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A lady on Twitter with the handle @lolaofthenorth took to her twitter TL to ask how marriage do pay women.

According to her, women will have to the comfort of her daddy's house to wake up to cook for some. You both go to work, come back and you (only you) are cooking again. She went further to explain that being married in Nigeria is very Inconveniencing.

Read her full tweets below;

https://www.torimill.com/2018/03/marriage-pays-women-married-nigeria-inconveniencing-lady.html

Mtchew!

I suggest you return to your father's house.

#awonomokomo

topearos:
Mtchew!

I suggest you return to your father's house.

#awonomokomo

Supported!

Attention seeker. It's girls like her who fight to stupor because of boyfriend

your fathers house is only comfortable, because ur parents did the same thing u re running from.

This one is not wise. she only wanted to tweet something. I apologize on her behalf

Better remain in your father's house if u find it comfortable...imagine what someone is saying..clearly this 1 will have nothing to offer any man
..whether she has seen any married man that says his working wife will do all domestic chores

Big head

Not all marriages, some men are very hands on with house chores and child care. Besides, some women bring this upon themselves. You will go to a man's personal and family homes and turn yourself into their glorified maid just to prove you're 200 yards of wife material. How won't they take you as a glorified maid in marriage?

Some women will go ahead to marry a man that unapologetically told her that chores are solely a woman's duty because they're desperate to marry. Once married, they will see how draining all that housework but they won't be able to complain too much because that's what they signed up for.

Marriage shouldn't be as hard as our people are making it. All it involves are partnership, effective communication, mutual respect and understanding.

If u ain't ready for marriage den remain single, who said only u must cook btw

This mgbeke too wan trend by fire; by force. File for divorce na

OYO is ur case

Eh.. Mk she go Saudi Arabia go marry nah! Abi kileleyi nso bayi?

Lazy Soon To Be House wife spotted.

If they call out people who have sense, this one will also come out too?

All these attention seeking mor0ns on twitter. these ladies just lack humility and home training that's all. if not for marriage, how your mama take born you? Oloshi!

I think she's a lazy and dirty girl. If she was alone, wont she eat? Abi how does cooking for two become so difficult? Before you do cook 1 cup of rice, now you're gonna be cooking 2 cups! What's the big deal when it is not like your cooking for like 5 Persons?

when you make your bed like that, you lie on it like that.

I agree with you absolutely: Marriage is definitely not for everybody and certainly would not work for anyone with this kind of mindset.

Ur father used ur sense for rituals







That's why u are from a wealthy family but u dnt knw!

I cannot agree less. Her points are valid if we think about it honestly.

She has a point there, but anyone can see this lady has been with useless people all her entire life cos the people I know aren't like that.

Oya ladies stay 4 una papa huz na

Not all homes. Some guys help out. Marriage is a partnership not autocracy.

Is she just knowing that it is not easy being a woman

dannytoe:
your fathers house is only comfortable, because ur parents did the same thing u re running from.

God bless you

What should our grandmothers do then? They go farming from dawn till twilight and they still cook for their family.

She is somehow right though.. Some men are wicked and lazy headed. But still she talks lazy

deesad2002:
I cannot agree less. Her points are valid if we think about it honestly.

only person that talk sense.

She has a point though