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How Can I Tell Her That What I Want Is "Friends With Benefits"? by fubbyy(op): 5:15am On Feb 28, 2018

My 2016 new year resolution was to quit all these dramatic relationship and go into "friends with benefits" in Early 2017 I met a lady and we got close quick but how to tell her what I wanted was the problem, to me I felt it's like asking someone to be a prostitute, Because of that I ran away from her

Now I've met this one in one church at cross over night on 31st December, we started getting close real quick, I've made up my mind to tell her what I wanted, on valentine day she was the one that took me out and started telling me how her previous guy broke her heart and how she wouldn't want that to happen again, I just got weak

Please how can one tell a girl he wants "friends with benefits" or where can I find one, does it even exist?

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Re: How Can I Tell Her That What I Want Is "Friends With Benefits"? by dafeyankee: 5:19am On Feb 28, 2018

Step 1- Form boyfriend material

Step 2- Nack her

Step 3- After Nacking, you then open up to her about what you want.

Step 4- Make sure you NACK first.

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Re: How Can I Tell Her That What I Want Is "Friends With Benefits"? by MhizAJ(f): 5:38am On Feb 28, 2018

I blame the girls that just jump into relationship with men anyhow

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Re: How Can I Tell Her That What I Want Is "Friends With Benefits"? by Nobody: 5:44am On Feb 28, 2018

dafeyankee:
Step 1- Form boyfriend material

Step 2- Nack her

Step 3- After Nacking, you then open up to her about what you want.

Step 4- Make sure you NACK first.

Chaiiii

see early morning advise

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Re: How Can I Tell Her That What I Want Is "Friends With Benefits"? by Nobody: 5:48am On Feb 28, 2018

Re: How Can I Tell Her That What I Want Is "Friends With Benefits"? by sbm060(m): 6:04am On Feb 28, 2018

Babe am not kinda ready 4 relationship lets just b cool frnds if it's ok by u.

simple as abc.

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Re: How Can I Tell Her That What I Want Is "Friends With Benefits"? by mikejj(m): 6:17am On Feb 28, 2018

if it is freindzone telus it is freindzone..which wan is friends with benefit..aflica ehn.benefit ko benedict ni

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Re: How Can I Tell Her That What I Want Is "Friends With Benefits"? by Kobicove(m): 6:19am On Feb 28, 2018

Make sure you tell her what you have in mind before the relationship goes any further so that she can make an informed decision undecided

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Re: How Can I Tell Her That What I Want Is "Friends With Benefits"? by Greene66: 6:20am On Feb 28, 2018

It's possible. I have a few friends with benefits. It's not easy to obtain though. It's hard to say it.

Just relate naturally. It would build up itself. You can't tell them. No.

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Re: How Can I Tell Her That What I Want Is "Friends With Benefits"? by Iseoluwani: 6:31am On Feb 28, 2018

Is u that no

Check my signature

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Re: How Can I Tell Her That What I Want Is "Friends With Benefits"? by uche92(m): 6:33am On Feb 28, 2018

Pretty obvious she is looking for more so just let her br

fubbyy:
My 2016 new year resolution was to quit all these dramatic relationship and go into "friends with benefits" in Early 2017 I met a lady and we got close quick but how to tell her what I wanted was the problem, to me I felt it's like asking someone to be a prostitute, Because of that I ran away from her

Now I've met this one in one church at cross over night on 31st December, we started getting close real quick, I've made up my mind to tell her what I wanted, on valentine day she was the one that took me out and started telling me how her previous guy broke her heart and how she wouldn't want that to happen again, I just got weak

Please how can one tell a girl he wants "friends with benefits" or where can I find one, does it even exist?

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Re: How Can I Tell Her That What I Want Is "Friends With Benefits"? by Nobody: 7:33am On Feb 28, 2018

☣ ☠

∆ Stop wasting your time ∆

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Re: How Can I Tell Her That What I Want Is "Friends With Benefits"? by PrimadonnaO(f): 9:12am On Feb 28, 2018

sbm060:
Babe am not kinda ready 4 relationship lets just b cool frnds if it's ok by u.

simple as abc.

Being cool friends is not in anyway same as friends with benefit.

Guys are really funny people, though. This is how they deliberately set out to manipulate or deceive girls. For the OP, make sure you tell them exactly what it is you want from them. Anything other than this would be really unfair.

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Re: How Can I Tell Her That What I Want Is "Friends With Benefits"? by marvin906(m): 9:34am On Feb 28, 2018

dude just be straight forward with her no manipulations..
no lies..
if she accepts good..
if no is still good

buh you dey crase sha you just wan dey fvck for free grin

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Re: How Can I Tell Her That What I Want Is "Friends With Benefits"? by NwaAmaikpe: 9:36am On Feb 28, 2018

Na wa for you OP,
What else do you want from her if not her benefits?
That's the only thing she can offer so come clean.

