Note: feel free to insult the Op, get offended, spew profanities,have hypertension because of this post. You're all welcome 

TheUpsetGirl:


and to those kids on NL who think I'm using MTN night plan; like I stated earlier that I'm working for a biscuit producing company, bottled waters and juice are also produced in the company, I'm a student at uniben + the working keeps me busy, not everybody have time for nairaland 24/7 I'm not an addict.. I've been working at the company since when I was in my 1St year I'm now in my 3rd year. I work only 4days in a week and I'm currently receiving 13k monthly. that doesn't mean my bf shouldn't spend, my ex have a Lexus 350 ,he's fvcking rich.. he never wanted me to work in any shiit called company but I disagreed.. don't be decieved he was very willing to spend on me.. my salary over years are just being used for helping fellow ladies that are very helpless in school... I've everything I need..

Fear nairaland guys.
They've bullied you to the point where you've to validate yourself for them. Who asked you for your life history now?

makydebbie:
Fear nairaland guys.
They've bullied you to the point where you've to validate yourself for them. Who asked you for your life history now?

cyber bullying is a crime against humanity, lol.. I deactivated my former account in 2015 hoping that by the time I'm back the kids would be gone but it seems like the cyber bullying has gotten worse now. no respect for ladies.. goodnight

TheUpsetGirl:



cyber bullying is a crime against humanity, lol.. I deactivated my former account in 2015 hoping that by the time I'm back the kids would be gone but it seems like the cyber bullying has gotten worse now. no respect for ladies.. goodnight

Kids would have gone?!! No you haven't gone. You are still here.

someone here has a PhD in dating broke guys, after jumping from bed to bed with broke guys u cm here d complain, who bin send u?

OP... Na thunder and Sango go fire you...

Your papa get money so? Your mama get so? Black girls and money sha... no wonder they're soo behind in everything.

It's so funny that oloshos like dem dey turn feminist fast fast to hide their frustrations... throwing their aggression and transgressions against men.

Make Devil punish you, OP !

XhosaNostra:
Not a single lie detected.

LMFAO, none at all.

Number 9; A broke man needs time alone to figure out his life and not go about dumping his frustrations on different women in the name of dating.

My God!.

TheUpsetGirl:
I dedicate this thread to all the ladies on Nairaland currently contemplating on dating or marrying a broke guy... please think very well before you make certain decisions, don't make Decisions that you'll regret later in life. don't think about dating a broke guy, many ladies that are dating or married to broke guys are regretting their decisions today. nothing justifies being with a broke guy. he has no future, he's just wasting your time. Thanks


and to those kids on NL who think I'm using MTN night plan; like I stated earlier that I'm working for a biscuit producing company, bottled waters and juice are also produced in the company, I'm a student at uniben + the working keeps me busy, not everybody have time for nairaland 24/7 I'm not an addict.. I've been working at the company since when I was in my 1St year I'm now in my 3rd year. I work only 4days in a week and I'm currently receiving 13k monthly that doesn't mean my bf shouldn't spend, my ex have a Lexus 350 ,he's fvcking rich.. he never wanted me to work in any shiit called company but I disagreed.. don't be decieved he was very willing to spend on me.. my salary over the years are just being used for helping fellow ladies that are very helpless in school... I've everything I need..




a mod banned my other account (theUpsetGirl1) because I insulted a troll.. broke trolls pls don't tempt me here

This one can't even feed herself no wonder she dedicates her life to broke guys


N. b All well meaning nairalanders should find her a better job

Lionessza:



LMFAO, none at all.

Number 9; A broke man needs time alone to figure out his life and not go about dumping his frustrations on different women in the name of dating.

My God!.

Kikikiki. Yes, he should meditate!

How are you this morning? I'm miffed it's refusing to stop raining here. I dislike when my normal schedule is derailed. Me angry right now. Ugh.

XhosaNostra:


Kikikiki. Yes, he should meditate!

How are you this morning? I'm miffed it's refusing to stop raining here. I dislike when my normal schedule is derailed. Me angry right now. Ugh.

