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Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by mikeycharles(m): 5:31pm On Apr 02, 2018
Shroud:


Being gay is a mental illness. You cannot ask him to stop. He needs radical therapy.

And remember, gays often have anger issues and societal maladjustment due to their mutated DNA and societal defiance.
Udonminit

Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by dajoaneke(m): 5:32pm On Apr 02, 2018
Gather like 6 hardcore oloshos and pay them to gango the guy in a sweet way... Thank me later
Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by Maj196(m): 5:34pm On Apr 02, 2018
Join him tongue

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Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by sirgalahad26(m): 5:35pm On Apr 02, 2018
Mr OP, you better summon the courage now before you become gay!!!
Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by Shroud: 5:35pm On Apr 02, 2018
Arondizuogu:


Keep kwayet.
seek therapy. All hope isn't lost for you.

Who says you must spend the rest of your days in the dark abyss of sexual identity crisis?

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Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by OgambaHH1(m): 5:36pm On Apr 02, 2018
u can help him by making sure that our ass is d last DAT he bursts idiot, asking stupid question
Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by ikorodureporta: 5:42pm On Apr 02, 2018
Is he d 1 bursting ass3s, or the bursted as3hole?? Dnt think u can change him. I saw a guy struggling with this issue, even with his stitched as3, the Spirit wnt let him free....

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Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by zicoraads: 5:42pm On Apr 02, 2018
I have gay friends. I usually don't disturb myself over their sexual orientation, as they don't my relationships. Everyone is happy.

Try it too.

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Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by bigpicture001: 5:43pm On Apr 02, 2018
if I don't believe in wot he believed or feel comfortable around him...I will cut him off
Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by NovusHomo(m): 5:49pm On Apr 02, 2018
IjeleNwa:
I have a gay friend,we have been friend for 5years and and I have never summoned courage to tell him to stop being gay.

He engages on the act with his fellow gay fellows on the line but yet we are cool close friends.

I never liked the act but can't talk him out

I need opinions on how to go about this.




Stop what? Stop what nature has done to him?
Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by MissRaine69(f): 5:50pm On Apr 02, 2018
Shroud:


Don't be a victim of 'groupthink"

Homosexuality has recorded treatment success through psychotherapy especially amongst males.

Thanks to liberal media who presents this mental illness as just another way of life, gays seldom ever seek treatment.

Don’t need to be lectured on what is and what’s not. Nothing to do with the media either
When you work in sexual health and have contact with a very large percentage of men who have sex with men ( and I refer to black Nigerians) while living a life as married hetrosexual Male ....I am hardly a victim of “ group thinking”

The quest to be accepted as normal makes some men & women subservient. Admitting “treatment” works when it does not is worth risking as life as an outsider is more selient and difficult for most to endure long term.

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Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by bezimo(m): 5:50pm On Apr 02, 2018
The only way out to "de-gay" that fellow..is through strong deliverance from above by the power of the Holy Ghost... He cant help it..the unclean and perverse spirit of homosexuality has possesed him..so he cannot but follow after men..because that is what that demonic spirit makes him do and makes him think its normal.

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Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by FRANKOSKI(m): 5:51pm On Apr 02, 2018
WAIT TILL HE RAPES YOU THEN YOU CONTACT THE NEAREST ARMY CHECK POINT
Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by Nobody: 5:51pm On Apr 02, 2018
Shroud:
seek therapy. All hope isn't lost for you.

Who says you must spend the rest of your days in the dark abyss of sexual identity crisis?

You thinking that therapy is a "cure" for gays says all about you. Bia don't quote me again ooo.
Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by Nobody: 5:52pm On Apr 02, 2018
IjeleNwa:
I have a gay friend,we have been friend for 5years and and I have never summoned courage to tell him to stop being gay.

He engages on the act with his fellow gay fellows on the line but yet we are cool close friends.

I never liked the act but can't talk him out

I need opinions on how to go about this.




Run before he converts you. Gay is infectious.
Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by Richardlove(m): 5:56pm On Apr 02, 2018
swiz123:
Unfortunately, your friend is among the damned.

One thing I hate about gays is their parasitic nature. They always seek for whom to convert into gayism.

Purge your beloved country of this parasite by handing him over to sars.

God bless you son

For those demoralized bastards telling the op to leave him be cos it's his nature, who told you that gayism comes natural to everyone. Some of them are normal people whose sexual orientation changed due to some situations. Some a victim of boarding school, some in prisons and some dubious ones are ritualists.

I have seen all, I have waylaid some.

Gayism should be outlawed and seriously frowned at by any moral conscious person.

Let's us join hands together tand purge the world of these parasites
. I really think you're worst for this solution you profer and how you have taken laws laws laws into your hands.

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Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by Nathan2016: 5:58pm On Apr 02, 2018
5 years of friendship and all you are interested in is his sexuality.


If him being gay affects you, stop being friends with him.


What if he did not tell you?

Or do you think all parents are straight...lol

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Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by sanpipita(m): 5:59pm On Apr 02, 2018
bezimo:
The only way out to "de-gay" that fellow..is through strong deliverance from above by the power of the Holy Ghost... He cant help it..the unclean and perverse spirit of homosexuality has possesed him..so he cannot but follow after men..because that is what that demonic spirit makes him do and makes him think its normal.

So which pastor or priest will do the deliverance? same people who are closest gays, you will just end up bringing a boyfriend for your pastor.

