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elyna:
hello sir, I'm entitled to my OWN OPINION, and I expect you to have enough sense to respect that, but what do I know how can I expect so much from an idiot?

stupid hoe-losho..... Lazy useless rags using relationship as an avenue to make money ...

xpressng:
I feel your pain bruv. if there was nothing to hide why block you on all social media. even my pastor is on Facebook bruv. and you said you believed her.? oh my, well it could be 50-50 true or false. but hear me she's playing you bruv. she has your balls and now using it as her play thing. block her on all social media. send less. note that in every relationship the one that love less controls the relationship. guard your heart. there are other women out there who needs you bruv. you too handsome to be held Ransome.lol
note don't ever tell a woman you love her. the best you can do is show her. and not go sing praises.
don't take her calls. don't reply her messages. just let her go. find someone else. always have at least 3.

Hm, but why? Hope the fornicators don't take to this advice. Else, you may be held responsible.

tokrizy:
9)when you think barcelona ve got it all and you forgot u both watched Spartacus and u 4got spartans are romans and they re from the city of ROME..the result

I suppose sue you for mental assault!

I have been avoiding all sport analysis programmes since last night for this reason. You now had to bring this off-topic hia. In fact, you deserve to be reported to the mods first.

Ehn, some people can be wicked sha. See as he just wan ruin my day.

Perfectnumber6:
. It is well with us, mine deliberately blocked me on all her social medias, but I just felt I loved her so she over stretched the rope i gave to her and was still asking me for money which sometimes I just use my mind, but when I told her it was over just few days ago she thought I was joking. She's gonna keep calling me but it would be too late. These girls are wicked and heartless and they don't feel any remorse atall , just because they felt you loved them right.

awwww!

Perfectnumber6:
. My dear it never a one way thing but let me make you understand and see the truth, most girls take good guys for granted too much, even when the guy pretends to ignore so many things that the so called girl might be doing just because he feels he doesn't want to be a player, but the girl would still keep doing it over and over again. And that is when you see most guys take drastic decisions to end the relationship. Have been there and I know what am talking about dear.

I clearly understand your point, but also know that guys treat sincere ladies same way, I have seen.

summerflame:
keep quiet

I can't bring myself so low to respond to this childish comment of yours. Nairaland is for mature minds, thanks

Eaugusta:
I clearly understand your point, but also know that guys treat sincere ladies same way, I have seen.

. Well it rare for guys, but ladies do it more truth be told

Eaugusta:
I can't bring myself so low to respond to this childish comment of yours. Nairaland is for mature minds, thanks

hoe-losho, u can cry me a river

Walked into thread and saw guys bashing females anyhow up and down and I'm like.........

Shaku Shaku Shaku

Ok

wristbangle:
The OP's write-up pinched ladies so bad that they find it difficult to comment. The few that made shabby comments are exhibiting nauseating attitude. This is to tell you that ladies most especially the Nigeria counterparts derive pleasure in sucking several pockets.

I like where the OP mentioned the ones that would neither say YES or NO. These ones are the most dangerous financial criminals. Their pathetic pretence is worse than chameleon and can stylishly make your account go red hence black list you completely from their life.

For guys still involved in dating hungry, broke, frustrated gold digging and emotional draining ladies, abort asap. Making money legitimately pays which gives you full respect and this would give us the opportunity to settling with ladies who are contented and shares a winning mentality to build our lives.

Someone advise a guy to read Neil Strauss - The Game. I would recommend all guys to read this which will help them to becoming an alpha male.




Bro, u have to let go of somethings. U have already ended the fake relationship. Except if what you want to take back is your physical items which are extremely important & useful to you.

you remind me of precious....that girl be one collect the last 1k from my hand that time for allawee i squeeze face na so she turn face and press ignore button...girl wey never gree for me ooo....."thunder fire her left yansh"....thank God i didnt give her considering the fact that the money is small....

xpressng:
Women can be confusing.
Sometimes as a man, you can waste your time pining for girls who don’t really like you all that much, while missing out on girls who adore you. It’s awful to have to confront the idea that the girl of your dreams may not actually be that into you. But if a lady gives you several of the following signs, there’s a huge probability that she’s wasting your time…




1. She replies with “I’ll let you know” or “I’ll think about it” when you make a request.
A girl that likes you doesn’t have to ‘let you know’ or think about everything. A girl that likes you will always be excited when you ask her things or make requests. We all know that when a girl says “I’ll let you know,” what you asked for always ends up not happening. So if these statements come up a lot, make an exit.




2. She always gives excuses when you want to meet her.
As a general rule: If a woman is into you, she’ll make time to hang out with you, no matter how busy she is. Even the busiest of women will put aside a day or a few hours a week to see you. If she’s always too busy for you, you should be skeptical.




3. She never texts you first.
When you’re texting and calling first and she never takes the initiative to be the first to text or call you, it’s a clear sign something is off and you may be wasting my time. If you’re making 75% effort and she’s only making 25%, it’s unfair to you and you’re being played like a fiddle. Walk away.




