Are you dating a Yoruba man and you want to know what to do to prevent him from leaving you or cheating on you? Here are some few tips on how to keep a Yoruba man.

Tips on dating Yoruba men

Dating a Yoruba man requires a combination of art and science. Although dating and relationships in the Yoruba culture have moved on from what it used to be. Due to westernization, most people don’t hold on to the strict rules of culture anymore. There has been a lot of compromise and adaptation to western trends. But no matter how much things are changing, some things are still very crucial and preserved when it comes to relationships. There are some things you must do if you want to keep Yoruba boys even in this new age.
Tips on how to keep a Yoruba man

You might not need to do some old practices like having to kneel down to give him his food, call him sir, etc. But there are still some things you must take note of to keep a Yoruba man. So, if you are dating a Yoruba man and you are having troubles here are some helpful tips. And even if you are not having problems in your relationship this article still can be very helpful for you.

Be attentive
Be very respectful

Respect is something that is taken seriously among the Yoruba people especially when it comes to relationships and marriage. A wife must respect her husband both in public and in private. If you are not yet his wife, you must respect him if you want to make it to marriage. And not just him alone, you must respect his friends and family which includes his parents, siblings, and extended family members.

You must show him respect in the way you speak to him especially when you are speaking with him in the Yoruba language. Also, you always have to kneel down when you greet him although most Yoruba men don’t require their women to kneel down when greeting them these days. But you must kneel down when greeting his parents or elderly members of his family.
Learn to cook or improve your cooking skills

Yoruba woman cooking

It will be very difficult for a lady who cannot cook to keep a Yoruba man for so many reasons. Firstly, Yoruba men don’t like women who can’t cook. And when we mean cook, you must be able to cook very well and be ready to cook for him always. Also, you need to know how to cook his favourite Yoruba meals. A Yoruba wants to be able to come home and have a good meal. Most Yoruba men are not fans of eating out.

Cook for him

Another reason why you must know how to cook is that his family and friends will always come over once in a while. And if you don’t know how to cook, he will be embarrassed. His family will not even allow you to marry him and if you are married already, well good luck to you because you will not find it easy with his family members. We can assure you that you will want to know how to cook so he will not prefer some other woman’s food to yours. So, if you don’t know how to cook especially Yoruba cuisines you had better start learning now and always look to improve your cooking skills.
Always try to be on your best look every time

Yoruba men like beautiful ladies. What they like in terms of body features vary from men to men but your look must always be appealing to him. This I believe is common to all men anyways. So, you should learn why he was attracted to you in the first place and try to keep the look and shape as much as you can.

Do not be lazy

Most typical Yoruba men believe that a wife must always do all the house chores especially cooking, cleaning, washing, etc. So if you are lazy or you don’t like doing house chores, it will be very difficult to keep a Yoruba man.
Keep your place tidy and clean

Another quality you must possess to keep a Yoruba man is cleanliness. Most Yoruba men cannot stand a woman who is not clean and tidy. So you must always keep your place clean and tidy when he comes visiting if you are not married yet. And if you are already you must keep the house you two share clean and tidy always.
Be easy going, don’t be a troublemaker

Most men don’t appreciate troublemakers. So don’t make troubles with him even if he is wrong. Try to find better ways other than nagging and complaining. Of course, sometimes it is very difficult especially when emotions run high. But remember wise women know when words can make the situation worse or ruin a relationship, keep their man.


Have less male friends

Unlike the western culture, most Yoruba men might have a problem with you keeping male friends once they start dating you. It may not cut across all. You can have male friends but not as very close friends.
Learn to sing his praise, treat him like a king

If you are conversant with the Yoruba culture and you can sing his “oriki”, it can be an added advantage. But if not, just learn to adorn him with praises and make him feel loved and respected.


