Seriously, I meet and interact with ladies on a daily basis.. I'm yet to meet one naija feminist in real life.. They are only on internet.

so,how's that our problem

most are e-feminist / keyboard warriors seeking relevance and validation from folks online..

I hate feminism too much.

Bros where u wan from see them? No mind wetin dem dey post online o. If u meet them in real life dem worship men pass dogs nonsense!!!!

the only avenue they display their hypocritical ideologies is on the cyber space. But in real life they compose and behave normal, the whole concept is a sham. Feminism my foot. I hate u guys with passion.

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Preshy561:
so,how's that our problem

Nobody said it was. Unless of course you are one of them that hide under cyberspace and preach what you can't practice in real life.

LordZero:
most are e-feminist / keyboard warriors seeking relevance and validation from folks online..

These e-feminist are not real feminist, they are just bunch of frustrated,heart broken ladies..

themaestro08:
the only avenue they display their hypocritical ideologies is on the cyber space. But in real life they compose and behave normal, the whole concept is a sham.

Real talk

I took my time to read about feminism and I realised that I am a feminist too but for real, a real one, not the one some fake ladies claim to be, the one they can't exercise in the real world

I have and they're the most repulsive fellows on earth among women. 90% of them totally hide their status that you can't know except you can see into people.

Here's some of the ways to tell them apart from others when you meet them:

(Note: this may not work in all cases)

1. Most of them are very educated or at least average. Unfortunately they use their education to accept every negative notion about men and also seek how to empower women at the detriment of men.

2. In addition to the first point, they're "extremely" selfish and mean most especially to men. Yet they do so with high level diplomacy and subtlety that men hardly can tell.

They call you "handsome" with a seductive smile but will be the first to kill you when you aren't watching.

3. They're "extremely" irrational. They want everything done their way even if it doesn't make sense and is proven detrimental in every sensible way m. Problem is that they achieve it while still acting as your friend.

4. They're usually extremely argumentative especially where women's rights is the topic... even if those rights infringe on the rights of everyone else in the society, they aren't bothered even slightly.

5. They're very rigid. It's almost impossible to get their sympathy by pleading. They'll refuse without a frown.

6. Many of them are downright wicked. Whether they feel men are the cause of all the problems on earth, is hard to be determined but their hatred for men cannot be hidden at times.

There are other features but I believe that the more their features are revealed the more they'll adjust to hide them and keep their wicked personality a secret.

I have o. Even dated one recently. She’s a good lady n very respectful. But it didn’t last. Had to jejely leave the lady. Her feminism was everywhere. I was literally choking. She was too jealous. Even jealous of my sister being around me. Taking things to extreme. I advised her to keep her feminist ish out of our relationship n keep it real in the corporate world. She never agreed to being wrong even when it’s clear she’s wrong never takes the blame n will never apologize. I got fed up n left. I cannot come n allow one persons ideology come n frustrate me. Made sure I played my part well. She never lacked anything but I just couldn’t cope.

putit:
Seriously, I meet and interact with ladies on a daily basis.. I'm yet to meet one naija feminist in real life.. They are only on internet.

I don’t think they walk around with badges that identify them neither do they go around saying I am a feminist.

Olifiz:
I have o. Even dated one recently. She’s a good lady n very respectful. But it didn’t last. Had to jejely leave the lady. Her feminism was everywhere. I was literally choking. She was too jealous. Even jealous of my sister being around me. Taking things to extreme. I advised her to keep her feminist ish out of our relationship n keep it real in the corporate world. She never agreed to being wrong even when it’s clear she’s wrong never takes the blame n will never apologize. I got fed up n left. I cannot come n allow one persons ideology come n frustrate me. Made sure I played my part well. She never lacked anything but I just couldn’t cope.

Insecure and a feminist? That’s a juxoposition.
That’s sounds more like her personality.
She was confidently insecure.

GraGra247:
I have and they're the most repulsive fellows on earth among women. 90% of them totally hide their status that you can't know except you can see into people.

Here's some of the ways to tell them apart from others when you meet them:

(Note: this may not work in all cases)

1. Most of them are very educated or at least average. Unfortunately they use their education to accept every negative notion about men and also seek how to empower women at the detriment of men.

2. In addition to the first point, they're "extremely" selfish and mean most especially to men. Yet they do so with high level diplomacy and subtlety that men hardly can tell.

They call you "handsome" with a seductive smile but will be the first to kill you when you aren't watching.

3. They're "extremely" irrational. They want everything done their way even if it doesn't make sense and is proven detrimental in every sensible way m. Problem is that they achieve it while still acting as your friend.

4. They're usually extremely argumentative especially where women's rights is the topic... even if those rights infringe on the rights of everyone else in the society, they aren't bothered even slightly.

5. They're very rigid. It's almost impossible to get their sympathy by pleading. They'll refuse without a frown.

6. Many of them are downright wicked. Whether they feel men are the cause of all the problems on earth, is hard to be determined but their hatred for men cannot be hidden at times.

There are other features but I believe that the more their features are revealed the more they'll adjust to hide them and keep their wicked personality a secret.

You made some solid point.. For most part, these so called feminist are angry bitter ladies, who move to n fro the internet hating on men ( and their fellow women) who refuse to accept their stupid movement..

GraGra247:
I have and they're the most repulsive fellows on earth among women. 90% of them totally hide their status that you can't know except you can see into people.

Here's some of the ways to tell them apart from others when you meet them:

(Note: this may not work in all cases)

1. Most of them are very educated or at least average. Unfortunately they use their education to accept every negative notion about men and also seek how to empower women at the detriment of men.

2. In addition to the first point, they're "extremely" selfish and mean most especially to men. Yet they do so with high level diplomacy and subtlety that men hardly can tell.