4. Or her replies to your texts are very brief.
If you’ve received your 10th “K” or “yup” text in a row from her, I am sorry to break it to you, but there’s nothing going on between you. Same applies if she’s always responding with emojis only. If you are not even receiving enthusiastic responses to your texts. it’s a pretty clear sign that it’s time for you to move on.




5. She never wants to come to your place yet you’ve known each other for a while.
Meeting in public is kinda fine if it’s the first date – most women prefer to meet in a public place at first just to make sure you’re not creepy or dangerous. But if she continuously insists on hanging out in public places, it’s a bad sign. She doesn’t want to get intimate with you.




6. She only texts or calls when she needs a favor.
Sometimes girls “use” guys for favors and then magically disappear when they don’t need anymore “help”. You may see it as being a cool and nice guy by helping her out, but you also have to be smart enough to recognize when “helping her” is becoming too much a pattern, you’re getting nothing in return, and she says things like, “Aww you’re so sweet and such a great friend!”




7. She avoids being alone with you.
Maybe she does make time to hang out with you but it’s always in a group setting. Even if it’s in a house, she only meets you when there are friends and other people around. It’s always in a spot where she won’t be one-on-one with you. This means she’s trying to avoid giving you the opportunity to make a move and/or she doesn’t want to lead you on.



8. She keeps complaining about other men to you.
Does she use you as a therapist? Does she go on and on about how other men are assholes and dogs? How she can’t stand the way this guy or that guy treats her. Has she even told you how she “wishes more guys were like you?” Don’t be too hopeful. She’s actually friend zoning you you. She wishes more guys were like you, because she’d never actually date you.Why is she wishing for a guy like you, when she has you right there? It’s a platitude. She’s not that into you. When she just wants to vent about her feelings for an hour and doesn’t want to do anything sexy afterwards, dump her.


source: https://omgvoice.com/relationships/time-wasting-girls

Wow Are you the one running that blog? It's so nice.

mzangy:
Funny enough all these guys eager to read e books to become alpha male still end up with some pretentious bitches as house wives.

It seems you're opposed to reading So, how do you suggest someone gets the knowledge about how to deal with issues like this

Eaugusta:
I clearly understand your point, but also know that guys treat sincere ladies same way, I have seen.

Yeah true. It's an endless cycle of heartbreak. Girls do it to guys, the guys get heartbroken, wisen up, and do it to innocent girls, who also wisen up and do it to innocent guys, and on and on it goes.

I just think the best approach is to fend for your self interest. Meaning that everyone should be on the lookout for people who want to use them. Human beings, by their nature, would use a fellow human being when given the chance. And the users are not really to blame... the used exposed his or herself to being used

This endless cycle makes one wish for the good old days of arranged marriages

Jeferious:
All these guys wey come here dey lament wetin woman do dem, una be better fools. How woman wey get fish brain go cause all these havoc to person wey dey claim say im get sense?

See eh, whether man or woman, once I sense say your aim na to use me shine, I'll never complain. Na to change am for you sure pass. I'd either leave you out on the cold sooner than you expect.....or I will run you more street than you can run me.

I bin know say people get serious esteem problems, but I no bin know say e dey this rampant. I dey treat people as dem take treat you. If I call you once, you are supposed to call me the next time. If not, I no go do again. If you come call after a reasonable time have passed, I go purposefully miss am. And it works for me. All these experiences of craving a girl that don't want you...I never experience am before.

You are the wisdom itsef bro

Omallyy:
Yeah true. It's an endless cycle of heartbreak. Girls do it to guys, the guys get heartbroken, wisen up, and do it to innocent girls, who also wisen up and do it to innocent guys, and on and on it goes.

I just think the best approach is to fend for your self interest. Meaning that everyone should be on the lookout for people who want to use them. Human beings, by their nature, would use a fellow human being when given the chance. And the users are not really to blame... the used exposed his or herself to being used

Perfectnumber6:
. Can you really define the word "pained" well that's why most of you girls are being led silly laden by the guys who would never love you. Money Oriented set of girls.

lol

Omallyy:
Yeah true. It's an endless cycle of heartbreak. Girls do it to guys, the guys get heartbroken, wisen up, and do it to innocent girls, who also wisen up and do it to innocent guys, and on and on it goes.

I just think the best approach is to fend for your self interest. Meaning that everyone should be on the lookout for people who want to use them. Human beings, by their nature, would use a fellow human being when given the chance. And the users are not really to blame... the used exposed his or herself to being used

This endless cycle makes one wish for the good old days of arranged marriages

Well said

I'm replying mails now

Lol.. True

HausaOverlord:
all these pdfs no dey work for naija babes dem, na only money language dem dey understand

[quote author=xpressng post=66571761][/quote]pls I nid those pdf too o b4 dey finish me o.