Be loyal to him

Loyalty is necessary to keep a Yoruba man. So in every way possible, you should always be loyal to your man. This will go a long way in helping you to keep your man.
Pray

Lastly, if you are a religious person, always pray to God to help you keep your man. There is a general notion that most Yoruba men like women and will most likely cheat. Although this is not entirely true. But anyway, if you are a person of faith, you can pray to God and trust Him to help you keep him.

Yoruba wedding

You might not need to do all of these to keep your Yoruba man but you will surely have to do at least fifty percent of these things. Also, if you are not married yet, keep in mind that after you have tried all you can to make sure your man stays with you, but you still notice signs that he will not always stay by your side, please don’t force things. And when there are red flags, don’t ignore them and don’t try to force things so that you will not regret it later on. Some relationship just can’t work and there is no need to force it. We wish you eternal love and all the best in your relationships.

SOURCE
https://www.reportnaija.ng/2018/02/17/important-things-need-know-dating-yoruba-man/

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Hmmm

This information is for those dirty village girls arriving from the YEAST!

Our standard is very high in Yorubaland, You hear!

Or simply port back to your evil forest in Abakaliki.

chibuzorAbia:
This information is for those dirty village girls arriving from the YEAST!

Our standard is very high in Yorubaland, You hear!

Or simply port back to your evil forest in Abakaliki.

Igbos that do not bath for 7 days and drink corpse water. No wonder people call them pigs .

Omoluabis

Well said! but slay Queens have none of these.

mercyville:



Igbos that do not bath for 7 days and drink corpse water. No wonder people call them pigs .

My hand no dey o. But you are right though. But how can someone be drinking corpse water. Tarrr

Good

chibuzorAbia:
This information is for those dirty village girls arriving from the YEAST!

Our standard is very high in Yorubaland, You hear!

Or simply port back to your evil forest in Abakaliki.

mercyville:



Igbos that do not bath for 7 days and drink corpse water. No wonder people call them pigs .

why are we afonja moslems like this, we should allow igbos to be na, They are better than us, Let's not die of frustration because of too much thinking oo

I think we should devote more time in our skull mining business

see them masturbating with Igbo matter, if we hit them back now one afonja mod will start banning without reason

miserable waste tribe

You don't need tips.. just be real and be smart.

We Yorubas are straight forward to an extent. No mago mago and we don't tolerate nonsense.

mercyville:



Igbos that do not bath for 7 days and drink corpse water. No wonder people call them pigs .

They're dirty .. but Yoruba boys will mine skull just to say hi.

SONofnezzar:

why are we afonja moslems like this, we should allow igbos to be na, They are better than us, Let's not die of frustration because of too much thinking oo

I think we should devote more time in our skull mining business

So now,we mine skull,Igbos eat skull

mercyville:


So now,we mine skull,Igbos eat skull

We afonjas mine skull

Igbos are better than us

I am jealous of them.

chibuzorAbia:
This information is for those dirty village girls arriving from the YEAST!

Our standard is very high in Yorubaland, You hear!

Or simply port back to your evil forest in Abakaliki.

See this uncircumcised lot. Sorry for igbo girls/ladies who even look Swe. Epele.

mercyville:



Igbos that do not bath for 7 days and drink corpse water. No wonder people call them pigs .

yoruba girls that wear one pant for a month, do not take baths, are stinking with their multicoloured bleached up skin, no wonder they are called ezi=pig.
Yoruba female pigs, una Weldone.

shallysgirl:
yoruba girls that wear one pant for a month, do not take baths, are stinking with their multicoloured bleached up skin, no wonder they are called ezi=pig.
Yoruba female pigs, una Weldone.

Shut up, nobody call them pig. But Nnamdi kanu confirmed you as pigs n your female pigs.
Igbos are pigs(elede)and the female ones are prostitutes and left over..... Nnamdi kanu...
Igbo tribe is the most foolish tribe in the world... Ralph nwazurike
igbo tribe is the dirtiest tribe in the world... World health organisation.
Wait, what is it with igbo girls and stretch mark self. Nyama. Spit.

