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She Is Not Your Wife by Nobody: 10:37am On Feb 07, 2018
with d whole hype of how girls should not request money from their boyfriends simply because he owes her nothing or because he is not her dad,I want to say this, no guy should ask a girl 4 sex because she is not his wife. at least, some girls will learn to work hard and cater for themselves with d little they have and d guys should focus their money elsewhere

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Re: She Is Not Your Wife by Nobody: 2:12am On Feb 09, 2018
Brilliant talk

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Re: She Is Not Your Wife by Nobody: 4:35am On Feb 10, 2018
I'm ok. u?
Re: She Is Not Your Wife by NothingDoMe: 4:57am On Feb 10, 2018
gloria34:
with d whole hype of how girls should not request money from their boyfriends simply because he owes her nothing or because he is not her dad,I want to say this, no guy should ask a girl 4 sex because she is not his wife. at least, some girls will learn to work hard and cater for themselves with d little they have and d guys should focus their money elsewhere
So it is money for hand, back for ground abi?

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Re: She Is Not Your Wife by MIKOLOWISKA: 5:27am On Feb 10, 2018
gloria34:
with d whole hype of how girls should not request money from their boyfriends simply because he owes her nothing or because he is not her dad,I want to say this, no guy should ask a girl 4 sex because she is not his wife. at least, some girls will learn to work hard and cater for themselves with d little they have and d guys should focus their money elsewhere
where should they focus d money if not kpekus
Re: She Is Not Your Wife by planetx13: 9:03am On Feb 10, 2018
In as much the OP is trying to make sense, i still think that the idea is immature and borne out of arrogance rather than dignity. You should understand that sexual feelings have nothing to do with money, a woman who is a billionaire can still be a nympho (just as the queen of England's mother was a klepto despite all the wealth).
The point is ladies should stop using sex (especially when you claim to be in a love affair with someone) as a bargaining tool. It is NOT right. It only makes you look desperate and cheap. I use the word 'cheap because "anything that has a price can be afforded and trust me ,to many people.. it will be cheap..... what happened to the era when the love and body of women were PRICELESS .

The idea of thinking that when you make your own money as a lady means you now have the power over Sex is selfish, immature and devoid of wisdom. Sex is and always will be CONSENSUAL. Nobody(male or female) has power over sex... it is an agreement among the people involved.. be it 2 or more people (whatever!!!!) . If you want to make money, make money... but not with the intention to use it and manipulate the power of sex cos the only person you will end up frustrating and hurting is YOURSELF?!!!!!!

Ciao

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Re: She Is Not Your Wife by frankkydee(m): 11:26am On Feb 10, 2018
planetx13:
In as much the OP is trying to make sense, i still think that the idea is immature and borne out of arrogance rather than dignity. You should understand that sexual feelings have nothing to do with money, a woman who is a billionaire can still be a nympho (just as the queen of England's mother was a klepto despite all the wealth).
The point is ladies should stop using sex (especially when you claim to be in a love affair with someone) as a bargaining tool. It is NOT right. It only makes you look desperate and cheap. I use the word 'cheap because "anything that has a price can be afforded and trust me ,to many people.. it will be cheap..... what happened to the era when the love and body of women were PRICELESS .

The idea of thinking that when you make your own money as a lady means you now have the power over Sex is selfish, immature and devoid of wisdom. Sex is and always will be CONSENSUAL. Nobody(male or female) has power over sex... it is an agreement among the people involved.. be it 2 or more people (whatever!!!!) . If you want to make money, make money... but not with the intention to use it and manipulate the power of sex cos the only person you will end up frustrating and hurting is YOURSELF?!!!!!!

Ciao








This is totally right,pls if he wants to spend on you either you give him sex or not he will. So,ladies should just take off that orientation that sex is a gateway to getting money from your guy.

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Re: She Is Not Your Wife by EOOJ(m): 11:32am On Feb 10, 2018
planetx13:
In as much the OP is trying to make sense, i still think that the idea is immature and borne out of arrogance rather than dignity. You should understand that sexual feelings have nothing to do with money, a woman who is a billionaire can still be a nympho (just as the queen of England's mother was a klepto despite all the wealth).
The point is ladies should stop using sex (especially when you claim to be in a love affair with someone) as a bargaining tool. It is NOT right. It only makes you look desperate and cheap. I use the word 'cheap because "anything that has a price can be afforded and trust me ,to many people.. it will be cheap..... what happened to the era when the love and body of women were PRICELESS .

The idea of thinking that when you make your own money as a lady means you now have the power over Sex is selfish, immature and devoid of wisdom. Sex is and always will be CONSENSUAL. Nobody(male or female) has power over sex... it is an agreement among the people involved.. be it 2 or more people (whatever!!!!) . If you want to make money, make money... but not with the intention to use it and manipulate the power of sex cos the only person you will end up frustrating and hurting is YOURSELF?!!!!!!

Ciao


Seven bottles of legend for u....