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I was enjoying the rain, but iyekile now . Lol, sorry girl. Wish we could exchange cities though.

2 me actually no guy is broke... Ur broke wen u Dnt hav future plans for urself,I Dnt find pleasure dating wealthy men,cus most of dem boss u around BT u cnt say anything bkos of d money u get... It's pathetic dat most gals even see dem cheating and CNT do anything,ain't in 4 dat crap...

I admire guys who are not rich BT atleast hav an aim and focus, we start up life togeda and do great 4 each oda(der will b ups and downs,no prblm bt it will end up well....

NO CONDITION IS PERMANENT

Ive neva bin in a relationship bt to be honest with myself ,I feel like I hav it all and Dnt nid anybody to help me,BT I do...sumtyms apart from ur family u nid dat person dat will give u moral support...life ain't all abt money.

My own opinion is dat I hate"Lazy "guys so much.

Lionessza:



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I was enjoying the rain, but iyekile now . Lol, sorry girl. Wish we could exchange cities though.

Lol, kanti wena when do you do your laundry or are you one of the people with an "aunty" at home

Let it go to Cape Town, yeses

Hmmmmm

XhosaNostra:


Lol, kanti wena when do you do your laundry or are you one of the people with an "aunty" at home

Let it go to Cape Town, yeses

Lol, I dry them inside .

Lol, I'm sure all the Capes are praying for it with all this drought .

Lionessza:



Lol, I dry them inside .

Lol, I'm sure all the Capes are praying for it with all this drought .

With a tumble dryer or on that thing they call "ihashe"? LOL! Words used ngabantu basemakhitshini

For the life of me I cannot use a washing machine for clothes. I wanna wash them myself & hang them outside. Only that way do they feel clean & "right". I remember when I spent some time at a friend's house over the holidays. She did all the laundry, including my own. When I looked at my clothes all tumbled up with other clothes, I swear I felt emotional. I didn't like that kind of "treatment" on my stuff. No washing machine for me, we do this shìt OLD SKOOL

Grayjoy:
It is a calculative thing for people who takes it as a business like OP.

I see!

XhosaNostra:


With a tumble dryer or on that thing they call "ihashe"? LOL! Words used ngabantu basemakhitshini

For the life of me I cannot use a washing machine for clothes. I wanna wash them myself & hang them outside. Only that way do they feel clean & "right". I remember when I spent some time at a friend's house over the holidays. She did all the laundry, including my own. When I looked at my clothes all tumbled up with other clothes, I swear I felt emotional. I didn't like that kind of "treatment" on my stuff. No washing machine for me, we do this shìt OLD SKOOL

Lol @ihashe . Abantu kodwa. Tumble dryer.

Lol, you are crazy wena. You should live with my cousin, yho the woman is the DIY type, washing by hand is her thing. It's only her man who uses the machine , she feels her clothes won't be " clean enough " nge machine weird people lol. Me be a lazy girl , if there was no electricity i would kill myself . I seriously hate chores and inconvenience.

Ndiphumile ku nairaland. Will myalezo you .

kimbraa:
I beg you in the name of God. There's more to marriages now than love 'cause love is never really enough and money gives one a level of comfort. Don't get my comment twisted 'cause I don't espouse entirely to the write-up. I don't always look at the negative sides of criticism. Most of you should look at the positive sides of any critic directed at you, and not get fixated on the negative aspect of it.

Hope you don't tell your sisters to marry anything that comes their way 'cause your mother wasn't selective else what I see with this mindset is a generational poverty. You can always do better than your fathers/mothers. That said, I believe that as people advance with a consistent effort to add value to themselves, they end up attracting their likes. On that note, ladies shouldn't seat down, fold their arms in wait for a rich guy 'cause it's only on rare occasions that rich dudes date/marry ladies with nothing to offer.

very intelligent you are

Lionessza:



Lol @ihashe . Abantu kodwa. Tumble dryer.

