RadicallyBlunt:

Suddenly I found someone my dog is wiser than. It calls for celebration.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
You simply lack home training.

RadicallyBlunt:

No weakling, I'm blunt about facts to the core. You need training to differentiate between what's right and what's insultive.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Weakling? You just an egotistical nincompoop. Insultive indeed. I definitely won't relpy you again, you can go to hell and burn to ashes for all I care.

lefulefu:
some ladies just need to wise and be wary of the type of friends they keep. It will be these same friends after badmouthing the guy and discouraging the lady not to date him will also do a U turn and meet d guy and be badmouthing the lady dating the guy so they can have the guy for themselves. I swear ehn some of the friends some ladies keep is the reason why their lives tend to be messed up.

JoyceMeyersFan:
Hope they know they are the ones who will
`become pregnant and old
`have a lot of emotions with no one to share with because men aren't interested in emotional talks
`not make any major decision, career-business-personal, without first considering the home and kids, while the man is carefree, focusing on his dreams and pursuing it with all he has got.
`take care of the home and kids with no one appreciating and the man expecting to be appreciated because it appears he is the one slaving for the family.
`ask for money you won't spend on yourself but on the home, while you have lots of needs that you can't mention
`get blamed when the man cheats, when he doesn't have money to give his relations
`get blamed when there are no kids, when the kids are misbehaving or not well kept
`YOU CAN ADD YOURS

modik:
Reason is simple :

They have been elevated to the higher level of Mrs and can't wait for the social respect and class distinction it attracts.

This statement always come to mind : "DON'T YOU KNOW I'M A MARRIED WOMAN? "

dasparrow:


The misogynist Nigerian society is the reason. Nigerian society has brainwashed its women into believing that their sole purpose on earth is marriage and child birth.

Today a lot of married Nigerian women are dead in their graves after being killed by their husbands. Many more are living poverty stricken lives raising families in face me I face you rooms the size of a chicken cage. Later they console themselves and their pathetic existence by looking down on their female counterparts that are single and think that they're better than them when in actuality Nigerian society does not respect anyone with a vagina. Period!

Go and see the way Nigerian society treats women who are married yet have no children or the ones with children that are all female or the ones who are widows. I can never allow any female child of mine reside in Nigeria. Nigeria is a horrible country. No wonder Nigeria is making no progress.

dasparrow:


You know, family members can only pressure you if you allow them and if you live in Nigeria. When you live overseas in societies where marriage is an individual choice and not a societal obligation, no bomboklaat can force marriage down your throat. This is even more so when you keep nosy Nigerians at bay when you live abroad.

No bloody Nigerian family member can force you into what you not ready for. Just change your number and block obnoxious Nigerians including so-called family members and friends from your WhatsApp, Facebook and Twitter and have your peace.

JoyceMeyersFan:
Hope they know they are the ones who will
`become pregnant and old
`have a lot of emotions with no one to share with because men aren't interested in emotional talks
`not make any major decision, career-business-personal, without first considering the home and kids, while the man is carefree, focusing on his dreams and pursuing it with all he has got.
`take care of the home and kids with no one appreciating and the man expecting to be appreciated because it appears he is the one slaving for the family.
`ask for money you won't spend on yourself but on the home, while you have lots of needs that you can't mention
`get blamed when the man cheats, when he doesn't have money to give his relations
`get blamed when there are no kids, when the kids are misbehaving or not well kept
`YOU CAN ADD YOURS

JoyceMeyersFan:

Marriage is indeed over rated.

ubunja:
marriage=financial support
financially independent women=less interested in marriage

victorian:

I'm single.

I dnt tink Being married triple bills. Na children dy drain money pass.









Known as a married woman doesn't change anything.
That's the truth.
In the bank, carrying placard a woman is married will not make her jump queue or receive alerts in her account.
In schools, same thing. It doesn't change anything other than she has experience on how tough managing her husband and home is.
Being called a married woman, won't give her free access to travel abroad like water.

I think the only joy in it, is the sense of belonging in feeling I'm married and having legal and righteous sex. that's all.

Status quo remains the same. While bills triple.

JoyceMeyersFan:
Hope they know they are the ones who will
`become pregnant and old
`have a lot of emotions with no one to share with because men aren't interested in emotional talks
`not make any major decision, career-business-personal, without first considering the home and kids, while the man is carefree, focusing on his dreams and pursuing it with all he has got.
`take care of the home and kids with no one appreciating and the man expecting to be appreciated because it appears he is the one slaving for the family.
`ask for money you won't spend on yourself but on the home, while you have lots of needs that you can't mention
`get blamed when the man cheats, when he doesn't have money to give his relations
`get blamed when there are no kids, when the kids are misbehaving or not well kept
`YOU CAN ADD YOURS

crismark:
because dey cant tink nd make moni. so they see marriage as their only hope of survival