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Re: My Nigerian Boyfriend Wants To Bleach by Opentokwowledge: 8:24pm On Mar 08, 2018

XhosaNostra:
I'll give you the benefit of the doubt.

Well, he's a grown up. Let him bleach if that's what he wants. I'm surprised you still like him even after he said that. That reeks of issues imo. His. What man is that concerned with his complexion? How off putting.

Re: My Nigerian Boyfriend Wants To Bleach by XhosaNostra(f): 8:25pm On Mar 08, 2018

Opentokwowledge:

What?

Re: My Nigerian Boyfriend Wants To Bleach by Nobody: 8:27pm On Mar 08, 2018

DeadRat ur advice is needed here cheesy

Re: My Nigerian Boyfriend Wants To Bleach by Nobody: 8:27pm On Mar 08, 2018

classicMan22:
why do I have this feeling that u are lying?

I don't know, it seems I've offended people when all I want is to help my boyfriend feel better about himself. All the people who have suggested I leave him for his insecurity are harsh. He's a good man and I want to make him feel like a king

Re: My Nigerian Boyfriend Wants To Bleach by Opentokwowledge: 8:27pm On Mar 08, 2018

XhosaNostra:
What?

That was too degrading for the love of somebody's life...

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Re: My Nigerian Boyfriend Wants To Bleach by Nutase: 8:32pm On Mar 08, 2018

QueenUtum:
When I was in Nigeria most people were dark skinned, a small percentage looked like they may have lightened themselves. I'm not saying the whole of Nigeria feels this way just enough people to fund a multi million dollar industry.

http://www.businessdayonline.com/unexplored-implications-nigerias-skin-bleaching-pandemic/

When I was in calabar I received lots of compliments on my light skin and white eyes. This was unusual for me. I never considered them as assets.

forget all this junk journalism on the net. Your skin and eye colour will receive complements here because you are fairer than the average Nigerian same way you love your BF dark skin even though he doesn't see it as an asset. Have you not heard that in the land of the blind the one eyed man is a king.

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Re: My Nigerian Boyfriend Wants To Bleach by XhosaNostra(f): 8:33pm On Mar 08, 2018

Opentokwowledge:
That was too degrading for the love of somebody's life...

Well, he is not the love of my life, I'm not feeling it, I'm just saying what I'm thinking.

Even if he was MY guy, I'd be put off by that. TF you need bleaching for? I'm sorry but that's not attractive.

Re: My Nigerian Boyfriend Wants To Bleach by Nobody: 8:34pm On Mar 08, 2018

greiboy:
How come you know a lot about Nigeria? You even mentioned the home town of your supposed boyfriend.

Anyways, sister your assertion on Nigerian men regarding the bleaching of skin is wrong and if I wanted you to prove anything to me, I will choose what to use as evidence not you.

I am Not interested though

There were lots of Nigerians at my university in England, I made friends with them. Many moved back to Nigeria after they graduated. We stayed in touch and I was invited to calabar for the carnival, so I spent a month there and in Lagos. Of course I know the hometown of my boyfriend. We talk. Call me fake and give me no opportunity to prove it? Why is my problem offending people? Obviously I like dark skinned people or I wouldn't have come to Nigeria. I try to get on with everyone.

Re: My Nigerian Boyfriend Wants To Bleach by Nobody: 8:47pm On Mar 08, 2018

QueenUtum:
There were lots of Nigerians at my university in England, I made friends with them. Many moved back to Nigeria after they graduated. We stayed in touch and I was invited to calabar for the carnival, so I spent a month there and in Lagos. Of course I know the hometown of my boyfriend. We talk. Call me fake and give me no opportunity to prove it? Why is my problem offending people? Obviously I like dark skinned people or I wouldn't have come to Nigeria. I try to get on with everyone.

Alright
I am sorry miss

Carry on

Re: My Nigerian Boyfriend Wants To Bleach by Opentokwowledge: 8:57pm On Mar 08, 2018

XhosaNostra:
Well, he is not the love of my life, I'm not feeling it, I'm just saying what I'm thinking.

Even if he was MY guy, I'd be put off by that. TF you need bleaching for? I'm sorry but that's not attractive.

Got ya but I hope you also got my point too? undecided

Re: My Nigerian Boyfriend Wants To Bleach by XhosaNostra(f): 8:57pm On Mar 08, 2018

Opentokwowledge:
Got ya but I hope you also got my point too?

No, I don't.

Re: My Nigerian Boyfriend Wants To Bleach by Opentokwowledge: 8:58pm On Mar 08, 2018

XhosaNostra:
No, I don't.

Never mind then... How are you?

Re: My Nigerian Boyfriend Wants To Bleach by XhosaNostra(f): 8:59pm On Mar 08, 2018

Opentokwowledge:
Never mind then... How are you?

A bit of a cough, but I'll soldier through. You?

Re: My Nigerian Boyfriend Wants To Bleach by Nobody: 9:02pm On Mar 08, 2018

XhosaNostra:
Well, he is not the love of my life, I'm not feeling it, I'm just saying what I'm thinking.

Even if he was MY guy, I'd be put off by that. TF you need bleaching for? I'm sorry but that's not attractive.

I wasn't put off, it upset me that he feels that way about himself. We all have insecurities, I have mine you may have some too. Surely you would hope the one who loves you would try to help you feel better about yourself rather than be put off?

Re: My Nigerian Boyfriend Wants To Bleach by Opentokwowledge: 9:02pm On Mar 08, 2018

XhosaNostra:
A bit of a cough, but I'll soldier through. You?

