I need advice from mature minds here. I will make the story as concise as possible. I have been dating my girl for the past two years. It is a serious relationship as her mum is involved . Lately, I discovered that she has been cheating on me with a guy she once told me was asking her out. Mind you, she is in school, while I have graduated long time ago. I saw her whatsapp message where she was asking the guy if the sexes were out of love. She started crying badly as if she was going to die if I didn't forgive her. She begged and grabbed me, that I must forgive her, otherwise she will die. I agreed to forgive her. She told me the sex happened twice and it was a mistake, that she is not that kind of girl. I bought her story since she looks naive to me coupled with the fact that I deflowered her. It later crossed my mind to hear from the guy too. So I called him, and he confessed to me and apologized that my girl actually told him she has somebody she was dating, but that they got close along the way. In essence, they sexed nine times, but here is my girl swearing to me that it was all a mistake . I know she is loyal but stupid. I want to forgive her but I am not finding is easy. Is it possible to forgive a cheat please? Ignore my errors please

He will creammpie her for the 10th time soon, if not in a few days time.... Forgive a cheat at your own risk.




Besides, thanks for using the bro code wisely by not keeping grudges with the fuckboy... Shows you understand women to some extent.

Op i kno it's not easy to forgive a cheating girlfriend, but if you are finding it difficult to forgive her and put whatever she did behind you, just let the girl go please

How dare some ladies play with a heart that loved you unconditionally? Don't really know but I'm so angry at this post!

I wouldn't advise you not to forgive her, but you can never get it out of your head. The trust has been broken and I don't think it will be easy to get it fixed. Your heart would start racing anytime you call her and she doesn't pick up, different thoughts would be running in your mind. If I were you, I would forgive her and free her. Make hypertension no go kill me

izaray:
Op i kno it's not easy to forgive a cheating girlfriend, but if you are finding it difficult to forgive her and put whatever she did behind you, just let the girl go please

you think its easy to put the fact that the guy was humping and jumping and screaming that feels so gooodd! Aarrgh! or the fact that he sucked on her pointed niiples, squeezed the boobs and bleeped same time? Or the fact that within the 9times of their meeting, he would have gone 4 rounds each resulting to 36 rounds?



Wetin remain for the boyfriend abeg?

If the story is legit pls don't forgive her ...girls like dat re evil, she can do more in the future

VenomousTruth:
you think its easy to put the fact that the guy was humping and jumping and screaming that feels so gooodd! Aarrgh! or the fact that he sucked on her pointed niiples, squeezed the boobs and bleeped same time? Or the fact that within the 9times of their meeting, he would have gone 4 rounds each resulting to 36 rounds?



Wetin remain for the boyfriend abeg?

I kno is not that easy na. But like i said earlier, if he can't forgive and push those memores behind, he should let the girl go...

izaray:
I kno is not that easy na. But like i said earlier, if he can't forgive and push those memores behind, he should let the girl go...

tell him to go... He shouldn't stay.


If we start courting now eeh and I cheat, won't you lemme go?

RuthDaniels:
She's Loyal but stupid...

Your definition of loyalty baffles me

he took H2SO4 mistakenly... Its the cause. Pls ignore that line to relieve him of his frustrations.

VenomousTruth:
How dare some ladies play with a heart that loved you unconditionally? Don't really know but I'm so angry at this post!

Men do the same goddamn thing all the time. Chill. Some ladies are simply not monogamous material.


OP, If I was in your shoes? I wouldn't. Depends on some factors actually
... Just saying.

VenomousTruth:
he took H2SO4 mistakenly... Its the cause. Pls ignore that line to relieve him of his frustrations.

Lol.. probably he meant to type... Caring but Not Loyal .

