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Re: Refusing To Eat My Wife's Food. by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 7:26am On Jan 22, 2018
Dafreeguy:
See your baby mentality..did she tell u she wanna remain single for life or to be a babymama? can't u read her dumb dream husband?
Because you are not like them does not make her dream dumb.Those men are out there so leave her alone.
Re: Refusing To Eat My Wife's Food. by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 7:29am On Jan 22, 2018
Innobee99:
The type that will chop her maid I guess!
You will marry the type that would chop your gateman I guess!
Re: Refusing To Eat My Wife's Food. by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 7:32am On Jan 22, 2018
salmonkas178:
Shilloh 2050 await you
Re: Refusing To Eat My Wife's Food. by DeUltimate7(m): 7:33am On Jan 22, 2018
Equal2DeTask:
Aunty clap for urself....
, LOL, PA PA PAPAPA PA. na 2030 this lady go get sense. grin grin grin
Re: Refusing To Eat My Wife's Food. by SirBunky85(m): 7:36am On Jan 22, 2018
Re: Refusing To Eat My Wife's Food. by peacettw:
CSTR2:
He is doing her a favour?

So a woman will see her husbnand not eating her food as a favour?

Don't worry, someone else will do her Job for her with time. If that is what she wants, then we can call it a favour.
Of course someone else will do the job, how else will the poor man eat?
Re: Refusing To Eat My Wife's Food. by peacettw: 7:42am On Jan 22, 2018
Praktikals:
It depends on the type of wife. Good wives still see it as punishment
OK, that was funny. Really??
Re: Refusing To Eat My Wife's Food. by giftedben: 7:47am On Jan 22, 2018
Oga the world is to big. If a wife cannot get up early in the morning and prepare breakfast/lunch for the family that is not a wife. Properly she just got married to answer "Mrs". I wonder what her excuses will be if she was a banker. I am not saying she is cheating or that you should chase her out. But you need to take drastic measures. It is either her work or her marriage. Choose one.
Re: Refusing To Eat My Wife's Food. by Angelyna(f): 7:48am On Jan 22, 2018
Mehnn this is the first time I'm seeing nairalanders giving a sensible advice, bro please stop punishing yourself, do the needful, set aside ego, your ego will ruin your home and nothing more..
Re: Refusing To Eat My Wife's Food. by PatriotTemidayo: 7:48am On Jan 22, 2018
peacettw:
Not eating your wife's food is no longer considered a form of punishment. You are only doing her a favour and punishing yourself
Inexperience!

If you're married, you'll speak differently
Re: Refusing To Eat My Wife's Food. by Shedrack777: 7:53am On Jan 22, 2018
MhizzAJ:
God knows i can't get married to any man that doesn't know how to cook and do some basic chores
Indomie Generation Spotted. Keep Deceivin Yourself. Na Women Like Una Dey Suffer For Husband Yard
Re: Refusing To Eat My Wife's Food. by SirBunky85(m): 7:54am On Jan 22, 2018
Gentle034:
Bros, to be honest enh, the fault is yours, you already decided that you would sort yourself out, if you already know how to cook oga cook for yourself when your wifey can't do that. Indomie even though I hate am no pass 5 mins to prepare, rice nkor, what of beans? Haba manchi? You and your madam no suppose qwata on top food, even if u no sabi cook, jejely carry food flask go buy food.
Just go and Start eating her food or you kukumah leave house for her, now the ball dey your hand if u like dance Shaku-Shaku ontop.
u pple are just funny.u all stylishly left d real issue at stake-d wife failed to prepare sth for him with d excuse of rushing to sch relive d nanny but didnt go to d sch again.if u be d man,wont u angry?d wife is a chronic liar and must be blamed
Re: Refusing To Eat My Wife's Food. by Seahawk: 7:55am On Jan 22, 2018
Dafreeguy:
What sort of a dream life can a single nairaland lady live? meanwhile, why not compare a single lady living her dream life to that married woman who is also living a fulfilled life? after all, there are many people in a blessed and blissful marriage
that question in bold is borne of your excessive ego. It makes you believe a woman can only live a dream life if she’s married.
Re: Refusing To Eat My Wife's Food. by peacettw: 7:56am On Jan 22, 2018
PatriotTemidayo:
Inexperience!