Normal and sound. Got cold?

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Re: My Nigerian Boyfriend Wants To Bleach by Nobody: 9:02pm On Mar 08, 2018

XhosaNostra:
I'll give you the benefit of the doubt.

Well, he's a grown up. Let him bleach if that's what he wants. I'm surprised you still like him even after he said that. That reeks of issues imo. His. What man is that concerned with his complexion? How off putting.

So you can't let a Nigga be grin

You crack me up! What if you didn't know until you fell in love with him... would it be a deal-breaker for you?

I couldn't cope if I'm honest shocked

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Re: My Nigerian Boyfriend Wants To Bleach by Lalas247(f): 9:02pm On Mar 08, 2018

XhosaNostra:
How did you measure that?

Savagery beyond repair grin

lol

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Re: My Nigerian Boyfriend Wants To Bleach by Lalas247(f): 9:04pm On Mar 08, 2018

Lies

Lies

Lies

Op be very careful ! U can fool some ppl but when ur ass gets exposed ... someone bring me popcorn ...

It’s been a while grin

She had me at I’m 3 quarter ... bish several seats pls cry

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Re: My Nigerian Boyfriend Wants To Bleach by XhosaNostra(f): 9:04pm On Mar 08, 2018

QueenUtum:
I wasn't put off, it upset me that he feels that way about himself. We all have insecurities, I have mine you may have some too. Surely you would hope the one who loves you would try to help you feel better about yourself rather than be put off?

Mine are skin deep, only a shrink would fix them grin

Re: My Nigerian Boyfriend Wants To Bleach by Lalas247(f): 9:05pm On Mar 08, 2018

Dimples129:
So you can't let a Nigga be

You crack me up! What if you didn't know until you fell in love with him... would it be a deal-breaker for you?

I couldn't cope if I'm honest

Yo yo yo
Hey sexy kiss

did u see that snow last week ... was like bru shocked

How’s u sweet been awhile

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Re: My Nigerian Boyfriend Wants To Bleach by XhosaNostra(f): 9:05pm On Mar 08, 2018

Opentokwowledge:
Normal and sound. Got cold?

Good. No, no cold. Just a dry cough lol.

Re: My Nigerian Boyfriend Wants To Bleach by Lalas247(f): 9:07pm On Mar 08, 2018

greiboy:
How come you know a lot about Nigeria? You even mentioned the home town of your supposed boyfriend.

Anyways, sister your assertion on Nigerian men regarding the bleaching of skin is wrong and if I wanted you to prove anything to me, I will choose what to use as evidence not you.

I am Not interested though

Ding dong
Some ppl are smart sha grin

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Re: My Nigerian Boyfriend Wants To Bleach by greatnaija01: 9:07pm On Mar 08, 2018

well, if you know the definition of Love then it is EASY. simply LOVE THEM.

QueenUtum:
I tell him he's gorgeous all the time. He's not the only Nigerian man I've heard say such things about his dark skin. How do you help someone love themselves?

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Re: My Nigerian Boyfriend Wants To Bleach by XhosaNostra(f): 9:08pm On Mar 08, 2018

Dimples129:
So you can't let a Nigga be

You crack me up! What if you didn't know until you fell in love with him... would it be a deal-breaker for you?

I couldn't cope if I'm honest

Honestly, I also wouldn't be able to cope. It's just too...I don't even know what to categorize it as.

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Re: My Nigerian Boyfriend Wants To Bleach by Opentokwowledge: 9:09pm On Mar 08, 2018

XhosaNostra:
Good. No, no cold. Just a dry cough lol.

Okay. Take care darl.

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Re: My Nigerian Boyfriend Wants To Bleach by XhosaNostra(f): 9:09pm On Mar 08, 2018

Lalas247:
Savagery beyond repair lol

Munchkin, where have you been? kiss

You still talk to, Butchy?

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Re: My Nigerian Boyfriend Wants To Bleach by Nobody: 9:09pm On Mar 08, 2018

Lalas247:
Lies

Lies

Lies

Op be very careful ! U can fool some ppl but when ur ass gets exposed ... someone bring me popcorn ...

It’s been a while
She had me at I’m 3 quarter ... bish several seats pls

When I get exposed? Why would I make this up? Or do you think the pic is fake?

Re: My Nigerian Boyfriend Wants To Bleach by XhosaNostra(f): 9:11pm On Mar 08, 2018

Opentokwowledge:
Okay. Take care darl.

Thank you, Zaddy grin

Re: My Nigerian Boyfriend Wants To Bleach by Nobody: 9:11pm On Mar 08, 2018

Lalas247:
Savagery beyond repair lol

I haff died, finish grin

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Re: My Nigerian Boyfriend Wants To Bleach by Nobody: 9:12pm On Mar 08, 2018

Lalas247:
Lies

Lies

Lies

Op be very careful ! U can fool some ppl but when ur ass gets exposed ... someone bring me popcorn ...

It’s been a while
She had me at I’m 3 quarter ... bish several seats pls

Lefulefu bring popcorn oooo grin

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Re: My Nigerian Boyfriend Wants To Bleach by Lalas247(f): 9:12pm On Mar 08, 2018

Dimples129:
I haff died, finish

HeShe got buried
RIP

grin

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Re: My Nigerian Boyfriend Wants To Bleach by Opentokwowledge: 9:13pm On Mar 08, 2018

XhosaNostra:
Thank you, Zaddy

Good memory. What is that condition again?

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