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subtlemee:
This type are the ones making pastors richer , by the time the reach their late 30s and the sugar daddy dumps them for someone younger and fresher they'll start patronizing fake pastors for husbands to drop from heaven

stefany00:
just got admission and there is no one to help me out...by 5th balloting for hostels will commence, if I do not pay my school fees I won't be able to ballot and it will cost me a lot...my school fees is #63,500....UNILAG.....pls I will appreciate any kind gesture....
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sent me a pm if you're real lets see what we can do..

wristbangle:
Good! As you share in another lady's property, another side chic would experience the wealth of your husband. Can I hear an amen?

Never except I'm not the one no bitch is capable

wristbangle:
So what happens when they crave more than just being a side chic in the life of the man and his wife blocks the move making them end up like bimbo akintola, ini Edo, etc.

Would you be happy when your husband is spending lavishly on a side chic?

Between its politicians that waste resources on ladies unlike business tycoons who sweat for their money.

The way women reason sef. I no blame una

Even business men have side chics and sped on them!
One ex beauty queen that owns abi flies in a private jet was rumoured to be Dangote's girl. Otedola too has had his moment.

Lots of side chis get married, with the man sponsoring the wedding. If they stay happily married or not is another topic, but they do get married every other day.

It's not about me being happy, this isn't about me.
Keep you judgemental attitude one side first. The girl spoke facts.

sirBLUNT:
i no dey go anywhere oo u beta talk dis one wey u don knw all the ethics and exigencies so...

You don't need to date them to know how they operate.
That said, I have one loyal prospective cheating husband on my case. It's adorable how he praises his wife...

People should save this one's pissure just in case any of your close relatives bring IT home for intro

wristbangle:
So what happens when they crave more than just being a side chic in the life of the man and his wife blocks the move making them end up like bimbo akintola, ini Edo, etc.

Would you be happy when your husband is spending lavishly on a side chic?

Between its politicians that waste resources on ladies unlike business tycoons who sweat for their money.

The way women reason sef. I no blame una

Nigerian politicians are renowned political prostitutes. Our young men are prostitutes as well because they can be bought with small money or a bag of rice just so politicians can use them as political thugs. If they are not bought by politicians, most are "online-dating" waiting and begging for their maga to pay.
Almost every Nigerian is a bonafide prostitute, thanks to the sad state of our country. Nigerians can do anything for money; they can lick any a$$ that needs licking for money. Its always funny when I see Nigerian men quick to point a finger without realising that, prostitution is a shameless business in Nigeria, practised by both men and women, rich and poor.

pocohantas:
Even business men have side chics and sped on them!
One ex beauty queen that owns abi flies in a private jet was rumoured to be Dangote's girl. Otedola too has had his moment.

Lots of side chis get married, with the man sponsoring the wedding. If they stay happily married or not is another topic, but they do get married every other day.

It's not about me being happy, this isn't about me.
Keep you judgemental attitude one side first. The girl spoke facts.




You don't need to date them to know how they operate.
That said, I have one loyal prospective cheating husband on my case. It's adorable how he praises his wife...

"i have one prospective cheating husband"

i love your sincerity...but hope you will always remember karma she is a fine bitcj

sirBLUNT:
"i have one prospective cheating husband"

i love your sincerity...but hope you will always remember karma she is a fine bitcj

Agreed. No wonder the world is filled with very unhappy men, sleeping around and hoping they can fill the void and emptiness in their soul with more women. No wonder the Male suicide rates remain consistently higher than female suicide rates. Karma truly is a bitachh

sirBLUNT:
"i have one prospective cheating husband"

i love your sincerity...but hope you will always remember karma she is a fine bitcj

My reason for not dating a married man has nothing to do with Karma, it's more about my functional conscience.
It's not something I can live with.


Wait sef, can't I convince myself, I am the wife's karma?

lindabon:
Agreed. No wonder the world is filled with very unhappy men, sleeping around and hoping they can fill the void and emptiness in their soul with more women. No wonder the Male suicide rates remain consistently higher than female suicide rates. Karma truly is a bitachh

Do Karma exist?

sirBLUNT:
sent me a pm if you're real lets see what we can do..

