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"If I Cant Have You, Then No One Will" by Toks2008(m): 9:23pm On Jan 27, 2018
"If I can't have you, then no one will!" is a Phrase often used by jealous and envious characters demanding
to be loved and if they don't get what they want,they may likely act irrational and latter regret their actions.

The phrase means exactly as it sounds. Someone is laying exclusive claim to another, disregarding the other person's thoughts and feelings on the matter, and there is an implicit threat of bodily harm and/or death involved if they do not get their way.

This could apply to both sexes so if you ever hear this phrase from your partner after a break up please don't take it lightly by thinking it is mere liptalk.Get the police involved immediately and let that person sign an undertaken cos that is a clear threat to your life or that of any other person you are involved with.

I don't know if this makes sense.

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Re: "If I Cant Have You, Then No One Will" by Nobody: 9:26pm On Jan 27, 2018
Nah, e no make sense atall. Nice way to start 2018 bro Toks

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Re: "If I Cant Have You, Then No One Will" by Toks2008(m): 9:32pm On Jan 27, 2018
Zykod:
Nah, e no make sense atall. Nice way to start 2018 bro Toks

Good.

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Re: "If I Cant Have You, Then No One Will" by Nobody: 9:36pm On Jan 27, 2018
No, It doesn't.
Re: "If I Cant Have You, Then No One Will" by Sugar97(f): 9:47pm On Jan 27, 2018
*modified*
Re: "If I Cant Have You, Then No One Will" by IAMSASHY(f): 9:53pm On Jan 27, 2018
undecided very strong and dangerous statement,I can relate,d experience was a very bad one.

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Re: "If I Cant Have You, Then No One Will" by Nobody: 9:59pm On Jan 27, 2018
Some may not say it verbally, but their actions would prove it.

Avoid obsessive lovers.
Those type that will give you their all.
You must reciprocate, if not...na to relocate to another planet.

They can go any length to get their pound of flesh.

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Re: "If I Cant Have You, Then No One Will" by Nobody: 10:00pm On Jan 27, 2018
I don't think I will ever hear it from a partner in my lifetime, but it is a pretty difficult situation.

I still don't know how it happens, how can someone be so attached to a person?
Re: "If I Cant Have You, Then No One Will" by Splinz(m): 10:01pm On Jan 27, 2018
One of those phrases from sore losers.
Oh c'mon give me a break... you can't do sh*t!

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Re: "If I Cant Have You, Then No One Will" by Toks2008(m): 10:03pm On Jan 27, 2018
AntiBrutus:
Some may not say it verbally, but their actions would prove it.

Avoid obsessive lovers.
Those type that will give you their all.
You must reciprocate, if not...na to relocate to another planet.

They can go any length to get their pound of flesh.

Expecially those that go diabolical.

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Re: "If I Cant Have You, Then No One Will" by Divay22(f): 10:03pm On Jan 27, 2018
Lol
I remember when i joked with a guy (at that time he was asking me out) and at same time he wasn't in town..
So i told him before he'll come back, i might be married already , damn.. Dude said, he's gonna cut my ring finger if he sees a ring on it grin grin grin grin

I just told him point blank, you ain't in love but you're just obsess with me...And from that day, i just couldn't help it but to give him a cold shoulder.

And yes, sometimes your lover might not necessarily mean what he or she said , but to be on a safe side pls confide in someone....
I run away from guys that are obsess, they act under the influence of their emotions and seriously once acid or injury is inflicted on you (na sorry sorry go end am, but even with that, you can never get your fine face grin grin or that scar would always be a remark).

I might doubt a guy if he says this, but if a lady says this to my brother, he'll leaving that state, if possible country immediately grin grin(I don't trust ladies..we're so irrational )

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Re: "If I Cant Have You, Then No One Will" by Toks2008(m): 10:04pm On Jan 27, 2018
Splinz:
One of those phrases from sore losers.
Oh c'mon give me a break... you can't do sh*t!
I pity you..I have been there and I almost died.

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Re: "If I Cant Have You, Then No One Will" by Divay22(f): 10:05pm On Jan 27, 2018
[quote author=Splinz post=64568088]One of those phrases from sore losers.

Oh c'mon give me a break... you can't do sh*t![/quote]
Hon
You wouldn't wanna mess with the wrong lady grin grin grin(they don't think twice)
Re: "If I Cant Have You, Then No One Will" by Toks2008(m): 10:07pm On Jan 27, 2018
Divay22:
Lol
I remember when i joked with a guy (at that time he was asking me out) and at same time he wasn't in town..
So i told him before he'll come back, i might be married already , damn.. Dude said, he's gonna cut my ring finger if he sees a ring on it grin grin grin grin

I just told him point blank, you ain't in love but you're just obsess with me...And from that day, i just couldn't help it but to give him a cold shoulder.

And yes, sometimes your lover might not necessarily mean what he or she said , but to be on a safe side pls confide in someone....
I run away from guys that are obsess, they act understand the influence of their emotions and seriously once acid or injury is inflicted on you (na sorry sorry go end am, but even with that, you can never get your fine face grin grin or that scar would always be a remark).

