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Is It Normal That A Wife Don't Ask Hubby For Sex? by Texasbound190: 9:19pm On Mar 04, 2018
We have been married for 7years now,2 kids,am sexually active and do give my wife orgasm most of the times,but what baffles me is that my wife doesn't ask for sex,i mean she barely talks about it with me nor make romantic gestures that may lead to sex,over the years I have been the one proposing and making out time for sex,anytime we do make love and she enjoys it it doesn't mean. Anything to her.Is this normal,i mean wife not asking her hubby for sex,even if it once in a year?
Re: Is It Normal That A Wife Don't Ask Hubby For Sex? by swiz123(m): 9:21pm On Mar 04, 2018
Maybe she is just being shy about it.

But wait ooo, why ask us, when you can easily ask your wife undecided

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Re: Is It Normal That A Wife Don't Ask Hubby For Sex? by dingbang(m): 9:26pm On Mar 04, 2018
Honey.. I want sex.. Let us do na...


Shebi this is what you expect of her I guess??

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Re: Is It Normal That A Wife Don't Ask Hubby For Sex? by falconey(m): 9:26pm On Mar 04, 2018
Una no date at all na arranged marriage ni??
Re: Is It Normal That A Wife Don't Ask Hubby For Sex? by Mandrake007(m): 9:28pm On Mar 04, 2018
I think you need to take her to TB joshua I'm sure he's gonna have a solution for your problem.

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Re: Is It Normal That A Wife Don't Ask Hubby For Sex? by mejai(m): 9:30pm On Mar 04, 2018
some women r like DAT. so frustrating!!!

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Re: Is It Normal That A Wife Don't Ask Hubby For Sex? by dollyjoy(f): 9:30pm On Mar 04, 2018
Texasbound190:
We have been married for 7years now,2 kids,am sexually active and do give my wife orgasm most of the times,but what baffles me is that my wife doesn't ask for sex,i mean she barely talks about it with me nor make romantic gestures that may lead to sex,over the years I have been the one proposing and making out time for sex,anytime we do make love and she enjoys it it doesn't mean. Anything to her.Is this normal,i mean wife not asking her hubby for sex,even if it once in a year?
Instead of discussing your discomfort and area of concern to her, you brought it here.To what end



Well,wait for bachelor's and those who can't boast of common relationship to come advice and tell you what to do.
Re: Is It Normal That A Wife Don't Ask Hubby For Sex? by BlackDBagba: 9:30pm On Mar 04, 2018
Maybe ....cuz the last time she asked for it, you made fun of her request.

Now, she keeps quiet and submits.

How dafuck should we know!!

Ask her angry

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Re: Is It Normal That A Wife Don't Ask Hubby For Sex? by dollyjoy(f): 9:30pm On Mar 04, 2018
Mandrake007:
I think you need to take her to TB joshua I'm sure he's gonna have a solution for your problem.
Zero sense!!

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Re: Is It Normal That A Wife Don't Ask Hubby For Sex? by MhizzAJ(f): 9:32pm On Mar 04, 2018
Na wa oo

The kind of stories i read everyday

Stop lying abeg

How can you be with a woman you call your wife for years and she wouldn't even ask for sex or make romantic gestures

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Re: Is It Normal That A Wife Don't Ask Hubby For Sex? by Amarabae(f): 9:45pm On Mar 04, 2018
Texasbound190:
We have been married for 7years now,2 kids,am sexually active and do give my wife orgasm most of the times,but what baffles me is that my wife doesn't ask for sex,i mean she barely talks about it with me nor make romantic gestures that may lead to sex,over the years I have been the one proposing and making out time for sex,anytime we do make love and she enjoys it it doesn't mean. Anything to her.Is this normal,i mean wife not asking her hubby for sex,even if it once in a year?
You are married yet looking for a date online, going by a screenshot of your chat!
Cheating online.

