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Dear Jzhane,

My husband is a sweet man. We have been married for six years and we both love each other so much. We have two children. But we have a problem. Maybe me,I have a problem.

You see,my husband is fat around the stomach area and he does not have an exactly good sized manhood. What I mean is,he has round big pot belly. He also has a small manhood. Since I married him,I convinced myself that I love him more than his looks and inefficiencies. But as our marriage gets older,I find out that these two issues are a huge challenge. His tummy always gets in the way of love making and since his thing is small,I dont feel or enjoy intimacy with him anymore.

These days,he hardly even lasts 3 mins in bed and I am seriously frustrated. You see,my husband is a traditional man. Its not easy to talk about this kind of issue with him. One time I tried to bring it up with him and he responded that its when a woman starts seeing other men or when other men start toasting a married woman that she starts to compare her husband to other men or starts saying she is not enjoying sex with her husband. He can say that I am getting spoilt. But I have grown older and I know there is more to marital sex than a woman just lying down for her hubby to deliver sloppy seconds. I am a lady of 33 and young men still....See full story from:



https://livelystones.com.ng/our-sex-life-needs-helphow-do-i-get-my-hubby-to-agree/

Traditional men self.

It's until you start going outside that his eyes will open

Beke2020:
Dear Jzhane,

My husband is a sweet man. We have been married for six years and we both love each other so much. We have two children. But we have a problem. Maybe me,I have a problem.

You see,my husband is fat around the stomach area and he does not have an exactly good sized manhood. What I mean is,he has round big pot belly. He also has a small manhood. Since I married him,I convinced myself that I love him more than his looks and inefficiencies. But as our marriage gets older,I find out that these two issues are a huge challenge. His tummy always gets in the way of love making and since his thing is small,I dont feel or enjoy intimacy with him anymore.

These days,he hardly even lasts 3 mins in bed and I am seriously frustrated. You see,my husband is a traditional man. Its not easy to talk about this kind of issue with him. One time I tried to bring it up with him and he responded that its when a woman starts seeing other men or when other men start toasting a married woman that she starts to compare her husband to other men or starts saying she is not enjoying sex with her husband. He can say that I am getting spoilt. But I have grown older and I know there is more to marital sex than a woman just lying down for her hubby to deliver sloppy seconds. I am a lady of 33 and young men still....See full story from:



https://livelystones.com.ng/our-sex-life-needs-helphow-do-i-get-my-hubby-to-agree/

And she will be begging for advise o what to do when hobby finds out

z11111:
Traditional men self.

It's until you start going outside that his eyes will open