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I met this woman abroad from my visit last year during one of those russian matchmaking socials. I recently had a stroke and got admitted for a few days. After I was discharged, I told my online gf what happened. Obviously, she got worried and offered to send me money and help with my medications and stuff. I’ve spent a lot on my medical fees and her help would mean alot to me but I don’t want her spending her hard earned cash on me. I don’t know if I should accept her help. I’m the type of man who doesn't like it when my woman spends for me, but I could really use the help.

Oya die na. She will date another person and spend her money on him too.. Phew!


My apologies for my comment, but I was only being real. Its not a bad idea to accept help when you need it. Please drop your ego and let someone assist you.

You are a man keep ur pride very important.

Thank me when you are 6 feet under

Accept it... After all she's your friend...

why are you posting this then, since you have already decided

Sounds like a fake story but if it's true theirs nothing wrong with accepting help from friends whether male or female its only in Nigeria that ladies make it seem like a taboo to get financial assistance from a lady.
There's no money that has label.

Vendors of goods and services want money from patronisers. I've never seen where a vendor asks a customer the source of income before selling any goods or services to the customer /client.

Dottore:
Sounds like a fake story but if it's true theirs nothing wrong with accepting help from friends whether male or female its only in Nigeria that ladies make it seem like a taboo to get financial assistance from a lady.
There's no money that has label.

Vendors of goods and services want money from patronisers. I've never seen where a vendor asks a customer the source of income before selling any goods or services to the customer /client.

I agree with u..

If you really feel that way then suggest to her to come to Nigeria to be with you unless you have a wife.

dingbang:
Oya die na. She will date another person and spend her money on him too.. Phew!


My apologies for my comment, but I was only being real. Its not a bad idea to accept help when you need it. Please drop your ego and let someone assist you.

LOL I kinda laughed at your comment. But yes, I believe you're right. I'll just return the gesture a hundred fold once I get better. Thanks!

Emekus92:
You are a man keep ur pride very important.


Thank me when you are 6 feet under

LOL very well said! Your vague comment knocked some sense into me HAHA

marshalldgreat:
Accept it... After all she's your friend...

I just don't want to feel like a burden but you're probably right..

InfernoNig:
If you really feel that way then suggest to her to come to Nigeria to be with you unless you have a wife.

I should. I'd love to be with her in person.

QueenSuccubus:
I agree with u..

I agree as well. You have a good point.

declan30:
LOL very well said! Your vague comment knocked some sense into me HAHA

collect the money jor

Assuming this story is true...

You seem like someone who is still relatively young...what caused you to have a stroke?

I thought it's an old people's disease