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So, We got a message today from a lady who begged us not to disclose her identity as she tells her story.

“I’m a gradute Of University Of Benin, however on my graduation day my boyfriend proposed to me after 6months of our relationship I said Yes. it was a dream come through because I have always wished I get married after school and start my own family with someone I love, it seems to be going as I have desired. However I went for my NYSC later relocated to Abuja, althrough my service there was good communication between us. Now is over 6 years since I completed my NYSC. He has not even talked about meeting my parents or brought up plans about our marriage, I have asked for his plans severally but it ends up in a quarrel.

I don’t really know what to do cause I’m not getting any younger. Please, I need advice.”

Well, as for me I think you have been turned to lord of the rings. Try and move on with your life, the ring should not keep you a prisoner.

Kindly drop your comment below.

Read: http://legit9ja.com/2018/02/lord-of-the-rings-after-7years-lady-seek-advice.html

Ring nation

I dnt see why any guy should propose to a lady when he knows he cnt marry her in less than a year.

Maybe he discovered ur septic tank is now a bohole after service

Just my 1Kobo

this is serious. but is it a must to propose bfr wedding

Lol.... Better return the ring and allow people to find you.

This obsession with marriage, I just don't get it.

XhosaNostra:
This obsession with marriage, I just don't get it.

unless u attain the age it remains a mystery to u.

newyorks:
unless u attain the age it remains a mystery to u.

I don't know what you mean by that.

I think you should leave your heart open to other options that are more serious. It's certain that your bf is no longer interested or passionate about marrying you.

Keep ur options open dear

ladyF:
Lol.... Better return the ring and allow people to find you.

Kai, stop dat, no let me call Lord Sauron 4 u. Dont u knw what Frodo had 2 pass through 2 return d ring. Abeg let her keep d ring. Her precious!