Senseless thread. Clueless poster. Creativity absent.

Odkosh:
Shut up, nobody call them pig. But Nnamdi kanu confirmed you as pigs n your female pigs.
Igbos are pigs(elede)and the female ones are prostitutes and left over..... Nnamdi kanu...
Igbo tribe is the most foolish tribe in the world... Ralph nwazurike
igbo tribe is the dirtiest tribe in the world... World health organisation.
Wait, what is it with igbo girls and stretch mark self. Nyama. Spit.

same to yorubas.

Alariiwo:
You don't need tips.. just be real and be smart.

We Yorubas are straight forward to an extent. No mago mago and we don't tolerate nonsense.

In my staying in Nigeria for these past 2 months I have come to realize that a lot of people tend to put down easterners. I didn't know tribalism was that much of a problem here.

shallysgirl:
yoruba girls that wear one pant for a month, do not take baths, are stinking with their multicoloured bleached up skin, no wonder they are called ezi=pig.
Yoruba female pigs, una Weldone.

lol...No wonder whites are marrying Yoruba girls because they wear only one pant...
is it for a year?
But then it is not their culture.Maybe they copied it from Igbo pigs also known as Osuojuku pigs who have eternal distinct smelling,stinking,dirty smell.They have this smell because they do not have their baths for seven days,drink corpse water,sit on the bare floor in their dirty room.I am not hating ...it is your culture and this is the reason people call Igbos,PIGS.

mercyville:


lol...No wonder whites are marrying Yoruba girls because they wear only one pant...
is it for a year?
But then it is not their culture.Maybe they copied it from Igbo pigs also known as Osuojuku pigs who have eternal distinct smelling,stinking,dirty smell.They have this smell because they do not have their baths for seven days,drink corpse water,sit on the bare floor in their dirty room.I am not hating ...it is your culture and this is the reason people call Igbos,PIGS.

Abeg go and wear your dirty pant/kpata. Didn't read your comment. No time

SONofnezzar:

why are we afonja moslems like this, we should allow igbos to be na, They are better than us, Let's not die of frustration because of too much thinking oo

I think we should devote more time in our skull mining business

....and stick to dating your smelly unhygienic ewedu girls (who nobody wants to marry) and stop running to east to marry Ibo girls.

Are u sure this op is alright? Yoruba men of all men! may God forbid evil. Chukwu aju! Tufiaaa! My head can never be used for rituals.

DocHMD:


....and stick to dating your smelly unhygienic ewedu girls (who nobody wants to marry) and stop running to east to marry Ibo girls.

as in ehn

adadike281:
Are u sure this op is alright? Yoruba men of all men! may God forbid evil. Chukwu aju! Tufiaaa! My head can never be used for rituals.

Lol, davido's new upcoming baby mama n Tonto dike said more than this. No be igbo lady you be again. Yinmu . You just said the reason Yoruba babes don't marry igbo guys, they don't want their flesh to end inside pot. You get what I am saying na

shallysgirl:
Abeg go and wear your dirty pant/kpata. Didn't read your comment. No time

Wearing dirty bra and pants is your culture.Have you drunk some oha corpse water today?

mercyville:


Wearing dirty bra and pants is your culture.Have you drunk some corpse water today?

dirty pant dirty pant, how is the skull mining industry doing this recession?

Yu forgot to add the most important..Which is yu must be a dirty,double mouth,back stabbing hypocrite before yu date one.

shallysgirl:
dirty pant dirty pant, how is the skull mining industry doing this recession?

Dirty,stinking,smelly soiled pant,have you drunk some corpse water this morning?Afonja mines the skull,Ojuku eats the skull and wash it down with their favourite corpse water..

adadike281:
Are u sure this op is alright? Yoruba men of all men! may God forbid evil. Chukwu aju! Tufiaaa! My head can never be used for rituals.

Am coming for you , right ?