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Unholy dating you mean

When born again Christians with heaven in view are dating, they won't do what you are alluding...

Smart ones date one girl at a time. my guy has been in an oprn relationship for almost 8 times.

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Does it ever occur to you girls that a man is also used and dumped. If countless sex occurs between two individuals, they automatically begin to develop extensive deep feelings for each other because that is what sex is designed to do. These extensive deep feelings is what people run away from and interpret as human faults.

Someone used you like that? Don't think it applies to everyone.

donstan18:
What do I think?

I think you dated a guy who you gave an automatic ticket for sex anytime,anyhow and anywhere. But the guy properly took advantage of you and dumped you after countless sex.

lmfao

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Firgemachar:
U

V

Why are you not a virgin ya husband's hole is what you are dating with?

BiafranBushBoy:
bullshit

like seriously.
they're always demanding for money, nobody complains but now they're coming here to say trash after you have eaten a guys money you'd say you don't want sex?

True talk.

Yes it's very true.. It's a free access to s3x
But what do I know.
Am here to read comments

Chikita66:
Even guys that don't have future plans for you come under the guise of dating you just for sex.

Even girls that don't have future plans for you come under the guise of dating you just for money .

Holywizard:
But I've been having regular sex although I've not been dating and they are peoples' lovers

Same here

Lilisticlili:
You dating a person gives you an automatic ticket for sex anytime,anyhow and anywhere.
Guys properly took advantge of this most times.
And ladies are being used and dumped often after countless sex.

What do you think?

Why do pple say ladies are being used and dumped after sex? Did she not also enjoy the sex? I believe sex should be a mutual agreement btw adults. If I am dating you we will have sex and if the relationship does not work, I won't feel "used and dumped" cos I enjoyed the sex as much as you did.

Don't know why a single person will conclude for everybody that dating is all about using and dumping

donstan18:
What do I think?

I think you dated a guy who you gave an automatic ticket for sex anytime,anyhow and anywhere. But the guy properly took advantage of you and dumped you after countless sex.

Chikita66:
Even guys that don't have future plans for you come under the guise of dating you just for sex.

And whats the big deal in having sex?Hunnn?What of the time we also spent chasing you?The dates etc?As in what do you people take yourself for?A big deal?The moment you fucck them just once,they start thinking you owe them marriage.if you dont marry them,they've being dumped be that..Shioor

Lilisticlili:
You dating a person gives you an automatic ticket for sex anytime,anyhow and anywhere.
Guys properly took advantge of this most times.
And ladies are being used and dumped often after countless sex.

What do you think?

the reason why I keep saying girls should stop dating especially during their teen years....date when you know you are ready to settle down simple ....but greedy, materialistic, money and sex starve individuals won't agree

talking about the word 'FREE', is sex supposed to be paid 4 before?

Oi

So?
Sex is part of the needs of humans.
My advice to ladies? Know yourself and what you like. If you're in a relationship, and not getting sexually satisfied or having orgasms , you need to go back to the drawing table with your partner.
Its either he makes sure you're satisfied, or no satisfacrion for him too.
That way, nobody feels used and dumped if you both enjoyed it.

OP, I agree with everything except the "free" part.

You think it's free to pay your tfare, or to take you to cinema, or eat shawarma or ice cream? All those drinks, pocket money, hair money, recharge card, parasol money, soup and eba money (abi did you not eat part of it?) - is that free? Even my time is valuable and if I convert the time spent listening to you talk about things I don't care about, and helping you deal with life in general (escorting you to MTN office, following you to bank, following you to sort out your admission, taking you to clinic for that tummy ache, carrying your generator to mechanic, helping you carry mattress from your friend who just graduated, etc). I could have spent this time being productive making money, or improving my studies, or even just recovering from a hard day's work... but we do these things because "we like/love you"

We men pay in so many ways for relationships. I could just pay for olosho for 30 minutes of fun, and still have change and time left over for more productive and relaxing pursuits. So please don't think that women are being used for "free casual sex anytime", as if the woman is not also enjoying being in the relationship and using that to oppress her rivals.

Sarang:
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Not all relationships though

Yes ke abi wots d essence of dating?

BeeBeeOoh:

Just chill bro.. not hurting anyone

Lilisticlili:
You dating a person gives you an automatic ticket for sex anytime,anyhow and anywhere.
Guys properly took advantge of this most times.
And ladies are being used and dumped often after countless sex.

What do you think?

It’s a two way street just as you argue men are abusing women and dumping them all over the place

What of the women that fleece a man and then leave him when he has nothing?
What is that called?

Women who rely on a man for everything if he can’t hit it what’s the point there has to be some reciprocation that happens it’s difficult to argue otherwise

Some men would like to know what to expect before they get married liken it to test driving a car sometimes you test drive and think maybe I will get this car and then a few months later you realise that the traction control is actually quite bad and you look for another car or you buy it and realise this car costs way too much money let me downgrade.

No one is used some women attach themselves to a guy who has never promised them anything if he has not promised you anything why are you disappointed when nothing happens? While others will ignore the one who wants to be with them for them cause he has no car and go with the one who is fvucking you, your friends and your aunties and sometimes your mother too! How is that going to end well?

Sex is mutually beneficial don’t make out like the guy was the only enjoying things and the woman can always say no. To apportion blame to men only is ludicrous.

It takes two

Smh

ilevic:
This is very true. The foolish ones will say "I can't sex a man I am not dating" and wen the one she is dating breaks up, she goes for another. Generation of fools..

that's how unwise people think

Earthbound:
Sorry ehn, who did this to you?

The thing is, as a woman, the moment you open your legs for us guys, you can almost not do without it. Once a month at the very, very, very, very least. The euphoria cannot be matched. You will even be sizing up a guy not by his other characteristics but by looking at his bulge through his trouser. News flash babe, you should have remained a virgin.

I'm very sorry, Sir. I disagree. Many women are not like men. I don't size up the bulge in a man's trousers. I have to really, really like/love you before I even imagine kissing you. That being said....





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