Walahi d op didnt say anytin at al grin

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Re: She Is Not Your Wife by LordKO(m): 11:40am On Feb 10, 2018
@OP

It's obvious that you failed to understand that idioms and its ilk aren't deductible to their literal meanings. The statement: "ladies shouldn't ask their boyfriends for money" is akin to the following statement "I don't like/love money."

Well, while the latter means that I don't pursue money on expediency and at the expense of principle, the former means I don't like ladies that practices opportunism.

Remember, he who comes into equity must come with clean hands.

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Re: She Is Not Your Wife by Nobody: 4:50pm On Feb 10, 2018
NothingDoMe:
So it is money for hand, back for ground abi?
u can't eat ur cake and have it, a girl u can't spend on, abeg just 4get sex

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Re: She Is Not Your Wife by Nobody: 4:52pm On Feb 10, 2018
MIKOLOWISKA:
where should they focus d money if not kpekus
they should focus on building their selves, settle down and marry instead of sleeping around

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Re: She Is Not Your Wife by NothingDoMe: 4:55pm On Feb 10, 2018
gloria34:
u can't eat ur cake and have it, a girl u can't spend on, abeg just 4get sex
Ehn you pipo should go and work.

We will still eat una moni
Re: She Is Not Your Wife by MIKOLOWISKA: 5:07pm On Feb 10, 2018
gloria34:
they should focus on building their selves, settle down and marry instead of sleeping around
why. If the kpekus is available why do they need to marry the useless women

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Re: She Is Not Your Wife by Belafonte(m): 5:18pm On Feb 10, 2018
gloria34:
with d whole hype of how girls should not request money from their boyfriends simply because he owes her nothing or because he is not her dad,I want to say this, no guy should ask a girl 4 sex because she is not his wife. at least, some girls will learn to work hard and cater for themselves with d little they have and d guys should focus their money elsewhere

As usual, you women show the true colours of your harlotry when your source of income is at stake. Instead if telling guys to stop asking for sex, why not just give out your number here, I'm sure guys will gladly fûck you for a fee. Bloody olosho.

Of course, you don't enjoy sex, all your moans and wetness are just fake, I guess. You don't enjoy sex, you only do it for the money. Now, we're clear on you stand. Cheap skank.

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Re: She Is Not Your Wife by Nobody: 6:04pm On Feb 10, 2018
planetx13:
In as much the OP is trying to make sense, i still think that the idea is immature and borne out of arrogance rather than dignity. You should understand that sexual feelings have nothing to do with money, a woman who is a billionaire can still be a nympho (just as the queen of England's mother was a klepto despite all the wealth).
The point is ladies should stop using sex (especially when you claim to be in a love affair with someone) as a bargaining tool. It is NOT right. It only makes you look desperate and cheap. I use the word 'cheap because "anything that has a price can be afforded and trust me ,to many people.. it will be cheap..... what happened to the era when the love and body of women were PRICELESS .

The idea of thinking that when you make your own money as a lady means you now have the power over Sex is selfish, immature and devoid of wisdom. Sex is and always will be CONSENSUAL. Nobody(male or female) has power over sex... it is an agreement among the people involved.. be it 2 or more people (whatever!!!!) . If you want to make money, make money... but not with the intention to use it and manipulate the power of sex cos the only person you will end up frustrating and hurting is YOURSELF?!!!!!!

Ciao
uncle, u are correct. I never said sex should b exchanged 4 cash. at d end, I asked girls to go a d work and stop depending on guys. my beef is with guys who have girlfriends, have sex with them, go about criticizing them and calling them prostitutes and how they can't spend a dime on them cos they are not worth it. when their g.fs demand 4 anything, that call her a liability who is trying to milk them

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Re: She Is Not Your Wife by Nobody: 6:14pm On Feb 10, 2018
Guys shouldn't disturb their gfs for sex, if they are not willing to take care of some of their gf's financial needs. Then if they get married, he can afterwards take care of his wife and immediate family financial needs. It's as simple as ABC.

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Re: She Is Not Your Wife by Asbaba(m): 6:23pm On Feb 10, 2018
I always advice girls to focus on being independent not to go around grooming themselves as liability or a commodity that should rented or paid for.

if you see urself as a commodity then be assured that someone would purchase u and dump u after used, and to be precise those that go around advertising their products ain't worth spending ur penny on

just be independent sisters

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Re: She Is Not Your Wife by Nobody: 7:02pm On Feb 10, 2018
Asbaba:
I always advice girls to focus on being independent not to go around grooming themselves as liability or a commodity that should rented or paid for.

if you see urself as a commodity then be assured that someone would purchase u and dump u after used, and to be precise those that go around advertising their products ain't worth spending ur penny on

just be independent sisters
thumbs up

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Re: She Is Not Your Wife by BabbanBura(m): 7:06pm On Feb 10, 2018
planetx13:
In as much the OP is trying to make sense, i still think that the idea is immature and borne out of arrogance rather than dignity. You should understand that sexual feelings have nothing to do with money, a woman who is a billionaire can still be a nympho (just as the queen of England's mother was a klepto despite all the wealth).
The point is ladies should stop using sex (especially when you claim to be in a love affair with someone) as a bargaining tool. It is NOT right. It only makes you look desperate and cheap. I use the word 'cheap because "anything that has a price can be afforded and trust me ,to many people.. it will be cheap..... what happened to the era when the love and body of women were PRICELESS .