If you're married, you'll speak differently
Been married for a decade. Still married.
Re: Refusing To Eat My Wife's Food. by Kaybaba5(m): 8:04am On Jan 22, 2018
Please eat her food, and dont allow devil to build house in your marriage.
Two wrongs dont make right
Re: Refusing To Eat My Wife's Food. by Praktikals(m): 8:04am On Jan 22, 2018
peacettw:
OK, that was funny. Really??
Yes, my sister. Any reasonable and responsible wife will see it as a cause for alarm. But unreasonable ones go say hunger never wire you ni. A sex doll is way better than an unreasonable wife
Re: Refusing To Eat My Wife's Food. by Nobody: 8:06am On Jan 22, 2018
LordKO:
Citing the connotation of your message, you've a long standing mistrust and grudge towards your wife. And that's the root cause of the petty attitudes you have meted out against her so far. Work on yourself because failure to do so will break your marriage in a no distant time. Don't push her closer to the wall than you have done so far. Respect is reciprocal.
Is it trust? Me I see envy joor. He feels d babe makes more cash than him so she is independent and can walk away anytime.obsession in the highest order.
Re: Refusing To Eat My Wife's Food. by peacettw: 8:10am On Jan 22, 2018
Praktikals:
Yes, my sister. Any reasonable and responsible wife will see it as a cause for alarm. But unreasonable ones go say hunger never wire you ni. A sex doll is way better than an unreasonable wife
I don't quite agree. If a wife suddenly declares never to collect money from her hubby to run the home, will you consider that a form of punishment? There are better ways to resolve a conflict. Surely starving one's self shouldn't be one of them..... That sort of behaviour should be reserved for toddlers.
Re: Refusing To Eat My Wife's Food. by Nobody:
Ladyhippolyta88:
Because you are not like them does not make her dream dumb.Those men are out there so leave her alone.
Don’t mind the Neanderthal. When you peoples parents won’t give you proper home training, you will marry and become another woman’s problem.

Oga can not fix food for himself, for just one morning? As hungry as he was? All to form boss abi? Na you first be husband?

That means if you were as rich as Mark Zuckerberg, you wife won’t be allowed to breath anyhow in your house.

Disturbing the poor woman with phone calls, like a needy child, now you aren’t eating her food. You never start. Use your hand to scatter your marriage.
Re: Refusing To Eat My Wife's Food. by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 8:27am On Jan 22, 2018
Reasonabledoubt:
Don’t mind the Neanderthal. When you peoples parents won’t give you proper home training, you will marry and become another woman’s problem.

Oga can not fix food for himself, for just one morning? As hungry as he was? All to form boss abi? Na you first be husband?

That means if you were as reach as Mark Zuckerberg, you wife won’t be allowed to breath anyhow in your house.

Disturbing the poor woman with phone calls, like a needy child, now you aren’t eating her food. You never start. Use your hand to scatter your marriage.
Whoever you are you are very reasonable.God bless you,Your comparison with Zuckerberg is fantastic.
Re: Refusing To Eat My Wife's Food. by holluphemydavid(m): 8:30am On Jan 22, 2018
Gentle034:
Bros, to be honest enh, the fault is yours, you already decided that you would sort yourself out, if you already know how to cook oga cook for yourself when your wifey can't do that. Indomie even though I hate am no pass 5 mins to prepare, rice nkor, what of beans? Haba manchi? You and your madam no suppose qwata on top food, even if u no sabi cook, jejely carry food flask go buy food.
Just go and Start eating her food or you kukumah leave house for her, now the ball dey your hand if u like dance Shaku-Shaku ontop.
if na me even if i no dey eat her food,i no fit leave d house wey i dey pay d rent or build oooo,shey u no knw say if he begins no dey come house again another lady outside go dey find him despite d fact dat he is married
Re: Refusing To Eat My Wife's Food. by ikemesit4477: 8:30am On Jan 22, 2018
MhizzAJ:
God knows i can't get married to any man that doesn't know how to cook and do some basic chores
am equal to the task! I can cook everything cookable! So can we.................. grin grin grin
Re: Refusing To Eat My Wife's Food. by bayulll011(m): 8:31am On Jan 22, 2018
fhutson500:
Nlanders,

Good afternoon all, something happened of recent I thought I should make it known here. I work from home, cos my wife runs a daycare, though she's got two Nannies that work with her which means she gets to work at anytime she wants at times.
No need nagging on trivial issues.

