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I couldn't read it all.

MrHistorian:
I couldn't read it all.

it wasnt meant for you and your short attention-span.

take it easy.

ubunja:

it wasnt meant for you and your short attention-span.

take it easy.

LOL!

This is a well written post. If you've to retaliate, do unto her whatever she's done to you.



Ubunja babyyyy, come here. Oya chop kisses.

Nice one Ubunja this is enlightening
STAY ON THE LAND ALWAYS (S.O.T.L.A)

I've always said it that there isn't physical abuse without an underlying emotional abuse. So much emphasis is placed on a man's lack of self control but very little is on a woman's inability to shut her mouth up. To everyone,when a woman shouts and rants,it is seen as normal but when a man reacts,he's seen as violent. It shouldn't be so cos all this does is make the woman feel she can say whatever and get away with it. It makes her comfortable and she sure knows how to use this to her advantage. Later she'll cry 'the world is unfair to me,it's a male dominated world' and some foolish idiots,even those who call themselves 'men' believe and support this rubbish ideology. Until there is some sort of restriction on what and how women say,there will always be a high rate of physical violence. It's inevitable. U can't be talking trash and expect all men to take em just cos u're a woman and you have 'feelings' or 'that's how you are'. Women learn to control your emotional outbursts and trust me,there'll be a tremendous decrease in rate of physical and domestic violence.

COOL10:
I've always said it that there isn't physical abuse without an underlying emotional abuse. So much emphasis is placed on a man's lack of self control but very little is on a woman's inability to shut her mouth up. To everyone,when a woman shouts and rants,it is seen as normal but when a man reacts,he's seen as violent. It shouldn't be so cos all this does is make the woman feel she can say whatever and get away with it. It makes her comfortable and she sure knows how to use this to her advantage. Later she'll cry 'the world is unfair to me,it's a male dominated world' and some foolish idiots,even those who call themselves 'men' believe and support this rubbish ideology. Until there is some sort of restriction on what and how women say,there will always be a high rate of physical violence. It's inevitable. U can't be talking trash and expect all men to take em just cos u're a woman and you have 'feelings' or 'that's how you are'. Women learn to control your emotional outbursts and trust me,there'll be a tremendous decrease in rate of physical and domestic violence.

agreed. fully.
i tried my best to highlight the damage women do.maybe i should have go more indepth.

ubunja:

agreed. fully.
i tried my best to highlight the damage women do.maybe i should have go more indepth.

. No,you've said enough. It's left for others to listen

9ice one ubunja,tho some women get craze

really lyk ur posts, though am mostly undercover sha. especially those of badboys, guess ave been a good boy but its ending dis year

justiniyke29:
really lyk ur posts, though am mostly undercover sha. especially those of badboys, guess ave been a good boy but its ending dis year

STICK TO BEING THAT GOOD BOY. YES!!! STICK TO IT. LET ME TELL YOU THE SIMPLE TRUTH, DONT BE DELUDED THINKING CHANGING FOR THE OPPOSITE IS A PATH THAT LEADS TO ANYTHING GOOD. IT LEADS TO ALL THAT IS WRONG. IF TRUELY YOU HAVE BEEN FOLLOWING UBUNJA'S BAD BOY GOSPEL ON NL YOU WOULD HAVE READ COUNTLESS TIMES HOW HE, UBUNJA PREFERS A GOOD GIRL A.K.A VIRGIN AS A WIFE TO A BAD GIRL A.K.A LovePeddler. IF YOU ARE AWARE OF HIS STANCE WITH RESPECT TO THE BEST OF CHOICE ABOVE, A VIRGIN AND YET CHOOSE TO BECOME THE OPPOSITE OF WHO YOU ALREADY ARE THEN I TELL YOU. WHAT YOU WILL BE DOING IS A REACTION AGAINST YOUR INTELLECT. MEANING YOUR FACULTY OF REASONING IS UP-SIDE-DOWN AND YOU ARE SWIMMING IN SELF DECEPTION. HOW DOES IT EVEN ADD UP WHEN THE PREACHER OF THE GOSPEL OF BAD BOYS WANTS FOR HIMSELF THE GOOD GIRL AS A SIGNIFICANT OTHER AND NOT SOME LEFT OVER CUN'T? WILL PRACTICING WHAT HE PREACHES RESULT TO MORE BAD GIRLS OR GOOD GIRLS. AND ISNT IT HYPOCRITICAL TO DESPISE THE FRUIT OF ONE'S HAND THE BAD GIRL? MY BROTHER GOOD WILL FOREVER REMAIN GOOD. WHAT YOU SHOULD NOT AND NEVER ALLOW IS A LADY TO TAKE YOU FOR A FOOL FOR BEING GOOD. KICK HER BUTT THE MOMENT SHE STARTS DEMONSTRATING THAT ATTITUDE OF INGRATITUDE. RARE GEMS ARE DIFFICULT TO FIND. BEING GOOD IS FOR YOUR OWN GOOD IF ONLY YOU KNOW. HENCE, IN THIS 2018 BECOME A BETTER PERSON AND NOT A BAD BOY. THAT'S A DEMOTION AND NOT A PROMOTION. ITS AN ADVICE AND NOT AN INSTRUCTION. BE WISE!!!

