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prechbills1:
laziness.

That's all? You think men are not lazy too? You rushed to cancel someone's post while you are just clueless.

Outofsync:
They claim they hate being objectified and then they say nonsense like this?



Why are women like this?

It was a man that said it, not a lady.
It is the same men who objectify ladies, it is same men who tell them to use sex as a bargaining chip.
Biko, when will men begin to actually listen to women themselves?

Earthquake1:
Idiot

Any girl who exchanges sex for money is a prostitute

And any man that exchanges money for sex is a .........

prechbills1:
which network are you using? MTN

my Airtel LTE is damn slow. ..

Wi-fi ..

Delivar:
Why do you think women achieve less compared to men? Can you answer this question please?

prechbills1 , this is also for you. Im not sure if i quoted the right person

Marriage, preganancy and childbirth draws women bsck in terms of achievement.
Have you observed women in universities not burdened physically and emotionally, and healthwise by marriage, pregnancy, childbirth, and childcare tend to do well in school and give the men in their class a run for their money? I'm not talking of unserious students into runs, cultism like their unserious male counterparts o. Just a regular lady.
They have a level playing field with their male counterparts ( thats even for those who their parents feel should have an eductaion despite being female).
However, once they get married, most have to push back their dreams and aspirations to stay in their husband's house, the physical and emotional impact of pregnancy on their bodies is also something not to be overlooked. After delivery, the care of the child automatically falls on them. Thats like 2 full years of their lives gone and they not being their normal self to pursue goals. Just as the child is being weaned off, and can even try to stay in nursery without their mums, they get pregnant again. Imagine 3 to 4 pregnancies, thats 6-8 years of your life you can't think straight. Im even talking of women who are very "open eyed" o, that are quite happy for a nanny to help raise their children. Some women cannot do anything tangible till their last child is like 8 years (meaning from their first pregnancy for a mum of 3, and having 2-3 years spacing btw their kids, they have lost like 14 years of their productive youthful lives)
Then we have some men who are not in anyway supportive of their wives careers, the women cannot travel from Lokoja to abuja for a job interview. He's not ready to relocate even though the job offer of the wife in Abuja is 4 times his salary, and he has also not agreed to let her relocate on her own (if it was a man, he would have relocated without batting an eyelid, and is quite happy to let his family stay back. He will gladly promise to come and be checking on them once a month, and if she dares insist he cannot go, she is tagged by everyone as the enemy of progress) . She also has to let that opportunity go.
I'm talking of real life experiences here o.
So its not because of laziness we have more male achievers. Thats why i give it to career women, who have managed to have a home, and a sound career. Its not beans, and if you should hear the sacrifices they had to make for such, you yourself will say no thank you, keep your career. Let me be "lazy"

MissRaine69:
Wi-fi ..

I have a spectranet Wi-Fi, bought it 34k then, only usable when it's on power, like when there's light or when you turn on generator ...

is that the type of Wi-Fi you're using or public Wi-Fi?

prechbills1:
I have a spectranet Wi-Fi, bought it 34k then, only usable when it's on power, like when there's light or when you turn on generator ...

is that the type of Wi-Fi you're using or public Wi-Fi?

The former

eyinjuege:
[s]prechbills1 , this is also for you. Im not sure if i quoted the right person