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Re: How Can I Tell Her That What I Want Is "Friends With Benefits"? by AntiWailer: 9:36am On Feb 28, 2018

Tell her

Re: How Can I Tell Her That What I Want Is "Friends With Benefits"? by Ellabae(f): 9:36am On Feb 28, 2018

dafeyankee:
Step 1- Form boyfriend material

Step 2- Nack her

Step 3- After Nacking, you then open up to her about what you want.

Step 4- Make sure you NACK first.

bros calm down

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Re: How Can I Tell Her That What I Want Is "Friends With Benefits"? by delugajackson: 9:37am On Feb 28, 2018*

Until a man decides to heal and change for himself, his toxic ways will ruin any woman he meets that attempts to love him.

If you chose not to make a simple effort that would put you at ease and bring harmony to a recurring fight, then it's obvious you don't respect her feelings and needs.

This is 2018, If you haven't figured out what a real woman would & wouldn't do, then it's all on you. Don't get mad at women cause all the ones you dated were liars, its what you allowed. Either they had cheating in their blood or they do shìt because that's who they are.

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Re: How Can I Tell Her That What I Want Is "Friends With Benefits"? by Ellabae(f): 9:37am On Feb 28, 2018

Friends with benefit? Hope the benefit does not include sex?

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Re: How Can I Tell Her That What I Want Is "Friends With Benefits"? by blesskewe(f): 9:38am On Feb 28, 2018

mikejj:
if it is freindzone telus it is freindzone..which wan is friends with benefit..aflica ehn.benefit ko benedict ni

benedict na ma brother name be guided

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Re: How Can I Tell Her That What I Want Is "Friends With Benefits"? by Aieboocaar(m): 9:39am On Feb 28, 2018

fubbyy:
My 2016 new year resolution was to quit all these dramatic relationship and go into "friends with benefits" in Early 2017 I met a lady and we got close quick but how to tell her what I wanted was the problem, to me I felt it's like asking someone to be a prostitute, Because of that I ran away from her

Now I've met this one in one church at cross over night on 31st December, we started getting close real quick, I've made up my mind to tell her what I wanted, on valentine day she was the one that took me out and started telling me how her previous guy broke her heart and how she wouldn't want that to happen again, I just got weak

Please how can one tell a girl he wants "friends with benefits" or where can I find one, does it even exist?

In all my years of existence i never seen a confused soul as you my friend,
you want steady sex, but you don't want responsibility, and you also don't want her to feel like a prostitute??.... WHO YOU WAN CUM REMAIN LEFTOVER FOR??

if you want steady sex why not atleast grow some balls and make her your girlfriend.
Guy u better buy yourself a sex doll, or seek the nearest olosho joint!!

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Re: How Can I Tell Her That What I Want Is "Friends With Benefits"? by krissconnect(m): 9:39am On Feb 28, 2018

What do you mean by friends with benefit? U mean offering u sex and u paying her either instantly or subsequently? Is that not prostitution? Gerarahia mehn undecided

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Re: How Can I Tell Her That What I Want Is "Friends With Benefits"? by obowunmi(m): 9:39am On Feb 28, 2018

dafeyankee:
Step 1- Form boyfriend material

Step 2- Nack her

Step 3- After Nacking, you then open up to her about what you want.

Step 4- Make sure you NACK first.

This is RAPE.

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Re: How Can I Tell Her That What I Want Is "Friends With Benefits"? by RexTramadol1: 9:40am On Feb 28, 2018

I have a galfrnd I don't love her

Its you I love, after serial knackings

I told you I have a girlfriend Na

But I still......

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Re: How Can I Tell Her That What I Want Is "Friends With Benefits"? by obowunmi(m): 9:40am On Feb 28, 2018

PrimadonnaO:
Being cool friends is not in anyway same as friends with benefit.

Guys are really funny people, though. This is how they deliberately set out to manipulate or deceive girls. For the OP, make sure you tell them exactly what it is you want from them. Anything other than this would be really unfair.

Manipulation and deception is rape.

Re: How Can I Tell Her That What I Want Is "Friends With Benefits"? by HeWrites(m): 9:40am On Feb 28, 2018

My nigga

Re: How Can I Tell Her That What I Want Is "Friends With Benefits"? by ibksiv(m): 9:41am On Feb 28, 2018

wetin consine me kwa... cry

Re: How Can I Tell Her That What I Want Is "Friends With Benefits"? by Aden777(m): 9:42am On Feb 28, 2018

Tell her "u aren't ready for any relationship for now... But lets see how it goes..."... This won't hurt her much... As time goes on, remind once a while in ur conversations...

Re: How Can I Tell Her That What I Want Is "Friends With Benefits"? by braine(m): 9:42am On Feb 28, 2018

MhizAJ:
I blame the girls that just jump into relationship with men anyhow

Re: How Can I Tell Her That What I Want Is "Friends With Benefits"? by mercytripletz: 9:42am On Feb 28, 2018

Rubbish.
Just go and get ashawo in beer parlour or club.
You are not going to be in any relationship with them and you will just spend money.
Na the same thing.

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