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Good evening people.

My major problem now is "How can I find Love again "

I lost the girl I so much love in 2013 because she wanted me to make a promise of marriage as at then of which I couldn't cos I finished my nysc dat period.

Since that period, loving a lady has become a big issue for me. I have met with ladies that loves me so dearly (and still love me) and are ready to settle down with me but I have not been able to love them back. I tried forcing Myself to stay with one and possibly settle down with her but I fear that I might cheat on her because I don't love her.

Now I'm above 30 and seriously looking for that love which is yet to come. Is there someone I can still love? Or I should just force myself and marry the one I am dating?

Love experts Pls say something

He traveled to sambisa

Story of my life

I've kept 'finding love' in a box and have decided to focus on being successful.
I have been brainwashed that I'll never find what I had with my old flame.

BTW Op, you're dating someone you never had intentions of marrying?

bobydo:
traveled to sambisa

@OP send a PM to biacan. I hope she will see this thread. She can be a good wife for you. She is well trained at home.

its obvious u haven't moved on since the one u loved left u. u still love her and won't love anoda till you stop blaming yourself for losing her and move on

I have moved on but I am yet to see someone with same or better qualities.

kenir:
its obvious u haven't moved on since the one u loved left u. u still love her and won't love anoda till you stop blaming yourself for losing her and move on

Love does not exist..

ss1930:
I have moved on but I am yet to see someone with same or better qualities.

there's a lot bout moving on you dnt understand yet

I have tried to explain to them about my love life but they seem blinded by the love they have for me. This is one reason I don't keep females friends that much cos most of them end up developing feelings for me. Aside the one I am dating now, another one is somewhere madly in love with me and to be frank, I'm not interested. It's a dilemma for me.

Litblogger:
Story of my life

I've kept 'finding love' in a box and have decided to focus on being successful.
I have been brainwashed that I'll never find what I had with my old flame.

BTW Op, you're dating someone you never had intentions of marrying?

Lol.... I am not just looking for a well trained person. I need someone I will love sincerely.

marunga:
@OP send a PM to biacan. I hope she will see this thread. She can be a good wife for you. She is well trained at home.

That's the reason I raised the alarm for someone like you to help my situation.

kenir:
there's a lot bout moving on you dnt understand yet

But I believe in love.

germainediva:
Love does not exist..