I'll might doubt a guy if he says this, but if a lady says this to my brother, he'll leaving that state, if possible country immediately grin grin(I don't trust ladies..we're so irrational )

@your last paragraph...I actually added it to my writeup but removed it so I won't sound as if I'm bringing the ladies down but thank GOD it is coming from a lady.

If a lady tells a guy this I advise the guy to relocate to Mars.

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Re: "If I Cant Have You, Then No One Will" by Splinz(m): 10:14pm On Jan 27, 2018
Toks2008:

I pity you..I have been there and I almost died.
You've rightly said it. "You"... not me.
Pele.
Re: "If I Cant Have You, Then No One Will" by Nobody: 10:14pm On Jan 27, 2018
greiboy:
I don't think I will ever hear it from a partner in my lifetime, but it is a pretty difficult situation.

I still don't know how it happens, how can someone be so attached to a person?

See question! Make I no share my experience...

Toks2008:


Expecially those that go diabolical.

They have different mode of operation o.
Na them dey pour acid.
Na them dey stalk your life.
Na them fit put false allegation on your head.

Anything to get back at you.

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Re: "If I Cant Have You, Then No One Will" by Nobody: 10:16pm On Jan 27, 2018
AntiBrutus:


See question! Make I no share my experience...



They have different mode of operation o.
Na them dey pour acid.
Na them dey stalk your life.
Na them fit put false allegation on your head.

Anything to get back at you.
Yes, share your experience. I want to learn

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Re: "If I Cant Have You, Then No One Will" by cruzita(f): 10:18pm On Jan 27, 2018
FEAR THOSE WORDS O
Re: "If I Cant Have You, Then No One Will" by Toks2008(m): 10:23pm On Jan 27, 2018
I don't know if lalasticlala Wil find this insightful.
Re: "If I Cant Have You, Then No One Will" by Tajbol4splend(m): 10:24pm On Jan 27, 2018
IAMSASHY:
undecided very strong and dangerous statement,I can relate,d experience was a very bad one.


Tell me, what happened, I mean your horrific experience

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Re: "If I Cant Have You, Then No One Will" by Splinz(m): 10:28pm On Jan 27, 2018
[quote author=Divay22 post=64568174][/quote]
I've been messing around with them for long. All they do is to rant.
Typical of losers.

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Re: "If I Cant Have You, Then No One Will" by Divay22(f): 10:33pm On Jan 27, 2018
Splinz:


I've been messing around with them for long. All they do is to rant.

Typical of losers.
grin grin grin
Alright.. If you say so grin grin grin
Re: "If I Cant Have You, Then No One Will" by edimolu(m): 10:36pm On Jan 27, 2018
regardless of the gender, it is either termed as obsession or an uncontrollable and aggravated level of jealousy!....

i know of a lady who once told me how her man kept reminding her he was going to kill her if she ever left him, it was no joke at the time...

well in most cases...death seems to be the major solution for obsessive sociopaths

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Re: "If I Cant Have You, Then No One Will" by habsydiamond(m): 10:38pm On Jan 27, 2018
This kind of people can do and undo....the best thing to do to this kind of people is to stay clear of them...can they can kill..
Re: "If I Cant Have You, Then No One Will" by Divay22(f): 10:38pm On Jan 27, 2018
Toks2008:


@your last paragraph...I actually added it to my writeup but removed it so I won't sound as if I'm bringing the ladies down but thank GOD it is coming from a lady.

If a lady tells a guy this I advise the guy to relocate to Mars.
Lol
Mars shocked shocked cheesy cheesy

Some ladies do rant though, but fear the one that doesn't say anything.. (bomb is loading)
Re: "If I Cant Have You, Then No One Will" by Nobody: 10:51pm On Jan 27, 2018
"If i can't have you, Nobody will"

Once i hear that statement in a Movie, then the other party is bound to be in trouble

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Re: "If I Cant Have You, Then No One Will" by Papiikush: 10:58pm On Jan 27, 2018
If you give her the right dick, she will say this to you. It's a good news/Bad new scenario.

Good news... You know she is officially your "ride or die" buddie grin

Bad news...She is your RIDE OR DIE buddie grin

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Re: "If I Cant Have You, Then No One Will" by Luizkid(m): 11:03pm On Jan 27, 2018
Is it only me that think the pix looks like Yemi Alade?
Re: "If I Cant Have You, Then No One Will" by DaddyKross: 11:09pm On Jan 27, 2018
Luizkid:
Is it only me that think the pix looks like Yemi Alade?


Yes, na only you.

Leave Maryjane before you start seeing Beyonce in Smileys

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Re: "If I Cant Have You, Then No One Will" by Nobody: 11:13pm On Jan 27, 2018
If a man tells me that, I will carry my slippers and run as fast as my legs can carry me, then avoid him like a plague.


Very dangerous and life threatening statement.

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Re: "If I Cant Have You, Then No One Will" by Nobody: 8:31am On Jan 28, 2018
Chikita66:
If a man tells me that, I will carry my slippers and run as fast as my legs can carry me, then avoid him like a plague.


Very dangerous and life threatening statement.


grin


Life is a place of learning

What a thread
Re: "If I Cant Have You, Then No One Will" by Nobody: 8:36am On Jan 28, 2018
This is for undergraduates who still have to deal with school cultists. Say that around me and I will kick your azz.grin

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