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I'm 44 year old woman and I've been dating a 24 year old boy for 5 months. At first we would just see each other about once a week but then it became more frequent during the summer. The sex is incredible but there isn't much substance to our conversations.

I took him to Dubai, then for my birthday he planned the entire day and made me dinner. What he did cost about GHc350. So about 2 months ago I asked him where I stood with him and he said he liked me a lot. I said the same. Well I then took him to Cuba for a week. When we got back he said he is going to be very busy with his job and he’s finishing his Masters degree so we would only be able to see each other once a week.

I said no problem. That continued until about two weeks ago he told me he cared too much for me to continue because he felt I was in his way of finding "the one" that he might marry. I told him I liked him enough that I'd wait for him to finish his school. He said that would be too much pressure for him. He kept saying he was confused and that he cares so much about me but "right now" he can't give me what I’m looking for.
My questions are;

Is he dating someone else I don’t know of?
Should I take all the money I spent on him?
Also am I being stupid dating a 24 year old when I'm 44?
I really want to fight for what rightfully belongs to me. Please advise me


source: http://www.okaygh.com/im-44-years-old-ive-dating-24-year-old-5-months-please-help-2/

Lol...scam.

You should leave him before you wreck the rest of your heart!
He just came to himself on the age difference

Leave the poor, yet greedy, boy alone. Truth is, he knows he can't, and won't marry you. So, you waiting for him to round off his studies is a waste of time.
You are not part of his future plans. You just a fling cum sugar mummy, cum maga

leave the young man alone don't you know you are his ancestor?...and as for you taking back the money you spent on him....make thunder fire you!!!!...

This lady is a Nairalander, but make I no talk!

Get a sex doll

Just listen to yourself,asking if you should take back what you spent on him. Can you give him back all his sperm he wasted on you? You knew he was 24 when you started dating him and you must be a mugu for you to believe he will marry you. As for taking what rightfully belongs to u,lol,u are just a dumb cheap ass. Go look for your mate to marry and stop manipulating the poor boy,after all you wanted sex from him and he wanted your money.

lollxx at what rightfully belongs to her... She want to marry her son!! This is definitely a made up story..

You are mad.. U pig

Fight for ur love

Ghana again??

Weird stuffs full that side. Na for Ghana you go see grandma wey dey do ashewo.
They package and still carry runs up till 70yrs.

Funny people

What is rightful yours?

At 44 please you should know better

You are obviously his sugarmummy and you don't have any right to be jealous.

queencalipso:
lollxx at what rightfully belongs to her... She want to marry her son!! This is definitely a made up story..

Holy shhiit

donstan18:
This lady is a Nairalander, but make I no talk!

My chairman, talk jare

greiboy:
My chairman, talk jare

Ma Nigga want to get me in trouble

greiboy:
Evening boss

Just curious, but are you fking serious that the person or people involved are on nairaland?

Evening buddy!

Be like the Greiboy we know think!!

It is a common sense

lefulefu:
are u saying that moniker is an alternate ?

Dem send u?

donstan18:
Ma Nigga want to get me in trouble

Evening boss

Just curious, but are you fking serious that the person or people involved are on nairaland?

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donstan18:
This lady is a Nairalander, but make I no talk!

are u saying that moniker is an alternate ?

Diamond23:
[/color] Haba Aunty, hw can u be dating ur grandson , we r in Nija nt Yankee were everything goes. U should be looking for an elderly man probably a widower or become a third wife to a married man .He wz just ur gigolo nd wz never ur boyfriend......Move on with ur life nd don't fight over wot wz never urs.[color=#550000]

best advice so far

I want to believe this is fiction but if its real story ..I beg you madam let the boy go peacefully ..oh yes you had your fun but you started taking it too far..he got scared ..he want out..let him .He is too young.. this is Africa my sister ...Dan Allah no Vex with Yaro

donstan18:
Evening buddy!
Be like the Greiboy we know think!!
It is a common sense

lol
I don't get you bro