WORDWORLD:


STICK TO BEING THAT GOOD BOY. YES!!! STICK TO IT. LET ME TELL YOU THE SIMPLE TRUTH, DONT BE DELUDED THINKING CHANGING FOR THE OPPOSITE IS A PATH THAT LEADS TO ANYTHING GOOD. IT LEADS TO ALL THAT IS WRONG. IF TRUELY YOU HAVE BEEN FOLLOWING UBUNJA'S BAD BOY GOSPEL ON NL YOU WOULD HAVE READ COUNTLESS TIMES HOW HE, UBUNJA PREFERS A GOOD GIRL A.K.A VIRGIN AS A WIFE TO A BAD GIRL A.K.A LovePeddler. IF YOU ARE AWARE OF HIS STANCE WITH RESPECT TO THE BEST OF CHOICE ABOVE, A VIRGIN AND YET CHOOSE TO BECOME THE OPPOSITE OF WHO YOU ALREADY ARE THEN I TELL YOU. WHAT YOU WILL BE DOING IS A REACTION AGAINST YOUR INTELLECT. MEANING YOUR FACULTY OF REASONING IS UP-SIDE-DOWN AND YOU ARE SWIMMING IN SELF DECEPTION. HOW DOES IT EVEN ADD UP WHEN THE PREACHER OF THE GOSPEL OF BAD BOYS WANTS FOR HIMSELF THE GOOD GIRL AS A SIGNIFICANT OTHER AND NOT SOME LEFT OVER CUN'T. WILL PRACTICING WHAT HE PREACHES RESULT TO MORE BAD GIRLS OR GOOD GIRLS. AND ITSNT IT HYPOCRITICAL TO DESPISE THE FRUIT OF ONE'S HAND THE BAD BOY GIRL? MY BROTHER GOOD WILL FOREVER REMAIN GOOD. WHAT YOU SHOULD NOT AND NEVER ALLOW IS A LADY TO TAKE YOU FOR A FOOL FOR BEING GOOD. KICK HER BUTT THE MOMENT SHE STARTS DEMONSTRATING THAT ATTITUDE OF INGRATITUDE. RARE GEMS ARE DIFFICULT TO FIND. BEING GOOD IS FOR YOUR OWN GOOD IF ONLY YOU KNOW. HENCE, IN THIS 2018 BECOME A BETTER PERSON AND NOT A BAD BOY. THAT'S A DEMOTION AND NOT A PROMOTION. ITS AN ADVICE AND NOT AN INSTRUCTION. BE WISE!!!

Truth as always, but rare gems are hardly appreciate, so the gospel of become a bad boy....So, you see....Do you blame the guys?

Zykod:



Truth as always, but rare gems are hardly appreciate, so the gospel of become a bad boy....So, you see....Do you blame the guys?

Firstly the context of that post is this. If you must be a BAD BOY then you must NOT DESPISE BAD GIRLS thinking you are anything better by ridiculing them. Now to your question. We must firstly understand that being good is for our own good you ain't doing anybody a favour by being good. RARE GEMS OF COURSE ARE APPRECIATED BY ALL. THAT'S WHY AFTER THE BAD BOYISM AND BAD GIRLISM BY THE PRACTISIONERS OF THIS -ISMS. THESE PRACTISIONERS START LOOKING FOR THE RARE GEMS AFTER SWIMING IN THEIR OWN SELF DECEPTION. WHO IS FOOLING WHO?! IF THEY ARE NOT APPRECIATED WHY DO THEY GO AFTER THEM WHEN IT MATTERS.