Lol, you are crazy wena. You should live with my cousin, yho the woman is the DIY type, washing by hand is her thing. It's only her man who uses the machine , she feels her clothes won't be " clean enough " nge machine weird people lol. Me be a lazy girl , if there was no electricity i would kill myself . I seriously hate chores and inconvenience.

Ndiphumile ku nairaland. Will myalezo you .

Yeah it feels like clothes are not clean or fresh enough.
LMAO @ you'd kill yourself with no electricity. Smh.

OK, will await that. Enjoy your day.

@Op...Are you dating a rich guy?



Or you don't even have a guy at all

who want date Broke Girls too. if you are not careful you won't see husband. no man want to marry a poor girl also. so all you said is vice versa.

u better get sense now. for where u wan see rich man for nija. ur papa give them work. we won't be surprised when you come here again and said God save u from a ritualist, because most rich men for nija are ritualist, I Dont understand you girls anymore. u think it easy to be rich. you should use the word lazy guy not broke guy...if you not careful u will end up in ur father house looking for a rich guy. because I Dont know what you this poor girl want to offer a rich man.

You know I was just lurking around minding my business , thinking the romance section is dead on Nairaland .

I was actually thinking the other day that someone will soon make a don't date broke guys thread anytime soon and here we are .

My reaction is still the same as to safiaa's thread back then . See my posts for reference.

But let me add something upset girl .

You see posts like this only serve to highlight the social contract between a man and a woman . Man provide food , shelter and security : woman give me children , cook my food.

You would have to be pretty naive if you do not think that marriage and relationships at the base function as the legal or social exchange of modern elements such as money and sex .

Most women will always broke shame a man ...regardless of their own bank account balance and most men will slut shame a woman who expresses her true sexual desire .

It would be useless to counter every point you made in your write up.

I will say this ...if Nairaland devs created a feature where every one's net worth is displayed by their moniker few people would express their opinions on matters such as this .

I will conclude by advising ...that relationships and marriage are like Ponzi schemes ...get in early , take advantage of the system if you can ...but be wary of reality of it crashing . If a man that can't provide financially shouldn't be allowed to date ...if this logic is true and valid . How do you expect such a man to treat women when he becomes rich . Having no experience he would treat them poorly I think ...no different from business of the day . For this is the only thing he knows for him - money is easier to understand than women .

Fvcking idiot.... When you meet a rich man, you complain that his dick is small then you cheat with a broke guy who rides a bicycle because he has a horse sized corrk....


You women are by possessed by the Spirit of confusion.

Your post is kind of "off"...
A lot of rich guys that you are advising girls to date, were once broke...even more broke than the ones that are broke currently.

If you are in Nigeria and you understand how hard it is to make it, then you shouldn't be wasting your time cooking up this thread.

Being broke is not the problem, but when you don't have rigid plans and making hard efforts to getting out of it....

If you can't date a broke guy, Aunty then allow other girls to decide for themselves whom to date(rich or broke)


I did like you to make a thread about broke girls too.

If there is one thing I know for sure, is the fact that your stupidity is top notch.........

TheUpsetGirl:
I dedicate this thread to all the ladies on Nairaland currently contemplating on dating or marrying a broke guy... please think very well before you make certain decisions, don't make Decisions that you'll regret later in life. don't think about dating a broke guy, many ladies that are dating or married to broke guys are regretting their decisions today. nothing justifies being with a broke guy. he has no future, he's just wasting your time. Thanks


and to those kids on NL who think I'm using MTN night plan; like I stated earlier that I'm working for a biscuit producing company, bottled waters and juice are also produced in the company, I'm a student at uniben + the working keeps me busy, not everybody have time for nairaland 24/7 I'm not an addict.. I've been working at the company since when I was in my 1St year I'm now in my 3rd year. I work only 4days in a week and I'm currently receiving 13k monthly. that doesn't mean my bf shouldn't spend, my ex have a Lexus 350 ,he's fvcking rich.. he never wanted me to work in any shiit called company but I disagreed.. don't be decieved he was very willing to spend on me.. my salary over the years are just being used for helping fellow ladies that are very helpless in school... I've everything I need..




