indoorscholar:
How can you talk him out of a genetic condition? You can pray for him though, seems to cure everything from world hunger to boko haram

genetic? Nothing Like That Mister,

IjeleNwa:
I have a gay friend,we have been friend for 5years and and I have never summoned courage to tell him to stop being gay.

He engages on the act with his fellow gay fellows on the line but yet we are cool close friends.

I never liked the act but can't talk him out

I need opinions on how to go about this.

Not ur business.

chineduemmao:
what Is Sexual Orientation? Dont Tell Me U've Buy That Oyinbo Poo Too

Yes o I am liberal and progressive please don't call it poo everyone has a right to live their lives as it pleases them.

Shroud:
stop being evasive. You said gays are likely to fake a success of treatment just to be accepted. Here:



So I am asking you the question how can patients fake a biological reaction? Before a therapy is said to be successful by doctors aren't there clinical proof, and not just a patient's say so?

Are you going to keep riding that ad hominem horse or you're going to alight and answer the question I asked?

To treat an existing disease
Treatmement ( not make belief) is used and how do I know treatment is sucucceful?
Blood tests , scans and x-rays to check progress
Here you are arguing about something that is not organic as having a cure.
So to free myself from whatever this exchange is
Yes and No

obainojazz:
Arrange four Edo girls to rape him, his life will never remain the same.
Ps: op if your friend is gay and you don't like it, you better stop following him before they tag you gay too. How man go leave fresh girls say him be gay.

How do you rape a guy when he can't get an erection during the rape assault?

finest0007:


If 3 gay and I mean well ripped gây men rape you till you pass out, will you suddenly start looking for gay partners?

shit Logic!

tsharp:
Mind your business.

see dem. awon omon pampers

[quote author=IjeleNwa post=66372658]I have a gay friend,we have been friend for 5years and and I have never summoned courage to tell him to stop being gay.

He engages on the act with his fellow gay fellows on the line but yet we are cool close friends.

I never liked the act but can't talk him out

I need opinions on how to go about this.


My brother get good koboko & fluck the gay demon out of him...u dont need any advice

HeyCorleone:
How many of your friends who fornicate have you tried to talk out of it? I'm even guessing you engage in act of premarital sex, and you feel homosexuality is a problem? Lol.

Remove the log from your eye first.

So many things in this world to think about that the last thing that should bother me is where someone else sticks their genitals.

Thanks for that! My homophobic and loveless Nigerians!
They won't stop at one to back their wrong doings with biblical and quranic verses.
They're sinners judging sinners because they sin differently!
It was the homosexual guy that had the time to give you explanations for being himself, how do you identify day to day people you meet and relate with that you know nothing about stuffs they're up!
Hypocrites oshi!

tobianthony:
If you can't accept him for what he is ...

Don't you think you should go your own way.

My brother , my dude learn to love people irrespective of what they are .

If you are his friend be his friend .

I'd advice you to go listen to a song by the rapper common - between me & you . The second verse deals with a friend of his who was gay .

If you can't deal with his sexuality go your own way pray if you will but love him no less .

And accept him for what he is .

And by the way because someone is gay doesn't mean they are attracted to you because you are of the same sex .

All the best my dude

thats not what he is for crying out loud he chose to be devils workshop!

All thez bad habits starts frm childhood. Thts why we hav to protect our younger ones frm all these. So many hav picked thz through early exposure to porn. Back then, i neva knew guy-guy rship existed..... I used to hav a classmate that wld hold me on my neck, hit my backside , there was a day he even gave me a peck Who knew he was sexually attracted to me

themosthigh:
I don’t understand the problem with Nigerians. He is gay and never disturbed you at all. He is a good friend who keeps his gay thing to himself and other like him. What is your problem with that? Has his gayness affected you? You wear dolce and gabbana, Alexander McQueen etc, all owned by gay people. You love Leonardo da Vinci, is amazed by the drawings of artistry of Micheal Angelo, listen to Elton John, watch Barney from how I met your mother and Sheldon from Big Bang theory and never bother but want to destroy your friendship because he enjoys men. What a tragedy? You fornicate in your ways, he spulge in his own ways so leave him alone.

your wealth of knowledge pertaining gays around the globe sure point a finger

are you involved?. lol

Ladyhippolyta88:
Yes o I am liberal and progressive please don't call it poo everyone has a right to live their lives as it pleases them.

its Bigtime Pooo! "Nsi Ewu" There Is Nothing Like Sexual Orientation.

sanpipita:


So which pastor or priest will do the deliverance? same people who are closest gays, you will just end up bringing a boyfriend for your pastor.

Don't be perverse in your thinking..There are quite a number of anoited holy pastors out there who are up the task..So stop all this B.S excuse.

udi4eva:
Sinners judging sinners for sinning differently.
Why do you want him to change?
What makes you feel you are better than him?
So far he is not hurting anybody, an adult's sexual preferences should be the least of your worries.
The world has bigger problems!!
Africa is still backward!!
Nothing seams to be working in Nigeria.
And all your worries is that you friend is gay?

all sins are not thesame so big pass others abeg

chineduemmao:
its Bigtime Pooo! "Nsi Ewu" There Is Nothing Like Sexual Orientation.

You are entitled to your opinion and I am entitled to mine.It's their sexual orientation deal with it.

bezimo:


Don't be perverse in your thinking..There are quite a number of anoited holy pastors out there who are up the task..So stop all this B.S excuse.