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Re: Is It Normal That A Wife Don't Ask Hubby For Sex? by Mandrake007(m): 9:47pm On Mar 04, 2018
dollyjoy:
Zero sense!!
I was just being sarcastic my fellow chubs smiley
Re: Is It Normal That A Wife Don't Ask Hubby For Sex? by tico1212(m): 6:57am On Mar 05, 2018
She for don ask before... Maybe u complain about being tired or turn it down.
Re: Is It Normal That A Wife Don't Ask Hubby For Sex? by PrimadonnaO(f): 6:58am On Mar 05, 2018
How sure are you that she enjoys it?

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Re: Is It Normal That A Wife Don't Ask Hubby For Sex? by MissRaine69(f): 8:30am On Mar 05, 2018
Texasbound190:
We have been married for 7years now,2 kids,am sexually active and do give my wife orgasm most of the times,but what baffles me is that my wife doesn't ask for sex,i mean she barely talks about it with me nor make romantic gestures that may lead to sex,over the years I have been the one proposing and making out time for sex,anytime we do make love and she enjoys it it doesn't mean. Anything to her.Is this normal,i mean wife not asking her hubby for sex,even if it once in a year?
Have you spoken to her about her reluctance to ask?
Culture, upbringing, religion, being introverted , fearing rejection, being complacent, habit/routine, lower sex drive than yours all factor here you need to figure out which one it is.
As a couple you need to communicate, listen and accommodate each other it’s not just about your point of view or what’s considered normal or not. Normality is not a factor here.

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Re: Is It Normal That A Wife Don't Ask Hubby For Sex? by BlackAdam55(m): 8:32am On Mar 05, 2018
Texasbound190:
We have been married for 7years now,2 kids,am sexually active and do give my wife orgasm most of the times,but what baffles me is that my wife doesn't ask for sex,i mean she barely talks about it with me nor make romantic gestures that may lead to sex,over the years I have been the one proposing and making out time for sex,anytime we do make love and she enjoys it it doesn't mean. Anything to her.Is this normal,i mean wife not asking her hubby for sex,even if it once in a year?
u wife is getting the dick somewhere else

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Re: Is It Normal That A Wife Don't Ask Hubby For Sex? by marvin906(m): 8:39am On Mar 05, 2018
honestly have seen situations like that..
and is quit frustrating and it kills your morale...
buh it might be that's shes shy,or have low sex drive..
solution sit her down and discuss it with her..
its not a crime if she makes the first move undecided undecided
Re: Is It Normal That A Wife Don't Ask Hubby For Sex? by Lionessza(f): 8:44am On Mar 05, 2018
Texasbound190:
We have been married for 7years now,2 kids,am sexually active and do give my wife orgasm most of the times,but what baffles me is that my wife doesn't ask for sex,i mean she barely talks about it with me nor make romantic gestures that may lead to sex,over the years I have been the one proposing and making out time for sex,anytime we do make love and she enjoys it it doesn't mean. Anything to her.Is this normal,i mean wife not asking her hubby for sex,even if it once in a year?



I don't know why I found the bolded so hilarious.

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Re: Is It Normal That A Wife Don't Ask Hubby For Sex? by Tajbol4splend(m): 8:48am On Mar 05, 2018
Texasbound190:
am sexually active and do give my wife orgasm most of the times

How do you know that

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Re: Is It Normal That A Wife Don't Ask Hubby For Sex? by CuriousMynd: 9:06am On Mar 05, 2018
MhizzAJ:
Na wa oo

The kind of stories i read everyday

Stop lying abeg

How can you be with a woman you call your wife for years and she wouldn't even ask for sex or make romantic gestures

What about those who were circumcised?
Re: Is It Normal That A Wife Don't Ask Hubby For Sex? by Nobody: 9:47am On Mar 05, 2018
dingbang:
Honey.. I want sex.. Let us do na...


Shebi this is what you expect of her I guess??


very lomantic grin
Re: Is It Normal That A Wife Don't Ask Hubby For Sex? by amakadihot87(f): 9:52am On Mar 05, 2018
You lack communication in the marriage...........find out from her what her problem is
Re: Is It Normal That A Wife Don't Ask Hubby For Sex? by Stevengerd(m): 9:55am On Mar 05, 2018
Amarabae:

You are married yet looking for a date online, going by a screenshot of your chat!
Cheating online.
Re: Is It Normal That A Wife Don't Ask Hubby For Sex? by Stevengerd(m): 9:56am On Mar 05, 2018
Amarabae:

You are married yet looking for a date online, going by a screenshot of your chat!
Cheating online.
U beta face ur federal job. Monitoring Spirit!