The idea of thinking that when you make your own money as a lady means you now have the power over Sex is selfish, immature and devoid of wisdom. Sex is and always will be CONSENSUAL. Nobody(male or female) has power over sex... it is an agreement among the people involved.. be it 2 or more people (whatever!!!!) . If you want to make money, make money... but not with the intention to use it and manipulate the power of sex cos the only person you will end up frustrating and hurting is YOURSELF?!!!!!!

Ciao

Beautiful submission - anyone who expects money for sex in a relationship is nothing but a seller of sex aka Olosho.
Anyone who uses money just to get into your pants sees u as nothing but a sex object and owes u nothing thereafter because he has paid for your service - do not expect further commitment than a booty call with a few coins in your purse

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Re: She Is Not Your Wife by Nobody: 7:08pm On Feb 10, 2018
frankkydee:









This is totally right,pls if he wants to spend on you either you give him sex or not he will. So,ladies should just take off that orientation that sex is a gateway to getting money from your guy.
sex is not a gateway to cash and any girl who do that is wrong, so is a guy who says he can't spend on his girl because he is not her dad
Re: She Is Not Your Wife by Nobody: 7:10pm On Feb 10, 2018
NothingDoMe:
Ehn you pipo should go and work.
We will still eat una moni
lol, u sure?
Re: She Is Not Your Wife by Nobody: 7:12pm On Feb 10, 2018
MIKOLOWISKA:
why. If the kpekus is available why do they need to marry the useless women
it takes 1 to know d other, remember! u said so
Re: She Is Not Your Wife by Nobody: 7:21pm On Feb 10, 2018
gloria34:
with d whole hype of how girls should not request money from their boyfriends simply because he owes her nothing or because he is not her dad,I want to say this, no guy should ask a girl 4 sex because she is not his wife. at least, some girls will learn to work hard and cater for themselves with d little they have and d guys should focus their money elsewhere








Gloria, don't bother arguing back and forth here. They know what they are suppose to do, when they are in a relationship. U don't need to educate them or open a thread on this issue . You are just wasting your time, typing. At the end, they will call you olosho. Just focus on your bf, who is treating you right. Shikena.
Let the guys here figure out, on how to handle their relationships. Cause you are beating dead horses here grin
You get time sha.

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Re: She Is Not Your Wife by NothingDoMe: 7:37pm On Feb 10, 2018
gloria34:
lol, u sure?
ohyes. Love will make you give us.
Re: She Is Not Your Wife by MIKOLOWISKA: 7:41pm On Feb 10, 2018
gloria34:
it takes 1 to know d other, remember! u said so
of course you useless women know themseves

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Re: She Is Not Your Wife by Apination(m): 7:51pm On Feb 10, 2018
So women don't demand or ask for sex from men? Based on ur submission, since money isn't changing hands, thus women should with hold sex on that basis, and should only give sex if a material value is placed on it. You ended up saying that men should stop patronizing women which in others words mean they are prostitutes, cos sex should be paid for if it's to happen. undecided

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Re: She Is Not Your Wife by Asbaba(m): 8:18pm On Feb 10, 2018
gloria34:
thumbs up
Thanks siai
Re: She Is Not Your Wife by Asbaba(m): 8:19pm On Feb 10, 2018
gloria34:
thumbs up
Thanks sis

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Re: She Is Not Your Wife by Nobody: 9:13pm On Feb 10, 2018
alexialin:









Gloria, don't bother arguing back and forth here. They know what they are suppose to do, when they are in a relationship. U don't need to educate them or open a thread on this issue . You are just wasting your time, typing. At the end, they will call you olosho. Just focus on your bf, who is treating you right. Shikena.
Let the guys here figure out, on how to handle their relationships. Cause you are beating dead horses here grin
You get time sha.
lol, na their way. especially d calling me a useless woman yet won't stay out of my threads
Re: She Is Not Your Wife by Nobody: 9:14pm On Feb 10, 2018
Apination:
So women don't demand or ask for sex from men? Based on ur submission, since money isn't changing hands, thus women should with hold sex on that basis, and should only give sex if a material value is placed on it. You ended up saying that men should stop patronizing women which in others words mean they are prostitutes, cos sex should be paid for if it's to happen. undecided
misinterpretation. read again
Re: She Is Not Your Wife by Nobody: 9:16pm On Feb 10, 2018
gloria34:
lol, na their way. especially d calling me a useless woman yet won't stay out of my threads










My dear, don't mind them. They are called e-bullies. Don't let their bully bother you. Na their way.
Just ignore those bad words and focus on your good side. Simple.

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Re: She Is Not Your Wife by Nobody: 9:19pm On Feb 10, 2018
alexialin:











My dear, don't mind them. They are called e-bullies. Don't let their bully bother you. Na their way.
Just ignore those bad words and focus on your good side. Simple.
thank u

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