They call you "handsome" with a seductive smile but will be the first to kill you when you aren't watching.

3. They're "extremely" irrational. They want everything done their way even if it doesn't make sense and is proven detrimental in every sensible way m. Problem is that they achieve it while still acting as your friend.

4. They're usually extremely argumentative especially where women's rights is the topic... even if those rights infringe on the rights of everyone else in the society, they aren't bothered even slightly.

5. They're very rigid. It's almost impossible to get their sympathy by pleading. They'll refuse without a frown.

6. Many of them are downright wicked. Whether they feel men are the cause of all the problems on earth, is hard to be determined but their hatred for men cannot be hidden at times.

There are other features but I believe that the more their features are revealed the more they'll adjust to hide them and keep their wicked personality a secret.

That reads like a manual of how to find a psychopath or someone with EUPD.

Preshy561:
so,how's that our problem

If you are one, let me know.. I've noticed that most feminist on nairaland and other online platform are bittered and pained, and am intrigued by that..

So, if you are feminist, teach me how to identify one in real life. I'll like to know how they live their life offline and outside the internet..

I'll like to know if they are also miserable in real life..

MissRaine69:

I don’t think they walk around with badges that identify them neither do they go around saying I am a feminist.

So you're saying in the actual world, they behave like normal women but when they subscribe for 10mb with 100 naira and they get on the internet, they turn to feminist instantly..

These just validated what I said the first time.. "They are feminist only on the internet"

putit:


So you're saying in the actual world, they behave like normal women but when they subscribe for 10mb with 100 naira and they get on the internet, they turn to feminist instantly..

These just validated what I said the first time.. "They are feminist only on the internet"

You are being too literal this is the issue. What signs are you looking for exactly? And that’s not what I said at all you took it out of context.
A wealthy person does not go around telling people he/she are wealthy
You see and you know right?
It’s only the pretenders that harp on about how much they have.

MissRaine69:

Insecure and a feminist? That’s a juxoposition.
That’s sounds more like her personality.
She was confidently insecure.

Are u tryin to say feminist don’t get jealous?

I’ve heard stories where feminists fall in love chai, dem de fall to pieces. Example was the one I had but men, how do U deal with a lady who will not apologize because of one mentality she has in her head towards men. That’s why I can Say that most feminists in naija are just fake. I don tire to type. Bless u

Olifiz:


Are u tryin to say feminist don’t get jealous?

I’ve heard stories where feminists fall in love chai, dem de fall to pieces. Example was the one I had but men, how do U deal with a lady who will not apologize because of one mentality she has in her head towards men. That’s why I can Say that most feminists in naija are just fake. I don tire to type. Bless u

Did I not say that’s more like her personality as a person rather than being a “feminist” are we talking about all the feminist or about this person specifically?
Are you not aware that a person can hide their own personality inadequacies behind something as that makes it easier to project thier fears! Her reluctance to apologise means she is forced to admit she is not always right thus she does not have to face the fact that she does not know everything which in her eyes is a weakness.

Jealousy especially over your sister means she does not want to compete for your affection that’s immaturity

Which brings me back to my earlier point that’s an insecure person who hides behind a cause that covers up her inadequacies.

Olifiz:
I have o. Even dated one recently. She’s a good lady n very respectful. But it didn’t last. Had to jejely leave the lady. Her feminism was everywhere. I was literally choking. She was too jealous. Even jealous of my sister being around me. Taking things to extreme. I advised her to keep her feminist ish out of our relationship n keep it real in the corporate world. She never agreed to being wrong even when it’s clear she’s wrong never takes the blame n will never apologize. I got fed up n left. I cannot come n allow one persons ideology come n frustrate me. Made sure I played my part well. She never lacked anything but I just couldn’t cope.

Lemme help her case bro!
I have just the right cure for such itches!!
Her number is........

MissRaine69:


Did I not say that’s more like her personality as a person rather than being a “feminist” are we talking about all the feminist or about this person specifically?
Are you not aware that a person can hide their own personality inadequacies behind something as that makes it easier to project thier fears! Her reluctance to apologise means she is forced to admit she is not always right thus she does not have to face the fact that she does not know everything which in her eyes is a weakness.

Jealousy especially over your sister means she does not want to compete for your affection that’s immaturity

Which brings me back to my earlier point that’s an insecure person who hides behind a cause that covers up her inadequacies.

MissRaine69 i get ur point. But the feminism Nigerian girls potray is just fake. I respect women’s rights. But this shit of not accepting ur faults and blaming it on the male gender is not feminism. It’s lack of sense n immaturity. Let them go n get better orientation from their foreign sisters.

putit:
Seriously, I meet and interact with ladies on a daily basis.. I'm yet to meet one naija feminist in real life.. They are only on internet.

so u think feminist is written on their forehead?? u will never know a feminist till u start up an agruement or discussion abt feminism, u guys need to know feminism is an ideology n the fight is to change people's ideology(piatriachy ) which is most times done when interacting, reason u meet them on social media mostly.

Olifiz:


MissRaine69 i get ur point. But the feminism Nigerian girls potray is just fake. I respect women’s rights. But this shit of not accepting ur faults and blaming it on the male gender is not feminism. It’s lack of sense n immaturity. Let them go n get better orientation from their foreign sisters.

Those are just confused individuals who have no clue. You can’t hijack a cause and have very little understanding of it. There is a lot of transference on this forum.

MissRaine69:

Those are just confused individuals who have no clue. You can’t hijack a cause and have very little understanding of it. There is a lot of transference on this forum.

I like the fact that we have an understanding on this issue especially u being a female. Do have a nice day