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Good day fellow nlders.
I've read how some good advice has helped a lot of folks here. I know I can pick one or two of same here.
I met this lady during my service year which I completed at a state in the north. Though she grew up in the northwestern part she's from somewhere down south. I am from the north central part of this country.
She was the only bae I had during service, we even lived together 3 months to our passing out. She's matured, womanly and beautiful. I never thought our relationship would extend beyond our service days. To me it was for the fun. All through the months I always remind her that she's due for marriage and if there's any reasonable suitor she should'not hesitate to embrace. Though she always profess her love for me but we never settled it to be together. After our service year she went back to her parents where she's managing somewhere in a hospital and I also am building my life with a power sector. Its been 2 years now after our service. I stopped talking to her all through last year due to the fact that I wanted her to forget me and be focus. But she keeps calling, texting and even said she's seeing me in her dreams and prophetically am her husband. I for one have not thought of settling down soon, not for the 3 or 4 years. I didn't want to keep her waiting for me because she's matured already. I have used a girl I had a fling with to come between us. They always quarrel on chats. But still, this lady want me as her husband. She knows I have had sexual affairs because she's prophetic in nature, but she still loves me and texts me. She told me other rich guys have come to her for marriage but God said am the one. And I've not really checked the prophetic realm to know if she's for me. My fear is not to waste her time. Pls I need your advice. Thanks

Someone is patiently waiting for a trap to catch...lol

Talk to her, let her know why it won't work!
Feelings should be mutual.
If you still love, her fine
If No, be a man and man it up to her!

I wonder why people take something very easy like this serious.

Why are you running from marrying her?

She is cool,......guy, you need to start getting serious with a lady in your life, how long do you intend to "hit-and-run"?

all of the abovementioned

Ab025:
Why are you running from marrying her?

She is cool,......guy, you need to start getting serious with a lady in your life, how long do you intend to "hit-and-run"?

1000yards husband material

biacan:
[b] 1000yards husband material [/b]

Unlimited yards even

gabinogem:
Someone is patiently waiting for a trap to catch...lol

oh lawd

izaray:
Unlimited yards even

Gbogbo biz girls where have you been

biacan:
Gbogbo biz girls where have you been

Have been around my dear, watching you guys from a coconut tree like dat monkey that stole millions