BTW,truly no lady whether independent or not would like to marry or date a broke guy... men get attracted to a lady by beauty not independence.... as long as you're beauty and you're a graduate, bitch don't stress yourself! rich guys will be in haste to date or marry you... any lady that says she can date a broke guy is either deceiving herself, she's saying it for likes or she's mad and got no class... imagine if a broke guy dumps you, wtf after managing his broke ass he ain't humble... it's better you get dumped by a rich guy than by a poor guy. thanks... goodnight �



a mod banned my other account (theUpsetGirl1) because I insulted a troll.. broke trolls pls don't tempt me here

This statement here just qualifies you as a very very stupid soul, I weep for the poor woman that birthed you, your dad would have been better off had he masturbated you on a piece of drift wood, your write up proves that you are very dense and it's a pity that a reputable university like uniben will admit such an airhead... spits, come at me let me put you in your rightful place. My ex has a lexus 350 yen yen yen, which one does your father have? Useless goat

TheUpsetGirl:
dating a broke guy is one of the worst things you can do to yourself. Even if you are on a mission to hurt yourself, kindly stay away from broke and entitled guys. They are nothing but bad news.

1. One of the reasons you shouldn’t punish yourself with such guys is that they have no business dating in the first place. What can someone who hasn’t figured out his life offer you as a woman?

2. If a man doesn’t know where he’s headed in life or what he wants to do to make money, what does he need you for? He should go and figure out his life first before looking for where to sweat and release his semen. Being broke is not a virtue.

3. Dating a broke guy is bad. Don’t do that to yourself especially if you are an ambitious, hardworking and successful lady. Don’t listen to people who tell you that maybe God brought you into his life to lift him out of the pit of financial lack. You are not Jesus. You can only support him but you can’t make money on his behalf. He needs to do that himself.

4. A broke guy who is in relationship is not being true to himself. You don’t expect a woman to love you when you don’t even love your broke self. Instead of mounting pressure on your woman to put up with you when you are broke, go and make legit money.

5. A woman shouldn’t be expected to bear the burden of a broke man. That’s unfair. Even an independent woman who is not interested in a man’s money doesn’t have to settle for a man who is broke. She needs a man who is focused, one who has vision and the one who knows what he wants out of life and not one who can’t even take care of himself.

6. Ladies, you won’t be at peace dating a broke guy. He will keep complaining about your clothes, your hair, your house and the things you can afford. He will emotionally blackmail you with his inability to catch up with you financially. Stay away from such distraction.

7. A broke man will claim that the reason you keep talking to him anyhow is that you are richer than him. Let him go far. You don’t need such a man around you. He will destroy your destiny with his broke, inferior self. Leave him alone to go find his level before he uses his reggae to spoil your blues.

8. Ladies, don’t be carried away by emotions. Love doesn’t pay house rent, pay for power bills, hospital bills or buy foodstuffs. Love without money is punishment. You must stay away from that kind of love. If he doesn’t fit into your lifestyle and plans for the future, leave him alone. You shouldn’t be punishing yourself like that.

9. A broke man needs time alone to figure out his life and not go about dumping his frustrations on different women in the name of dating. You may jump into conclusion that girls don’t want to date broke guys because they have nothing to offer financially, but no girl came to this world to suffer on behalf of any man. The relationship will be full of anger, frustrations and unnecessary fights. Who needs all that stress in Nigeria of today?

10. A relationship with a broke guy is boring. There’s nothing exciting about moaning and complaining about money when the guy is doing nothing to change his condition. When your mates are going out with their men, showing them proudly to everyone they meet, you are stuck with your broke guy indoors sweating. Even sex with him is hell.

11. Dating a broke guy means courting disgrace. It is annoying that he is not buying you things, but he feels entitled to complain about the things you buy for yourself. Whether you want to hear it or not, money will cause fight between you and your broke boyfriend. Little things will cause big fights when a broke man is in the mix. The stress is not worth it. Let him date himself.