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Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by martjay(m): 6:00pm On Apr 02, 2018
Just tell him straight away that it is spiritually, morally and emotional wrong to have sexual feelings to a fellow man. This is your friend, what of if he is your brother? Would you be less concerned? Tell him to dissociates from those he engaged with, should attend a Bible believing church, study the scriptures and Pray fervently for him also, because gayism is not ordinary, it has spiritual undertone. I have never seen a he goat, ram, cockerel etc. Mating with its kind, to prove that homosexuality is not ordinary. What would he tell God on the judgment day? God has never created men or women to be sexually attractive to their kind, this is the working of satan because he knows that his time is short, to lure people to the hell with him. May God deliver him!

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Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by Richardlove(m): 6:03pm On Apr 02, 2018
If he's above 18, then it's it's the sexuality he prefers, so either stop been his friend or join him. Cause you can't see fire and still be asking if you should keep off or get burnt, like you are interested too, if not mind your business.
Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by Shroud: 6:05pm On Apr 02, 2018
MissRaine69:


Don’t need to be lectured on what is and what’s not. Nothing to do with the media either
When you work in sexual health and have contact with a very large percentage of men who have sex with men ( and I refer to black Nigerians) while living a life as married hetrosexual Male ....I am hardly a victim of “ group thinking”

The quest to be accepted as normal makes some men & women subservient. Admitting “treatment” works when it does not is worth risking as life as an outsider is more selient and difficult for most to endure long term.

So medical results evidenced in change of behavioural patterns and biological reaction could be faked by patients?

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Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by introvertme: 6:06pm On Apr 02, 2018
Shroud:


Don't be a victim of 'groupthink"

Homosexuality has recorded treatment success through psychotherapy especially amongst males.

Thanks to liberal media who presents this mental illness as just another way of life, gays seldom ever seek treatment.

They've penetrated the mainstream media,so any news relating to the negative side of homosexuality has been toned down to the barest minimum. an

Thank God for people like you,these liberals have to be stopped before they do the unimaginable.

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Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by anyimontana(m): 6:07pm On Apr 02, 2018
themosthigh:
I don’t understand the problem with Nigerians. He is gay and never disturbed you at all. He is a good friend who keeps his gay thing to himself and other like him. What is your problem with that? Has his gayness affected you? You wear dolce and gabbana, Alexander McQueen etc, all owned by gay people. You love Leonardo da Vinci, is amazed by the drawings of artistry of Micheal Angelo, listen to Elton John, watch Barney from how I met your mother and Sheldon from Big Bang theory and never bother but want to destroy your friendship because he enjoys men. What a tragedy? You fornicate in your ways, he spulge in his own ways so leave him alone.
i don't like any of the names (designers\actors\artists and carpenters) u mentioned
Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by Shroud: 6:07pm On Apr 02, 2018
Arondizuogu:


You thinking that therapy is a "cure" for gays says all about you. Bia don't quote me again ooo.
I don't know why my remark about gays should vex you thus.

But if you're taking it personal then accept my apologies, you have been thoroughly fúcked by nature, I don't need to make it worse.

So long.

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Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by introvertme: 6:08pm On Apr 02, 2018
mikeycharles:
OK wtf happened to nairaland and where did all this "accepting" nature come from, with posts like this, there would have been an uproar by now.

don't mind all these shameless people,that's what they normally do.

They think hijacking front page is a sign that they're winning the war against homophobia.

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Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by sprints1: 6:10pm On Apr 02, 2018
themosthigh:
I don’t understand the problem with Nigerians. He is gay and never disturbed you at all. He is a good friend who keeps his gay thing to himself and other like him. What is your problem with that? Has his gayness affected you? You wear dolce and gabbana, Alexander McQueen etc, all owned by gay people. You love Leonardo da Vinci, is amazed by the drawings of artistry of Micheal Angelo, listen to Elton John, watch Barney from how I met your mother and Sheldon from Big Bang theory and never bother but want to destroy your friendship because he enjoys men. What a tragedy? You fornicate in your ways, he spulge his own ways so leave him alone.
I wonder oo bro wetin be deir own is it ur bizness to report gay...LGBT right will soon be passed soon to cover the world...me no like gay but that doesn't mean I criticize them...na deir life

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Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by Shroud: 6:12pm On Apr 02, 2018
introvertme:


They've penetrated the mainstream media,so any new relating to the negative side of homosexuality has been toned down to the barest minimum. an

Thank God for people like you,these liberals have to be stopped before they do the unimaginable.

our "intelligent" African free thinkers often think gays are as accepted in the UK and America as BBC and CNN portray.

The liberal media has been covering so much of this group , hiding their violent nature and the threat they pose on society.

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Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by myself13: 6:13pm On Apr 02, 2018
Friends a.k.a disguised backstabbers are not worth it after all.I'm sure if you were not his friend, maybe a casual acquaintance who happens to know this stuff about him, you wouldn't have come here to rant about his sexual preference like a mad cöck desperately in need of mating.

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Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by sprints1: 6:14pm On Apr 02, 2018
Shroud:


Being gay is a mental illness. You cannot ask him to stop. He needs radical therapy.

And remember, gays often have anger issues and societal maladjustment due to their mutated DNA and societal defiance.
google effeminacy u will know what u said is rubbish...some people are just gay from the onset no practical attraction for women...
Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by AdorableJosh(m): 6:14pm On Apr 02, 2018
Why don't you just let him be? Na gay e be e no kill anyone.

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Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by makydebbie(f): 6:20pm On Apr 02, 2018
Mind your damn business. Eiish.

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