Marriage, preganancy and childbirth draws women bsck in terms of achievement.
Have you observed women in universities not burdened physically and emotionally, and healthwise by marriage, pregnancy, childbirth, and childcare tend to do well in school and give the men in their class a run for their money? I'm not talking of unserious students into runs, cultism like their unserious male counterparts o. Just a regular lady.
They have a level playing field with their male counterparts ( thats even for those who their parents feel should have an eductaion despite being female).
However, once they get married, most have to push back their dreams and aspirations to stay in their husband's house, the physical and emotional impact of pregnancy on their bodies is also something not to be overlooked. After delivery, the care of the child automatically falls on them. Thats like 2 full years of their lives gone and they not being their normal self to pursue goals. Just as the child is being weaned off, and can even try to stay in nursery without their mums, they get pregnant again. Imagine 3 to 4 pregnancies, thats 6-8 years of your life you can't think straight. Im even talking of women who are very "open eyed" o, that are quite happy for a nanny to help raise their children. Some women cannot do anything tangible till their last child is like 8 years (meaning from their first pregnancy for a mum of 3, and having 2-3 years spacing btw their kids, they have lost like 14 years of their productive youthful lives)
Then we have some men who are not in anyway supportive of their wives careers, the women cannot travel from Lokoja to abuja for a job interview. He's not ready to relocate even though the job offer of the wife in Abuja is 4 times his salary, and he has also not agreed to let her relocate on her own (if it was a man, he would have relocated without batting an eyelid, and is quite happy to let his family stay back. He will gladly promise to come and be checking on them once a month, and if she dares insist he cannot go, she is tagged by everyone as the enemy of progress) . She also has to let that opportunity go.
I'm talking of real life experiences here o.
So its not because of laziness we have more male achievers. Thats why i give it to career women, who have managed to have a home, and a sound career. Its not beans, and if you should hear the sacrifices they had to make for such, you yourself will say no thank you, keep your career. Let me be "lazy"[/s]

American women give birth, cook for their husbands and still work.. never justify laziness

Chi59:
And any man that exchanges money for sex is a .........

sex starved goat

f.

MissRaine69:
The former

okay..

Delivar:
That's all? You think men are not lazy too? You rushed to cancel someone's post while you are just clueless.

men are lazy, how many of them do you see begging ladies for money to purchase phones, clothes and sharwama comparing the ratio of men to lazy ladies in Nigeria is like 30/1000...Nigerian ladies are not the only dependent ladies in the world, it's a black mentality.. even the blacks in America are fvcking lazy..

young man wake up and face life.

Delivar:
That's all? You think men are not lazy too? You rushed to cancel someone's post while you are just clueless.

men are lazy, how many of them do you see begging ladies for money to purchase phones, clothes and sharwama comparing the ratio of lazy men to lazy ladies in Nigeria is like 30/1000...Nigerian ladies are not the only dependent ladies in the world, it's a black mentality.. even the blacks in America are fvcking lazy..

young man wake up and face life.

prechbills1:
American women give birth, cook for their husbands and still work.. never justify laziness

Indeed, American women have husbands who are ready to do their own share of running the home like housechores, childcare, cooking. They are men who work harder than their counterparts here as they can comfortably hold the home front and also hold down jobs without complaining. Their wives are not overburdened, and used like robots. The career minded American women don't keep giving birth like rabbits, as they and their husbands are quite happy to have only 2 children and if they're both females, nothing spoil. They don't feel the need to continue procreating in the search for the "golden" male child.
An American woman who is a high achiever has a husband who makes sure a hot dinner is waiting for her when she gets back, if he gets home before she does. He doesn't nag if they have takeouts every evening, or they have to eat out most evenings after work.

Bluetooth2:
You cant spend but you want her to open her legs for free. Are women running a charity organization ?

This moniker still dey Nairaland?

The man is right. Nowadays, what other reason apart from being comfortable that pushes young males to make money?

Women!

eyinjuege:
[s]Indeed, American women have husbands who are ready to do their own share of running the home like housechores, childcare, cooking. They are men who work harder than their counterparts here as they can comfortably hold the home front and also hold down jobs without complaining. Their wives are not overburdened, and used like robots. The career minded American women don't keep giving birth like rabbits, as they and their husbands are quite happy to have only 2 children and if they're both females, nothing spoil. They don't feel the need to continue procreating in the search for the "golden" male child.
An American woman who is a high achiever has a husband who makes sure a hot dinner is waiting for her when she gets back, if he gets home before she does. He doesn't nag if they have takeouts every evening, or they have to eat out most evenings after work[/s].

tell that your sex starved uncivilized African men...

