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Dear Lively Stones ,

Hello my name is Gracia, my friend added me to this group which i did not understand why but having been reading some of your posts i feel like perhaps it will benefit me on shedding some light on something i have recently discovered.

Feel free to share on both lively stone and naira land.

I am a single mom of two, my relationship with my kids’s father ended about a year and a half ago, it was overall a very unhealthy one with lots of emotional abuse.
I had a very rough year following the end of this relationship and struggled to find a home with my kids, after a year we are finally building our lives again in our new home and we are much happier.

Before then i met a lovely man who was very smitten with me and initially i thought i liked him a lot but then realised i actually feel nothing for him, infact i couldnt stand the sight of him and i quickly had to end it. I thought perhaps at the time i was not really ready for a relationship and maybe it was too soon, however i recently met my ideal kinda guy, christian, caring,and he is even talking of marriage, again i felt very excited at the beginning as i have been praying for a God loving God fearing man but those feelings of indifference has come back, i feel absolutely nothing and its killing me because i dont understand why!

I want to feel something, not necessarily butterflies but something. I know i care about him and i worry for him and i think about him and i dont want to lose him but i dislike his company for no reason, as soon as i see him i wish he would go. He has noticed this and i plucked the courage to tell him whats going on with me, at first he was very understanding and was willing to support me if i wanted to go for therapy but he suddenly ....

http://livelystones.com.ng/could-my-abusive-marriage-preventing-me-from-finding-true-love-again/

The psychological effect of ur past still affecting your present. It can be truly difficult. Just let the holy spirit take care of things.

Holding on to the past emotional trauma is still an issue. Try to love your self first. Express God's love . Believe and trust in God's love.

liquidlove2018:
Dear Lively Stones ,

Hello my name is Gracia, my friend added me to this group which i did not understand why but having been reading some of your posts i feel like perhaps it will benefit me on shedding some light on something i have recently discovered.

Feel free to share on both lively stone and naira land.

I am a single mom of two, my relationship with my kids’s father ended about a year and a half ago, it was overall a very unhealthy one with lots of emotional abuse.
I had a very rough year following the end of this relationship and struggled to find a home with my kids, after a year we are finally building our lives again in our new home and we are much happier.

Before then i met a lovely man who was very smitten with me and initially i thought i liked him a lot but then realised i actually feel nothing for him, infact i couldnt stand the sight of him and i quickly had to end it. I thought perhaps at the time i was not really ready for a relationship and maybe it was too soon, however i recently met my ideal kinda guy, christian, caring,and he is even talking of marriage, again i felt very excited at the beginning as i have been praying for a God loving God fearing man but those feelings of indifference has come back, i feel absolutely nothing and its killing me because i dont understand why!

I want to feel something, not necessarily butterflies but something. I know i care about him and i worry for him and i think about him and i dont want to lose him but i dislike his company for no reason, as soon as i see him i wish he would go. He has noticed this and i plucked the courage to tell him whats going on with me, at first he was very understanding and was willing to support me if i wanted to go for therapy but he suddenly ....

http://livelystones.com.ng/could-my-abusive-marriage-preventing-me-from-finding-true-love-again/

A very serious issue.

liquidlove2018:
Dear Lively Stones ,

Hello my name is Gracia, my friend added me to this group which i did not understand why but having been reading some of your posts i feel like perhaps it will benefit me on shedding some light on something i have recently discovered.

Feel free to share on both lively stone and naira land.

I am a single mom of two, my relationship with my kids’s father ended about a year and a half ago, it was overall a very unhealthy one with lots of emotional abuse.
I had a very rough year following the end of this relationship and struggled to find a home with my kids, after a year we are finally building our lives again in our new home and we are much happier.

Before then i met a lovely man who was very smitten with me and initially i thought i liked him a lot but then realised i actually feel nothing for him, infact i couldnt stand the sight of him and i quickly had to end it. I thought perhaps at the time i was not really ready for a relationship and maybe it was too soon, however i recently met my ideal kinda guy, christian, caring,and he is even talking of marriage, again i felt very excited at the beginning as i have been praying for a God loving God fearing man but those feelings of indifference has come back, i feel absolutely nothing and its killing me because i dont understand why!

I want to feel something, not necessarily butterflies but something. I know i care about him and i worry for him and i think about him and i dont want to lose him but i dislike his company for no reason, as soon as i see him i wish he would go. He has noticed this and i plucked the courage to tell him whats going on with me, at first he was very understanding and was willing to support me if i wanted to go for therapy but he suddenly ....

http://livelystones.com.ng/could-my-abusive-marriage-preventing-me-from-finding-true-love-again/