm On Jan 21, 2018 |
abiolamitodun: Lol |
Re: 4 Reasons Why Most Men Look Outside The Church For Wife by Nobody: 4:29pm On Jan 21, 2018 |
bamisepeters: I'll keep watch over this thread... |
Re: 4 Reasons Why Most Men Look Outside The Church For Wife by DonMekino(m): 4:39pm On Jan 21, 2018 |
The ladies want a bad boy that will be gud for her...the guys want a gud girl that will bad for him....if u know wat I mean...that's hardly found in d "brethren" |
Re: 4 Reasons Why Most Men Look Outside The Church For Wife by StoneColdBiceps(m): 4:55pm On Jan 21, 2018 |
GloriaNinja: Gloria we know. Just like as you and your friends can be hypocritical in other phere of life. Lota humans are hypocrite not just people going to church... |
Re: 4 Reasons Why Most Men Look Outside The Church For Wife by Sard(m): 5:06pm On Jan 21, 2018 |
ImaIma1:Finally, I found someone who spoke my mind on this thread. Almost all Nigerian ladies/girls we see, interact with and date in the club, class, office, neighborhood etc belong to one religious group or another, so the term church girl is quite useless in this context. |
Re: 4 Reasons Why Most Men Look Outside The Church For Wife by Nobody: 5:55pm On Jan 21, 2018 |
Martin0:Na so na! |
Re: 4 Reasons Why Most Men Look Outside The Church For Wife by Martin0(m): 5:58pm On Jan 21, 2018 |
gypsey:OK. oooo |
Re: 4 Reasons Why Most Men Look Outside The Church For Wife by Nobody: 6:00pm On Jan 21, 2018 |
Martin0:how far? e be like say you dey bussy dis days |
Re: 4 Reasons Why Most Men Look Outside The Church For Wife by Martin0(m): 6:25pm On Jan 21, 2018 |
gypsey: ñ nna eh nor be small busy ooo like this so, na bayelsa ar dey ooo but are go try finish up with everything this week then ar go beging get time for NL again. |
Re: 4 Reasons Why Most Men Look Outside The Church For Wife by Nobody: 6:33pm On Jan 21, 2018 |
Martin0:No wahala! hustle comes first, Nairaland is full with Rubbish! Nowadays anyway! 1 Like |
Re: 4 Reasons Why Most Men Look Outside The Church For Wife by Martin0(m): 6:38pm On Jan 21, 2018 |
gypsey: yes ooo how ur nwa 21 na |
Re: 4 Reasons Why Most Men Look Outside The Church For Wife by DanielGb(m): 6:43pm On Jan 21, 2018 |
bamisepeters:Oga bamisepeters reverse this statement. Men serve God more than woman. Woman are church goers, looking for solution to problems. |
Re: 4 Reasons Why Most Men Look Outside The Church For Wife by Nobody: 6:50pm On Jan 21, 2018 |
Martin0:she is fine now, i saw her yesterday! she invited me to her birthday the 8 of march she will be 22 |
Re: 4 Reasons Why Most Men Look Outside The Church For Wife by Martin0(m): 6:54pm On Jan 21, 2018 |
gypsey: eheh good for her oo |
Re: 4 Reasons Why Most Men Look Outside The Church For Wife by Nobody: 6:55pm On Jan 21, 2018 |
Martin0:And she still insists that she is lesbian! |
Re: 4 Reasons Why Most Men Look Outside The Church For Wife by Martin0(m): 7:01pm On Jan 21, 2018 |
gypsey: haha ah ahahah na WA ooo ar never See lesbian wey dey fucvk preek oooo why her own con differ? abi anyway na her life sha, but wait oo u tell her anything? |
Re: 4 Reasons Why Most Men Look Outside The Church For Wife by Nobody: 7:17pm On Jan 21, 2018 |
Martin0:yes! i did, but i am not sure she dey fucvk preek! oo! ar never see am wit man before o! how you take kno say she dey fucck preek? |
Re: 4 Reasons Why Most Men Look Outside The Church For Wife by Martin0(m): 7:21pm On Jan 21, 2018 |
gypsey: hian wetin una talk? u told me na. sha u say na to fucvk and go she be! |
Re: 4 Reasons Why Most Men Look Outside The Church For Wife by ImaIma1(f): 7:27pm On Jan 21, 2018 |
Sard: Yeah i keep hearing this argument. Whether you meet them in church or at work, they are who they are. |
Re: 4 Reasons Why Most Men Look Outside The Church For Wife by Nobody: 7:28pm On Jan 21, 2018 |
Martin0:i tell am say my cousin martin0 wan befriend am. yes! na wetin she tell me oo! i come ask her why she dey like man Again, she say some times too she dey like man, she say she be bisexual |
Re: 4 Reasons Why Most Men Look Outside The Church For Wife by AceDomino(m): 7:30pm On Jan 21, 2018 |
2. Pretense among brethren: As we know that religious can make so many people look innocent, hence, to some men, it is dangerous to choose a wife from the church as you can not know the true character of anyone in the church. Many takes the house of God as shield, so many things might have been hidden which will need serious familiarity before it can be unraveled. Also, you cannot know the true attitude of the women till familiarity sets in which some churches might not even allow. You are seeing someone everyday, yet, you have not known the person in and out let alone someone you meet may be once in a week and even for few minutes. MO ti choir member / usher to n se Olosho |
Re: 4 Reasons Why Most Men Look Outside The Church For Wife by bamisepeters(m): 8:08pm On Jan 21, 2018 |
DanielGb:issokey boss |
Re: 4 Reasons Why Most Men Look Outside The Church For Wife by Nobody: 8:48pm On Jan 21, 2018 |
no more wife material in church, just how's wearing scarfs. |
Re: 4 Reasons Why Most Men Look Outside The Church For Wife by joshrare(m): 10:08pm On Jan 21, 2018 |
ubunja: my guy on point.... you nailed it,... |
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