WORDWORLD:


Firstly the context of that post is this. If you must be a BAD BOY then you must NOT DESPISE BAD GIRLS thinking you are anything better by ridiculing them. Now to your question. We must firstly understand that being good is for our own good you ain't doing anybody a favour. RARE GEMS OF COURSE ARE APPRECIATED BY ALL. THAT'S WHY AFTER THE BAD BOYISM AND BAD GIRLISM BY THE PRACTISIONERS OF THIS -ISMS. THESE PRACTISIONERS START LOOKING FOR THE RARE GEMS. WHO IS FOOLING WHO?! IF THEY ARE NOT APPRECIATED WHY DO THEY GO AFTER THEM WHEN IT MATTERS.

As usual i believe you, but reality is far from the theoritical aspect of things, the reality is ladies always find good guys as repulsive, lots of times if not many times, it's inbuilt in them to be attracted to the ones that will wreck their lives.i've been around bro. I'm certain of this.

Zykod:



As usual i believe you, but reality is far from the theoritical aspect of things, the reality is ladies always find good guys as repulsive, lots of times if not many times, it's inbuilt in them to be attracted to the ones that will wreck their lives.i've been around bro. I'm certain of this.

And that's why those who are not are called RARE GEMS.

Ubunja you've spoken well once again, excellent thread, More wisdom fall on you Genius

WORDWORLD:


And that's why those we are not are called RARE GEMS.

A wonderful write up you ve a here.

Zykod:

Sorry, topo error. Thats why those few who are not and who know what they are doing are called the RARE GEMS. Ubunja has countless times pointed to ladies how they are at the DISADVANTAGE by choosing to be STUP!D.

ubunja:


most men have not learnt how to deal with women without getting emotional and using their strength on women.

The above is TRUE about not just most men but about most humans, (men and women). The simple reason why and in the context of your post is because MOST humans strive NOT to cultivate their minds so as to become the best of nature, HUMANE and WISE by planting the seed called PAUSE OF HESITATION BEFORE ACTION which eliminates the role of CONVERGENT THINKING and installs a functional DIVERGENT THINKING process that chooses the best of options with the least negative consequences as a response when emotions are stirred by PROVOCATIVE WORDS.

ubunja:


the global uptake of sex dolls and sex robots itself is a sign that men have been nursing injuries that the world cant see.

Ubunja, how is the global uptake of sex dolls a sign that men have been nursing injuries inflicted by women that the world can't see? I BE GLAD FOR AN EXPLANATION.

WORDWORLD:


Sorry, topo error. Thats why those few who are not and who know what they are doing are called the RARE GEMS. Ubunja has countless times pointed to ladies how they are at the DISADVANTAGE by choosing to be STUP!D.



The above is TRUE about not just most men but about most humans, (men and women). The simple reason why and in the context of your post is because MOST humans strive NOT to cultivate their minds so as to become the best of nature, HUMANE and WISE by planting the seed called PAUSE OF HESITATION BEFORE ACTION which eliminates the role of CONVERGENT THINKING and installs a functional DIVERGENT THINKING process that chooses the best of options with the least negative consequences as a response when emotions are stirred by PROVOCATIVE WORDS.



Ubunja, how is the global uptake of sex dolls a sign that men have nursing injuries inflicted by women that the world can't see? 

Cultivation of charaacter is something both genders must do. I have sisters, none nag, not one.


Two, regardles of the emotional trauma a woman subjects a man to, the bond can be stronger than the misunderstanding, the qualityof the bond determines what it can sustain. If a woman values her bond, and places premium on the bond, even she would conduct herself better.


It's sad to see ladies look for men to culviate their issues than work on themselves.Also, a man isn't a boy, a man has hundreds of projects on his mind, and his ability to withold is different from a man that has nothing going for him...


Finally, ladies choose wringly be default, it's not a surprise, they choose what they deserve, never pity a lady you find in an abusive relationship. She turned down countless good guys down, if you ask them privately, they'll testify to this....