Well twice is never a mistake, Only the weak gives third chances. Op, read between the line

zeenaman:
I need advice from mature minds here. I will make the story as concise as possible. I have been dating my girl for the past two years. It is a serious relationship as her mum is involved . Lately, I discovered that she has been cheating on me with a guy she once told me was asking her out. Mind you, she is in school, while I have graduated long time ago. I saw her whatsapp message where she was asking the guy if the sexes were out of love. She started crying badly as if she was going to die if I didn't forgive her. She begged and grabbed me, that I must forgive her, otherwise she will die. I agreed to forgive her. She told me the sex happened twice and it was a mistake, that she is not that kind of girl. I bought her story since she looks naive to me coupled with the fact that I deflowered her. It later crossed my mind to hear from the guy too. So I called him, and he confessed to me and apologized that my girl actually told him she has somebody she was dating, but that they got close along the way. In essence, they sexed nine times, but here is my girl swearing to me that it was all a mistake . I know she is loyal but stupid. I want to forgive her but I am not finding is easy. Is it possible to forgive a cheat please? Ignore my errors please

You know she's loyal? She ate cucumber outside 9 times and you say she's loyal? 9 times is never a mistake.

9 times

RuthDaniels:
Lol.. probably he meant to type... Caring but Not Loyal .

Well twice is never a mistake, Only the weak gives third chances. Op, read between the line

well XED!

FluidQueen:
Men do the same goddamn thing all the time. Chill. Some ladies are simply not monogamous material.


OP, If I was in your shoes? I wouldn't. Depends on some factors actually
... Just saying.

fluidqueen!

You MUST always forgive a cheating girlfriend (girlfriend, not wife). Keep smashing bro, just don't marry her.

Anyone asks you why you didn't marry her, let them know she cheated. Even your mom will hold a thanksgiving service on your behalf.

zeenaman:
I need advice from mature minds here. I will make the story as concise as possible. I have been dating my girl for the past two years. It is a serious relationship as her mum is involved . Lately, I discovered that she has been cheating on me with a guy she once told me was asking her out. Mind you, she is in school, while I have graduated long time ago. I saw her whatsapp message where she was asking the guy if the sexes were out of love. She started crying badly as if she was going to die if I didn't forgive her. She begged and grabbed me, that I must forgive her, otherwise she will die. I agreed to forgive her. She told me the sex happened twice and it was a mistake, that she is not that kind of girl. I bought her story since she looks naive to me coupled with the fact that I deflowered her. It later crossed my mind to hear from the guy too. So I called him, and he confessed to me and apologized that my girl actually told him she has somebody she was dating, but that they got close along the way. In essence, they sexed nine times, but here is my girl swearing to me that it was all a mistake . I know she is loyal but stupid. I want to forgive her but I am not finding is easy. Is it possible to forgive a cheat please? Ignore my errors please

Receive sense IJN amen

VenomousTruth:
tell him to go... He shouldn't stay.


If we start courting now eeh and I cheat, won't you lemme go?

You mean doing it like 9 times the way op bae did I will just stab you nau, i can't coman kill myself biko

izaray:
You mean doing it like 9 times the way op bae did I will just stab you nau, i can't coman kill myself biko

lol... Stab me sha but not for balls o or chest...don't kill your only love o

VenomousTruth:
lol... Stab me sha but not for balls o or chest...don't kill your only love o

Then you should learn how to be a faithful partner in our relationship

izaray:
Then you should learn how to be a faithful partner in our relationship

sha be giving it to me every time...


As in, every night.

Op first of all,I want to know your definition of loyalty. Forgive her but let her go,she is the type that can send a man to his early grave with pretence, lies and deceits.

VenomousTruth:
sha be giving it to me every time...


As in, every night.

Udonmeanit . You meant having it served on daily basis, like ur whole life depends on it

izaray:
Udonmeanit . You meant having it served on daily basis, like ur whole life depends on it 8

as long as its yours, my dear... It depends on it ooo!

VenomousTruth:
as long as its yours, my dear... It depends on it ooo!

Haba, do you wanna kill somebori Bruh fear God small na

izaray:
Haba, do you wanna kill somebori Bruh fear God small na

you self will encourage me to take it as a full time job kikikiikikii

VenomousTruth:
you self will encourage me to take it as a job kikikiikikii

Gerahia jor, you too spoil

izaray:
:DGerahia jor, you too spoil

babe my ba3 wan die... We go see tonight eeh

Op have you ever cheated on her....most girls at that age feel too young to be commited to one boyfriend.... girls won't tell you this but it's the truth....except they see total commiment from your side....it takes alot for a girl to be totally commited to one guy cos girls always feel guys have side chicks....that is the problem with today's relationship.

VenomousTruth:
babe my ba3 wan die... We go see tonight eeh

No qualms