Lol I laugh, to even suggest so called deliverance can change someone's sexuality is a bigger BS

themosthigh:
I don’t understand the problem with Nigerians. He is gay and never disturbed you at all. He is a good friend who keeps his gay thing to himself and other like him. What is your problem with that? Has his gayness affected you? You wear dolce and gabbana, Alexander McQueen etc, all owned by gay people. You love Leonardo da Vinci, is amazed by the drawings of artistry of Micheal Angelo, listen to Elton John, watch Barney from how I met your mother and Sheldon from Big Bang theory and never bother but want to destroy your friendship because he enjoys men. What a tragedy? You fornicate in your ways, he spulge in his own ways so leave him alone.

No wonder i don't use any product of Dolce and Gabbana. All their products look gayish.

I was a part of the 'mind your business' crew till I stumbled on a Matt Welsh's article on live wire blog.

Homosexuality is a deviant behaviour and demonic. There is nothing natural about it. The Anus was not meant to be the penetrated that's why we have a lot of gays with broken/stitched bottoms.

Like Dianchi says (and I think that guy is semi-crazy ), fornication can be fixed with marriage i.e. a heterosexual couple stop doing wrong /sinning when they marry; homosexuality can never be fixed.

Unfortunately, the media glamorizing homosexuality like alcohol adverts will never show the broken lives wasted by homosexuality.

obainojazz:
Sharrap, we are not talking about religion and premarital sex here. We talking anal cancer and sheer stupidity.

Is it your anal cancer? You can never mind your own business! Why not take a walk to hell? Hypocrites! Being lesbian is acceptable to you because you'd love to join in for party, but being gay is so abominable! You need Jesus!
I won't ask you to live and let live. Die! and let others be.
Oshisco plc!

mikeycharles:
OK wtf happened to nairaland and where did all this "accepting" nature come from, with posts like this, there would have been an uproar by now.

as In Eeh! The Tin Weak Me... But I Want To Belive They Are All These Foreigner That Login Here To Troll And Cause Wahala

firo08:
Kill him

You deserve to die in his stead!

Ladyhippolyta88:
You are entitled to your opinion and I am entitled to mine.It's their sexual orientation deal with it.

yes O And We Are Dealing With It With Our Standard 14yrs In Kirikiri, U Bab?

Akalia:
is his name oliver Jean? Maybe I am a friend to that your gay friend.

You had to bring someone into this? OMG! You're such a big baby!

Take him to River Niger when he swim reach Benue commot am for water....he go turn straight immediately...... tank me later on this info i give u

MissRaine69:

To treat an existing disease
Treatmement ( not make belief) is used and how do I know treatment is sucucceful?
Blood tests , scans and x-rays to check progress
Here you are arguing about something that is not organic as having a cure.
So to free myself from whatever this exchange is
Yes and No

chai! You have been standing on a wrong premise in limiting treatment to only diseases and infliction. Here's one such error from your earlier post here:

MissRaine69:

He is gay
There is no treatment for somthing that’s not a disease/infliction neither is it a mental illness.

Miss Raine, are you putting psychiatrists, clinical psychologists and behavioural scientists to disrepute?

Are you saying psychotherapy does not treat? Are you saying depression, anxiety, suicidal tendencies and mental illness of which homosexuality forms a part of has no psychological treatment?

Damn!!!

The way and manner the western media is trying to convince people mostly from Africa about the acceptability of homosexuals is really frightening to be honest!

Its like pampering a person who admits having a bad habit or attitude and letting the person think its a norm or a way of life....haba

Whether we want to accept it or not...
Homosexuality is not natural!
Homosexuality is not a norm!
Homosexuality is not a way of life or a normal way of living!
People who don't stand their ground against such bad habit,are not only weak but can always be deceived by any media hogwash...

Op,Ur gay friend needs ur help urgently..
Homosexuality is an abnormality and must be seen as such....
The first process to change him is his admission that what he is doing is wrong and will impact negatively on his future!
Once that is done,then he is half way to his redemption...

..Don't listen to people who have been brainwashed by a corrupt and morally bankrupt media who seek to justify their selfish and irresponsible practices...

What is wrong is wrong!

HeyCorleone:


Why talk about Homosexuality like it's the only sin or crime in today's world? If we're indeed going to rid the world of homosexuality, a lot of other things would have to follow.

It's not a sexual orientation problem. It's a structural problem.

and Wait A Minute U Want Us To Applaud It?

IjeleNwa:
I have a gay friend,we have been friend for 5years and and I have never summoned courage to tell him to stop being gay.

He engages on the act with his fellow gay fellows on the line but yet we are cool close friends.

I never liked the act but can't talk him out

I need opinions on how to go about this.

Tell yourself to rather stop poke nosing in other people's lives first then go get yourself a life afterwards.

Live and let live.

chineduemmao:
will U Bleep Offf?

YOU, should go to hell!

MissRaine69:

He is gay
There is no treatment for somthing that’s not a disease/infliction neither is it a mental illness.

therapy Can Work If U Think Its Mental Craze

stevecantrell:
OP are you scared he might turn youu ?
Thats a very valid concern if youre a Bi curious dude.

Are you Bi Curious ?

I think is he's a psychopath seeking attention and thanks goodness he's got what he craved!