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Re: Is It Normal That A Wife Don't Ask Hubby For Sex? by Liliyann(f): 10:05am On Mar 05, 2018
Probably you suck at it or you have a bad breath
Op don't worry she will ask when she is ready for baby no 3.
If she doesn't ask can't you initiate it?? I doubt if you are even romantic at all.
Re: Is It Normal That A Wife Don't Ask Hubby For Sex? by eezeribe(m): 11:48am On Mar 05, 2018
Texasbound190:
We have been married for 7years now,2 kids,am sexually active and do give my wife orgasm most of the times,but what baffles me is that my wife doesn't ask for sex,i mean she barely talks about it with me nor make romantic gestures that may lead to sex,over the years I have been the one proposing and making out time for sex,anytime we do make love and she enjoys it it doesn't mean. Anything to her.Is this normal,i mean wife not asking her hubby for sex,even if it once in a year?
OK
Re: Is It Normal That A Wife Don't Ask Hubby For Sex? by AKBe(m): 11:57am On Mar 05, 2018
Texasbound190:
We have been married for 7years now,2 kids,am sexually active and do give my wife orgasm most of the times,but what baffles me is that my wife doesn't ask for sex,i mean she barely talks about it with me nor make romantic gestures that may lead to sex,over the years I have been the one proposing and making out time for sex,anytime we do make love and she enjoys it it doesn't mean. Anything to her.Is this normal,i mean wife not asking her hubby for sex,even if it once in a year?
There is this thing about marriage, We always get what we want. I believe u were in a relationship with her before marriage but u didn't discuss sex as to who initiates it.. Weda it shud be a shared responsibility or not..
she grew into it cos u didn't tell her what u want..
Im afraid there is a little break in communication in ur home cos issue like this shud have been brought up for discussion
Re: Is It Normal That A Wife Don't Ask Hubby For Sex? by AKBe(m): 12:06pm On Mar 05, 2018
MhizzAJ:
Na wa oo

The kind of stories i read everyday

Stop lying abeg

How can you be with a woman you call your wife for years and she wouldn't even ask for sex or make romantic gestures
But it's possible..
Re: Is It Normal That A Wife Don't Ask Hubby For Sex? by Texasbound190: 1:49pm On Mar 05, 2018
MissRaine69:

Have you spoken to her about her reluctance to ask?
Culture, upbringing, religion, being introverted , fearing rejection, being complacent, habit/routine, lower sex drive than yours all factor here you need to figure out which one it is.
As a couple you need to communicate, listen and accommodate each other it’s not just about your point of view or what’s considered normal or not. Normality is not a factor here.
to
Thanks so much,yes all these have been done,yet no changes,am not being selfish,other factors have been considered too , but I don't know wrong,thanks for your matured view
Re: Is It Normal That A Wife Don't Ask Hubby For Sex? by FeminineSniper(m): 1:51pm On Mar 05, 2018
MhizzAJ:
Na wa oo

The kind of stories i read everyday

Stop lying abeg

How can you be with a woman you call your wife for years and she wouldn't even ask for sex or make romantic gestures

You best believe it....

I am married too, but my wife dont ask for sex.
Rather she finds a way to make me wanna make love to her
Re: Is It Normal That A Wife Don't Ask Hubby For Sex? by Texasbound190: 1:51pm On Mar 05, 2018
AKBe:

But it's possible..
I can see the basis for your response,soon it will dawn on you yu, Miss.
Re: Is It Normal That A Wife Don't Ask Hubby For Sex? by Texasbound190: 1:52pm On Mar 05, 2018
Texasbound190:

I can see the basis for your response,soon it will dawn on you yu, Miss.

Very possible,but some people think it's a tea party

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