12. It is funny that broke guys demand excessive respect. Even rich guys who can afford to buy expensive things for their women don’t demand too much respect as broke guys do. They have this false sense of entitlement that makes putting up with their lack of money hard. The issue is not being broke but demanding respect when you don’t offer your woman anything but anger and frustration. 

13. Nigerian guys are quick to insult girls who say they can’t date  broke men. Instead of focusing their energy on making money, they are tearing their boxers over a woman’s decision to stay away from broke guys. If you are broke, you don’t have a business dating a woman. You will add to her problems. Sort yourself out first.

14. Ladies, you shouldn’t be sleeping with a broke guy. You have no business sharing a bed with a guy who has nothing to offer himself. You have to love yourself enough to stay away from broke guys. It is a waste of time.

15. Even if you feel age is no longer on your side and you must be in a relationship or get married by fire or by force, don’t go close to a broke guy. If you eventually marry him after months or years of scheming and putting up with his many dramas, you will regret it.

16. Dating a broke guy means walking on egg shells. These guys ooze out low self esteem and they will infect you with it. You will be constantly careful not to make them feel bad for not having money. They won’t understand why you have to go out or meet a new client or expand your business. They complain a lot and before you know it, they get aggressive. A broke guy has a fragile ego that you must keep massaging just to make him feel better.

17. I am not saying that you must marry a rich man or go out of your way to capture a rich man. I am saying that you must love yourself enough not to put up with a broke, entitled man who is not doing anything to change his situation. You are not his saviour. You are not God. You cannot help him if he doesn’t take the initiative to help himself.

Ladies, please don’t allow the pressure to get married push you into the hands of these boys who are broke but demand respect like it is going out of fashion. If you want to live a long, peaceful life, leave broke guys alone.Dating a broke guy is a big sin!.



Written by theUpsetGirl


cc lalasticalla, rocktaino

I won't be surprised if this one no get one Kobo for pocket.

barallanee:
2 me actually no guy is broke... Ur broke wen u Dnt hav future plans for urself,I Dnt find pleasure dating wealthy men,cus most of dem boss u around BT u cnt say anything bkos of d money u get... It's pathetic dat most gals even see dem cheating and CNT do anything,ain't in 4 dat crap...

I admire guys who are not rich BT atleast hav an aim and focus, we start up life togeda and do great 4 each oda(der will b ups and downs,no prblm bt it will end up well....

NO CONDITION IS PERMANENT

Ive neva bin in a relationship bt to be honest with myself ,I feel like I hav it all and Dnt nid anybody to help me,BT I do...sumtyms apart from ur family u nid dat person dat will give u moral support...life ain't all abt money.

My own opinion is dat I hate"Lazy "guys so much.

You're blessed.

Most of your fellow women who will obey the op have nothing to contribute either. Relationship no be meal ticket. That's why I'm more interested in marrying a foreigner because majority of Nigerian girls are low life parasites. If girls shouldn't be with broke guys then we shouldn't be with girls who are not earning up to 1m per month and drive their own car. Irrespective, find yourself a good guy and all these things will fall into place.

360degreess:
Only Virgins are allowed to choose men..if u are not a virgin u don't have any right to make a choice .hw can a 2nd hand hole that has been used by different men be selecting men?.

once again,only virgins should choose

Funny how this prompted me to create an account asap. So I’ve read almost all the comments and stuff on this content and this is the dumbest thing I’ve come across today. So you’re gonna shame a woman just because she’s not a virgin? Sex is for pleasure and any lady depriving herself from doing whatever pleases her (sex inclusive) just to please or meet the standard of some dumb ass who sleeps around is stupid. You need to work on yourself, everybody is entitled to do what they want with their body, you have no right to tell a woman to feel any less of herself for wanting pleasure.
You need to grow up fr, age is just a number, it could be a large number but you’re still a f kid upstairs✌️