an average American lady is independent
an average naija lady is dependent..

even when they're not married, they can't fend for themselves and you're here giving excuses..


men will start helping their wives with chores when bride price culture is erased.. nonsense..

excuses for laziness

gender equality indeed... they should start contributing more than 30% to the running of their families

eyinjuege:
[s]Indeed, American women have husbands who are ready to do their own share of running the home like housechores, childcare, cooking. They are men who work harder than their counterparts here as they can comfortably hold the home front and also hold down jobs without complaining. Their wives are not overburdened, and used like robots. The career minded American women don't keep giving birth like rabbits, as they and their husbands are quite happy to have only 2 children and if they're both females, nothing spoil. They don't feel the need to continue procreating in the search for the "golden" male child.
An American woman who is a high achiever has a husband who makes sure a hot dinner is waiting for her when she gets back, if he gets home before she does. He doesn't nag if they have takeouts every evening, or they have to eat out most evenings after work[/s].

only full time housewives give birth like dogs... a sane woman shouldn't give birth to more than 3kids

eyinjuege:
prechbills1 , this is also for you. Im not sure if i quoted the right person

Marriage, preganancy and childbirth draws women bsck in terms of achievement.
Have you observed women in universities not burdened physically and emotionally, and healthwise by marriage, pregnancy, childbirth, and childcare tend to do well in school and give the men in their class a run for their money? I'm not talking of unserious students into runs, cultism like their unserious male counterparts o. Just a regular lady.

They have a level playing field with their male counterparts ( thats even for those who their parents feel should have an eductaion despite being female).
However, once they get married, most have to push back their dreams and aspirations to stay in their husband's house, the physical and emotional impact of pregnancy on their bodies is also something not to be overlooked. After delivery, the care of the child automatically falls on them. Thats like 2 full years of their lives gone and they not being their normal self to pursue goals. Just as the child is being weaned off, and can even try to stay in nursery without their mums, they get pregnant again. Imagine 3 to 4 pregnancies, thats 6-8 years of your life you can't think straight. Im even talking of women who are very "open eyed" o, that are quite happy for a nanny to help raise their children. Some women cannot do anything tangible till their last child is like 8 years (meaning from their first pregnancy for a mum of 3, and having 2-3 years spacing btw their kids, they have lost like 14 years of their productive youthful lives).

Then we have some men who are not in anyway supportive of their wives careers, the women cannot travel from Lokoja to abuja for a job interview. He's not ready to relocate even though the job offer of the wife in Abuja is 4 times his salary, and he has also not agreed to let her relocate on her own (if it was a man, he would have relocated without batting an eyelid, and is quite happy to let his family stay back. He will gladly promise to come and be checking on them once a month, and if she dares insist he cannot go, she is tagged by everyone as the enemy of progress) . She also has to let that opportunity go.

I'm talking of real life experiences here o.
So its not because of laziness we have more male achievers. Thats why i give it to career women, who have managed to have a home, and a sound career. Its not beans, and if you should hear the sacrifices they had to make for such, you yourself will say no thank you, keep your career. Let me be "lazy"

I was brought up by a career mom, so I can relate with your story. It's not easy for the woman likewise the man to an extent. Every career woman who desires a functioning home needs an understanding, helpful and ready-to-cooperate husband. If not one has to go - career or marriage.

I even wonder the strength women use to have sex in this Lagos. After all the gridlock, hustle and bustle

But knowing fully well that motherhood limits women career progression, why do present day feminists complain about "gender pay gap"?

prechbills1:
only full time housewives give birth like dogs... a sane woman shouldn't give birth to more than 3kids

I never knew women have sexual intercourse with other women to procreate.

prechbills1:
I've seen your pic before ...
I think it's average...

Thank you.

prechbills1:
men are lazy, how many of them do you see begging ladies for money to purchase phones, clothes and sharwama comparing the ratio of lazy men to lazy ladies in Nigeria is like 30/1000...Nigerian ladies are not the only dependent ladies in the world, it's a black mentality.. even the blacks in America are fvcking lazy..

young man wake up and face life.