Zykod:





Cultivation of charaacter is something both genders must do. I have sisters, none nag, not one.


Two, regardles of the emotional trauma a woman subjects a man to, the bond can be stronger than the misunderstanding, the qualityof the bond determines what it can sustain. If a woman values her bond, and places premium on the bond, even she would conduct herself better.


It's sad to see ladies look for men to culviate their issues than work on themselves.Also, a man isn't a boy, a man has hundreds of projects on his mind, and his ability to withold is different from a man that has nothing going for him...


Finally, ladies choose wringly be default, it's not a surprise, they choose what they deserve, never pity a lady you find in an abusive relationship. She turned down countless good guys down, if you ask them privately, they'll testify to this....

Pity who?!!! One loose cun't came crying the other day. Thought i become sympathic. I used words to blow her away. zykod

"ITS SAD TO SEE LADIES LOOK FOR MEN TO CULTIVATE THEIR ISSUES THAN WORK ON THEMSELVES" is so true and pathetic. My brother let me tell you. Its what you are searching for that you find. If its the rare gems its up to you to look for them and find them.

WORDWORLD:


"ITS SAD TO SEE LADIES LOOK FOR MEN TO CULTIVATE THEIR ISSUES THAN WORK ON THEMSELVES" is so true and pathetic. My brother let me tell you. Its what you are searching for that you find. If its the rare gems its up to you to look for them and find them.

I have changed my orientation towards ladies. I'm not managing anymore. If i worked on myself 12-15-20 years, i wonder what they did with their lives, perhaps they spent too much time whoring around than developing their character....




We shouldn't give permission for ladies to be uncivilised in their communication and how they express themselves. As i said earlier, i have sisters and none of them 10 years into marriage nag their husbands.

Ladies that nag excessively have too much free time, do not develop themselves, and should work on themselves if they wish to keep their relationships.

This been said, nagging isn't a big deal for a man to deal with psychologically and every other way, but when nagging is a complicated mix of insult, trash-talk, talks that depicts a man as being worthless and thrash, bro, please let the man lose his head if for a bit...

WHY? If such a man permits the lady to continue and works away, it becomes perpetual and she feeds on it to continue with her craziness, it's builds toxic levels in such relationships, and she places less value in the relationship.

A lady that lacks restrain or doesn't develop it most times hasn't subjected herself to male/man authority, and since she didn't learn it through the years, learning in a relationship becomes a scenario a soldier tests his rifle on the battle ground, what do you expect?

Years down the line, the guys walks out, who wants such bull....for the ladies with pay, and the guy who depends on them, the guy codedly plays cool, gets the financial buoyancy he wants and zooms off, guys with pay don't give two hoot and will lose their cool. In the end, to make a relationship work, both gender should respect one another and accord one another with due respect. Not just men..,.

Zykod:



I have changed my orientation towards ladies. I'm not managing anymore. If i worked on myself 12-15-20 years, i wonder what they did with their lives, perhaps they spent too much time whoring around than developing their character....




We shouldn't give permission for ladies to be uncivilised in their communication and how they express themselves. As i said earlier, i have sisters and none of them 10 years into marriage nag their husbands.

Ladies that nag excessively have too much free time, do not develop themselves, and should work on themselves if they wish to keep their relationships.

This been said, nagging isn't a big deal for a man to deal with psychologically and every other way, but when nagging is a complicated mix of insult, trash-talk, talks that depicts a man as being worthless and thrash, bro, please let the man lose his head if for a bit...

WHY? If such a man permits the lady to continue and works away, it becomes perpetual and she feeds on it to continue with her craziness, it's builds toxic levels in such relationships, and she places less value in the relationship.

A lady that lacks restrain or doesn't develop it most times hasn't subjected herself to male/man authority, and since she didn't learn it through the years, learning in a relationship becomes a scenario a soldier tests his rifle on the battle ground, what do you expect?

Years down the line, the guys walks out, who wants such bull....for the ladies with pay, and the guy who depends on them, the guy codedly plays cool, gets the financial buoyancy he wants and zooms off, guys with pay don't give two hoot and will lose their cool. In the end, to make a relationship work, both gender should respect one another and accord one another with due respect. Not just men..,.