I don't knw Hw to pm
pls help me
God bless

Ritual candidate

pocohantas:
Even business men have side chics and sped on them!
One ex beauty queen that owns abi flies in a private jet was rumoured to be Dangote's girl. Otedola too has had his moment.

Lots of side chis get married, with the man sponsoring the wedding. If they stay happily married or not is another topic, but they do get married every other day.

It's not about me being happy, this isn't about me.
Keep you judgemental attitude one side first. The girl spoke facts.

The ends justify the means. It looks good for a lady that enjoys the goodies from a sugar daddy but same situation replicate in her in future, the same lady would go to Twitter to reign curse on gold diggers trying to snatch their husband.

You ladies speak from emotional aspect hence not doing checks on what consequences would sprout if you take a compromise step.

Well na Una life. E no concern me!

lindabon:
Nigerian politicians are renowned political prostitutes. Our young men are prostitutes as well because they can be bought with small money or a bag of rice just so politicians can use them as political thugs. If they are not bought by politicians, most are "online-dating" waiting and begging for their maga to pay.
Almost every Nigerian is a bonafide prostitute, thanks to the sad state of our country. Nigerians can do anything for money; they can lick any a$$ that needs licking for money. Its always funny when I see Nigerian men quick to point a finger without realising that, prostitution is a shameless business in Nigeria, practised by both men and women, rich and poor.

I dont want to play a prejudice card here but the pendulum swings more on ladies whom are political and sexual prostitutes at same time.

Also for youths trading their destiny because of a bag of rice or certain amount of money don't always do well in life.

Agreed the sad state of the economy that further weaken the intellect of people to reason but there are people making it legitimately, be it a lady or guy.

The lady speaking about enjoying sugar daddy's money is nothing but a thief and lazy girl.

dominique:
She did make some valid points. We can't deny that most of these married men spoil their mistresses at the expense of their families. That's the sad reality, even sadder is that most of these side chicks end up marrying good men.

If they marry good men then they are not all bad.

We marry who we deserve, somehow the universe ensures that!

wristbangle:
The ends justify the means. It looks good for a lady that enjoys the goodies from a sugar daddy but same situation replicate in her in future, the same lady would go to Twitter to reign curse on gold diggers trying to snatch their husband.

You ladies speak from emotional aspect hence not doing checks on what consequences would sprout if you take a compromise step.

Well na Una life. E no concern me!

Oga, nothing emotional here...you're the only one getting emotional. This is simple logic, the points she raised are valid.

If same thing will happen to her in years to come is topic for another day.

pocohantas:
My reason for not dating a married man has nothing to do with Karma, it's more about my functional conscience.
It's not something I can live with.


Wait sef, can't I convince myself, I am the wife's karma?

conscience? or do you mean dating a married man is a deal breaker for you..cos everything revolves arround karma we only have the free will to do what pleases us while karma simply pay us base on our investment...i feel you're not just caught up with the sharing my man thing...

sirBLUNT:
conscience? or do you mean dating a married man is a deal breaker for you..cos everything revolves arround karma we only have the free will to do what pleases us while karma simply pay us base on our investment...i feel you're not just caught up with the sharing my man thing...

Definitely not Karma, I don't really believe in it anyway.
I only mention it because majority of the populace believe in it.
Lots of our mothers were chaste before marriage, it didn't stop the men from cheating. Was that karma or 'men are polygamous'?

It doesn't please me to date another person's man, married or not.

dominique:
She did make some valid points. We can't deny that most of these married men spoil their mistresses at the expense of their families. That's the sad reality, even sadder is that most of these side chicks end up marrying good men.

Did you just say "even sadder"?, Nne, do they own you their lives?
would you mind ya business & face ya life.

[color=deepskyblue]this woman is speaking what she thinks. Not all married men are wealthy enough to or give out anything to the side woman. Not all affairs does he treat her well.