So you think it's about "Nigerian ladies"? Name one country in the world where women are achieving more than men. I made a point that nature made man to dominate women and you were cancelling my post. You said it was because of laziness and made it a Nigerian women affair. So mention a single country where women achieve more or equal to men.

eyinjuege:
prechbills1 , this is also for you. Im not sure if i quoted the right person

Marriage, preganancy and childbirth draws women bsck in terms of achievement.
Have you observed women in universities not burdened physically and emotionally, and healthwise by marriage, pregnancy, childbirth, and childcare tend to do well in school and give the men in their class a run for their money? I'm not talking of unserious students into runs, cultism like their unserious male counterparts o. Just a regular lady.
They have a level playing field with their male counterparts ( thats even for those who their parents feel should have an eductaion despite being female).
However, once they get married, most have to push back their dreams and aspirations to stay in their husband's house, the physical and emotional impact of pregnancy on their bodies is also something not to be overlooked. After delivery, the care of the child automatically falls on them. Thats like 2 full years of their lives gone and they not being their normal self to pursue goals. Just as the child is being weaned off, and can even try to stay in nursery without their mums, they get pregnant again. Imagine 3 to 4 pregnancies, thats 6-8 years of your life you can't think straight. Im even talking of women who are very "open eyed" o, that are quite happy for a nanny to help raise their children. Some women cannot do anything tangible till their last child is like 8 years (meaning from their first pregnancy for a mum of 3, and having 2-3 years spacing btw their kids, they have lost like 14 years of their productive youthful lives)
Then we have some men who are not in anyway supportive of their wives careers, the women cannot travel from Lokoja to abuja for a job interview. He's not ready to relocate even though the job offer of the wife in Abuja is 4 times his salary, and he has also not agreed to let her relocate on her own (if it was a man, he would have relocated without batting an eyelid, and is quite happy to let his family stay back. He will gladly promise to come and be checking on them once a month, and if she dares insist he cannot go, she is tagged by everyone as the enemy of progress) . She also has to let that opportunity go.
I'm talking of real life experiences here o.
So its not because of laziness we have more male achievers. Thats why i give it to career women, who have managed to have a home, and a sound career. Its not beans, and if you should hear the sacrifices they had to make for such, you yourself will say no thank you, keep your career. Let me be "lazy"

What made me ask that question is I initially stated that nature made man to dominate women and that prechbills1 guy cancelled my post. Everything you have written up there shows that nature actually made man to dominate women which means my statement was correct. If women can't compete with men on an equal standing due to pregnancy, child birth and all you mentioned above then it is nature's doing.

until you see something more than sex in a woman...
think of her inner beauty and virtue...
this guy is just out of point with his ideology... im not a fan of this...

prechbills1:
sex starved goat

On point

Delivar:
[s]So you think it's about "Nigerian ladies"? Name one country in the world where women are achieving more than men. I made a point that nature made man to dominate women and you were cancelling my post. You said it was because of laziness and made it a Nigerian women affair. So mention a single country where women achieve more or equal to men[/s].

I'm not on nairaland to do research for you.. don't compare naija lazy women to hardworking women in Asia, Europe and America..


you're talking about marriage.. most unmarried ladies in naija are still broke, so wtf are you talking about?? nothing justifies laziness...

marriage, marriage.. nonsense.. must they get married?? women in the west get married and still move on with their career..

I pray you don't marry a lazy dependent leech..

alphaconde:
a woman has no worse feeling than having her pussi rejected by a man.

so dear men make them powerless and reject that pussi that returns the power to u

woman use pussy to entrap undisciplined men and i am not one of them.

alpha conde wrote

when you ignore her pussi,she will start offering it for free to you

thesicilian:
Men use their brains, physical strength, money as weapons, but what else do women have apart from sex?

the women even need sex more than you can imagine.
They just know how to pretend and make you service and pay them at the same time.
Primordial frauds