Thats true. Sometimes you need to shut their fVcking mouth spewing thrash up with an upper cut. Hehehehehe (just joking. There are better ways to make a woman shut d fvck up) ............Zykod do you know that babes dey look face before she fit dey nag. If na you no respect urself she go nag o! Kuma if u be mumu she go nag.

WORDWORLD:


Thats true. Sometimes you need to shut the fVcking mouth spewing thrash with an upper cut. Hehehehehe............Zykod do you know that babes dey look face before she fit dey nag. If na you no respect urself she go nag o! Kuma if u be mumu she go nag. If she kn

They will end up crying private tears....No be them dey full Shiloh with their eyes scrolling all over looking for men..

I need a man that's

god fearing

calm

well composed

good dress sense

handsome

muscular

good in bed

speaks well

presentable

intelligent

hard working

can provide consistent financial support



Now tell me, what does the man get in return, if a man gives all this, is peace too much to ask of those slow underveleoped pokes?

I reiterate a man brings a lot to relationshps and should not for one second bear a verbally abusive woman, they speak well to their brothers, father, bosses, why should their guys be an exemption to that rule? Ladies should work on themselves or get ready for men walking out on them even in marriages if they refuse to cultivate good character

Zykod:




They will end up crying private tears....No be them dey full Shiloh with their eyes scrolling all over looking for men..

I need a man that's

god fearing

calm

well composed

good dress sense

handsome

muscular

good in bed

speaks well

presentable

intelligent

hard working

can provide consistent financial support



Now tell me, what does the man get in return, if a man gives all this, is peace too much to ask of those slow underveleoped pokes?

Yah, for shilo after dem don waka waka dey do yanga up and down. Hmmm...any man who marries a nagging wife has metaphorically minus heheheheh 50 years from his life. No peace of mind. Na hypertension be dat o! Heart attack go follow before you know you don kick pucket. zykod make i sleep jare. Some babes are on here me not fit marry dem o! Dem mouth na like machine gun ta-ta-ta-ta-ta

WORDWORLD:


Yah, for shilo after dem don waka waka dey do yanga up and down. Hmmm...any man who marries a nagging wife has metaphorically minus heheheheh 50 years from his life. No peace of mind. Na hypertension be dat o! Heart attack go follow before you know you don kick pucket.

You can say that again... Thesedays wey pressure dey high. Bills skyrocketting anyhow, Bank loan, projects, everything dey head., even when office closes, project dey inside head, na him man go tolerate stpvpid nag, and what ladies nag about most times is useless and i never important. So, men bring a lot to th table, they should work on themselves while being single, if they did, read books, attend conferences, church, and not jumping around giving free fvcks, they will be better prepared for marriage emotionally and psychologically.

It's high time Ubunja's miseducation threads hits FP. They are really educational.


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Zykod:



You can say that again... Thesedays wey pressure dey high. Bills skyrocketting anyhow, Bank loan, projects, everything dey head., even when office closes, project dey inside head, na him man go tolerate stpvpid nag, and what ladies nag about most times is useless and i never important. So, men bring a lot to th table, they should work on themselves while being single, if they did, read books, attend conferences, church, and not jumping around giving free fvcks, they will be better prepared for marriage emotionally and psychologically.

VERY TRUE AS IT IS WITH SOME WOMEN SO IT IS WITH SOME MEN AS YOU ONCE SAID. Hence we all need to work on ourselves. zykod dont ever settle for less else your life is ruined. Kick any lady who is not ready for emotional growth into the gutter where she belongs.

WORDWORLD:


VERY TRUE AS IT IS WITH SOME WOMEN SO IT IS WITH SOME MEN AS YOU ONCE SAID. Hence we all need to walk on ourselves. zykod dont ever settle for less else your life is ruined. Kick any lady who is not ready for emotional growth into the gutter where she belongs.

Thanks that's what i'm doing at the moment....No time

Zykod:



Thanks that's what i'm doing at the moment....No time

Goodnight bro its always a pleasure chatting with you. Your brain nobi salad cream.

WORDWORLD:


Goodnight bro its always a pleasure chatting with you. Your brain nobi salad cream.

Good Night bro. Maybe we get ladies that will appreciate,love,cherish and respect us.