i also got a married folks, the issues of food is always the problem in the house,the wife will refuse to cook and husband will nag and drink garri lol.

but the truth is, the way to man heart is food,both food you know what i mean.

all you need to do is,make it firm just the same way you made the ring and see how the problems solved.

and Oga not all shiit you come here and exposed,deal with it cos there are loads of lunatics here.
Re: Refusing To Eat My Wife's Food. by Innobee99(m): 8:36am On Jan 22, 2018
Ladyhippolyta88:
You will marry the type that would chop your gateman I guess!
Low I.Q dey bite u
Re: Refusing To Eat My Wife's Food. by gnykelly(m): 8:36am On Jan 22, 2018
Reasonabledoubt:
Lol...what an advice. When you behave this way, are you her husband or her jailer? Please where do men like you come from?

Where do women see all these kinda petty men to marry?

Op you sound like a nag. Seems like you married a quiet wife, if for the reasons you stated above you refuse my food?

You will come and beg to eat it later. You’re punishing yourself not her. Better grow up.
may God never allow me to marry a woman like you. women that lie about their whereabouts are not worthy of marriage
Re: Refusing To Eat My Wife's Food. by msylva2147(m): 8:41am On Jan 22, 2018
Oyindidi:
Have you seen me before?
yes
Re: Refusing To Eat My Wife's Food. by cbrass(m): 8:44am On Jan 22, 2018
Ladyhippolyta88:
I thought the Op said he could cook.This is childish you think you are punishing her it is yourself you are doing.You are suspecting her of cheating it also means you are a suspect.I agree with Mhizz AJ I can't marry a man who is not domestic to assist himself or the family.
I can cook very well, when should we marry wink
Re: Refusing To Eat My Wife's Food. by cbrass(m): 8:48am On Jan 22, 2018
keepingmum:
What a nag of a man!!! After saying you ll sort yourself with food you now start making calls because of food, ring and sex,??
Where do women see this type of menhuh? Such a petty and childish manchild
Whenever hunger catch you, you' ll beg your wife for food because there's no man born of a woman that ll say he's punishing me by not eating my food....if you like buy food from outside or get a babe to cook for you....when they use poison or jazz to reset YOUR destiny its YOUR problem alone and MY life will go on
Though the OP acted like a baby, I think your comment lacks love
Re: Refusing To Eat My Wife's Food. by msylva2147(m): 8:49am On Jan 22, 2018
Reasonabledoubt:
Don’t mind the Neanderthal. When you peoples parents won’t give you proper home training, you will marry and become another woman’s problem.

Oga can not fix food for himself, for just one morning? As hungry as he was? All to form boss abi? Na you first be husband?

That means if you were as reach as Mark Zuckerberg, you wife won’t be allowed to breath anyhow in your house.

Disturbing the poor woman with phone calls, like a needy child, now you aren’t eating her food. You never start. Use your hand to scatter your marriage.
from the way the op narrated this story you will know that the woman is the type that like controlling her hubby and people are here saying since he can cook why can't he just cook. it is her her primary duty to prepare his breakfast.
Re: Refusing To Eat My Wife's Food. by Nobody: 8:54am On Jan 22, 2018
MhizzAJ:
God knows i can't get married to any man that doesn't know how to cook and do some basic chores
you go just old for house.Most men don't know how to cook, including me oo
Re: Refusing To Eat My Wife's Food. by Nobody: 8:57am On Jan 22, 2018
gnykelly:
may God never allow me to marry a woman like you. women that lie about their whereabouts are not worthy of marriage
God will never allow you marry a woman like me indeed. Like attracts like, you will marry an “o yes member” that will pander to your fragile ego. Ewu!

If she was lying she wouldn’t have picked his calls. She is an adult that can change her plans wnroute a location, that is not a crime.
Re: Refusing To Eat My Wife's Food. by Nobody: 9:00am On Jan 22, 2018
msylva2147:
from the way the op narrated this story you will know that the woman is the type that like controlling her hubby and people are here saying since he can cook why can't he just cook. it is her her primary duty to prepare his breakfast.
Kindly quote the parts of his story that shows that she controls him. Rather he seems like the manipulative one. Making her come home to wear her ring.

As if a ring stops one from cheating.

All I see here is poverty inspired issues. If he was a busy man, he will eat on the go, because there won’t be time to be waiting at home for her to cook so that he can eat.

Women should take note. He has not started hunger strike.
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