Fool with a married man if u want to, but whatever u catch u brought it [/color]

dominique:
She did make some valid points. We can't deny that most of these married men spoil their mistresses at the expense of their families. That's the sad reality, even sadder is that most of these side chicks end up marrying good men.

[color=dodgerblue] most cant afford that $$$ cheaters come in all economic levels[/color]

lindabon:
There is nothing natural about it sir.
It's all about power.
We leave in a male-dominated society so men can get away with anything they do to women; rape, abuse, cheating etc.
If men are stigmatised the way women are stigmatised for sleeping around, they will be grounded, but sadly, they are not. (Some men still are grounded but they had to ground themselves, no-thanks to society)
Daughter's watch their fathers cheat on their mother time and time again. They begin to believe that that is how all men treat women. What most of these men don't realise is that when they are selfishly sticking their privates into any and all orifice, their daughters are watching and learning. Eventually, their daughters grow up believing that they are just objects for men to dig in and out. They become women who have very little value and respect for themselves and their bodies.
But who cares about all this; after all, you believe this is "beneficial" to the society.

My advice to men is this: Before you go ahead believing and adopting every crap society tells you is the norm or is "beneficial" for you, think about what you are teaching your daughters and the impact your reckless behaviour will have on her in the future. Be a good role model to your daughters and be the type of man you want her to marry when she grows older. That is your duty as a father, and no one will do it for you. So The choice is yours.

Good points.

lindabon:
Agreed. No wonder the world is filled with very unhappy men, sleeping around and hoping they can fill the void and emptiness in their soul with more women. No wonder the Male suicide rates remain consistently higher than female suicide rates. Karma truly is a bitachh

well i personally think there are unhappy women that men cos been unhappy to a married man is when he comes back instead of finding peace he finds drama and hell and when he is denied sex, now thats where the side chick comes in to fulfil that...but unlike women that despite the domestic violence and lack of attention they tend to hide and pretend like all is well and still stick arround...
about suicide hardly commit suicide because of their wives but cos of depression,finanacial constraints and when their ego is bruised and the can't stand the shame

pocohantas:
Definitely not Karma, I don't really believe in it anyway.
I only mention it because majority of the populace believe in it.
Lots of our mothers were chaste before marriage, it didn't stop the men from cheating. Was that karma or 'men are polygamous'?

It doesn't please me to date another person's man, married or not.

before religion came and told us how to live our lives there was morals and empathy that guide us likewise karma has no religion it is a subconcious universal law whether you believe it or not.
men are naturally polygamist in nature it takes discipline to be a monogamist men don't cheat cos they can't help it at times due to lack of self control...
can you marry a divource man?

A lot happening.... A lot of 100% vagina peepoo with zero brains... Among guys too ,100% nitwitty minds with zero functional brain matter. The trend must reverse and one way will be with the help of some cataclysmic event...

stefany00:
I don't knw Hw to pm pls help me God bless

sent check ur mail

pocohantas:
LOL. If we put our sanctimonious attitude aside for a second, she is right. But I pray a young girl gives these advantages in future...using her husband as case study

We have the loyal cheating husband and the disloyal one
Loyal ones would tell you your position and you gats behave well!
They talk good about their wife and kids. Coded way of reminding you that you're just for thrill.

Disloyal ones? These ones will deny their marital status, when they don't deny it, they will so deride their wife. She is fat, smelling, they wanna divorce her, if they had met you first...they would've married you. All na for you to sha hang leg, make them administer prick...

The people involved should fear God.

Kuku keee me oooh! Which one be administer ****** again ooo?

Pesuzok:
Does it mean that karma is paying back the wives of all cheating husband

if she was a side chick before getting married

taylor88:
Where is Kanayo O. Kanayo when u need him most









Which kind wahala be this fvck just dey hungry me this Sunday morning

.Finally i can comment

misslagos:
.Finally i can comment

Miss lagos?

Which area are u let's hook up